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Trying to get my Japanese ex back... 2017-09-03 06:08:32 Post No.18685548
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Trying to get my Japanese ex back...
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2017-09-03 06:08:32
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I went all the way to Japan to try to get back with my ex-girlfriend that left me a month ago for multiple reasons, one of them being that I said to much horroble things out of stress.
We were 2 years together and I love her more than anything.
She went to pick me up at the airport, but she soon made it clear that she doesn't want a relationship with me, at least for the moment. Together yesterday we eat together lunch and dinner in places we love, today we went to a haitacchi-kai of one of the shitty groups she loves, then went to the karaoke together, but the memories of us that went there before were too strong and I cried like a baby.
Now she says she feels guilty because its hard for me to do things like this "like a friend" (no shit, ofc its hard, its a living hell), I probably fucked up by crying in the karaoke.
No I am spending all my nigth crying in the manga cafe where I am sleeping at, ofc I can't sleep.
Dunno what to do, its too hard... I would do anything to get her back but gosh its hard...
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Is she native Japanese or Japanese American? How did u meet?
Asking for a friend
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>>18685880
She's native Japanese. She was one of the ones I was practicing Japanese with on Line. She's bad at English so its my japanese that became fluent over the time
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>>18685548
Do you feel there may be a chance ?
If yes, good for you.
If no, cut contacts nicely, you will free her, and it will be easier to forget her.
I don't think that guilt her back in a relationship is good idea, I mean, you want her to love you truly, not to be with you because she feel pity, don't you ?
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For some reason it really bothers me that white women are such degenerate whores. I wouldn't date someone who has had more than roughly half as many sexual partners than me. On the other hand, I don't feel that way at all about non white women. If I met a QT azn or Indian or latina girl who'd fucked around a bit but liked me it wouldn't matter to much.
Why? Is there any logic behind this? I'm white btw.
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They're no logic, and if this isn't trolling, you have issues.
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>>18685521
I can't see any logic.
Are you white yourself? Maybe you hold "your" people to higher standards?
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(((they))) have basically programmed white women to be degenerate nigger fuckers. You gotta find either
1. A girl that is poor or was poor and thus gained a down to earth mentality
2. Hasn't gone to college (big one)
3. Lives away from culturally enriched areas (this could go either way, she either adopted the shitty ghetto culture or is repulsed by it and wants out)
Happy hunting
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There's a person I dated that emotionally and physically hurt me. When we were together he cheated on me multiple times. I left him but now we met up. We have a fling and honestly I'm not sure what to do. Should I stop seeing him? Or should I continue because deep down I still care for him because I see so much potential in the person he could be.
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He cheated on your multiple times. That's how little he cares or respects you.
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>>18685516
a pretty stupid question but emotion clouds judgment. No, you should not get back together with him.
try not to let emotion could your judgment again.
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>>18685516
>emotionally and physically hurt me
Red flag
>he cheated on me multiple times
Red flag
>I see so much potential
I don't think he's worth it...
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HAS ANYONE WITH CURLY OR WAVY HAIR HAD A KERATIN TREATMENT?
Like I want insanely soft hair but all the videos about it that I've seen just have the persons hair straightened after the treatment. Is it meant to make your hair straight?
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There's deep conditioning treatment, but im pretty sure that will also take out some curls.
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STRAIGHTEN YOUR FUCKING HAIR!
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I DO STRAIGHTEN MY HAIR AHHH
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Long story short there is this girl in at my uni and I believe she is here for only 2 semesters (possible that she stays for 1). She has a boyfriend and here is the 2 only routes I see this going (assuming I get to know her):
1. We stay friends because she is loyal to her bf
2. Because they are long distance, we begin dating. This also means she is prone to cheating and who is to say that she won't do the same to me?
Am I seeing this situation correctly?
>pic semi-related, not her but we both enjoy snowboarding
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But you arent even friends yet and you are fantasizing of her cheating with you wtf are you an autist?
Have you completely overlooked the fact that maybe she could dump her bf or maybe she will think you are autist and not want to be friends? Or you talk to her and find out she is toxic and a bad person and you never talk to her again?
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>>18685456
We are friends, but I meant we have only hung out when there is 3+ of us, I meant getting to know each other as in hanging out 1 on 1.
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>>18685451
>trying to pursue a taken girl
Really anon?
