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Has anyone here taken an online class at their uni or college needing the use of respondus lockdown browser for exams?

This shit is intrusive as fuck, and I don't want it on my computer, but the class says its mandatory. I've taken classes before that say they use it, and never used it. However this specific class has it plastered everywhere, but as far as I can see, I can just take the test anyways.

Is there a way around this, or should I just say fuck it and take it without the "special browser" and webcam.
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virtual machine retard
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>>18687180
doesn't work in vm environments for some reason. the browser just doesn't load, and the official statement is that it "knows"
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>>18687180
>lockdown broswer on vmware

wrong jim

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I just started uni 2 weeks ago aan i met a girl i really liked. I asked her if she wanted to get lunch tomorrow, and she said definitly. While it seems like i asked her out, i dont want her to interpret this as hanging out or a "friendship date". How do i make it clear to her that im interested in her without ruining it? I have no previous experience with girls
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Its gonna take multiple "dates" anon. You need to properly test the water. If you just flat out tell her you like her it won't end up well.
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>>18687143
Yeah i guess so. But is there any thing i should do? Like how should i drop hints or something?
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>>18687123
Dont get a girlfriend right in the beginning of college.
Just don't. You'll regret it later. Truuuust me

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Should I text my ex?

I told her to fuck off a year ago and she was quiet that entire time and then she drunk texted me saying she missed me. I've bitten my tongue for an unreasonable amount of time and want to send something that expresses how I feel about the situation but don't wanna respond with a long rant about how she's setting me back or anything like that. I'm thinking about going with a picture. Here are some options.
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What did she do?
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Congrats on having an option dude. Very happy for you getting drunk texted by an ex.

What are some good ways to deal and cheer up when depression hits?
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Cutting.
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>>18686946
Take walks. Grow plants. Read philosophy. If you have relatives who are kids, play with them. Hit the gym. Keep yourself busy and focused on the world around you instead of being focused on yourself.
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>>18686946

I usually drink some vodka and/or play video games. Just find something that can take your mind off of things for a while.

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I don't know where else to go for this honestly. I've had this weird BBC/Interracial "fetish" since I was about 18. It's not a regular interracial fetish, and if you saw what I looked/listened to, you'd call me a faggot.

Except I'm just not. I believe I'm not. Besides that I've always kind of watched porn with penises more often and looked at those instead of the vagina. But I really feel attracted to woman in real life, and I don't feel attracted to men at all.

I wasn't fapping for a while now. I recently fapped to big asses but only twice in 2 weeks, because I've been talking to this girl. It feels like I have something to do because I'm always talking to her. But what if it got more intimate? I have had "sex" before, and I couldn't get hard for the woman at all. I ate her out, but it didn't really do anything for me. What the fuck is wrong with me? Is it just the porn? Should I delete it all? What should I do? Seriously please help.
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>>18686918
porn induced erectile disfunction. I had it once, too. Go no porn.
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>>18686926
so delete it? do you think its really just porn thats my problem?
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you probably just have been a bit desensitized by porn. delete it all and give it a long break. Masterbate every now and then though (just not to porn), however do not go overboard with it. after a while you should "be" normal again.

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Hey /adv/ Im a college student and I just got a $750 gift card. Im honestly probably gonna spend it all on clothes and a pair of premium headphones (not all at once tho).

Be honest, this is a bad idea isn't it?
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>>18686912
There's nothing else you can spend it on, might as well
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Alternatively you could sell it to a friend for 600 and then invest in something
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>>18686912

i dont really believe in bad ideas. if your finances are taken care of via loans or family help then 750 isn't going to be much help in the long run. Spend it on something you need outside of your monthly neccisities. if thats new clothes, get some new clothes. i wouldn't waste money on premium headphones, but that's just me.

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>tfw want to be extroverted and get out but too introverted to do anything alone
Why the fuck am I like this?

