Is something wrong with my eyes
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>>18086792
Not that I can tell.
why do you think so?
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>>18086792
They're ok
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>>18086811
not sure why people seem to look at me funny, maybe they dont and im just self conscious
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I need some life advice
I thought I knew what I wanted to be, but I found that it is way harder than I expected. I feel that I want to do something different, but I'm waiting for someone to tell me to do it, and I hate that. I feel like I'm reverting back to the way I used to be even after I have worked so hard to get past that point in my life. Even now I'm just looking for excuses.
I just don't have the motivation anymore. I wish someone could just tell me what to do, but I don't want that.
Fuck I am so lost you guys
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well, what are you interested in?
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>>18086770
Do you want to do something else because your "old" goals are hard to reach? If so, don't switch. You'll always chicken out, no matter what you do.
>I just don't have the motivation anymore.
Discipline > motivation
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>>18086775
Veterinary medicine
>>18086781
They weren't necessarily old or new I guess. My first area of study was economics. I'm having the worst time with sciences right now
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Friends with benefits I broke relationship with kinda horribly wants to meet me in person again to tell me something but he won't tell me through chat. It doesn't help we were childhood friends, and he's a NEET now. Should I go and listen to him? Is he planning to kill me?
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Friend*
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Just meet with him in public
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>>18086742
why, last time my ex listen to one fwb in a similar situation he hit her in the head, tied her up and tried to rape her
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How the fuck did I get into this situation...
So, I had a girlfriend for about 3 1/2 years and we broke up around 9 months ago.
She lies a lot and that's why I broke up with her.
For some reason I still let her stay with me and it never really felt like we broke up but every time I asked her to leave after I found out she lied again, she would pack her stuff then we'd talk before she has to go and we'd sort it out and she'd stay again.
This happens every so often, again, it doesn't feel like we broke up.
Skip to about 10 mins ago.
She told me about her night when she went out into the town with her friend but her story didn't add up to a second source and I got paranoid and checked her Facebook messages.
Turns out she lied again.
I am going to tell her to leave again.
Any similar stories?
Why should I have done the first time?
Is this normal?
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OP here
Small error
I found out she lied about 10 mins ago. She didn't tell me about her night then I check her Facebook right in front of her.
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>>18086653
Grow a pair and kick her out if you own the place
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>>18086653
Yeah and you should have kicked her out the first time
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How do I find a roommate if I have no friends? I'm sick of living with parents and too poor to move out on my own.
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>>18086565
Internet.
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>>18086565
What the hell? Just move with people you dont know
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>>18086565
If you're in college, you can usually find roommates pretty easily close to campus, most colleges have some kind of roommate seeking system specifically for this
If not, I guess you could always browse around on Craigslist?
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So I'm thinking of creating a transformative blog with videos and pictures. I know that there is a particular fetish that has to do with "transforming" your physical appearance to become more.. shall we say.."overtly sexual". But that's not EXACTLY what I want to do in this case. Would this even be an endeavor worth pursuing? I just want to show those who have trouble transforming their body and their lives, like I have in the past, this it is possible. Think it would be worth anyone's time?
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>is hypothetical thing good
I'unno
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>>18086457
I get what you're saying (was that really saying anything..?) but this is an advice board. Plenty of others have posted of hypothetical situations.
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>>18086475
They provide context, you provide jack shit. Forget an example of a blogpost, an infographic, or a video, you didn't even begin to define what exactly are you up to, or what your credentials are.
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How to overcome masturbation-induced delayed ejaculation? 2017-02-27 02:20:16 Post No.18086209
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How to overcome masturbation-induced delayed ejaculation?
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In middle school and high school I was in the habit of masturbating once a day, but since starting college (in year 2) I dropped to 3 to 4 times a week. I never really thought I had much of a problem until very recently.
