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Welp, I've been hanging out with this girl since september, and I got her pregnant 8 weeks ago.

I. Am. Fucking. Scared.

I'm scared shitless of telling my parents, I owe them $30 000 and I've had 2 DUIs, the thought of them looking at me as an absolute failure because of this completely preventable pregnancy cherry on top makes me physically ill.

On top of that, I have doubts that this girl and I could last 19 years together. Something about her tells me that she's gonna dip out, and I'm going to be living by myself, with no significant other or my child under the same roof, and that thought makes me want to cry.

I'm losing it here, can someone please help me feel better?
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>>18090906
ur life is over dude

congrats on bein a dad :)
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Lol kill yourself my man
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>>18090906
>2 duis
>owes own family 30k

>gee their vision of a perfect son will be shattered when they find out I knocked up some slut!

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She deactivated her account and disappeared.

She's not saying she's going to kill herself, is she? She has horrible depression and anxiety
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>>18090900
She is saying that, but I'm guessing she's a teenage girl. At worst, she'll cut her wrists and take 3 Advil.

If you're really worried, call her parents, or call 911 and say your friend is threatening suicide and you're worried about her. They'll send someone to come check on her. (This is assuming you know her IRL. If she's just an internet friend, you can't do anything.)
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>>18090905
26, and more than just an internet friend

I mean thanks. I needed someone else to read it because I blow things out of proportion sometimes

fuck who can I call
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>>18090934
If you know her address, call 911 and say your friend is threatening to kill herself, here is the address.

Pls update us...

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I don't know what it is about me /adv/. I have a really hard time enjoying a lot of things.

you want to know what enjoyment is to me? Taking long naps in the middle of the day while its raining or snowing outside. That is enjoyment to me. Or spending all day jerking off and laying in bed. or sleeping regularly and at any moment that I feel tired.

My friends ask me to go to a bar(I have never been in a bar) and all I can think is "If I did go, what would I do?" I don't drink and I hate mingling.

Then they ask me "So what do YOU want to do!?" and I just lie and say I don't know when in reality, I would like to just say "Lay in bed and sleep."

This also affects my dating life. I have been on one date in like the past 3 years. The girl thought I was dreadfully boring and very passive. What is wrong with me?

I don't have that "thirst for life" that everyone else seems to have. I feel drained of energy like all the time. I get 8 hours of sleep and still feel like shit when I wake up. then I sleep some more and then feel like super shit.

What the fuck am I to do? Like right now, I am just dreaming about bed. When I get up in the morning, I get up and think "WOW, I CAN'T WAIT TO GO BACK TO BED AFTER WORK!!!"

Its fucked. I really need help you guys. I don't feel like I am supposed to live like this. Bed is killing me I think.
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Depression
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>>18090845
how to fix it?
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im the same OP... i get called boring all the time it sucks... every time i go to my boyfriend's house all i do is fall asleep in his bed and i'm pretty sure he hates it... that's all i ever wanna do is sleep... i only go to school for about 4 hours a day so i spend the rest of the time either sleeping in my bed or watching movies in my bed. i have major depression as well so i'm guessing you have some form of it. even while on medication i can't quite seem how to kick it

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I'm a formerly overweight guy who's now fit. For some reason when I go out at night now, I'm a magnet for fatties. My last two sexual encounters have been with women sized like pic related, and by the time I've been in bed with them for 5 minutes, I'm disgusted with her and myself, and I struggle to maintain an erection. It doesn't help that they get tired so quickly and I'm forced to do most of the work.

I believe you should treat everyone with respect, but now I feel the need to sham fat women when they come on to me. As a former fatty, I look back on my old self as spoiled, lazy and weak-minded. They need a kick in the ass, and I want them to leave me alone.

I realize I'm heading down a very unhealthy path in my head. Can someone please give me a better outlook I can tell myself when I see these women, one that can hold up with my disdain for their gross appearance?
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>>18090755
Don't hate them in general but hating them in a sexual manner is fine because fatties don't deserve anything sexual done to them
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don't sleep with them, no matter how desperate you are
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>>18090755

Why the fuck are you sleeping with people if you don't find them attractive?

Also;
>I realize I'm heading down a very unhealthy path in my head.

You're /fit/ now, get that "nice guy" tumblr male feminist bullshit out your head.
If you're not attracted to someone then you're not attracted to someone. That's that., and quite frankly, if they want /fit/ guys, maybe they should work a little harder to be attractive to you then.
Yeah, they'll kick and scream and throw their tumblr hissy fits, they'll tell you that you should feel lucky you're getting access to their temple of a body (kek) and the same bullshit women have been throwing out for decades.

But you can turn around with the smuggest fucking smile and say "You're not entitled to sex".

Besides, different strokes for different folks. If they can't handle that, plenty of fish in the sea, those whales need to swim in different oceans.

