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Hey /adv/ got a sensitive issue I need advice with
Yesterday evening I noticed that my the top of my penis skin and the top of my penis head is completely dry and the skin seems cracked / peels off
I haven't had sex, but sunday evening my penis was kind of sore and I used a kind of shower gel as lube while fapping.
My penis hasnt hurt since but yesterday I noticed the skin is very dry / peeling off
Never had anything like this before
Should I visit my doctor? I hate the idea of them looking at my penis, can't really think of how to explain to them what the problem is
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>>18094723
aye i had this problem a lot as a teen. some circumcisions are a lot tigheter than others, and any friction will fuck them up.
imagine if you choked any other part of your body with the ferocity that you choked your cock, you'd expect the skin to peel, yeah?
use a moisturizing lotion if you're not fucking, and it will keep your penis healthy and not cracky.
shower gel is a bad combo it dries weirdly and makes you masturbate differently.
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>>18094726
Alright thanks man I feel a bit more relaxed now
I'm not circumsiced by the way, but I've never used shower gel before so I suspected it was because of that.
Should I just spend extra effort on showering + moistorising it the next few weeks and not fapping?
Pls tell me I can go back to normal again
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>>18094733
oh yeah it goes right the fuck back to normal, it was likely the shower gel. it can take up to a week to be fully healed, but moisturize in the morning and again at night and you shoudl be fine, or whever its dry / itchy really.
i legit thought i had an STD when it first happened, which was really sad cuz i was essentially a virgin. id done some bare dry humping but nohing else.
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Hi /adv/. I have a problem with myself because of gf, everytime she goes out with her friends I get paranoid that something bad could happen. I don't mean she will cheat on me because she's loyal as fuck. The thing is a shitload of guys try to dick her and she still thinks that nothing like this would ever happen. She went one day to her cousin and her new male friend and the next day this guy tried to rape her. She ran away but from that moment I'm frightened about her being raped. We live like 45km away from each other so I see her once for two weeks or something like that.
I also feel like shit because everytime I'm worried as fuck about her going on some party where she almost always gets drunk and guys probably do drugs, she just doesn't go there to calm me down. I feel bad for not letting her go anywhere and she keeps saying it's okay but deep inside I know she's upset because of that. I was invited to one of those parties and we ended up not going because I'm antisocial as fuck, and everyone there is a plain normie. The fact that we love each other to death keeps us still together. What should I do to delete this condition guys?
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>>18094686
She wants a good dicking. Fuck her so she stops fucking other guys and call it attempted rape
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>>18094699
This may actually be it.
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>>18094686
Fuck I made a mistake,
a shitload of guys WANT to dick her*
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Late night thoughts, /adv/.
It's not a matter if someone cares if you die. Of course you do. If you lived on this Earth long enough you're bound to touch a few lives.
No, what matters is whether the people who matter care.
What happens if they don't? Are you still qualified to stay alive, because, you're the only waiter who works weekend shifts and your boss will be cheesed if you kick it?
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>>18094683
>qualified to stay alive
you dont need to qualify for being alive, much less based on how the people who come and go react to you.
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>>18094696
Agreed, why the fuck would you live for the sake of others?
You live for yourself.
Might I suggest watching "the fleeting little life of peter wright" on youtube?
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>>18094703
But you do live for the sake of others. Well, of course, not completely - you still should have your own will to live a healthy lifestyle. But people are important to you. Your friends, your family, your relationship, it's part of your mental need to have some companionship.
It's easy to say 'live for yourself'. But you can't just live for yourself. That's not how it works.
If no one cares if you die, isn't that sad?
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Lads I have Hypochondria. medically diagnosed. I'm medicated for it. the medicine just takes the edge of my anxiety but it doesn't stop me from thinking every random bump, pain, pimple, bruise, blemish is cancer. every week it seems like something new and every time I have insane anxiety like I've been told I'm dying. I feel like I'm going to dye from it. the only thing that helps is a doctor telling me I'm fine. any tips? living like this sucks. especially when nothing serious has ever been wrong. I just can't convince myself I'm fine in the moment.
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hey try therapy
you're not mentally okay
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>>18094682
what kind of therapy. my shrink basically laughed when I told him what was wrong with me and said "what an old mental illness". I thought that was kind of odd. and he said there isn't much to help it. not a lot of people are affected by it.
