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Is it a bad idea to date guys as a conventionally "straight" guy? Guys would probably be more relatable, and they theoretically should be able to give me emotional intimacy as well. I would also feel more comfortable with them.
While I am able to get sexual pleasure from doing all kinds of gay shit, I am majorly heterosexual.
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>>18090939
>I'm straight
>and like straight stuff
>should I date dudes since I am straight
... Are you an absolute moron, or do you understand what you're asking... at all?
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It's just society today is a piece of shit. The moment you touch a guy at all or kiss you want to fuck or something. I find myself attracted to men and women but I, of course, see women as my sexual desire. I do indeed enjoy physical male interaction like kissing, cuddling, etc more than I do with women (due to the fact that they are close friends of mine). I feel more comfortable with males because we think alike. Sure I could see women as my desired sexual partner but society has pulled me away from women due to the whole feminism, makeup, pink and blue, etc, etc, etc.
It's normal. I can't say it's gay or anything. The way it used to be before the 1900s was a lot different and it was a little more normal. Especially approaching back to even early AD and BC.
I get my pleasure from my friends and they are close. I feel a big emotional attachment to them but i'm not into females. Keep it cool, nothing abnormal, don't force yourself on your friends, study history and realise today is kind of fucked in regards to almost everything. Hope I was sort of helpful. I guess I just rambled.
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>>18090939
Homosexuality is a mental illness. The fact that you participate in sodomy and still delude yourself into thinking you're straight confirms this
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tfw to much of a pussy to kill myself. How do I just do it /adv/ ?
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Don't do it.
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>>18090918
>my life has a small amount of difficulty that makes me depressed
>better kill myself
Every fucking teenager these days.
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Lay your head down the rails.
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How do you seduce introverted girls? They've been a fetish of mine for a while. I just think shyness is really cute and feminine.
My game is very "hot" and it works pretty well on extroverted chicks but I think it's overwhelming to shy girls. The last girl I tried gaming thought I was playing a prank or got dared.
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No, you just want easy pickings.
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as an introverted grill myself i can confirm that most of the time introverted girls want introverted guys so if you're over the top or somewhat extroverted that's a huge huge turn off
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>>18090887
I second this.
Overly forward guys make my skin crawl
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Do breaks actually work? 2017-03-01 02:53:32 Post No.18090808
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So, I've been in a relationship for nearly two years now. Anyway, found out bf was flirting with another girl from his work. This isn't the first time this has happened, it happened in the first three months of dating each other although I didn't find out until three months after because he for some reason never deletes any of his messages. I know I'm dumb and probably should've dumped him then but idk I already had feelings and it wasn't too bad, at least I thought so.
Anyway, now I am devastated and feel horrible about myself because this happened again.. I know what should I expect? Once stuff like that happens its bound to happen again. This is my first long term relationship btw. Since I've found this out I brought the whole situation up to him, we got in a fight, he tried to blame it on me, then act like he didn't know what he was doing, basically tried to play dumb or act like I was an idiot. I obviously caught his bullshit and he then admitted what he did was wrong and cried and begged me to stay...in the end I did. Its been a week later but I still can't get this situation out of my head, I know flirting isn't that bad, but apparently hes done it even more then two times when I have repeatedly told him that in my eyes its cheating and I don't approve of it and I'd never flirt with others.
I feel like I should leave him but I don't wanna ruin this relationship that we have built up. He texted the girl he was flirting with and basically told her to fuck off and that he was done and loves me, then deleted her number. He promised that he would change and that he really loves me and doesn't want to lose me. However, I have trust issues as it is and idk if I can get through this with him..I wanna take a break but does those things even work? Do couples that take a break just end up breaking up in the end or having still a shitty relationship? Any advice from people who have been in a similar situation/ have had a break in their relationship?
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Or side note, should I just grow up and realize that maybe flirting isn't bad at all? Idk my roommate brought up that flirting isn't that bad but It just irks me a ton.
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Flirting is bad, and you should dump him
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He sounds like a piece of trash.
Dump his ass and find someone who treats you properly.
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What do people think when they see an attractive man with an ugly girl?
