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how do i get the grills 2017-02-28 09:58:35 Post No.18090008
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how do i get the grills
diligent op
2017-02-28 09:58:35
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I've almost completely redpilled myself like I wont even talk to girls even though they like me or vice versa.I want to get laid I know I can but I've programmed myself to be such a cuck .Most of my friends see me as this arrogant little asshole that thinks of girls as peasants. I've been acting like this for like 4 years if i suddenly start opening up to girls my friends will leave me, I can't make new friends its been like 4 years into secondary school pretty much impossible to make new ones.
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>>18090008
You should talk to these chicks in private
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and you think I can? I'm literally surrounded with all my redpilled army all the time, in class outside school, on social media. and the girls at my school are the type to tell your friends if you try and move to them through DMs.
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>>18090008
You unhappy and refuse to change. That is called "being your own worst enemy." Stop being a dick to girls. Ask one you like out and treat her well. Enjoy true intimacy.
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I've been friends with this guy online for about 2 years now. He's an aspiring female and prefers to be called by a female name, I actually had to find out what his real name was via Facebook and it pissed him off when I mentioned it to him. He's 19, homeschooled, is lazy, unmotivated, a fat fetishist (he is very fat), furry, and by the sounds of it his parents are hard on him. Usually I'd loathe this kind of person but we're pretty tight, even though I disagree with him wanting to transition.
He wants to order HRT pills online and I think its a horrible fucking idea, mainly because he's acknowledged that it could get him potentially thrown out of the house. He also claims that seeing himself as a male in the mirror makes him want to kill himself and that he's not happy as his current gender/appearance. Not only that, but I don't think transitioning will get him the desired appearance and be the last nail in the coffin for him killing himself. I guess I'm biased because I think transitioning is a foolish idea because trans people will never be fully accepted in society and just exist in that liminal realm of "once male, not entirely female" or vice versa, especially if they don't pull off the look well. Put bluntly, I think you're the gender you're born as. I'd recommend he get therapy just to be SURE he wants to go through with it, but I don't think he's even mentioned his condition to his parents as they might throw him out of the house.
I dunno call me a bigoted asshole or whatever, I'm just worried about my friend and don't know what to do.
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>>18090007
he sounds like a fucking disaster. i'd let his parents know what's going on with him, they might be hard on him but it sounds like that might be what he needs if he's going to start taking sketchy pills.
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Sounds like he needs to pull the rest of his life together before he starts to even consider a hormone treatment
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>>18090007
Why do you need to do anything again? This is not for you to fix.
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>Can I leave with a 1 month notice in the following situation?
According to my contract I would have to give a 1 month notice, then find a new tenant to take my place if I were to leave my tenancy early.
But when I gave my notice, the landlord told me I need a 3 month notice. Reminding him of the 1 month and the new tenant thing he said he did not want a new tenant.
>contract lasts until sept 1
>i'm a 5"3" female sharing the house with the landlord
>i heard him yell at the phone several times
>once he got so angry he punched or kicked a door
I do not feel safe here, i do not feel safe to argue.
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>>18089979
Easy answer. You can leave anytime you want... but you will be liable for anything costs related to the forfeiture of your lease (rent, fees, etc).
My advice is to leave if you feel unsafe. And take it to civil court if he tries to collect money that wasn't in the original agreement.
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>>18089988
>but you will be liable for anything costs related to the forfeiture of your lease (rent, fees, etc).
Well, true. And I don't want that. Since he does not want a new tenant, legally I should pay the remainder of the rent. Is that true?
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>>18090038
Well how bad do you not want it? Bad enough to risk injury from an abusive roommate/landlord?
You're either blowing smoke about the abusive characteristics or you're dumb and willing enough to take the abuse... it's that simple. (with all due respect... not trying to be hard on you)
As for whats in your lease agreement: I don't know. Do you have a copy?
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Do people who give good relationship advice tend to have better relationships? Or have they learned through so much failure?
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>>18089971
id bet that 90%+ learn via trial and error
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>>18089971
I'd say the only stuff i can really give advice on and be sure it's probably in the right direction is something that i have personally dealt with or had problems with.
