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Im about to start uni in a bit more than a week and i just recently found out about all these raves that are taking place the first and second week of arriving there. I've never really experienced hardcore partying and i'm feeling a bit intimidated by this. It seems that i also have to order tickets in advance, not knowing whether people i will be hanging out with will be going or not. What do you guys think? I also feel that if i don't go to these raves i will be given a severe social relations handicap.

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So me [M19] and this gal [F20] dated for about a year and a half. The relationship was great at the start and then over time it degraded till we couldn't stand each other. We both were abusive verbal and physical and she reported it and through our school I have sanctions put on me. Thankfully due to these I have learned alot about myself. We recently started talking again and she wants to date. Being honest I don't know what to do I still love her but I'm not sure where to go from this point.

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alright /adv/
i havent found anything on google about this so i came her as i have nowhere else to ask
every single day for at least 6 years now and im only 20 i have woken up wishing i was with a girl, oOoOoO get a girl then hurp derp, nah mate, it doesnt work like that im afraid, i have AS and no job and no motivation, im not interesting in girls who i dont find attractive and the girls i find attractive, dont find me attractive because i have AS and no job not because of my looks ive worked out. SO HOW DO I STOP WANTING GIRLS, ITS RUINING MY LIFE, all i think is what is the point in anything, i cant have what i want anyways, HOW DO I CHANNEL THIS MOTIVATION INTO SOMETHING GOOD INSTEAD OF GIRLS, masturbation doesnt solve the problem either, i also take loads of drugs, i CANT get these girls, i NEED a way to still be motivated yet not for girls

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>international student
>plan on staying in the US after I graduate
>people tell me I won't find a visa sponsoring employer with a business major and that I should check engineering out
>I start considering Computer Engineering
>decide overnight to get an associate in engineering then transfer to a 4year for a bachelor's

What do you think anons?
Is it gonna be impossible de find an employer that could sponsor my ass?
Associate's I'm taking
https://degreeprograms.gtcc.edu/associate-in-engineering-ae/

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/adv/, I just started university and have no idea what to do. It's so confusing to me and I don't feel like I can work. Is there any tips to what to do so it doesn't feel overbearing and stressful?

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How do I convince my parents to move out for university next semester? I'll be paying the rent myself, I don't want to live at home because I have no autonomy here

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I think looking at all the trending artists has somehow taken away my own voice in art

It put an anxiety inside me that I realized is similar to back when I was too afraid to be honest with my parents

I would like to get over this hurdle just as I came to be honest with them.

It really feels like the artists who dominate social media right now are the 'untouchable adults' that I used to see my parents as.

I want to wedge myself into their world and shove people aside to make space for me. I'm not sure how to, I feel my stomach turning, the anxiety is just so great.

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19 y.o. Living in Seychelles. Good at Sciences and Drawing. Got 3As in Cambridge A-Levels in Chemistry, Physics and Mathematics and 2as in French and Design & Tech. I have around $15,000 in the bank (from my grandfather's inheritance) which I plan to use to set up my business. What should I study at university? (list all courses you think would be helpful) Would it be wiser to do an online course at at international college rather than going to the local university? (I can't afford to study abroad.)

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trigger warning: baaawing

this year has proven me that it doesn't matter how nice and supportive you're, people are going to screw you. four of the closest people i've had in my life backstabbed me, mistreated me or just plain psychologically abused me.

... the best part? they can live with it a happy remorse-free life, no sincere apologies, no karma.

one of them even admitted to being psycologically abusive to me. his karma? got a new job and new hot gf.

Another one brought up my issues of depression during an unrelated discussion, then blamed me for being upset. her karma? graduated and got a new house and bf.

None of them bothered about hurting me, living happy lives. Ane I don't mean to toot my own horn, but I was a great friend to ALL of them. Listening them, not talking behind them, helping them when solicited (and also when not), being considerate, etc.

But they're happy and moved on, meanwhile, I'm afraid of going out because I can't trust people anymore. And I don't seem to get better over the months, I have to abstain going places because some of them might be there.

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Hey /adv/,

First time posting here, but I could really do with some help. Let me explain the situation.

>Be me
>Living with gf for about 3 years now in a house we rent
>She loves it because it even has a nice little fireplace where she burns logs and stuff
>For the past year and a half, I've been masturbating in the living room when she's out or asleep and throwing the tissues onto the fire

Easy removal of evidence, right?

>She has no idea that this is happening, and I'm even good at making sure there's nothing left at all to discover
>Always remarking to friends about how cute and cozy the fireplace is
>Yesterday
>Hear a drop from the letterbox
>Small box with her name on it
>Bring it to her
>It's a weird pen
>She remembers she entered some pointless tech like and share competition to try to win some shit for her kid brother
>Turns out it's a blacklight
>She's initially unimpressed until it starts catching white stuff and making it all neon-ish
>Walking around the house strobing things

>Lets it pass over the fireplace
>White splotches
>Lots of white spatters and splotches
>Didn't realize my cum had soaked into the soot after slam dunking my jizzrags into the fire too many times
>She's asking questions
>Can't answer properly, try to explain some weird far out "Tree sap" bullshit
>Not buying it
>Realises it's cum
>Huge fight ensues
>Says she's disgusted that her and her friends have been staring at my semen for 18 months
>Not talking to me

So anyway, how do I get this bitch to understand she's being irrational?

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Gimme a quick rundown on fraternities. As a year 1 student, thinking of joining one to meet new people, go to parties, and solidify my application to the student union for a certain position and maybe even president later one. Ideas?

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So , more or less two or three months ago I discover that I really enjoy making videogames in a general manner , except programming , I ended with the conclusion of that I want to be a game director since I want to help in all departments , I already have three ideas for games and my plan it's to develop these ideas while I study to have a consistent game idea when I get to seek for a job.

The thing it's , what if anything of this really happens ?
What if it just ends being a dead dream ?
I need to get self confidence , but I can't get any , it doesn't matter where I look , it just looks like this is going to be , well , just a dream.
I'm specially scared of this since this dream it's the only thing that keeps me wanting to live , before discovering I didn't really had any real hobby's or anything that I wanted to dedicate my life in , and sincerely , I don't really want to work in a supermarket 9 hours per day.
I don't like saying this , but I really think this is the only thing that has make me happy since a really long time , so , /adv/ what I should to ? I should abandone this unrealistic dream ? I should try to get more confidence in myself ? If then , how ?

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How do I meet new people, if I live in the suburbs? I rarely go downtown and my city is strictly a driving city

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>leave keys in mailbox
>stepbrother goes back to pick them up
>leaves them on counter for my step mom to grab
>my fault when they go missing
>take car charger from grandma's car
>puts it in step moms car
>my fault when it goes missing
Why?