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One month anniversary? Are you aware you're dating a 15 year old?

A fucking restraining order...any girl that makes a big deal out of being in a relationship for a month is a crazy bitch. Save yourself OP!

She's 17 turning 18 may 24

She stopped loving you. Do you really think there's a chance of you getting back together?

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>>18079229
>Asks for "some space"

kerk, move on dude.

You went 7 years without tying the knot? If course this was going to happen.

If you aren't going to find it, it'll find you. Follow the signs.

I'm on the same boat, too many hobbies I wish I could turn into a constant thing, but my brain craves to create, to change, to go beyond what I've gotten used to. I wish I could focus this thinking on something useful though, like helping people. Or inventing something that makes life easier for humanity.

>>18079163
what DO you want to do?

>>18079132
another internship, the connections you'll make will be invaluable even 6 years down the road if something doesn't work out at whatever company you choose.

Are you American? why are you staying in college to do internships for 6 years?

>>18079214
Ill add on here. If you're American, isn't school costing you a lot of money? At least 10k a semester? You will spend 20k to just do another internship? You do realize there are software developers who make 100k with no degree?

please someone

>2017
>paying for porn
>going through all that trouble to pay for porn

Well son, that was your first mistake. Nothing is going to happen though. The amount of effort it would take them to actually receive payment from you wouldn't be worth their time. You gave a fake address, something people do all the time, so there is really no easy way to bring it back to you. It could have been anyone right? Again, not worth the time and effort time tie you to the account.

>>18079223
as i said, somehow i put my real address int here. It's not US though. I know its dumb, but i wanted a specific video that i didnt find anywhere else.

Help me /ad v/1 Kenobi. You're my only hope.

stop being a fucking loser and do something outside your comfort zone for once.

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>>18079091
just say youre not feeling well and go to bed

>>18079090
Ask her out. If you get rejected you'll know. If not, then you'll have a qt3.14

so you just want to be forever khv, because you're scared of relationships. Confront your fears

grow some fucking balls

You get another.

if it's your first good one, you'll never forget her
I'm married and still think about my first love randomly.

I love my wife though, the worst thing to do is wish it back.
I think it's like a biological impulse, you can't really help it.

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You come to terms with the fact you (or they) were the shit party and that they're fucking someone else.

>>18078949
Go visit him you selfish fuck. Yes it will be awkward, and yes there won't be anything you can do to help, but just being there with him for support will be everything. If you don't you will be estranged forever as he will see just how much he really means to you.

>2 years later
>sorry bro i wanted to visit really but i just thought itd be awkward heh heh yknow? no hard feelings rite?

Swallow your pride, visit him, be awkward, apologize for taking so long to visit, and let him know if there is anything you can do for him, to let you know. 99% of the time they won't ask for anything. As I said, making the effort is what's important. Time to suit up and show up for your bro, or forget you ever had him

I always wonder how people are hit by trains. How do they not see, hear or feel them coming?

>>18078971
I am in a uni at different city now-500km away, and have just found out about it.. Have known him since we were 5.

Also fuck yes, I'm a man and hes my bro I will visit him. I am just unsure in what kind of mental condition he is.
>planned on barbecue in the wild, after that LAN party whole weekend in my house with me,him and 2 other bros.

How does this sound?

>>18078972
>area he lives in since he was little is near tracks
>wears earbuds and listens to music usually when walking somewhere
>walked across the rail cross like every other day (trains are passing every 3-6 hours)
thats how it went, don't know how, but he probably didn't notice it until it was before him.

Be glad that you're not continuing to date someone like that, block her and just focus on other things

>>18078917
I did. She's fucking emailing me, @ing me on instagram, twitter, anything she can do

her new boyfriend somehow makes like 100K a year and drives an F type. I feel like a worthless piece of shit. I feel the need to go fucking kill someone. I feel like smashing everything in my god damn house

If she has a vindictive personality like that, her current relationship probably won't last very long, and you'll be having the last laugh.

Like >>18078917 said, be glad you aren't still dating that. Wait until she inevitably crashes and burns, and in the mean time, do your best to move forward with your life. Prove her wrong.

Besides, if she was truly happy with the guy she is dating now, why would she care about inciting a response from you and getting your attention?

Yes. Vaping shampoo cleans your lungs out and is very healthy

>>18078921
10/10 doctors recommend! Not like that sketchy Trident gum!

Post a vid, OP.

Dude its shampoo. do you really want that in your lungs. Also stop smoking pot.

tell her straight up how u feel, i promise u if its meant to be it will be. if not, shes not worth getting with anyway.

>>18078968
>if shes not willing to sleep with someone behind her boyfriends back she is not worth it

If you only want to sex her then just leave her alone and go sex someone else. Now if you want a serious long term relationship with her then you can tell her depending on how serious her current relationship is.

>>18078880
People here are forgetting the first step: make yourself valuable. Look at your behaviour and think: if I saw any random lil fuck boy in the street acting like that, would I want to spend time with him?

Start by being funny and cool.

>>18078873
>I can't forget her, no matter what.

You mean you aren't willing to forget her, no matter what.

Well ok then. It's your life and if you want to stay fixated on her, then that's YOUR decision.

You could always stay single and wait for her to break up with her boyfriend so you can pursue her, or you could just simply let her know how you feel even though she's already in a relationship. Who knows, maybe she's kind of a shitty person and will dump him for you.

Seems like it would be a better idea to move on with your life and let yourself get to know other girls, but again, you've already decided "no" to that.

>>18078893
>how you feel even though she's already in a relationship

I'm scared she would say "sorry no", so i wait like a fucking idiot

>>18078975
If you thinking waiting is being "an idiot" then don't wait for her. You know your behavior is not positive for you, but you've decided to do it anyway.

Why are you asking for advice when you already have decided what you're going to do?

Because having a girlfriend wont make you happy in its own right. If you're unhappy without a girlfriend, you're going to be happy with a girlfriend. Relationships are a supplement to a happy life, not a reason for ta happy life.

I think they're referring more to
>Getting a gf won't solve your problem.
Yes, being in a relationship, or even a good friendship, does bring happiness. But they don't solve all your unhappiness.
You have to be happy with yourself before others can bring you happiness.

>>18078745
I guess it is like this at least for me. When I am with her I am happy and enjoy doing whatever it is we are doing. However when she leaves I quickly revert back to being my unhappy self.

chin up homo

Focus on yourself and make the best of yourself and you'll soon find out that there's other good (if not even better) matches out there. You just have to go through hell to kill all hope of getting back together before you >>18078689


Rinse and repeat

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She's laughing at the thought of you with her friends. She's fucking someone else who cherishes her. You were an idiot who never deserved her or her affections. /thread