>Reconnect with old friend
>7/10 body
>4/10 face
>10/10 personality
>Always liked me but didn't want to settle down
I am a pretty OK looking guy, fit, rarely drink or smoke, lots of smiles. Not all that physically attracted to her but she is a pretty awesome girl otherwise
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Are you attractive, or 'pretty OK looking'? Because the latter seems pretty equivalent to a 7/10 body and 4/10, which isn't exactly ugly to begin with
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>>18090770
I'm told I'm attractive
No sugar or bread, disciplined diet, weight lift 5 days a week and cardio 2 days a week, classic rockabilly style, musician, etc
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>>18090770
I mean the main thing is for whatever her real rating might be is that I am quite a bit more attractive than she is
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Sexually frustrated and inexperienced 2017-03-01 02:13:51 Post No.18090717
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Sexually frustrated and inexperienced
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I’m 32. I live with my parents. My hobbies are boring, and pretty solitary. I’m short, balding, and generally attractive. I haven’t had a date since 2003. Obviously dating and relationships aren’t for me.
But I am still human. I want sex, though I’ve never had it.
Now I’ve got a bad idea.
I’ve been to strip clubs four times. 2 bachelor parties a decade ago, one guys night out with friends last year, and this past New Years Eve. Naturally, being the desperately horny loser I am, I spent too much money.
The girls at the club offered more than just a dance. At the time, I thought I was wise saving my money and virtue. Now I have a decent job and cash to spend. I’m sure you see where this is going.
Yes, I’m aware of the risks of fucking slutty strippers. I know STDs aren’t fun.
Then again, no fucking at all isn’t all that fun either. Believe me, I know.
My social circle is small, I don’t see myself meeting any singles through it. I’ve tried online dating and Tinder, and got less than nowhere.
This isn’t a decision I’m taking lightly. Hell, I’m surprised I’m actually considering it seriously, considering how long I put it off. So talk me out of it. Or into it. Or call me a pathetic selfish asshole.
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>>18090717
>I’m 32. I live with my parents
I don't know the situation... but that is a huge red flag right off the bat
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>>18090717
Go to Japan, and youre gonna feel less frustaded and looser. BUt seriously, if you already tried online dating and Tinder, nad got nothing, you should think about the way you talk with the girls, is scaring them away...
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>>18090717
Fuck men in drag.
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Is this herpes, HPV, or something else? (Pics) 2017-03-01 02:07:02 Post No.18090695
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Is this herpes, HPV, or something else? (Pics)
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Do these bumps look like genital herpes or warts? I will go to the doctor this week, but in the meantime I need advice. The three bumps have been present for a little over a month and have not changed in appearance, so that leads me to believe they are not herpes. They are not painful, per se, but there is a super faint, minor irritation/burning feeling at times.
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They appear skin colored most of the time. After a shower they almost look like they have a white-ish head, but they do not pop and do not actually seem fluid-filled.
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fucking bump
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They don't look it. Usually herpes outbreaks are a lot more severe. However, I'm only here to help make you feel better until your appointment with a doctor. That is the only way you will know for sure.
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>>18090803
well that's good. even HPV sounds significantly better than herpes. hopefully it's not syphilis =\
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Is aiming for a job in academia a bad idea?
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>>18090677
asking 4chan is a bad sign
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I'd say so. Very few people end up teaching, and apparently there are a LOT of office politics. Plus a lot of people scrutinise your behaviour, which affects your integrity and trustworthiness
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>>18090683
my grades are good
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I need help shutting this tranny up. 2017-03-01 01:47:32 Post No.18090665
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I need help shutting this tranny up.
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Basically, this tranny that is on a chat server I'm on is salty cause a polyamorous person decided to ditch her. Someone else pointed out that the fact that she is poly may have contributed to the fact that she got dumped, and she flipped her shit, personal attacks and all. I told her she didn't need to be so pissy about it, and she said I was white-knighting and stuff. I need something to say back to them that will send a powerful message, but also won't make me look bad in a screencap. Any suggestions? I need to destroy this bitch.
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>>18090665
Have you considered the fact that if you just turned your computer off and went the fuck outside to do something productive this problem of yours would just go away?
Has it ever dawned on you that feuding with a stranger over the internet is a really pathetic use of your time?
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>>18090665
You sad fuck. Go and do something productive.
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get some irl friends
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How can I view a private instagram account without following them? My ex-girlfriend started dating someone 22 years older than her, and i kinda want to see what he looks like.
