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I really like this palestinian arab girl in my class and I would love to get to know her better and go out but so far she seems extremely shy and I'm scared if I approached her I would be putting her at risk considering her muslim background and cause her trouble. Should I go for it anyway?
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>>18086078

Start by talking with her. No harm in that and you'll be getting to know her.
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>>18086078
I get the same feeling with a girl in my class.
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>>18086078
Leave her alone. One of her male relatives will kill her. Don't put her in jeopardy

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Does nofap / noporn really help? I did it for a week once and all I could think about was how good it would be when I could finally watch porn again. I was practically going insane. Does this stuff only work if you have an actual possibility of having sex?
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its not scientific in the least, do it if you want but don't expect it to actually change anything

that said it is a fact that the male reproductive system reaches peak performance after 3 days recharge, further waiting will not change anything. So masturbating/having sex only on the third day will make it more enjoyable if you want quality>quantity.
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>>18085738
my fetishes got way too extreme so I did nofap for a month, also stayed away from /b/ and all porn

after that month even a nasty pair of tits got me rock hard
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>>18085779
A month? Christ. After my 7 days it was like discovering porn for the first time again. How on earth did you last a month?

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4chan has changed, where do people who have a grasp on the world, but are not teenagers hang out? IT forums?
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outside, from the makers of IRL
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>>18085658
I get your point. But im specifically looking for forums.
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>>18085651
/His/>>18085651

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I often wonder that question. I feel like I was born a good person but fate warps us so harshly.

I remember never having desire to take revenge on people who wronged me or assailed me. Now I dream of revenge every day.

This world does such strange things to a man. How do you even keep a grip on who you are? It makes me wonder if I was ever good at all.

I just feel like fate has done me wrong. Every negative event outweighs the positive and all I want to do is like create the perfect revenge. The perfect revelation.

How do you keep a grip and just live? My mind is so engrossed in the wrongs against me that I can't see the rights.

All I think about these days is just why. Why was I mangled by fate. Then I come to the conclusion that I have to undo what fate has done to me and revenge is calling me.

I hate that people can just get away with things with no repercussions.

Am I just a crazy person? I don't feel very crazy. Usually a person that's nuts would know I'd imagine.
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>>18085591
Oh OP, how fascinating it is that this is the first thread that popped up upon opening 4chan.

I have become a spiteful and vengeful bastard, particularly towards women. In fact, today I had a fight with the girl I'm fucking, and now I plot revenge after I feel she wronged me. She got me to an emotional low and I feel humiliated. I managed to repair the situation, but only for the sole purpose of having the last laugh. Now, I'm gonna wait until the last day of semester, then simply text her
>thanks for the sex

Life has made me bitter, and now I do things such as this. I'm not even a fuckboy, just gonna use fuckboy tactics as a means to an end. Forgive me lord
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>>18085605
>beta scrambles to soothe a woman's feelings
>thinks sending her a single passive-aggressive text will be "revenge"

LMAO
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>>18085619
> t. Roastie

Back to your beta provider, run along

So im 22 and a virgin but this isnt a normal bitch whine and moan thread its more of a warning. I work a part time job and there are some girls there. They were really nice to me, little touchy which was nice and more open about being sexual and stuff. Like one girl wanted to teach me how to grind with a girl and rubbed her ass on my dick for a few seconds ( thankfully she dodged the insta boner lol) Another girl would always touch my arm or shoulders or waist and whatever. Basically a friend of mine got hired and just openly told them im a virgin I forgot why it came up but it leaked. Anyway ever since that day I get kinda shunned and I can tell they are more creeped out about it now. Like the girl who would grind my dick and give me a hug everyday hasnt do anything physical with me in 2 weeks. Im just here to warn virgins out there not to openly say your a virgin and hide it as much as possible. Only share it with the one you love or else your gonna become an outcast like me.
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>>18090152
i had sex with 3 different girls and none of them could tell i was a virgin... always keep it to urself to avoid drama
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>>18090169
Its like once they find out you become such a different person in their eyes. They kinda studder in convo's now and I can feel that they just feel off about it.
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>>18090169
>have sex with three girls
>somehow you're still a virgin after the first one
What?