From what I gather you want to become her close friend to beta orbit her and all the cuck aspects aside, it's just a bad idea. Unless she already seems to be interested in you, you have no business in pursuing anything but acquaintance with her.
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I feel like I don't feel nothing while I'm feeling so much. It's like a void is eating me from the inside. I feel lonely, sad and depressed most of the time. To be honest I felt like this for my whole life. I'm 21. I've had some achievements in my life. Achievements that a twenty one year old can have. Never felt better after any of them. My mom always told me why I'm not celebrating or what not, she was happy for me but I just didn't ever felt it.
I don't remember being happy when I was a kid, but I probably had my bright moments. I'm not a bitter person. I'm just sad when no one is looking. When I'm with other people they probably don't know that I'm depressed. Other thing is that when I'm with other people I'm almost always drunk. I don't know what's wrong with me.
There were just two episodes when I was truly happy in my life. When I met a really cute girl on the internet which fell in love with me and we had ldr going on together. We texted for almost a year and it ended after couple of my visits I had to her place. She loved me but I fucked it up.
Shortly after we broke up, I made friends with this girl that was going to my college. We bonded really strong and I found the truest soulmate of my life in her. We started as friends but I fell in love her, she wasn't attracted to guys though. After a year I still am in love with her and it left me trainwrecked. The whole time she loved me as much as I did her, but without the romantic affection. I felt happy as never before in my life, everything had meaning and I laughed at my suicidal tendencies which I had - thinking that everything has meaning and leads to somewhere after all. Now I am back at those thoughts. I have lots of people around me, but I just don't feel right with any of them. I can't call a friend just anyone I have to feel a bond, I have to feel comfortable with them.
I'm just lonely.
/adv/ helps me a bit
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Could Never Be Heaven
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>>18685419
I feel the same way, and even have the same age. Can't help you.
Maybe is just a mind disease. The type that makes people think of suicide, to begin with...
Good luck.
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>>18685758
What to do now though? I don't want to kill myself right away but I'm smoking and drinking like a mad man.
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They say nice guys finish last. Is it the same for nice girls?
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I'd like to finish in 2b if you know what I mean
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Nice guys do not finish last. Autistic, super shy, weebs finish last. Girls love confidence and believe it or not being confident and nice are completely compatible concepts.
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>>18685409
No. Girls don't pursue guys, so how can they finish last? They're not even racing
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I don't make enough money. 2017-09-03 04:25:17 Post No.18685363
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I don't make enough money.
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2017-09-03 04:25:17
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If I made enough money I would:
>easily have a girlfriend/wife, or girls who want to fuck me
>be able to afford a house and family
>be able to afford a nice set of clothes I feel good in
>be able to afford a decent car and smartphone, basically required for a social life or a female to fuck you now
>be able to travel the world and do activities that cost money
>be able to afford any kind of food/diet I want, alcohol, drugs, video games, computers, boats, motorcycles, etc.
Basically all problems in my life stem from not having enough money.
Some people make over $100,000 every day, some people make several millions in profit from the stock market while doing no work at all. I would have to work several years of hard/soulless labor to make $100,000, even with $0 living expenses.
Going to college is an absolute meme now, a scam, SJW camps that get people into tens of thousands of debt with no guarantee whatsoever that they'll get a job with their degree. Trade school isn't much better.
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>>18685363
There's more to life than money
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IF I WERE A RICH MAN
YA HA DEEDLE DEEDLE, BUBBA BUBBA DEEDLE DEEDLE DUM
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>>18685365
Women don't need money, men will give it to them and provide for them.
Unless you're a poor man, you really have no right to be saying that. Everything in this society revolves around money, even sexual relationships.
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Does drinking water that is not celan at all can kill me? How long does it take for symptoms to show up?
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Wrong pic, I swear this is some sort of cringy coincidence.
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It could do, it might take a long time. Drink from drinking water .
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>>18685309
What if I did it only once?
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I'm pretty sure I have an ear infection, but I can't really find any good information on what to do. Most of the google results are geared toward kids. My ear hurts like hell and I can't sleep but according to mayo-clinic, ear infections go away on their own, but it doesn't give any estimate (like, days, weeks?) What scares me though is that all the shit says permanent ear damage/hearing loss may occur and the articles all throw it out there so casually, I don't fucking want that
tl;dr I think I've had an ear infection for about a day now, should I see a doctor or if not, how many days should I wait?