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The whole point of having a private account is that people who don't follow you can't see what you post. How retarded are you?
And since you want to know what he's like, I'm willing to bet he's a lot smarter than you are
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>22 years older
That's a typo right?
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>>18090603
The only reason I don't follow her is because I don't want to re-initiate contact with her. I didn't ask for an opinion I asked for a solution
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What do I do now? Going through a breakup currently after being in a relationship with my best friend and only friend for such a long time. My life revolved around them. I can't hangout with anyone else and hate being with myself.
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>>18090552
is it a man or a woman?
also, are you a man or a woman?
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>>18090580
I am a woman and ex is a man
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>>18090608
Just let time pass. There's no other way. Time heals everything. Try to spend your time doing something you really like. Just look for distractions and little by little spend more and more time with yourself and you'll see that you are starting to get over it.
hope this helps
I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 months now, she's a really shy introvert, however, she does have a close group of friends. She has told me that she does in fact not talk about her feelings to her family or her friends. She says she doesn't tell me anything about her feelings so I don't have to worry about them, but i want to worry, because I love her. I want her to open up to me more, and soon. What do I do /adv/?
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OP what is your pic from
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>>18090479
Neon Genesis Evangelion
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>>18090482
never seen it is it good
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I want to be a musician. I don't think college is something I need for this.
I just want to follow a band around and learn the basics and sharpen my own skills. Where do I go to to just shadow around like this?
I know I'm taking a risk, but I'm willing to take it
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Small bump
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most good musicians meet/form bands in college
college towns/cities usually have local bands playing shows all the time
even if you're not going to college, chances are you'll want to hang around/form a band with people your own age, who will probably be in college (assuming you're that age)
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>>18090768
>most good musicians meet/form bands in college
[citation needed white boy]
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absentmindedness, help 2017-03-01 12:32:26 Post No.18090423
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Guys I need help. I'm absentminded as fuck and always forget simple things. I'll leave my house and realize my keys are still inside. I'll make cereal and leave the milk on the counter. I'll rush to uni and realize my homework is still at home. It seems to be getting worse. Right now I'm supposed to be going to a jiu jitsu class but I forgot to dry my uniform. This shit sucks /adv/, how do I fix this? I don't even know where to start
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Stop responding to relationshit fags
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I was like this my first year of uni and my grades were shite bc of it. I started to keep a little pocket sized notebook and write things down to remind myself about dates or really important stuff I need to remember. As for keys and whatnot, every time as I'm walking about the door I touch all my pockets and check my backpack for my books, keys, wallet and phone.
Hope this helps
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welcome your early alzheimer
I'm in the same boat and there's no escape, it only gets worse in time and the consequences as well
I am studying to be a Private Investigator but what they are teaching me is pure garbage. I am interested in more technology based investigation and of a lot of which I already know. There are more complicated things that maybe people here can give some advice on.
Let's say there is a criminal selling stolen goods on Kijiji and Craigslist one at a time. You monitor his ads and notice that slowly he is offloading things and at that pace he will take a year to get rid of everything BUT then he stops. So obviously he offloaded the good earlier. How would you investigate the previously sold goods if you have his email and phone number. Search engine cache is long gone and obviously you can't get a court order because you are a PI and can't go to police without more evidence. What else can you do legally as a PI?
Also lets say this criminal has a Facebook account but it is private and you can only see his image. You try friending him but get denied. Reverse image doesn't turn up any other leads on his facebook profile pic and doesn't seem to have other online prescence BUT is obviously using aliases. What else can you do?
This topic can also be turned it information sharing for other PI here if others have anything to add to help each other out.
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>>18090401
Maybe acquire some certifications in digital forensics?
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There is very little you can do as a PI other than gather information, and even then, you have to gather it in a way that doesn't invalidate it as evidence if it does become a criminal case. They've probably taught you that at some point in your course, but you clearly think you know better than them and weren't listening.
Also stop romanticising a pretty useless job. PIs spend their time investigating cheating spouses, not busting major criminals
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>>18090409
That is part of our education but the information given is at least 10-15 years old. They hardly talk about social media.
>>18090419
Ok, so let's say some housewife thinks her husband is a drug addict that steals and sell junk on classified for drug money and then goes and bangs a hooker. The OP would be relevant.