I have opportunities to go out and try to have fun but going somewhere like a party alone is so intimidating.
I don't have any friends to go with to parties, so when I am able to work up enough courage to go, I'm usually just standing by myself, drinking and on my phone.
Music is too loud to talk to someone, almost everyone is in their own group, and girls are so defensive when any guy tries to talk to them.

Being this way makes me want to an hero.
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To be honest going out to bars and shit by yourself is hard, especially if you're not extremely outgoing. I suggest hitting up some old class/work mates, maybe even family to go with ya, at least once.
Even if all that fails, remeber that social life =/= going to bars and clubs
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Meetup.com

Awesome way to meet people and do stuff. Always really nice people too.
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>>18686919
Not 21 yet so not going to bars or clubs, which I'd much rather do.
Beginning of the semester always means fairly open frat parties or I'll be invited to them more often.
Last year I had a group of friends that would all go but now I don't have anyone.
I'm alone in my dorm room, far away from family, no real friends, and no connection to any acquaintances.

As I said in the OP, these parties aren't exactly loner friendly.

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I'm in college, my suitemate just walked in on my beating my meat. What the fuck do I do? Should I avoid him for a bit or pretend nothing happened? We're supposed to go to a party tonight but I don't really wanna be around him right now.
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no one cares

literally
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>>18686902
Do you mean he doesn't care or no one here cares and I should kill myself?
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>>18686900
Now you need to offer him to beat his meat too or he'll be offended. Don't be rude, OP, just offer him a tug.

how do i become good at conversations?
how do i become interesting to talk to?
im a friendless virgin and been a neet for the last 4 years i just recently got a job but it's stressing me out not because of the job but because i don't have friends at work
i always eat alone at lunch and breaks
people thinks im weird because im 6 foot tall and i act like a beta fag (which i think i really am)
how do i change this?
my routine when i was a neet was
>wake up
>jerk off
>vidya
>eat
>sleep
that i think it fucked up my already non existent social skills even more
talking to other people has become a chore for me and more stressful, more work and more difficult for than my current job
also i think one of the factors to my problems is that i have unusual interests and hobbies compared to "normal" people but i don't have fucked up interests like otakus and robots
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>>18686825
don't feel bad. i was like this for a while to. people will accept you as you start opening up to them more. some people might mess with you. but most people are nice and it doesn't really matter. you will make it op! :)
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Those are somewhat objective improvements you can make. I say somewhat because they are just facade but also a sure fire way to be more normie like.

You should definitely try some sort of self development course or coaching on skype or what not. You need practice in getting down the basics of communicating.

I read this in a dating advice book which is weird but I think it could work for you. A good part of communicating is entertaining yourself. Having fun and enjoying life pretty much. This was about getting dates and not coming off as desperate. Besides the functional aspect you communicate to entertain yourself, tell jokes, have banter, learn something interesting, etc. I think this is a good goal and decent way to be effevtive in communicating. But make this a sort of long term goal, make sure you have a good basic understanding of communicating and being a normie around normies before you spill some spaghetti at the wrong time and become an outcast. This is something you'll have to be careful about.

A good approach might also be to force yourself into social interactions, and a good place for you to do that is a place where you won't be judged much. I'd say volunteering or some sort of courses (salsa or ballet room dance or some sort of dance or maybe a fitness class idk). I've heard Meetup.com is nice but I can't confirm at all.

An important thing you'll have to understand is only you can help yourself. Nobody else can do this for you. You have to find that strength within yourself. Look on the brightside, if you aknowledge the existance of a problem you are half way to solving it.

Godspeed OP wish you the best of luck.

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Hi. I have a serious issue which is driving me crazy. I cant stop eating. I eat even when Im completely full and it hurts my stomach but I keep on eating. I found myself hiding food from my girlfriend and secretly eating when shes asleep. I gained so much weight in the past year its insane. How do I fix myself? I know its a mental thing but cant overcome it. Please help or direct me to the right direction before I get diabetes or lose the love of my life...
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Man or Woman?