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WHAT. No, they don't go away on their own, go see a doctor right now.
Protip from someone who has suffered from ear infections all their childhood: If you have access to houseleek, you don't even have to see a doctor. Just squeeze juice out of the leaves, filter it through a handkerchief or something to get rid of dirt etc. and pour it in your ear. Leave it in your ear for about ten minutes. You should hear cracking during the process and that's fine, don't panic. The pain should go away soon after that.
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Bump, I have no idea, and I also might have some sort of ear infection because i started to hear worse on my left earn, painlessly tho.
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>>18685278
thanks, I went to a clinic that was open today and was in and out, they said it was def an ear infection and they took a culture of it. Will have to try that houseleek thing, no clue where to find them though
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How long did it take you to get your first job? 2017-09-03 03:31:48 Post No.18685230
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How long did it take you to get your first job?
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Graduated a month ago, been job hunting since. I've applied for 3 so far, only heard back from 1 but I turned it down because it sounded really shitty. I don't want to have to settle for a job I don't enjoy. Ideally I'd like to stay in my hometown but I've been looking around larger cities. I don't really have much money so it would be hard to move somewhere new for a job.
Is job hunting supposed to be depressing?
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same boat -- but I already have an existing job (just looking to find a job that's a promotion at another company). Feels bad. I think the thing is to keep thinking about the "right answers" to interview questions and techincal interview questions and keep going. But yeah very depressing -- probably best to think that a first round interview means nothing.
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>only applied for 3
Nigga you deserve to be unemployed. I went through my 5 a day applications for like 2 months.
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I applied for 36 before getting my first job. Took 9 months.
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22 years old. Turning 23 in a few months. Ive been attending community college for a year and a half while still not knwoing what I want to do. I basically only have 1 friend but hes usually busy with family and his gf. I also dont get along well with my parents and although ive tried working and still maintain good grades, my depression just keeps getting worse. My friend also did something really harsh that id rather not get into. Multiple people have hurt me throughout my life. Ive even apologized to those who did ME wrong. I honesty wish I wasnt so afraid of dieng cause so I get get on this awful ride I call life. I also despise how life seems to reward those whove constantly hurt me.
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>>18685221
I'm in EXACTLY the same situation as you, except I just turned 22m. See a therapist, apply for jobs online, in community college, join a club even if you don't like anybody there just do it, force yourself to, because no one else will. Wake up earlier, and stop giving a fuck. The moment I just wanted to focus on my studies and get A's, that was the moment I got a girlfriend, (ex now) which hurts, but you move on.
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>>18685336
another 22m anon here. I was just dismissed from school the second time, I now have another ex after this summer, I work at McD's, etc. Life sucks. I just realized what I want to do though, so here's to saying "fuck you" to life and just doing what we have to bois.
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>>18686359
Thanks. Ive actually been thinking. A good friend mine lives with her bf back in texas and has offered me to move in with her. I was thinking of dropping by to go visit her for Christmas and see how things are over there. If I seem to like jt, I'll probably take up on her offer. Should I do it?
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How do you become more normal?
People comment all the time that I "seem a bit off"
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I don't think it's possible. I've tried it and I just feel like I'm always a few steps behind the normal, no matter how much new normal shit I learn and apply to my life and my attitudes and way of acting. It's almost like you have to be born normal or something.
Maybe not being normal is a good thing. Embrace it and become extraordinary.
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>>18685203
Well, be true to yourself. The more you act in a manner that seems undoubtedly like yourself, the more people will come to accept you.
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Just a daily reminder to bee yourself faggot.
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would you date and then marry a girl that's really good for you and out of your league if she's had sex with 10 men by the time she's 25 and you were still a virgin?
even if she kissed a male friend on new years before you were dated, but after you had hooked up a few times?
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fucking repost shit!!!
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Post this on /r9k/ where it belongs. You only want to create a shitposting thread.
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>>18685195
R9k or /r/incels on le Reddit fucking saged
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Need serious answers laddos
I'm wondering what the fastest and most foolproof methods of suicide are.
I'm not in a country where guns are legal, and I don't want to permanently paralyse myself or something retarded
Help me out here m8s
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>>18685188
Don't take your life. Eat some fruit and get some exercise.
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>>18685201
I do both.
I've gotten past the point of wanting to recover, I don't want to get better.
I'm just tired of everything.
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>>18685207
Have another banana