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>>18082277
Three options
1). Suck it up and get over it. You're in an open relationship, and especially since you're fucking other guys you need to put up with it.
2). Call it quits on the open relationship and try to get the both of you in an exclusive relationship.
3). Break up with him. If you can't do either of the top two choices then you can't handle the relationship.

>>18082306
Thanks, very straight forward, appreciated.

>>18082277
>"open relationship"
死
>But I see other men on casual
Why are you turning your bf into a beta cuck?
>sees another girl
No he doesn't.
>of being with other men
BETA KEK
>I overdose on painkillers
No you don't. If you've been to the hospital then why are you asking 4chan for advice...(get professional help)
>will not be fair nor right
To yourself or him? I mean at this point why bother? Find someone else you guys are done.
>disgusted with myself
Stop being this way and be honest. It's not working out. Distance is death to a relationship. Why deny him happiness because you're unwilling to seek it out for yourself in someone else?

OOOOOooooooor you could stop taking your bc and have a kid with him. If you only care about yourself this will fix things.

TL;DR: how to ask possibly uninterested girl about weekend plans without coming across and pathetic or needy

>>18082201
>Maybe she met someone new

You definitely need to calm down. You're already too attached to this person you barely know and if you do get into a relationship you'll be a worried mess over nothing.

If they tell you they're busy then they're busy. When I'm busy, and I tell people I'm busy (I'm a guy), then said people still text me I tend to not respond most of the time, the best thing you can do for yourself is to not be so needy.

Actually wait to see if she wants to go to the concert instead of overreacting to perceived """problems""""

>>18082402
> You're already too attached to this person you barely know and if you do get into a relationship you'll be a worried mess over nothing.

Yes to the first. Strong no to the second. If I'm in a relationship with someone I chill the fuck out. As a matter of fact, my most recent ex had an issue with this because she was controlling and it made her feel like I didn't give a shit about her because her logic was that her controlling behavior = her caring.

> If they tell you they're busy then they're busy.

That's not what is going on though and perhaps I did a shit-poor job of explaining what happened because even I admit it may be nothing. But this along with her updating her Tinder makes me more willing to accept what probably has happened and move on.

The last text conversation after she said actually she worked on Friday, I told her I was busy too so its fine. This was the last text conversation so I haven't actually *done* anything.

> Actually wait to see if she wants to go to the concert instead of overreacting to perceived """problems""""

You're saying assume the best and that if she flakes last minute then, uh, lol?

I got better advice from the douchebag bro at my work who said to just start seeing other women. Which I am, though not in the way he suggested me to (pump and dump).

What I'm asking is how to ask her. I'm thinking in a few days. Not sure how to phrase it though.

Jeans can be worn several times without needing to be washed. Same with jackets. Seems fine to me as long as you're changing everything else, but don't you get bored wearing the same thing every day?

As long as your pants/jacket are not stained or smelly I don't see a problem. You do wash, right?

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>>18081826
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>>18081845
Of course I wash my clothes all the time and especially if theres a stain on it. I just wonder as a girl who doesn't really hang around other girls if, mainly other females, find it strange that I pretty much have the same outfit everyday? I usually just wear it because I don't have a lot of "diverse" clothes that match well with everything, and I don't want to sit in a cold college classroom for 12 hours in a dress or something uncomfortable. I'm more of a purpose > fashion person.

I don't get half of your story, but as long as you're feminine and likes feminine girls, you have my support.

Did you have lesbian sex yet?

>>18081753
Move on OP, let it go. If that twat wants to keep ignoring you then she's on some kid shit.

>>18081795
OP, don't have this mentality either.

>>18081808

Oh god, okay. I don't even want sex yet, what are they on about?! Jfc.

I'll try, thank you. Yeah, I suppose it is immature.

>>18081627
I recommend business. You need capital before you start your business though so get broad business experience by working in a big 4 firm after your degree.

Engineering will get you great pay so go for any of those if you are more interested atm. You can always go back and do a business degree after you get the capital together.

Firefighter isn't even a career. Will basically just be volunteer work.

Do whatever you want because both business and engineering are great career options.

>>18081627
>need
Mechanical Engineering will allow you to do the other two as well. The O&G field hires mechanical engineers as well, it's not exclusive to petroleum engineering majors. Mechanical will help you break into the aerospace field as well.

> Firefighter career
No.

> getting a business degree to start a business
That's the most autistic line of thinking ever imo. You don't need a degree in business to start your own business. If you have no idea what you want to do in business, then just get the MechE degree.

>>18081673
Getting a degree helps a lot. You learn a lot about laws that are relevant every single day and also mechanisms to evaluate and improve performance. Implementation of necessary systems etc.

More importantly after you get a business degree you can get a job in a professional services firm. Those firms get deeply involved in heaps of successful business so you get very detailed experience in what it takes to run lots of different types of businesses profitably and sustainably. 80% of businesses fail in the first 2 years because people think they can just go into it without educating themselves.