In the last month I've started having physical sexual experiences with a partner for the first time in my life, and I'm having a very difficult time reaching orgasm. In an effort to increase my performance, it's been a little over 3 weeks since I last masturbated, but it's not really working. I don't have any trouble getting erections or pre-cumming, but I just can't orgasm from hand, mouth, or intercourse. I'm not even getting close. I can barely feel anything even when I'm being deepthroated. Is there anything I can do to increase my sensitivity besides not jerk off?
I always thought that people who suffered from masturbation-induced ED or delayed ejaculation got to that point from near-constant masturbation. I was never like that. I rarely used any sort of lube though; it seemed to messy and too much of a hassle for something that normally took me only 10 minutes. This is frustrating as hell. Have I killed my dick for good?
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>>18086209
I masturbate a lot, but sometimes I don't do it for extended periods of time as well. And it works for me - I cum faster and more if I don't do it for some time. Your problem thus may not be with the masturbation frequency at all.
On a side note - while not masturbating you must also refrain from any kind of sex of course, but I guess you know it well.
So ask a doctor.
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>>18086429
I am worried that this is a deeper physiological problem than a surface-level one caused by jacking off. It would fucking suck if I was born without the ability to orgasm from partnered sex.
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>>18086505
>born without the ability to orgasm from partnered sex.
probably the most hilarious idea for a condition I have ever heard of.
Don't worry, that's simply not the case. Some people indeed have some troubles when stimulated from outside, but that's entirely another story. You may have some problem with him or something. I've heard of many stories of people having verry little joy from sex, until they suddenly found the right person.
Something may also be troubling you anyway. Ironically, this may be your desire to cum that makes you unable to do so.
To many possibilities. A psychologist will be able to help you.
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My boss has a birthday today, he's turning 21. We're a computer networks company. Our department doesn't have a clue what we can gift him, last year it was alcohol. Any ideas?
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I only thought of a nice pen, or tea, since he drinks lots of tea, but that's it.
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>>18086099
Alcohol is always answer
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>>18086099
Your boss is 21?
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I got a gf through some weird circumstances and the first 2 weeks felt fantastic and I would consider them the happiest time of my life, but my paranoia seems to have gotten worse and I feel like my mind lies about memories of the past and completely changes them. I'm not sure if my hallucinations are coming back too, but I don't want to go to a shrink again either. I thought that breaking up with her and going back to the loneliness would be okay, atleast that is what I'm used to and won't make me feel detached and estranged. She knows that I browse /r9k/, so she should know that I'm a mentally ill piece of shit, but I don't think she knows how bad I am. Talking with her about it would be bad I guess, but I don't know what to do in general about it.
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What fucking advice do you want.
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Go to a fucking therapist and stop browsig /r9k/. /r9k/ is fucking toxic and it will make you beta
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>>18086103
Should I stay with her, should I drop the relationship, I probably just felt like talking with someone about it.
>>18086169
I went to a therapist in the past, but the only way to help with my mental shit was to deal with it on my own. Meds and shit made everything worse. She also became my gf because I browsed /r9k/. I'm too used to the place and even if it becomes worse each other day, I still come back.
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Kissless virgin until very recently reporting in.
I've started hooking up with a girl and when we make out, I'll stick my tongue in her mouth and she'll suck on it or whatever, but she never puts her tongue in MY mouth. Is it something I'm doing wrong?
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>>18086067
Some people don't like French kissing. Shits nasty. She's probably indulging you, thinking it's a thing for you. Stop sticking it in her mouth and try to figure out what she actually likes.
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>>18086079
No this would make sense except she's always going in for kisses. She often initiates
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ayo first of all don't get anxious nigga, actually feel the moment, while you get that diamond boner, get closer to her(if shes kinky press your croch against her)), don't act like you HAVE to do something, just go with the flow.
While kissing don't just act like a jap fuck, your tongue goes in and out, just like you were tasting her mouth flavor, again, don't do stuff you dont feel like, be natural and before you know it you'll be kissing like a fucking god.