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>>18094688
find a therapist that will help you
or just get over it with sheer force of will (this is how I excised anxiety from my life)
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I got a notice from my ISP that someone downloaded an album by The Weekend. I absolutely did not so someone must've been bumming off my router. I tell them this and they say that if that person doesn't delete the album I'll get another notice.
This is impossible right? How could they know if they delete it or not? They said after my next notice they'll cut me off. Are they just trying to scare me?
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>>18094665
They cannot know if the guy deleted it or not.
Btw really fucking odd that they were able to tell you "someone downloaded an album by this band". Wtf does that even mean? From where? How do they know? Like they should log the various ip your router visits, but I've never heard of anyone actually bothering to check for shady stuff.
In any case improve your router security (set limited number of devices/mac addresses allowed to use the internet and change password)
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>>18094665
"Somebody else must have bummed off my router" is the #1 go-to excuse for this shit, even if it's true. So they're gonna roll their eyes and tell you the company line - which is delete it (which they can't tell, really), and don't let it happen again.
Improve your router security.
>>18094695
Odds are whoever downloaded it ended up continuing to seed it as a torrent, which is who they generally come after. However, they can track certain files and your IP address to know it was downloaded. It's just that they don't dedicate these kinds of resources to older materials - so you're less likely to get a notice for downloading Who Framed Roger Rabbit than downloading an advanced rip of Logan.
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>>18094716
Not op here, thanks for the info
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Hey guys,
Shitposter 1548 here, I'd like to ask if some of you know something about "bonding" like in friendship. I know people/ friends that I like to hang out with, but I have no clue what to do with them what genuinely could be interesting to do... Suggestions?
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>>18094620
what made them friends? worst case scenario figure out what they do for fun and do that with them.
what do you do for fun?
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>>18094624
>worst case scenario figure out what they do for fun and do that with them
I find it difficult to get this out of some college's "people/ friends" because at this age we tend to do almost the same as everyone else, like watching Netflix or playing games.
>what do you do for fun?
Not enough, I have the feeling I grown out of my previous "thing doing 4 fun".
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>>18094636
then invite them to play games, or find new things to try nad invite htem, or simply invite them out to eat it and see what happens
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Is being single after 30 a sad or pitiful thing?
Does your life change significantly? Like dating is not the same, all people in clubs and other social places you used to go before treat you as an old grandpa now?
Is settling down a must?
Soon to be 30 and I'm just wondering.
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30 is prime dating time. As another anon said the other day, "at 30 younger women are impressed with your 'maturity' to do simple shit like pay a bill, and women your age or slightly older are feeling their biological clock ticking."
Clubs and social settings are pretty much the same. Go with your friends. It's not like you have a big glowing sign above your head that says you're 30.
Now, there are a couple of downsides, but not in dating. For example, most of my friends are burnt the fuck out or are settled down and have kids, so it's not as easy to get the gang together for a night of partying as it once was. So that's sad.
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It's barely ever as easy as when you are young. Theoretically being a hot thirty year old man with some success under his belt is a prime position, but in practice many guys are just slightly more worn versions of their younger selves. Yes it looks cool to a twenty year old to have your own place, but not to the point where it'll be enough to fuck you if you're not charming/handsome.
That's not to say it's impossible to score sex, especially some young girls like fucking older men, but generally expect young girls to be not too eager to actually date you (unless you really are a catch), and women your age to be way too desperate to actually date you and breed with you.
But the main reason people talk of sad older singles is not the dating scene but just the fact that your friends will have less priority for you and it gets harder to make new ones.
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It's an end, but for women. Man's life begins.
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Hi /adv/
Approaching 4 years ago this month I made a few attempts to kill myself because I gave up on life. Since then I've been living off benefits and playing videogames as a way of escapism from real life. Throughout my whole life I've never really been interested in "living" or engaging in "real life" and I preferred to simply screw around a play in some form or another. I could drone on about it but today I received a letter through the mail asking me to attend a consultation to see if I'm fit to continue receiving money for my state of mind. Although on the surface I'm pretty okay, deep down inside I still have zero motivation or enthusiasm to get a job or make friends. I don't even enjoy eating/drinking and sleeping. Is there a term for this? This feeling of alienation and "not belonging" in real life?