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My girlfriend has started talking to me about this guy who's texting her and she is making various jabs at me about what he does better. I don't know who this guy is, or even if he exits, but I can tell that she's playing mindgames with me because she'll keep asking probing questions to try and see if I'm getting jealous or not. This relationship is only a month old. Wat do?
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Tell her she should date this other guy instead.

It'll either reign in her bullshit or you're better off without this nonsense anyway.
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>>18089751
This
>>18089770

If you want you can explain to her that she's pissing you off because she's trying to change you but overall yeah. She's probably not even your girlfriend anymore in her mind.
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>>18089751

anytime she makes a jab, jab back
>thats okay, i text lots of other girls too
>i dont mind, you should see some of the pics the girls send me

anytime she tries to make you mad, laugh like shes pathetic.

then break up with her with a smile on your face.

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I have a really hard time being "just friends" with women.

If I'm close friends with a women I find attractive (literally all of my close female friends desu) I'll probably have frequent... well... sexual thoughts about them. Maybe because us being close friends makes them more prominent in my head, idk. While I guess this may be natural it can cause problems, for example when I hangout with these girls I feel a large amount of sexual desire towards them and it can make it can really really get to my head and bring my mood down when I hangout with these people.

I'm not ashamed of myself for feeling this way, however the negative effect it has on my mood and overall mental state, and the fact an intense desire to hookup with someone can fuck with my head this much definately is concerning.
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>>18089407
I'm never "just friends" with women. I don't know why anyone would be. They don't seem like they would make for good ones. I've met like 3, maybe, that would.
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>>18089437
So should I just drop them from my life?

Despite these issues I have they really are good people and good friends to me. Super caring, loving and helpful.
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Learn how to self control yourself. I have no clue how old you are but hormonal changes isn't a surprising thing when it comes to the opposite sex when we're young. Just learn to deal with it, I mean mate... women aren't only there to sexually please people.

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So I work as a mechanic, anyways 4 people there hate me at work. Why? Because I must admit when I talk I talk like I'm better than everyone else. I don't mean it I swear, I just like to have debates.

For example: Co-worker: " Anon you can't be an atheist and enjoy Christmas "

Me: " Yes I can, I celebrate it different ways. I don't celebrate Jesus Christ's birth I celebrate the presents and that Santa Claus. "

Co-worker: " SHUT THE FUCK UP ANON. Your annoying. "

Female Co-worker:" Trolling, racism, and hate speech should be banned cause it kills people! "

Me: " Well it prevents our ability to express our opinion and hate for the president or other people. Which is against our freedom of speech. It'd be wrong to stop me from saying " I think my president is a fucking idiot ass nigger ", cause I'm expressing my hate for him. "

Co-workers: " OH MY GOD ANON NO ONE CARES "


Keep in mind I don't force the conversation on to them, they A: Talk to me about it or B: They talk about it in an open meeting where I'm free to express my opinion.

But everyone hating me at work makes me feel like an asshole. So am I an asshole? Should I just not talk?
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I used to think I was a massive asshole at work, but then I got a job with people who were better educated and more introverted, and then I realized I'd previously been working with people who just hated me and were deeply insecure.
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>>18089254
Argument consists of premises and a conclusion. Conclusions on their own lead nowhere without interlocutor's desire to find the premises. To challenge something, you need to undermine the premises, or the process by which conclusion is derived (find fallacies, that is), which also requires knowing the premises. To convince someone, you need to introduce and agree on the premises, and derive the conclusion.
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it's possible you sound like an asshole but it's more likely that you're working with people who can't handle opposing viewpoints
try being overly considerate next time they talk to you and see how they take it

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Guys I love my GF so much but at the same time all I can think about is fucking random women. I see women always eyeing me and some old flames have talked to me.

I don't know what to do about my thoughts. I love her and don't want to leave the relationship at the same time all I ever want to do is get some strange.

