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>>18093041
What is depersonalization?

>>18093043
from good ol wiki: "Depersonalization or depersonalisation can consist of a reality or detachment within the self, regarding one's mind or body, or being a detached observer of oneself. Subjects feel they have changed and that the world has become vague, dreamlike, less real, or lacking in significance. It can be a disturbing experience."

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>>18093054
damn, that happens to me like daily, didn't know it's actually like an anxiety thing.

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Depends a lot on the school. There's usually some math and physics courses you need to do and a lot of people struggle with this because it's more theoretical. So get ready for that, it's good to know physics and math if you want to be a decent engi, don't be a fucking retard and learn that shit.

>inb4 math/physics people start sperging out about how engineering math/physics is sooo easy

Also, don't ever think "I don't have the brains for X". It's usually math/physics, if you sit your ass down and study and work on the problems you'll learn it. You don't have the right to say shit like that at least until you're working on a phd and even then it's debatable, masters degree is just about being disciplined and studying. Sure there are some people to whom it comes naturaly but none of that shit can't be learned just with hard work.

>>18093107
Alright thanks, the coursework seems to not very challenging. Is the job market doing fine?

electrical engineers will always be in demand.
especially since robobobots are becoming more normal.
i'd probably get a computer science major tho. you can do a lot with a comp sci degree.

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>>18093014
When you say art do you mean painting?

Also is what youre doing scalable? Meaning can you mass produce what youre doing?

>>18093040
Yeah Im making custom paintings of people pets I am making good money doing it and on the side I sell prints too. I do not have the health to work a normal job so I thought this be best because I can work when my health is good but my parents and husband keep eating up my time that I need to work. They all want me doing things for them constantly and never want to help me in return.

Wait, do you do furry porn or something?

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>>18092995 (2/2)
Anyways, a week before that, I was introduced to this girl by a friend. One of them told me she was definitely into me, laughing at every joke, etc. I hadn't noticed because I was still in the middle of deciding to postpone my question about defining the relationship.

So, after that, she asked me to her birthday party, with just a couple of people that were my friends. I went there this monday, after my date had told me about the open relationship thing. We drank quite a bit - about three pints of beer - and ended up making out a bit twice, we didn't have much alone time with our friends there.

She mentioned something about us going out to drink some other day, which I don't really know if 'us' meant me and her or our friends as well.

The weird part is I thought doing this would make me feel like absolute garbage, like scum. I believe the fact that my date kind of dismissed the importance of our relationship has to do with that. This made me think of maybe going with the open realtionship stuff.


I don't really have a specific question for you guys (and gals) or anything, I just need some experience talk and some general advice on stuff like this. Thanks in advance.

>Well, I think I couldn't do that, being held up to just one person."

Just drop your emotional attatchments to her. She's not good for a relationship, but she is good for a Pussy fuck.

In the future she might change her mind but right now she's just trying to "have fun"

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Bro dont do it. Road to ruin. You might as well just stay friends.

>>18092959
Then do nofap and go live life you fucking twat

>>18093050
>No fap
Top meme

>>18093050
>nofap
Well I wish that jerking off is a cause of some of my problems since refraining for masturbating is a simple solution, but I'm not delusional enough to think that it would do anything besides make me really horny.

Might be an issue of real sexual incompatibility, if it's really that much of a stretch then sit and reconsider the relationship,god forbid she tries to go get it somewhere else

>le communicate with her meme
yeah and then she gets fucking insecure because she thinks unless you want to fuck 100% of the time, then it means you don't find her attractive

and even in you explain to her that's not how it works, she will still feel insecure

>>18092926
>tfw girlfriend trying to sex talk you in online chats
Ain't that the worst shit?
Actually managed to piss off a girl into leaving me because I didn't want to particpate in that and basically said "Rather than talk about it lets do it"

>>18092914

Don't pay, otherwise you're just encouraging them and setting an example to other criminals that you pay ransoms and give in to extortion.

If you have to, let him die. This way you'll be setting an example that you do not give into extortion or pay ransoms, likely deterring other criminals from going after you or your family again. One dies so the others can live.

Also, dedicate your life afterwards to hunting them down and making an example out of them.

>>18092914
Do you have the money?
Do you have proof of life?

>>18092914
I don't know much about the topic anon, sorry. Take what I say with a grain of salt.

What I know is:
These groups sniff money in a family, then kidnap relatives of said family.
Of the cases that I know of (not in mexico), they return the person alive.
The issue being they tend to insist (kidnap again, at a later date) to get more money.

