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I think you haven't lost much here, the future still waits. Might as well go, at least that's what I would do. You could talk to other guy, but frankly nothing significant was really invested so yeah.

>>18686585
I am a 22 year old male virgin that never had a girlfriend.

Boo hoo for you, having to choose between which partner you want.

I get absolutely nothing, no girl has ever given me her pussy even once.

I swear this is a Mad Men episode.

>>18686500
I itself that sounds pretty nasty.

>>18686500
>I have a girlfriend right now and she's relatively normal, but I'm missing that rush I get with crazy girls.
-Option 1, you manage to get used to a peaceful relationship and stay happy with your "normal" girl. Which means you're a good guy anon, congrats.
-Option 2, you get bored and you leave her for that. Then I guess you are the fucked up one.
-Option 3, you push all the wrong buttons and you corrupt her enough to fit your psychobitch fantasy. Enjoy your trip to hell.

Your call anon, I hope you make the right choice.

>>18686500
I don't know what you mean by crazy, but every person is more or less crazy in some way on itself.
Probably your current gf is a bit crazy but feels ashamed to show her that part of her to you.

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>>18686453

I know you're trying to use us as a sounding board to validate your preference for masturbation over sex but I think the point is nobody cares if you think jacking off is cooler than sex and very few people are doing to agree with you no matter how hard you try to justify it.

Pretending like you don't "get" relationships to make yourself feel better about not having one is super lazy and transparent, OP.

>>18686453
Humans generally crave intimacy with other humans, so yes sex is a big factor but there are conversations that I would find awkward having with even my closest friends but not with a girlfriend.

>>18686453

>get a good social life with friends

while I don't disagree, there are different kinds of 'love' and while I find platonic friend love to be the best and dont really long for romance in and of its self, I can understand why other people do.

if someone said they wanted steak you dont just say 'eat a mc double, its easier'. sure it will satiate their hunger but it wont fulfill them the way they want.

>go out and do those things with friends or wti ha meetup group

again, this lacks the romantic edge. Even though i wont date long term, i do enjoy a fling because going out to dinner with a cute girl is different than just going out to eat with a bud. i enjoy both situations immensely, but theres a lot of fun with a romantic edge

>adopt

you say that like adoption its easy. its virtually impossible for single men, its ten times more expensive then just getting your own chidl, and you dont have a second income to help support it or a second person to help take care of it.

>get a dog

again ,different types of love, different types of companionship

>i want a cofidant
>get some close friends

this i agree with, but i never really heard someone say 'i want a confidante in reference to why they want a relationship.

>but does (better sex) justify expending the extra resources

life, relationships, and sex is not about looking for the 'best deal', and what you call 'resources' a lot of people just consider normal life and even fun. Courtship is an exciting experience, hook up apps help scratch the itch of sexual desire, but it lacks intimacy and the 'chase' that so many people enjoy. a lot of people LOVE cuddling after, or even just cuddling in general. as for expensive, it can be if you're trying to go for gold diggers, but if i dont have money i just say 'hey come over and ill make you dinner'. and if their not into that, then we dont date, so no waste of 'resources'.

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>>18686384
Fug gravy says she wants da dig

>>18686384
What's exactly been "used for sex?"

>>18686457

knew i had feelings for her, led me on, asked if i wanted to fuck, tells me she doesn't like me afterwards

>>18686380
It depends on the job considered and the business idea. What are they op?

I wouldn't recomend taking risks. This is life we're talking about.

>>18686380

starting your own business will not lead to you being unemployed for life. if it doesn't work out you can jump in on a job later. there wont be a gap on your resume because OH LOOK YOU WERE RUNNING YOUR OWN BUSINESS FOR THE EXACT AMOUNT OF TIME SINCE YOU GRADUATED.

I don't use tinder.

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>me look like model
Now that is a pretty big statement.

Where do you live?

>>18686344
yo i'm also a super attractive femanon and i am always getting frustrated because ugly girls get so much more attention. i really have no idea how to handle this. i don't know if it's because they're eaiser, or easier to approach or what... i hate it too and i hate myself for it. i'm white

>>18686322
HVAC

OP here, applied to 2 different police departments and made it past polygraph part then was rejected shortly after . Was also rejected from a union electrician apprenticeship program

I do scaffolding in the refineries.

If you are willing to work long hours, you can make over 90k a year.

It is ass kicking labor, though, and if you are white, you are most likely the minority.

>>18686235
imo i don't think it's cheating

>>18686235
Does it make you upset?

For God's sake man could you fucking grow a pair? How insecure can these people get..

>>18686175
Stop worrying so much about your future

lel good luck with that

>>18686175
Move to east Asia and obtain an Asian waifu. Also find a fulfilling career path

>>18686152
work on your self-esteem. I know a good (french, untranslated in english) book, if you want.
practice.
http://www.improveyoursocialskills.com/conversation

>>18686152
Oh, and take care of yourself (good food, good sleep, good hygiene, good health).
And be your best friend (Talk to yourself and take care of yourself like you would do for your best friend, especially when you feel like you have done something wrong).

>>18686152
Benzodiazepines for short-term, antidepressants for long-term treatment. Self-help books, reading stuff online and similar is highly unlikely to ever help you in any meaningful way.

with lots of condoms and few expectations

Get tested for aids, she is a "free spirit" (a whore), sorry lad, you better move on.

>>18686135
Do you feel uncomfortable because of the amount of casual sex she has had in the passed?
>Yes
Break up with her, tell her it's because of that.
>No
Don't break up with her.

>the dentist left them half done
>all from eating lemons

I don't think so

post pics dude.

You should've stuck it out at the dentist you massive pussy.
I won't judge you for fucking up your teeth especially on accident but you were in a position to get it fucking fixed and you pussed out because it was good enough. Still good enough bitch?

>>18686105
Ok so:

My gf went out tonight to drink with her female friend

then when i was on facebook and there's a status saying "anon's gf is at bla bla bla hotel"

why is she at a hotel? she must be banging someone?

>>18686105
>starting college soon
>police force will recruit in a few months

what do?

>>18686260
I'd say she's getting rammed up the ass right now. Why would any women go to a hotel. Dude just drop the whore and continue on. If you want a girl go find a nice girl working hard supporting her family, not some stupid whore.

I tried for like three weeks, didn't make it to a month and sucks. Felt ok, came fucking buckets.

It probably will have good repercussions in your body and mind, and a porn detox should be good for you, but that deoends entirely on YOU

Do noporn, masturbation alone is fine.

>>18686078
at first sometimes i didnt feel like fucking myself then i just didnt feel like it
Everything is quite better now but you gotta have a girl or else you are dead

Make new friends

>>18686035
I am, but I hate seeing them have fun without me. It really bothers me for some reason

>>18686038

Stop following them on facebook.