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>mfw "my friend" might be addicted to ice (meth)
Is there any way to help him?
He doesn't think he's addicted but after being introduced to it by his girlfriend 5 weeks ago and smoking once a week with her since then (5 times in total), he's been thinking about it a bit more than usual lately.
Should alarm bells be ringing?
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>>18080969
they should but thats the thing about addiction and drugs. drugs are fun. so no one really thinks they're addicted until its way too late.
his best hope is rehab cuz meth is some serious shit.
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>>18080971
What this dude said. I don't think you'll ever hear a "don't worry, it's just meth" coming from anyone but a meth addict.
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Honestly OP, painful as it is if he doesn't see an issue after taking a hard drug weekly directly after being introduced to it, he's beyond salvation at least for now. People only see what they want to see.
>dated girl for a few weeks
>wants to be friends
>still talk as friends
Should I ask her what her reasoning is? I mean I kinda want to know if there's anything I can improve or do differently.
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>>18080953
the problem here is you assume that women are being objective. they arent. and thats a good thing.
women don't go on a date and then write down ratings for each act you do and then reward you if you get enough points. thats nonsense.
you go on a date, they get to know you and if there is those 'sparks' those good feelings, then you're in. good feelings can happen regardless of what people say or do, its why 'tsundere' is such a big thing in japan and 'love at first sight' is a big thing in fairy tales. its literally just how someone makes you feel, often starting with attraciton than working its way down.
dating isn't some game where you press the right buttons and you win.
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>>18080981
I know that but we did the deed every time we were together so it's not like there was no connection.
It kinda came out of the blue for me really, as I kinda felt we had something more substantial going.
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>>18080994
unfortunately she just wasnt that into you. sometimes a woman keeps trying cuz you're seemingly nice but just not the right fit. sometimes they just want sex and something simple. its hard to say.
you can ask her but she likely wont give you an honest answer, not becuase she wants to purposely lie but because its hard for most people to rationalize and verbalize why they dont like you. like i said in my initial post it really boils down to an intrinsic sense of chemistry, the way someone just makes you feel.
she may say 'well you talk too much' but if she had that chemistry, you talking to omuch wouldnt matter, shed find that endearing.
also women are not homogenous so even if she pinpointed some issue its not like every girl feel sthat way about it. some girls hate guys who make jokes, others like jokes.
and the final point i want to make is that it might not be something you can even change or control.
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Is Instagram a useful resource to attract other people? I mean, I am /fit/, about to graduate from college, I think I have cool interests and hobbies (play guitar, etc) still, no girl pays me any attention. I don't have Instagram and I rarely post on Facebook. I think I need to show a bit more of myself to get girls to notice me.
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>>18080908
do you pay the girls any attention?
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When you talk about getting girls to notice you, do you mean having girls approach you, or having girls be responsive when you approach them? Because the former is VERY unlikely to happen, no matter how attractive you are.
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>>18080911
What do you mean?
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Who's advice to take? I will be 30 in April. I have not had a girlfriend or sex or anything.
My friends tell me I fucked up bad and should probably FUCK hookers in order to "catch up" with other adult males. Apparently I am basically unmarriable if I can't show that at some point a girl likes me.
It's really tiresome on my mind because I just don't know who's advice to take. What is fucking hookers going to prove?
What's the sensible thing to do?
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>>18080858
>Apparently I am basically unmarriable if I can't show that at some point a girl likes me.
Fucking a hooker to lose your virginity just emphasises that women don't like you even more. It doesn't let you 'catch up,' it sets you back. The only thing worse than a 30 year old virgin is a 29 year old who lost his virginity to a hooker just so that he could say he wasn't a 30 year old virgin.
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>>18080869
what's wrong with being a 30 year old virgin?!
t. afraid I'll end up like this
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>>18080883
You and OP tell me, you're the ones with hang ups about it.
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>18 living at home
>saving money for vehicle and to move out
>16year old sister is sociopath
>sociopath wants me to get kicked out
>mother enables her to continue bad habits and bad attitude
>buys her cigarettes, alcohol and she doesn't do anything
>16 year old is a drop out who hasn't finished grande 9
She wants me kicked out because she doesn't like me for whatever reason. Always gets in fights and threatens to stab me.
At this point I'm at a loss of what to do. I have no money to move out and been dealing with threats of violence and death because I still live at home. I just deal with it by walking away but this time my sister threw a cup at me and attacked me. I held her down to stop her from attacking and took off as soon as I made sure she couldn't attack me with anything.
What do I do? Parents aren't home by my enabling mother will take her side no matter what because of age.
What do I do?
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send her to mexico most 16 year olds eventually get a job or get pregnant either way she gets a smash of responsiblility and begs to come back and wants to live a normal lifr
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>>18080836
My friend's family literaly did this with his younger sister, and it did not work as planned. She's a single mother still living with their parents now.