Why is this an issue?

Does he not fuck you enough?
Does he call you ugly?
Can he not get it up? Elaborate or tit job

Post a picture. I may be able to help if you aren't fat or ugly. Might even be if you still are.

>>18081519
Grind with him on the dance floor.

she loved you at some point anon
the hot new meme is saying "i never really loved you i was just fooling myself" as soon as the relationship starts to feel lacking
maybe it's been a while but she did love you. she wouldn't have gone out with you otherwise

Couples tend to do this, pretend to be something they are not for another person. It's not that you are unlovable, it's that she thinks she's unlovable the way she is and has to change drastically to be so. You both are winners in this breakup. Do not give up hope on being loved and try to put less of an emphasis on trying to make her happy and more emphasis on open communication (honesty).

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>>18081503
She stopped loving you because you made yourself look like a weak little pussy who is so needy you have to always tell her how much you love her. Now you know to make yourself more distant and cool. You probably also need to improve yourself more in terms of career drive, lifting and fashion. Just improve yourself then people will want you. Basic supply and demand.

Btw you have to make sure you break off all contact. If you are still just as available after she dumps you then she didn't even lose anything but still has the freedom to fuck other people who are more valuable than you. Yeah it sucks but the solution is simple.

post tits

Tits are fun to play with during sex but if I'm checking a girl out it's me looking at her ass

>>18081458
Nah, mine are average, you'd not like it.

>>18081392
Gay for her or you?

>>18081392
Nothing is inherently gay if you're doing it with someone of the opposite gender.

Yes, unless she dresses up like a guy.

>>18081314
I was thinking of sticking a knife in my throat where the arteries pass. But I'm afraid of not going through as this method requires a lot of courage.

What's so bad abour paranoid schizophrenia, other than being hospitalised against your will? Please tell me.
t. not knower

>>18081314
Buy those charcoal used to make barbecue, ya know, just regular charcoal.

Burn ALL OF THEM until they turn gray.

Now, get inside a bathroom or car
> if bathroom
> shut the door
> fill up your bathtub
> drop the gray charcoal into the bathtub
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> if car
> drive somewhere secluded
> burn the charcoals in the back of your car
> ** you don't want the car to be set on fire, but you just want to charcoal to burn

You will die a painless death this way. This is probably the best way to suicide from what I've read online on various suicide forums.

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>>18081302
obviously that isn't the real reason

or at least you're not attractive/interesting enough to make her want to date you despite that dumb reason

>>18081302
She's right you know.

>>18081313
I've heard this but only from other virgins who wanted to lose it together or wait for marriage.

Or well, there's having a kink for taking virginities, but no one would really advertise it like that and those typically lose interest after taking the first time from them.

There was a woman in my law classes who had a baby part way through her degree. Of course you can study and have a child, it's just going to be a lot harder if you're a single mother.

Assuming this isn't bait, of course

>>18081101
Hey, thanks anon. Was she married, you know?

I just haven't told anyone yet. I have a few girl friends, supportive parents, but no boyfriend and I really don't want one. I also really want to leave the town I'm in now, but that would mean leaving my support structures away.

The grad school I visited actually have quite a lot of grad students starting families, buying houses, and having kids while their degrees were in progress. But I'm worried about whether I'll be rejected because I'm suddenly a single mother, so I wonder if there are any other stories of single moms completing their degrees.

>>18081119
>>18081119
I guess I'm trying to determine whether it would be better to stay in my small, drinking college town and do minimum wage job here (no good jobs for my degrees), or go to grad school on $25,000 fellowship and no support network (yet.)

Do you practice before taking the test? With a professional instructor?

Also depending where you take the test, the tester can be a real asshole. Where I live, there's one guy who's nice, the rest are known for being nitpicky jerks.

>>18080963
I practice with my parents, but on this test I had an indian instructor who spoke in fractured english

What are some things your having trouble with OP?

>>18080585
>why are girls sluts

There are shitty disloyal people on both sides. It's not a gender thing.

>>18080585
>why are girls sluts
hormones and gender "equality"

>Does true love exist?
Extremely rare

>Should I ever date/marry?
Date yes
Marry no, unless you're very religious there's no point in marrying anymore even if you want kids

>>18080585
>My question is, why are girls sluts.
They aren't really sluts just being themselves. It is men that are fools believing if they are getting that ass she isn't giving it to others as well.

Does true love exist?
NOPE.

Should I ever date/marry?
Yes, but it should be mutually beneficial to both partners but never, ever, ever fall in love. You need to be emotionally disconnected.

>>18080354
See a dermatologist you disgusting dickless pepe

>>18080354
Are those pimples OP?

Nah, kinda like bumps, I'm not too sure. Never had them 3 months ago. They just appeared and then didn't change.