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>>18077255
So which part do you think isn't enjoyable?

You don't like music?
You don't like moving?
You don't like people?

But hey, if you don't want to dance, that's fine. All us dummies who do have no problem having fun without you, and probably won't notice you're missing.

There's not much that can top a dance evening as a prelude for hot and erotic lovemaking.

t. Tango club member and met my gf there

Not OP, but I'm a 23yo guy who knows a bit of ballroom type shit, but I've never danced at a club (except one time but I was grinding on a chick that I went with) and I just don't understand how to do it, I feel like I'll just look like an idiot.

I had this problem with concerts to, I feel like the only thing I can do is stand still, I want to first pump and jump around but idk..

>>18077222
Nothing will happen. Most people just become tired and irritable. Unless you intend to starve yourself for weeks on end, you're just fucking yourself over for no reason.

My personal best is 16 days of not eating anything except for water. You lose around 0.2 kg (a third of a pound) per day. It's very easy once you get started, and it honestly feels really good being empty.

I'm a female that weighs around 90 lbs.

>>18077241
Sounds unhealthy and retarded.

>>18077179
I dont know what the law is like but Im pretty sure you can make a claim with a workers rights bureau.

It is reasonable for you to go to school, she was given fair notice, and maybe youre past the probation point at 6 months where you can be fired for no reason.

Id personally give it a shot. Youd have a case if you had evidence she was informed.

>>18077179
>guan yu
damn that guy is a bad ass

>>18077179

To be honest, you would be better off asking reddit.com/r/legaladvice , and I don't mean that as a "go back to r*ddit xD" insult.

Taking legal advice from anonymous strangers on 4chan is a terrible idea. You might actually get some useful info/advice on reddit.

I gave up on life and moved in with my parents.
You can do the same, my gf doesn't mind cause we both failed at life.

start looking now
how isnt your boyfriend telling you this?

you will need an income
you get an income by working
so you look for a job before moving

>>18077339

This. You have a beta bf op

Well I'm not going to say you shouldn't. But I'd like to know your story and why you want to, since I'm battling with this issue myself.

>>18077148
I won't really like to tell because of shitposters and bait posters.
It doesn't make any sense now, i just going to tell you that i am (sincerely speaking) a worthless human being and i don't have anything to live for, besides, my future is pretty, pretty bad

My story here OP . I don't give a shit about shitposters:

>Born with weak genes.
>Slender body type (ectomorph).
>Not good at social interactions.
>Monk mode to hide my betaness and to protect my dignity.

I refuse myself to become a weak-ass beta provider in future.
No I'll save my dignity. But monk mode taking its toll on me. My fate has sealed. There is no future for me. I better off myself to live this suffering.

>>18077123
What is the illness ? And yes I do

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>>18077210

It's not hard. Check this site out if you need advice on how to do it: http://www.growweedeasy.com/

Also there is some good info on /r/microgrowery.

Not everyone is ready to go into a life long and legally binding contract after 10 months

>>18077107
Probably right, but anyway someone talk with me.

>>18077140
This >>18077107
Also with 20 you are still pretty young.

>>18077057
>inb4 no advice , just people who mention my dog
whats wrong with a dog wanting to cook meth

>>18077057
I know jack shit about meth, but I would assume so. Isn't meth the whole reason buying pills with pseudophedrine requires you to put your info into a database?

>>18077190
Yes it is, but how does that relate to the fuck question?

>>18077004
She might benefit from the break too.

You're in a tough situation. You won't be able to "fix" it; she will have to do it herself. If you care about her, be supportive, be available, keep doing what you're doing.

That said, everyone dies alone. You shouldn't give up your life fruitlessly for her sake. I say go for a month break and see how it is. Meditation like in your pic can help with dealing with and transforming negativity.

>>18077021

Thank you. That's a very helpful advice. So I should go on a break, but tell her that I'll be still supporting her and if anything happens, she can contact me and I'll be there for her?

The last part strikes me hard too. I've been spending all my money on her, helping her out with her assigments last minute staying up all night when I had my own work. Neglecting my own health and desires. Haven't bought anything for myself in a year.

>>18077030
Damn, now that you reply I can feel that there are real people that these words refer to.

It's hard to say. I left a girl once because she got depressed - it only got worse from there (I stayed friends with her), but she's still alive. In some ways I benefited from it, in others not of course. She was a faithful and reliable gf.

You might be the only thing there for her. In the end, you're getting away from her because of an illness. You can rationalize it (and I can help) but that's what it is. What would you want if you were her?

If you need a break to keep your strength, ok, do it, but if it's just a way to break up without breaking up, don't.

OP here, i am also 20 years old. I feel like that's a good bit of information I left out

>youre a violent alcoholic
>NO IM NOT LET ME GRAB YOU TO PROVE IT

Youre fucking retarded op

>>18076945
I literally see no context from what I wrote down exibited here, step out of your strange fantasies anytime please

I don't know guy

Fear of commitment?

Maybe once things start taking a bit of effort its too much for you so you run.

Fear of failure?

Maybe you are so afraid of her ending it that you just shut down so it can't happen.

The only true answer is therapy.

>>18076890
Fuck it,

they wont tell me anything that isn't completely obvious

I will attempt to be more open and communicative while giving this chick time and a chance.

But I still want to call it quits because of what she's doing and fuck another chick I know.

But I won't.

Therapists are a bunch of washed up slutty broads, the fuck do they know that isn't completely obvious.

you are afraid of being left, so you do it before they can
have you been abandoned by daddy or mommy?

I give less a shit about everything the older I get too.

get a change of environment
go to a theatre (even though they suck ass) or someone else's house. read at the library or a park or something

I'm the opposite but the same.

I never watched a lot of movies or TV. Usually about an hour a day.

I have a huge backlog of movies to watch but I just can't commit to sitting and watching a 2 hour movie.

Meanwhile I have been on 4chan for 3 hours now.

I think it is that hype is dead. When is the last time you saw an ad for a movie and said "Wow this looks great, I can't wait to see it". When is the last time you felt that way for anything?

>>18076823
I'm an alcoholic
Alcohol withdrawal is 10x worse
You don't know pain until you start to hallucinate fucking SPIDERS

You can pass it. Sleep most of the time
Drink as much water as you can

It'll be done sooner rather than later

Start smoking again and stay off the amphetamines. When you stabilize you can try to quit smoking. Good luck.

>>18076823
one thing at a time, anon. go get a pack of cigs.
you should wait until you are confident that you will not relapse with the meth, then quit the cig.
congrats (for choosing to get well) and good luck

don't tell her you fucking idiot
never text her again

and in the future, don't shit where you eat.

>>18076810
It might be some weird scheme to make you jealous. Women do shit like this, it's like autism for females. Instead of being direct they concoct some elaborate ritual for men to decode, but then get puzzled when they don't get the message even though they were being "so obvious". It's just female autism bro. Even if she does like you, be prepared for more bullshit like this down the road. Avoid at all costs.

>>18076824
Don't fucking listen to this dude. You know nothing about girls don't cha? You may be single your whole life. If she said she liked that guy and wanted you to tell him the next time you meet up for the deposit, it's pretty much the truth from her. Usually girls don't tall or interact with guys they like, as for men. She talk or flirt with you because she's comfortable around you, that's it.

Tell the guy everything she told you to do. Chances are in this way or another way they will end up together, don't sale yourself cheap

>>18076776
Have you tried heavy drinking?

>>18076785

Well, I mean, unrelatedly, but I thought that everyone had.

>>18076776
GIVE ME YOUR CONTACT INFO I CAN HELP YOU