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>>18080836
I live in Canada so I can't. If I even mentioned to my mother that my sister needed discipline then I would get freaked out on
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How do I know if there's actually something wrong with me psychologically or not?
When I was 15 I daydreamed about tracking down where my psychiatric worker lives and cutting off her son's head just to prove to her that I actually have real issues, but I never did and I left her care with her full faith that I'm all solid and wholesome in the head.
I've been to a string of different mental health workers since and twice put into a ward (one involuntarily, one voluntarily) and been on antipsychotics when I asked for antidepressants and so on, and at the end of the day they still feel I am completely normative and fine.
Do I really need to kill somebody for real for proof that I am not entirely emotionally wholesome, or what kind of a divine intervention do these people require?
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Do you tell them you're planning to really go out and kill someone? I don't think they'd ignore that.
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>>18080803
>how do I know?
I can help with that. There's something wrong with you psychologically. I don't like the term 'wrong', but without a doubt you do not fit into the normal human pattern of thinking. There is something abnormal about your brain and the way you think.
>do I really need to kill somebody for real...
no of course not. mentioning these types of thoughts and violent ideations will almost always get you treatment, unless they have reason to think you're just making this shit up.
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>>18080825
Well, that was eight years ago, and I haven't seen that woman since. I haven't planned to kill anyone since then, it's been too long since I've felt that angry.
But that's just proof they were right, is it? It was just teenage turmoil caused by hormones and everyone goes through it.
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How do you ask the love of your life what you would have to do in order to have her reconsider you again in the future.
Asking her for another shot or chance right now is impossible as the were some serious fights and words before we broke up, for which she is still pissed at me for. There really needs to be a cooldown period for a considerable period of time If I know her, and I do. Everything I would simply ask her of her now would be an automatic "No."
But how do I ask this without sounding needy, selfish or pathetic? Even though I am well aware this whole thread is, but I simply have to. I love her to death and we both have a wonderful kid.
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>>18080768
Don't ask it. Wait. Be the best version of yourself you can be. Be a FRIEND to her if she wants. A real friend. After some time you can tell her succinctly that you still love her and you want to be with her. Don't expect anything from her, but at least you tried.
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>>18080768
Girls don't give other chances because they have other options, and don't need to rely on slim, past successes. You're history in her mind.
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>>18080768
>Texting
Just stop and don't.
Nigga focus on the other things in life and she'll contact you on her own,you'll (hopefully have the balls to) set a date off of her contacting you,you'll have fun and maybe then you'll have another shot. Especially if you had a kid together.
Women coming back to guys who they've been broken up or fought with isn't just some meme. And the reason it happens is because the guy doesn't apologize for who he is.
So I don't think my gf is that into us anymore but I'm totally in love with her. Idk what to do she see,s less interested in sex now amd we are 8 months in. I remember,bet the first three months she was wanting to fuck everyday I did almost, and we both lost our virginites to each other, and it was my first time getting head and her first time giving it when we did this. Like I always have to ask to hangout, have to text her first usually, I reply back as soon as she texts me, and sometimes it takes her up to twenty minutes to respond. Like I've sat down and tries to talk to her about this, but she always says I'm wrong or worrying too much. I even told her "listen if you are getting tired of this, and are thinking ablut how relationships are with other guys tell me and be honest. We will just end it, I'll be hurt for a while but will get over it and we will both find someone who is more compatible with ourselves." She says she isn't thinking this stuff. But the way she acts seems like it. We used to fight ALOT, but I've been working on how I've been handling situations and we haven't fought for over a month. A lot of our fights had to do with her texting her exes, or just other guys in general and me being ultra jealous. But it seems for the past month or so she's been kinda down or moody with me. She doesn't want to have sex as much, when I ask she gets pissed which in turn aggregates me. She gets mad if I wath porn, but doesn't ever send me pics when I say I'm horny. I mean idk what to do, it seems like she's miserable in this relationship and is done with it, but she doesn't say she wants to end it when I aks. But when we get in big fights she always says I'm done with this and tries to break up with me, but I always talk to her and she is fine after that and says she wants to stay with me and she loves me.
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Cont: like when we talk about the future she always says "my wedding" "my kids" "my house" but when I do I say "our kids, house, weddimg". I've talked to her about this but she says "I say it like that beause idk what the future holds". It just seems like she has no faith in us, or doesn't want to have a future with me but she always says she wants one. Shes coming over this evening, so I want to have a long on I about this, and come to a conclusion and really understand what she feels. I'm going to marine boot camp in 2 months, and really do not want a letter from her saying it's not going to workout and it's over. I just don't know what to say to her and how to bring it up without fighting like we usually do. I don't want to end it, I get sick thinking of her with someone else, doing the things we do, making love. I just want us both happy, and idk if I make her as happy as she makes me.
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Dump. And that's not a typo btw. It's original too.