I have no idea about the police. I also don't know how the dealings proceed on such matters.

Just answering because I'm not seeing anyone taking up your call :\ . I totally don't feel qualified to answer this.
You should probably seek help for someone more qualified on a more informal note, support lines, friends in law-enforcement, relatives etc...
Good luck OP

White fillings are much more expensive and only covered under dental for the front teeth that people will see. At least that's how my dental covered it.

So if you want a white filling on your molar be prepared to fork over a large sum of money.

If your teeth are like 50% cavity like in the picture, I'd go for the amalgam because you don't want to have that whole mess replaced.

But if it's just a small filling get white. I had a couple tiny cavities and that's what I did.

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Amalgam gasses out mercury.
It's the most toxic non radiactive substance known to humanity.

Composite fillings have BPA (Bisphonel A) in them and make you literally a homo.
BPA works like a bad, unnatural kind of estrogen in your body.

>MFW I see that people still put mercury in peoples mouth

Tell his girlfriend and cut contact with him. He straight up lied to your face, is this really someone you want to be with?

>>18092849
Like, I get that, but if he's gay and not out stuck in a relationship with a girl, then I could at least see what is up with that. I don't wanna be a crazy person what if she's like his beard, or they just broke up or something. It's pretty balsy to be on tinder in a smaller city where you grew up if since everyone knows everyone.

>>18092852
No. Tell his gf and cut contact. Or go fuck him, since he's not gay.

>>18092816
And before you guys say to ask my parents for help, my mom passed away a few months ago, and my dad's cruising and perusing in another state.

hmm not really sure what to do in that situation

try calling them again tomorrow morning, I'm sure they've dealt with this before, do you have your birth certificate?

>>18092829
Yeah, no problemo in that department, I'm locked and loaded with that puppy. I planned to call them already as well.

>>18092773

wanting to cuddle doesn't make it love. Though it depends on the definition. you clearly have some sort of feelings for her, or at least some perceived version of her.

>what does it mean

it means you're into a girl.

>>18092776
Its more the cuddle but just to be with her is what I mainly want. Like the other day I asked her if she wanted to hangout, and me and her have hungout just us two at her house and mine plenty of times before but for whatever reason my heart was racing when I waited for a response like I was shaking in excitement which has never happened in the 1 year ive been talking with her. I know I like her alot but I think its starting to get deeper and deeper now

>>18092780

doesn't really make a difference here if its love or projecting. all that matters if she is interested in you.

but since you said
>We can never be together for reasons i wont get into (re: she doesnt like you)

than there's no real point in making this thread, is there?

growing up, more sleep is good, but less sleep is necessary. as you turn past 30 more sleep is necessary, but people still act like they're in their twenties.

a human can survive off of nothing but twinkies for many many many many many many years. but that doesn't mean he should. sleep is no different.

>i tried going to bed at 10

our bodies know when they're supposed to fall asleep and it takes some time to fix.

>i lied there for at least an hour and a half

good. cuz you're still getting at least an hour of extra sleep doing this. what id recommend is finding an audio book or radio play or a calm TV show that you can just listen to for an hour or so before drifting off. it can help.

id also suggest maybe taking a melatonin here and there. 1/4th of one usually does the trick for me

>>18092679
Completely cut out caffeine. Go to /fit/ read the sticky, particularly the part about what to eat.
Very important. Bunch of carbs and/or a nutrition deficiency can keep you up at night.

monitor your sugar intake and heavily cut down if its excessive

seriously, this will help heaps although prepare to get cravings like a bitch

you're gonna have to be more specific

>>18092639
Existential nihilism, feelings of pointlessness

I thought her paws were jowls so it looked like she was sucking on the head of a constrained dick

>>18092612
a single dose of .22lr

>>18092612
Take him to a vet. Nothing wrong with leaving him in tge car and asking the vet ahead of time. Trial balloon. If the vet is an ass, leave.

>>18092666
Where can I get some?

>>18092539
You'll be fine. Just ride it out.

>>18092539
>I feel mostly fine

You're probably fine, then. Just pay attention, if you start getting very nauseous and drowzy or experience anymore vomiting or diarrhea, you might wanna head to a hospital. Better safe then sorry. You might also want to get checked for idiocy.

>>18092548
This, if it gets worse, go to a hospital. If it doesn't, kill yourself.