I often feel like a lot of people speculate what might be the case and tend to give advice, which is okay to an extend too if is part of a common sense.
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>>18089971
The latter in my experience.
People who are regularly having healthy relationships don't really have any need to devote energy to what makes a relationship work or fail. You don't ask questions when things are going swell.
I just found out my current girlfriend most likely slept with others in our dating phase, this is approximately a month after we started seeing each other. She told me early on she would stop seeing me if I was seeing other people while still dating her. She told me this BEFORE she went ahead and slept with other people. We were not official but had still talked about not seeing other people. What should I do?
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>>18089949
She broke your trust and your agreement. Worthless whore. Dump her.
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you know what to do.
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>>18089949
who cares, so she snuck a couple in late, big fucking deal.
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How do you not take a shower in the morning?
The second I wake up my head is itchy, I feel nasty, and can feel every singe hair that move. Once I take a shower and dry my hair it goes away but I have a lot of hair and that takes forever. If i take one the night before it isn't as bad but it is still awful. How do you survive without a shower in the morning? I would be able to get an extra hour or two of sleep a night if I didn't shower in he morning.
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>>18089863
>How do you survive without a shower in the morning?
I don't know, I die every time I try
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>>18089863
Easy. I don't wake up in the morning.
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I shower at night. Mainly because, fuck going to bed dirty.
You've probably got dandruff you filthy fucker
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I quit my job and I don't know what to do now.
I'm 18 years old with no experience in anything except some kitchen work, and the warehouse job I just left. I don't have a diploma or a GED.
I quit because my boss was abusive and I had anxiety every day worrying if he was going to come in screaming.
The pay was good (better than anything else I could possibly get right now), the benefits were good, I just left because I'm a pussy.
I don't know where else I can get a job now. I don't want to work in another kitchen. I'm probably going to be a minimum wage shelf stocker at Kroger for the rest of my life.
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>>18089847
Join the army
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>>18089847
you should've looked at the situation before you quit your job.
However, if you still haven't quit your job, give yourself one more month of work, but this month try to figure things out, for example look for another job, not necessarily a minimum wage job, but at least something decent. Also, in this month of work, don't worry about your boss, just do your work in a shitty way.
Best of luck
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>>18089847
Get your GED
then learn a trade.
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How do you stop hating so god damn much?
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hating yourself or others? any groups specifically?
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I only hate my life, or at least I have a strong distaste for it
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>>18089714
fix it or numb yourself to it.
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>broke up with ex year and a half ago
>over her, but not over the happiness that came with the relationship, been depressed for a while now
>just missed a midterm because i'm a fucking idiot, which has probably sunk my grade too low for me to get into the program i was aiming for
what the fuck do i do, /adv/? i havent been happy for a long time and just shot my future right in the foot.
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>>18089692
get on tinder and try having some casual relationships. talk to the prof and see if you can retake it, otherwise withdraw from the class to save your gradee and retake it next eyar.
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>>18089696
i'll give that a shot, not super sure about tinder though, not the most confident guy and recovering skinnyfat which i'm sure girls arent a fan of
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>>18089692
are you in first year?
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Hey guys, I'm looking for opinions and maybe some /adv/ on what to do next.
I'll start by saying I'm a social guy and I've never really had any problems with girls. I'm a freshman in college and a couple weeks ago I noticed this girl in one of my classes staring at me. After I started paying attention I realized that she was pretty much always looking at me, often out of the corner of her eye so I wouldn't notice. She was giving all the generic signs of attraction so I was sure she had some interest. At first I didn't really care, although after a couple weeks I started to become more and more interested in her. There's just something about her that's really unique and I wanted to get to know her. I started talking to her a little before and after class and she always seemed really happy to be talking to me so I figured she reciprocated my feelings. After I knew her a little I figured it was time to ask for her number. Fast forward to a couple days ago...
>approach after class
>her eyes light up as always and we talk a bit
>I say I want to get to know her better and ask for her number
>she immediately gets super nervous and starts mumbling
>"I... I don't know" she says while looking at the ground
>I tell her it's totally fine if she says no, it isn't a big deal
>she doesn't say anything
>ask her if she wants some time to think about it and she says yes
>she speed walks away while looking at the ground
My question is... wtf happened? It seemed like she was internally freaking out when I asked for her number even though it really isn't a big deal, not like I was asking her to marry me. She is super shy and I don't think she has many friends but she got even more uncomfortable after I asked for her number and I'm not really sure If I did something wrong?