At any rate, if I do come to a point where all the money being given to me gets cut and I have to get a job to continue affording pointless crap to stay alive, where do you think I should start? What kind of jobs can you do with very little/zero qualifications that pay at least enough to get by on but ideally a little more than that, that maybe include a lack of concern for oneself? I thought about joining the army but I doubt they'd let me in because of my past suicide attempts as well as the fact I'm fairly lazy and not sure if I could bring myself to do that much physical training.
Any ideas? I mean, I could just jump of a cliff but I'm trying to be more realistic this time around and actually give living normally a go. I've seen plenty of wussies make threads about wanting to kill themselves, and the people that respond usually say things like "Seeing as you've given up on life you could try helping out other people by doing <thing>". Those are the suggestions I'm looking for.
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how you considered trying to help out other people by doing <thing> ?
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>>18094511
First, get some qualifications. Go to the library and pick out a couple books. I reccomend "The One Thing" I cant remember the authors name. In the space between, get a job a a temp agency. Do something social, like a sport. Expand your social circle.
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>>18094518
Well yeah, but how do you "just" help people as a job?
>>18094523
sounds good
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My driving instructor is a dick. He treated me like I'm retarded and just fucked up my self-esteem .
Now I've finished the required driving hours and can't take the exam because he says I'm not prepared - which is by the way true.
My father let me drive at the very beginning of my driving lessons and I did just fine when I was relaxed. Now I fucking wonder if something's wrong with me, if I'm slow because I can't learn driving in 30 hours like others. My IQ is supposedly high and I did well at school at uni but it doesn't prevent me from feeling like I'm fucking retarded because if that guy.
I changed the instructor already (though the head of the driving school I talked took the guy's side and probably thought Im autistic or something as I had too low self-esteem after today's last drive to properly articulate my point of view).
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>>18094508
Sounds like you are not ready 100%
That insructor might be a dick for true, but if you're really ready it won't matter if he's being a dick or not, you should be able to drive like usual in that condition.
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>>18094508
Stop giving him power.Learn to deal with failure. It happens, so what? Pick yourself up and try again. As long as you can drive it doesn't matter what others think, so learn to drive.
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>>18094520
Yeah but he has been a dick to me during the entire course, that's why I didn't develop confidence in driving, but the opposite - which I think is my major problem right now.
I didn't say I'm ready, I would probably fail. It just sucks. Like is there something wrong with me? My dad says Im talented in driving lol. For me it would just suffice not to be below average.
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>be last week
>best friend's sister has complete mental breakdown
>i'm talking writing unintelligible letters and wrapping them in 6 layers of tape crazy
>he's almost brought to tears to this
>entire family going through rough time
>try to support him as best as I can as she is now in some kind of enclosed mental hospital
Today I got a message from her asking me to be the "editor" for a book she's writing
I have no idea what to respond to this
I don't know if this is one of her shenanigans
I don't know whether or not I should talk to my friend about this, or how to even talk to him about it
What do
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talk to the friend so you know how to deal with it appropriately, and because it might be worth mentioning if mentioning it could help with her situation at all
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Edit book. Tell your friend you got a prestigious new job. Humoring the crazy lady isn't gonna hurt anybody. Guaranteed
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>>18094450
this is pretty serious to me
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Is it wrong for me to become jealous when my boyfriend looks at porn/instagram models?
I can't help but feel kind of insecure or like I'm not enough for him. I know this is a normal thing for guys and I should just learn to deal with it, but he'll even be looking at pictures of other women while we're just laying in bed together. I think the thing that bothers me the most is Instagram, I hate knowing he's going onto girls' pages (some of them we know) and thinking about them in that way. Its especially hard as I absolutely can not imagine being with anyone else besides him in any sort of context, even pictures of "handsome" guys or celebrities don't really do anything for me, whereas he'll specifically search these girls by name.
As for context, we have sex about twice a day, sometimes more, and literally every single day he comes home I suck him off. Am I being too available? If I dial back our sex life will that make things worse or better? How do I deal with feeling like shit about this if its just a normal thing for guys to do? I love him more than anything and want to stop being moody or distant when I feel like this.
Pic related is me.
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If pic related is you and he's looking at other girls he's fapping to other girls in front of you then he's a retard.
As a guy, I think it's somewhat normal to look at other girls and maybe even sexualize them a bit. There's a difference between thinking about doing something and actually doing it
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>>18094425
>sex twice a day
>bj everyday
>fucking hot gf
This guy is not valuing you enough, is he some chad or something
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>>18094425
Pic related really isn't you.