I can't leave because I feel I would hurt her and myself too much. But I want to experience other things. I feel hindered by her at times yet at the same time we both prop each other up.
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>>18088950
Try to work on your relationship and get closer to her, or leave her.
When you're fulfilled and happy in your relationship you don't get those thoughts.
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I'm the same and I'm married

I figure I may as well get it out of my system while I'm young

Life is too short to get worked up over morals
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>>18088952

I am happy. When I cuddle her I get a warm feeling of contentness. We are very emotionally close.

At the same time i just wanna stick my dick in warm novel pussies.

I feel like there's something wrong with me. I'm pleagued with guilt over it. There's a disconnect of what society says a relationship is and what I feel.

I want to have multiple relationships, ideally. She would never agree to it and I'm not into the idea of polyamory. It's confusing.

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Here's one for /adv/,

I recently got a new job, it's a demanding field and I make 150K. i am a white male and there is an african american guy who works with me who HATES me and keeps trying to get me set up to get fired.

i think he is racist against white people and he keeps asking me "who i voted for".

i really like my job, i honestly have nothing against this guy but i want the problem to stop. what do?
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>>18088552
Build the closest possible relationship you can with the managers, joke with them and talk to them constantly. Get in with them as good as you can. Be very careful about any work or information you deal with that he has access too. People of this type will,try to dig up petty political ammunition against you to sabotage your career. The easiest defense is to stay calm and ignore any shit comments he says, disarm them. He asks what political party you voted for say "it's all rigged man, I don't vote" even if that's a lie.

I'll give you examples from my work. A coworker got it in her head that the quickest way to move forward was to try to find errors that you make in your work and gather them together to show management as often as possible. Her typical thing was to not do her workload and dump it on other people, causing them to do rushed work. We check out batches for entering accounting data, and we leave the total blank since it always get added to for example. She will wait until the accounting sup comes in and loudly criticize you to make sure it seems like you are incompetent even when you are following standard procedures. This was impossible to defend against at first because I didn't have a close relationship with my sup.

Now however the lead is mostly in charge and her and I work hand in glove and talk daily. When this girl tries to be petty, she gets called out on it. Often I've gone to the lead and asked her hiw she wanted something handled, then this girl gets it to review. When she trues to make me look stupid to the lead it's over something the lead specifically requested we do and she looks like an idiot trying to make whatever it is look stupid because it's what they want done.
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>>18088552
What feild is it in? Like what type of stuff do you do?
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you make 150k a year

who gives a fuck what some idiot thinks that has seemingly no effect on your job except it kind of hurts your feelings

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My GF has the body of a refrigerator. Like her boobs arent even that big for her frame. Pancake ass and sloppy thighs. Looks like shes never lifted a weight a day in her life.
I met her and we've been friends for years. So after a while I got used to it and her personality is really cool and after hooking up a few times we started dating.
But fuck man, Ive been going the my fap collection and like, I feel like I failed. I want a girl who looks like pic related. Skinny waist, 5'8 and giant boobs that hang off her frame.
I mean look at this shit https://twitter.com/mila_azul?lang=en
Obviously I don't expect my gf to have the exact same ridiculous stats but like, the difference between what my penis likes and my gf is too fucking huge.
Like the reason why I even looked at my fap collection is because it feels like my libido is shot. I thought it was depression or something and tried looking at hot girls to see if it was that. Basically I only want to cuddle my gf and thought that was normal, but looking at chicks like this my dick wants to go to pound town on them.
Any advice is welcome.
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>>18088536
Dump your girlfriend and find one you like.
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>>18088543
I like her personality
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>>18088536
>https://twitter.com/mila_azul?lang=en

Stop looking at fake, Photoshop, plastic bodies.

You have an unrealistic standard of beauty in women, one that you will likely never find anyone to live up to. Because quite literally these people dont exist, except for in the cyber realm after being photo shopped to all hell.

I mean yeah, some people out there get close to this pretty, but there's a slim to nill chance you'll ever have the opportunity to seriously date them.

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There;s this girl at my work. She's 18 and fresh out of HS. She's incredibly attractive. The managers at work told me she's a distraction because every guy is hitting on her. I didn't give her this kind of pussy of a pedestal type interest, constantly trying to interact with her.

Well, I noticed she was really shy around me. If I need my shift covered, she always tried to drag out the conversation. She would also pick up pens that I dropped behind me, open doors for me (which is unusual), and always smile when I just look at her.