What do you guys think of the interaction and why did she act like that? Should I follow up next time I see her or should I leave her alone?
Relevant Info: She seems super sheltered and has never had a bf
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>>18089563
She's shy. Dipshit.
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Nice humble brag
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>>18089563
You were too formal about asking her number making it sound like you wanted to marry her or something. Should have just said after class, 'See you tomorrow... oh hey give me your number (hand phone), alright im heading gym later...'
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life is so boring, it feels like there's something missing every day
help
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do fucking MATH
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>>18089716
this isn't good will hunting senpai
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Mushrooms are gross
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"He's the kind of guy I'd marry" 2017-02-28 06:20:50 Post No.18089535
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"He's the kind of guy I'd marry"
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Sup adv. So some female friends were talking and the conversation turned to me(One of the girls had thing for me) and she told my good female friend that I was the kind of guy she'd marry. Now this girl is a crazy party animal, does one night stands, etc. Things that I'm not personally into. I'm just waiting for the right woman to come along while improving my life.
BUT. Should I approach this girl friend wise(She literally started dating someone but I want to get to know her better anyway). Or should I listen to the giant warning light in my gut about her. I'll be honest in that I want to "help her help herself" and be a better woman. But I think that just means I want to change her and that wouldn't even work. Can I, should I do anything with this girl? Or is this her "having fun" period in life and it wouldn't work?
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i know girls that had regular orgies and are in committed monogamous relationships now
not saying it'll work, but it has in the past
i'd also say don't try to change her, that shit never works
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>>18089535
Yo, that means she probably thinks you're a pushover or 'safe'. She means that you're the guy she could see herself settle down with after she's had all her fun fucking around dating hot guys.
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>>18089535
In short, yes, listen to your gut.
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If i show up to work, but the owner isn't there to unlock the doors/let me in, how long should I wait for them?
I've been here for thirty minutes already
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>>18089431
did you call them on the phone? maybe they have a reason for running late
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Text them and wait for another 30 mins. If they don't respond back and they still don't show up... depending on the law you could force them to pay you for the time you stayed/travel expenses. Just inform yourself.
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>>18089431
Call and see if they pick up
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Autistic girl: Yea or nay? 2017-02-28 05:22:36 Post No.18089408
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Autistic girl: Yea or nay?
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Been going out with her for 6 months now, but the relationship isn't all that great since she mainly wants to communicate through text, and whenever I'm with her it's all just cuddles and kisses while watching a movie or playing video games. She recently admitted to me she has autism, but that was more of a confirmation based on my assumptions.
I'll admit this is my first relationship so I didn't know how these usually go, but things did jump forward a little too fast when I first started "talking" to her. She wanted my number, she got it, and then she jumped straight to relationship. I've been pondering on this whole thing and I realized this isn't right. She even wants to say she loves me, but I can't return that feeling
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>>18089408
Cool blog.
What exactly did you want advice on?
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>>18089423
Read the subject fag
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>>18089425
Yea or nay regarding what though? Dating her? Sounds like you already are.
If you mean dumping her, then I guess that's up to you based on how much you enjoy being in a relationship with her versus how much you'd rather just...not. I don't personally think you should dump her purely on the basis of her being autistic but if she's difficult to do things with and you feel like she's taking the relationship into a direction you're uncomfortable with, then you should at least try to convey these feelings to her first and see if she's willing to make some changes.
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Best way to get rid of pubes? 2017-02-28 05:02:39 Post No.18089356
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Best way to remove pubic hair? Manon here if that matters
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>>18089356
I usually trim with one of those hair/beard trimmers, you can also shave if you want to remove it completely
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I use hair removal cream for intimate parts, works wonders and you just wash it all of. No risk of harming the D or your balls.
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if the hairs are long i use a pair of scissors first, as close to the base as possible. once they're short enough i use one of them blue gillette razors, the classic ones