(four-year-kissless boi over here, i was always told i kissed very nice)
Also, if youre both kinky af get yo crotch close to that puss, and yo hands on her ass, she's gonna love it.
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well, I posted this thread yesterday aswell but I ended up busy and unfortunately I was unable to follow up properly.
As the title sais: this is another glorious girl problem...Are you excited?
>Well I hope so
Anyways...
Storytime!
So I've been knowing this girl for about 6 months now, I felt an attraction towards her very early after we met, She has however been in a relationship with another guy since I've known her and I've been trying to keep my intrest in her locked up tight and not push and pull or in any other way "interrupt" her relationship with this guy.
Well ,we've been hanging out regurlary during this 6 months and I've met the guyaswell a few times and well... I tagged him as a good fella and sort of buried any last hopes I had of us leading somewhere due to this fact.
Allthough, new events!
Over the past few weeks I've been starting to realize that she may be falling for me aswell:
>She's way more touchy (bordering on cuddling)
>Flirty & the humor is all based on dirty suggestions with eachother.
It has gottenmy hopes up that we may have something going on here..
To make things even more "bright" (I guess) she broke up with her bf the other day.... I can't say for sure but I think it's because she's becoming more and more into me.
I really like this girl and I don't want to fuck it up now, when everything seems to be pointing in the right direction for me...
>I've been in a similiar situation before and well... it did not turn out well for me: M and the girl was together for a short while and she realized that she wanted her ex back.
How do I not be that guy again?
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Nothing?
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>>18086027
Gee, a girl who starts to get physical and sexually suggestive with you while she already has a boyfriend, and it didn't work out? How absolutely shocking!
You should just instantly assume that women like this are going to be garbage when it comes to romantic relationships.
Stop being afraid of "fucking up" a relationship. If someone likes who you are, they'll give you a lot of latitude. If they're only interested in you because of a certain perception of you and lose interest because that's not who you are, or because what they want is someone to validate their self-worth and get bored once they know they have that validation, it's GOOD to find that out and to get rid of them.
What you seem to be attracted to is seductive behavior, not someone who is a decent person. You should think about that.
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wat to do
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>>18086007
details nigga , details
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Sexually? :3 did it turn you on tb.h femme?
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>>18086007
>Go to the cops.
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Would you trust a woman dressed like this? For example, when she goes out and shit?
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>>18085974
I'm more concerned about the fact she is black
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>>18085976
Do black girls cheat more often?
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>>18085977
You bring them in your house and better believe the whole neighborhood will know what you have. You'll get robbed in a week.
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dont know how to help 2017-02-27 10:03:50 Post No.18085927
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so my good friends dad just got diagnosed with terminal cancer and has a few months left.
my friend is obviously in shock and is extremely down.
my question is how do i help? how do i be there for him?
i have no experience in this whatsoever and have never experienced a death of anyone i know.
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>reassure them that your there if you need them
>try and distract them from their fathers tactical nuke of an illness
>be a shoulder to cry on ( no homo obviously )
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Gersion institute.
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>>18085931
>try and distract them from their fathers tactical nuke of an illness
This is good advice but don't make it too obvious. If you are too pushy on being "the guy that makes him forget all his problems" then that would make you the insensitive friend.
Give him some time to himself. Then after a few days ask him if he wants to hang out or something. Don't be too pushy. Just be there. If he calls you, answer the phone and listen. Don't say "Yeah I know how you feel". If you want to be there for him ask him how his siblings/family are taking it. If he's unresponsive drop by his house with some mcdonalds/fast food/groceries to make sure hes okay and that hes taking care of himself.
You're a good friend.
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So I've contracted HSV2, how the fuck do I keep this from reappearing over and over again :(
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>>18085845
Talk to your doctor...?
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I have, I'm on anti virals but its been 2 months and it hasnt fully healed from the first outbreak
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>>18085851
talk to your doctor