Very important, be honest.
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Put a lock on everything and swallow the key
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>>18686809
Man

So a few weeks ago my aunt married her boyfriend,who is a pretty cool,down-to-earth kind of guy. However,I have noticed he has a bit of a problem with his gaming hobby. One day he told me he played AC 4 for a whole day when he was free from work,and I was pretty disappointed.
Regardless,how can I convince him to stop this degenerate hobby without trying to sound more ''grown-up'' than him? (30-ish people dont like when young adults try to give them tips). Like I said,he is a pretty swell guy,and I dont want my aunt to cheat on him with some nigger or whatever if he continues this nerdy crap.
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So to try to make a long story short, I was asked by a friend to film a band he was recording. I quickly regretted saying yes as I knew it would be a hassle, and when the day came it absolutely was. After filming for free and planning on putting together the video for free (both of which I have the equipment and the skill that I should be getting paid), my friend became an absolute bitch about sending me the song and insisted I send him what I shot so he could make the video! It was a lot of bullshit, but in the end I got the song and made a video out of it (thus expanding my portfolio), so hey whatever I got something out of it.

This was two months ago, today I found out my video was posted on the band's youtube a week after. It now has 47,000 views whereas mine has 100. They did not ask me, and I wouldn't make a video for someone else to post unless I got paid for it. They did credit my name in the description, but there's no link to my channel or site so it does dick all for me.

So here's the question, should I report it and get it taken it down? I'm not a spiteful person but you can imagine my annoyance when my video got massive views on someone else's channel while my own videos top out at 300, with most being under a 100. The other side to this is there's the video on my channel with their song on it, which they could have taken down if they wanted to retaliate. It wouldn't be huge to me losing that one video, but then I lose the only thing I got out of this damn thing.
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Also I don't think they're running ads. I use adblock but disabled it for that page and nothing came up, so at least they're not making money of it.
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nah. word of mouth is important for you. just work smarter in the future.
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>>18686711
mistake: today I found out my video was posted on the band's youtube a week after *I had posted the video on my channel

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I got IBS for about 7 years and there isnt a single day i dont think about killin myself. I have too much gas, sometimes it even hurts and its embarrassing. Ive been to at least 3 doctors and 1 dieticitian, none of them really helped me. I dont know what to do anymore.
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Could be worse faggot. There's kids who are terminally ill who stay positive. Quit making excuses.
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Try Xifaxan

Go to a doctor and specifically ask for it.
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>>18686656
i wish i was terminally ill , at this point my life would be easier that way.

>>18686661
We dont have that here in Brazil. If i didnt live in this shithole i would never have gotten sick to begin with.

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How do I find and talk to a QT that's in prison? I think the relationship would be more satisfying if you think about it.
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>>18686642

you could try signing up for some prison penpal program. not sure if those are real, just things you hear about on TV. could also volunteer at a prison, but there is very likely unspoken rules about men volunteering for these things to avoid the possibility of sex / rape scandals.
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>>18686642
Never thought of this option.
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>>18686676

I wanna be able to choose my penpal based on hotness tho. Think they will?

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are gay dudes turned on by straight dudes doing gay things for them? Can I earn money by doing lewd stuff for gay men?
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>>18686634

the majority of gay dudes, yeah. if you go to craigslist right now in los angeles 90% of the ads will say 'straight / bi guys only, married +'

they all act like there's just hundreds of straight men on the gay section of craigslist because their girlfriend conveniently wont suck dick that week and they cannot wait.

as for what you can do to make money off of it, mostly its letting them suck your dick. 150 a pop.
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>>18686634
It's called being gay for pay. Spoiler alert nigga you gay for even entertaining the thought.
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>>18686639
I'm a by choice virgin and would rather keep it that way until i meet a girl I love. So I'm not sure about letting them suck my dick, plus there's the chance of STDs. I'm also not from America I live in the UK but I imagine it's a similar thing. I was more thinking along the lines of doing lewd online stuff? Like selling videos of requests and stuff?

>>18686641
not gay I just really need money and this seems like a viable way to make it.

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