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Hey fags, just a suicidal teen here. Constantly exhausted because I have to fight suicidal urges and depressing thoughts while simultaneously trying to not fail my classes. My brain's a fucking mess. Im not going to kill myself anytime soon, because I dont want to pass on my suffering to my GF and all my friends, but I really want to end my suffering all the time. Any tips on keeping a clear mind and clean concience?
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Also, I like drawing the shit that pours into my head
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I was a lot like this. Writing helped get the thoughts out of my head. Destroy it when you're done if that helps.
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>gf and friends
>suicidal
suuure

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FUCKING KILL ME.

I just want to be attractive to girls. Femanons, do I need to be muscley to attract girls? Or are girls at all attracted to guys that run? Like, if I said that I ran a marathon and do intense runs all the time, would that be attractive? I honestly prefer running to weight lifting but I don't really know how girls feel about this.

Either way, obviously I have to stop being so skinny. I am stuffing my face every second of the day, I literally don't enjoy a single meal I eat, and I always feel like I'm on the verge of throwing up. I've been doing this for 3 weeks and you can still see my fucking ribcage.
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I wouldn't do anything that I didn't want to do to attract girls. Just do what you love and be passionate about it. I have a friend who's just as skinny that is super passionate about LoL and he got into a relationship while visiting Boston. Fully realizing that you don't need to be in a relationship to be happy is when you're ready for one. Enjoy life, and good luck.
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Unless you're significantly underweight, being skinny is not your problem
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being a marathoner is pretty attractive dude

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Has anyone on 4chan decided to go for a trap cos they couldn't get pussy ( for whatever reason)? How'd you do it? What was it like? And did you regret it?

(Not talking about shemale escorts, just tumblr traps.)
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Shameless bump. I need to know. I'm close to doing it myself.
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>>18090681
there are two popular and fantastic screencaps about it. check them out at basically every YLYL on /b/
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>>18090763
Could you post them here?

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just been lying on my bed for an hour thinking about how pointless my life is, typed up some bullshit on facebook and then deleted it before posting.
im a guy, i dont talk about myself and how shit my life is to my friends, at least when i had any. but maybe if people saw just a part of my mentality they would understand, maybe those who cut off contact would give me some slack for whatever wrong they have percieved?
I cringe at social retards who complain at their self affirmed lot like i cringe at the ugly beta orbiters who blush over pretty girls pictures (these groups usually intersect) but these people have constantly made idiotic decisions and other than abject poverty i dont have a clue what ive done wrong.
I seem to have gone offtrack somewhat, so, should i post to facebook what i was going to?
would you connect with an old friend if you saw they were struggling?
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Here for you man, sorta get how you feel. What were you going to post to Facebook?
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>>18090438
Nice pic.

You must have some sort of social...weakness i.e. boring or just have unrelatable interests.

How old are you?
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You sound pretentious.

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How do you make penetration feel less bad?
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>>18090421
need more details.
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>>18090421
If you're guy is complaining that penetration is hurting, try using a smaller strap on for a while.
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>>18090462
>you're
I dun goofed.

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Are there any actually good PUA books/videos?
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If there were, don't you think you'd hear about them?
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>>18090379
I never been interested in this subject so no, not really.
Besides ad populum is not an argument
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>>18090373
maybe models by mark manson

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I have and employee who works harder than anyone I've got, unfortunately they're the poorest as far as quality of work. Requesting suggestions to help them.
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>>18090358
Give training.
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>>18090358
you sound like you think the person is your property or something.
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>>18090420
You sound like a faggot NEET who calls people wagecucks.

Spoiler alert: When you work someone who is your boss, and they sign your checks, and you're on their time then they can tell you what to do. If you don't like it you have every right to leave.

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When is it the right time to have a conversation with someone your dating about their finances and professional life?

I've been dating this guy for 6 months now and it's going great. However, he currently works a shitty part-time job with a bunch of high school kids. He's an able-bodied 27 year old adult man who also still lives at home with his parents and pays no bills. Most of his paycheck each week goes to weed and cigarettes.

Don't get me wrong, I love this guy to death and he is great to me, but I can't see the relationship progressing to the next step (moving in together, marriage, etc.) until he makes some life changes. I don't expect him to start raking in a ton of money or anything, but I do expect him to work a full-time job and make at least enough money to provide for himself, and I expect some prioritization in his life.

When is this topic appropriate to bring up? I ask because I know money is a very sensitive topic for people, and I don't want him to feel like I'm ambushing him. I'm also not sure if I should bring it up now, or later on down the road when we start having discussions about moving in together (probably will happen near the end of this year).
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>>18090326
what does he do? is he in school?
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wow this is a really COOl post my man really good post I'm reading it I read it 5 times by now oops I read it 7 now hahaha I can't stop reading your post I want to marry this post now that I think about it really GOOD post I'm just kind of not even sure how to proceed from here ahaha I'm a little nervous sorry
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Obvious bait is obvious bait.

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How do I deal with loneliness and low self esteem?

18m
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At 18, loneliness and low self-esteem are pretty normal anon. Filling your day with things does help though, especially if it involves other people.
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>>18090272
Get used to it, it's not going to get any better.
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>>18090272
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeLpvgAVtU8

Hey guys I need some advice.

I met the most soulful and passionate person I've ever met (lets call her Rach). We had so much in common, eventually we started growing feelings for eachother and down the line we started to date.