I finally worked with her directly for awhile on the weekend. Wow. She's actually fun to be around. She definitely worked extra hard because I was there. She was so bashful and awkward and it was just so fucking cute and adorable to me.

I really want to pursue her. I just want to, I don't know, cuddle that gorgeous girl. I noticed some big red flags though; 180k points on snapchat is one. She gets like 100 points a day. All the other guys who pursued her basically hit a brick wall. I think they gave her too much attention and thats why they failed. I think she might be an attention whore, but I can just feel the attraction with her... you know, you can just tell when you're with someone and looking into eachother's eyes... it's there.

I'm way older, 25. I honestly just want to cut all the bullshit and ask her out but I know I have to do some small talk. I dont know when I'll see her in person next but I it's hard to wait, it's hard to not just text her, but I know I should just not text and wait for the next time at work?

Opinions? I have ideas for what to text her too.
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25 is not way older.
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>>18088367
It kinda is tho
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>>18088367

Some of my friends think it is, but our group is 18-25. I think it;s fine too. She doesn't know the age difference but I look from 22-25ish. Either way I don't care.

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how the hell do i deal with a distrustful partner?

i get it, he's insecure and away a lot. i take that into consideration. i try my best to help him trust me (he always knows where i am and with whom and what we're up to/ i have cut contact with any male friends/ he has full access to all my devices and accounts/ i'm always honest with him).

he doesn't outright tell me he distrusts me. but his behaviour is driving me insane.
for example, he does "surprise visits". he masks them as "i missed you, i wanted to see you, i wanted to surprise you". but i can see the suspicion in his face and i HATE it. i feel like he thinks i'm some deceitful snake in disguise.
when i'm on my phone, ha ALWAYS asks me what i'm doing and glances at the screen.
when we're appart, he makes a HUGE drama out of it and it makes me feel trapped.
we won't see each other for 2 weeks. we're one day in and he says stuff like "it BURDENS me that i won't see you this long". it saddens me that my first thought when i've read that was "yeah, you're just sad you can't controle my every move". i don't want that.

please help me...

and yes, i've talked about it to him. he just waves it off as "i just love you more". wtf...
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Dump him.
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Break up with him then.
Seriously, someone so paranoid is going to run your therapy bill up by the thousands...assuming you have anything left in there.

Seriously, he sounds like a clingy beta ass creep.
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>>18088329
yeah... i'd rather work this out.

My gf went on a couple of dates with a guy at her work. He never made a move so she lost attraction and friendzoned him. But I know from somebody at her work that they take their lunch break together and she will tell/vent about problems in our relationship. (hes like her confident) what do you guys think I should do about it? I cant tell her about him or she will think im stalking her, but I dont I like that she has an orbiter wich she feels some attraction for. I dont really feel threatened at the same time because the guy is a low energy beta cuck.
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If she's inclined to cheat, not taking her lunch break with him isn't going to stop her.
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>>18088319
/thread
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>>18088319
she is not inclined to break. Well atleast not right now. We are a new couple and still in the honeymoon phase. her profile pic is with me, her phone background is me. I mean She really likes me. But I dont like that shes keeping this beta around as backup I guess?

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I have ridiculously large breasts that give me incredible back pain. My boyfriend is completely against me getting a breast reduction and said "things wouldn't be the same" if I did.

However my doctors all recommend that I do but my boyfriend is hanging onto the "in the end it's your decision" that the doctors said. What do?
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Well if your boyfriend cares more about your tits than your personality then you should get rid of both of them.
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Dump your boyfriend and get a breast reduction. Your boyfriend is selfish and cares more about tits than your physical comfort.
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You should do what makes you happy. That is the most important thing. It's no one final decision but your own.

THAT BEING SAID, I can see why your boyfriend would want you NOT to get it done. I'm very into girls with big breasts (What man isn't) and it is one of the biggest psychical turns on ever.

I know this is a dumb question, but have you tried working out? Boobs are one of the first things to go, it could help.

BTW, if I ask.. how big are we talking here, how much do you weight and height? I need to know for science!

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