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>>18080754
Dump her?? Why though? I really really love this girl. Please be more exact on why? I ant just dump her.
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What drugs do i take to motivate myself to get friends, get a better job and not just feel crippling self doubt and anxiety?
I've tried several prescription antidepressants over the years but none have worked for me, so what drug will actually fix me? I don't like my life at all and I hate being alone, I tried going out but I don't know anyone.
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Exercise and stop masturbating/watching porn. Focus on this only until you genuinely feel better about yourself. This may take a couple of months to a year of hard work. But it sure helped me not being dependent on SSRI's.
This may not be the answer you are looking for. But drugs won't fix anything except helping you stay on the path you're on. Stray off, friend
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Modafinil is amazing! Legit feel like the guy in limitless. Too bad you have to cycle off every 2 weeks
http://www.masculinedevelopment.com/modafinil-dosage-for-business-domination/
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>Exercise
This. Also booze.
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I've always felt subhuman and not a proper person and ugly and disgusting and not a real woman
Because I could never get a boyfriend, that was the main reason for my shame and low self esteem. No one wanted me and boys laughed at me and always rejected me
Now I managed to get a boyfriend at the age of 26, and I still hate myself and feel inadequate.
Am I always just going to feel like a loser?
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>>18080709
I guess you found out what many of us are wondering. If finding a significant other will cure our insecurities and self loathing. Guess not.
Embrace your feelings, allow yourself to be okay with them and carry on. I bet you have your up days, enjoy them.
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>>18080709
>ive a massive emotional complex for my entire life that stemmed from past trauma
>entering a relationship didn't fix everything
Get into therapy, preferably soon. At some point you get too old to change.
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>>18080727
I've been in and out of therapy since I was 15.
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Will getting stuffed animals to sleep with help with my loneliness?
I'm referring to both cute things and furfag waifu shit.
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Yes probably but you're only fooling yourself. Just bypass it entirely and learn to have no fear. Enjoy being alone while it lasts.
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>>18080694
Talk to someone online. Becoming even more introverted and weird won't help with your loneliness.
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>>18080694
No. Well I don't know about the furfag waifu shit. But just cute things, no.
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Suddenly starting to have sexual desires? 2017-02-25 06:24:51 Post No.18080690
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Suddenly starting to have sexual desires?
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I'm a 21 yr old guy and during my teenage years I had little to no interest in sex and almost never masturbated. For some reason in the past few weeks I've read felt the desire to have sex. Is this normal, and is there a way to stop it? It's so strange being horny regularly. I never imagined I'd be going about my day and suddenly think about fucking a girl I saw.
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It's happening. You're finally hitting puberty.
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>>18080703
Don't think so, 21 is a bit late for puberty.
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>>18080721
Welcome to being a guy. This is what it's going to be for the rest of your life now.
I just doxxed an SJW mod on reddit who is a mega-cunt. I want to fuck with her because she pissed me off, but I don't want to actually harm her or even make her fear for her life, or any of that other psycho shit.
I also don't want to send anything in the mail out of fear that it could be traced back to me. So no glitter bombs/poop in an envelope or whatever.
So what can I do with this info? I've got her home address and some other info about her life.
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>>18080666
>I want to fuck with her because she pissed me off
Dude. Just let it go.
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>I doxxed this person and I want to fuck with them
>BUT NOTHING MEAN OKAY XDDDD
Why don't you just go back to plebbit, you fucking pansy
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>>18080666
the only mega cunt here is you, Satan
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Some boards aren't loading for me
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Is anyone else having this problem?
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>>18080572
happens to me sometimes, reset router
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>>18080638
I did, most of the pictures in those threads are still 404'd though.
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There was an issue with the image server thanks to gook moot.
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time goes by way too fast 2017-02-25 05:15:39 Post No.18080528
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time goes by way too fast
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Time goes by too fast. Weeks are over before I can tell, weekends feel like they are only a few hours long. I feel like I don't have enough time to finish my projects, to watch all the movies I wanna watch and read all the books I wanna read.
I try to sleep as little as I can because sleeping seems like a huge waste of time. I'm freaking out.
My birthday is coming soon and I'm terrified of aging, my 20s are going away fast.
Are there any life hacks or things you can do to make time slow down, to feel like time isn't running out so fast?
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>>18080550
my lel aside, get some sleep, time is a flat curve, death isn't real, we're the imagination of ourselves. Nobody belongs anywhere, humans aren't meant to exist and neither are you. You will die, your friends will die, our sun will die, the universe will run out of latent heat and die too. It all goes back in the box. In 60 years after you die you too will be forgotten. Its called the circle of life because its fucking pointless. So chill enjoy today, right here, right now.
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>>18080528
be thankful you don't have the opposite. the days feel like they take forever and I just want them to be over.
you have the opposite of depression so enjoy it.