This was unlike any relationship I've ever been in, she was driven and was charismatic. She was the most intelligent person I have ever met, her parents love me and I was the first guy that they ever felt comfortable for us to be in the same room (they're not strict, just your average parents who'd want to know me first) and even didn't mind her coming to me.

At one point even her mum knew we smoked together, and she didn't care as long as we were happy. Because Rach was very happy, and her family knew I had good intentions.

When we started to date we hardly saw eachother, then right before I moved house we started to see eachother frequently. I moved into a suburb not far from her, and we practically would see eachother at least once or three times a week. Even at some points more than that.

During the time I was moving her parents offered for me to stay at their house (because my apartment wasn't ready at the time), Rach's dad was always and still is the nicest man I've ever met.

I've never had a good relationship with my father (ever since he had an affair with my mother) so I looked up to him, her dad helped me move house among other things (he serviced my car as well whenever it needed work).

Her mum was the same, she is the most loving mother I've ever met. Welcoming me into her home and saying I can come at any time, always supporting me and asking me how life was.

It was the greatest time of my life, at one point they even trusted me so much they asked me to look after their house whilst they went on holiday (They would have taken me too, but I was working as a christmas casual). They all helped me find a job when I needed help, and they supported me when my parents had their yearly falling outs.

CONTINUE
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>>18090200
OP HERE

It might have been around January, but I felt like I was annoying her. She didn't act distant or anything, I just felt like I was being clingy or something.

She reassured me I wasn't, and at one point spent an entire week at my house. This was one of my fondest memories, we used to watch Netflix in bed and just forget all the troubles of life.

We never fought and I never got mad at her, so I didn't think much of the awkward stint in January. I don't even think about it now.

In Febuary Rach's relatives on both her father and mothers side got very sick (both with cancer of some sort), both of her parents went to see them and it was a very emotional time for her.

I supported her through it, and still do today. She was swamped because she was making the move to fulltime work and studying for uni online because she had no time to go to a university (also her course wasn't what she wanted to do anymore).

But I still saw her, I still loved her and I still wanted to make sure she was okay. I was strong for her, she even said several times that I was her rock.

But then she started to say how she thought I deserved a better girlfriend, at first I thought nothing of it. She's never self doubted before, but everyone goes through these rough patches.

I would reassure her that she was the one for me, that I love her unconditionally and that things haven't changed for me.

Eventually she took me out to dinner, explaining how she thought she was mistreating me. That she wasn't giving me attention, that she feels like she wasn't being a solid girlfriend.

I know that she was and is going through a rough patch, so I reassured her that everything was going to be okay. She then said that she thinks that things might just get worse, and said she thinks we should break up.

CONTINUE
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>>18090225
OP HERE

My stomach hurt, my hands shook and my heart sunk. I couldn't bare to look at our food, all I could see was her fighting back her tears.

I tried to tell her that everything was going to be okay, that she doesn't mistreat me and that we've never fought and that I love her.

She said "I love you too", we ended up leaving the restaurant to go to a beach. Whilst we sat at the benches I told her how I felt, that she's going through a hard time and that I love her.

She said "stop", and I looked over to see her crying and I couldn't bare to see her cry. I held her close to my chest and rubbed her back, she sobbed and then I looked at her in the eyes and we kissed passionately.

And I don't know if that was right or wrong, but I kissed her and told her everything was going to be okay. That if she wants to break up, I wont go against it.

But that if she changes her mind, or wants to tell me she still wants to be in a relationship that I'm always here.

We still talk, and even after the beach we acted like we always have. Getting out of her car was the hardest, I wanted to kiss her, but I just hugged her and sat down on a chair outside my apartment and cried a river.

I couldn't sleep that night, all I dreamt was that it never happened. I haven't been able to eat, everytime I do I feel sick, and I haven't been able to stop the bouts of tears that hit me from time to time.

I don't know what to do, I love her with all my heart. I know she isn't seeking anyone, but I don't know how I will react if I ever saw her in another relationship.

What should I do?
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Even before your story is finished, let me tell you that when a girl takes up the "you're too good for me", 99% of the time, it's because of one of these reasons:
1. She cheated on you or is planning to. By making you break up, she can go and have sex without any bad feelings.
2. She is testing you. By throwing compliments at you, she'll see how you react to different things and ultimately if you're fit as a life partner/father to her child. Take caution when replying as the compliments can be double-edged swords.

Good luck.

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I'm 20, met my roommate (20) last year. I don't think I'm gay

But about last year 2 months into him moving in we were watching tftc and talking, one thing led to the other and I was sucking his dick like, 2 hours in. Since then we've done a lot of stuff together, like going out or whatever. And he's fucked me a few times.

What happened?
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idk man sexuality is fluid for some and not for others. You may be bisexual but straight people experiment as well and just cause you sucked a dick doesn't mean you're gay.
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>>18090219

i think i like him now though....
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>>18090194
>I don't think I'm gay
>I was sucking his dick
>And he's fucked me a few times
As long as you remember to say "no homo" first you'll be fine. Also enjoy your hiv, filthy degenerate scum.

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