An you probably are a dude.
Hi /adv/,
I am a 19 year old guy who has finished school and gone into a fairly well-paying job with good opportunities. I have been in a happy relationship for 2 years now, I have a small but close group of friends and I have some big plans this year with holidays and other things.
Overall I am on track for achieving everything my parents wanted for me and that you're 'supposed' to do in life.
And yet despite this, since finishing school and with a lot of people I used to know moving on with their lives, I'm left feeling unfulfilled and and daunted by the prospect of the rest of my life being this way. I feel no excitement for things that I do anymore, ranging from feeling nothing on Christmas morning to not feeling anything any excitement to going on holiday in a couple of days.
I'm left feeling as if I have no purpose, and feeling numb to all sources of entertainment.
The only saving grace is my girlfriend who has been supportive of me and understands how low I've been feeling.
So I'm asking for any advice from anyone who may be going through the same thing or would know how I can bring back some purpose and happiness into my life.
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>>18094422
What country do you live in?
International travel has been a big thing for keeping me motivated. I haven't celebrated any holidays in years, I have no relationship with my family, I have no girlfriend. Career wise I have a decent paying job and I just made a switch to go on a new career track that I am very passionate about. But even still, I feel very bored in my life. The only thing that keeps me going is I'll take a vacation by myself overseas every year which completely clears my head. I'm going to northern France in June, it seems too far away and it's hard to think about it now. But I know once I'm there and even once I come back home, I'll feel refreshed
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>>18094447
I live in England not too far from London.
Travelling has always been a big part of my life, and in the past was always the biggest thing I looked forward too - and at the risk of sounding ungrateful, but all the travelling I was taken on with my family and the trips I have gone on with friends has meant that travelling has become neutral to me alongside everything else, which I would say is one of the biggest things contributing to my problem
However I have not tried travelling alone - and it is definitely something I will look into
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What do you hope to achieve in your life? What goals do you have? The best cure for what you're feeling is having goals and working towards them - it's extremely satisfying and self fulfilling
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Got this issue with my throat that doctors and specialists can't seem to figure out, I had an ultrasound and apparently the morphology of everything is fine and stuff, no lumps etc. But the problem is still persisting, I get tightness and it feels uncomfortable to talk a lot of the time and it's a struggle to get my words out, my larynx pops and clicks and feels uncomfortable and sore a lot of the time, I'm 20 this has been going on since I was about 15, I've got a job interview coming up aswell and I'm dreading it now. It's something that comes and goes some days I can wake up and be fine, it's also making me a push over in social situations and stops me from asking certain things and makes it hard for me to stick up for myself, my voice is also weird as fuck I've never heard someone that sounds similar to me, it feels unnatural to me to use my voice when I'm on my own or on recordings as well, anyone got any ideas as to what this is cos I'm at my wits end and gonna kill myself
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Maybe you can get on permanent disability and not have to work no more.
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>>18094347
I'd rather not do that I'd rather be a functioning member of society
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>>18094360
Well you are talking about killing yourself.
Wouldn't this be a better alternative?
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I need help. My parents are strictly,, and I mean, strictly religious. I've been putting up an act to them since I was a kid, but I just can't anymore. I love them, I really do, but I don't share their beliefs. I'm so scared, and I know I won't be forgiven if I came out to them. I'm also bisexual. I can't put up with this, and it seems like I keep blowing my cover every day. I'm also in an a long-distance relationship with a gay man. Don't have enough money to move out, it makes me want to kill myself. I know it's pathetic, but am I overreacting? Your stories? That would help a lot. :/
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>>18094329
How old are you?
I'm facing a similar situation but rather I'm 0% religious while my parents are religious Muslims. I can never leave home unless I decide to get married and get trapped in my husbands home until he dies, or if I choose to run away. There's no other option for myself. It's depressing but nothing else for myself to do.
If you're still a minor, you could perhaps get the help of a shelter or if not, earn money and save up for at least 3 months of rent elsewhere.
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>>18094378
God, same here. It's really hard. I'll see if I can find any sort of shelter. I've had thoughts about running away as well, but where would I go? I'm sorry you have to go through that, anon.
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>>18094451
Don't worry about it. If you live in a fairly developed country, then I'm sure there are shelters for people who feel unsafe in their homes.
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I came back from traveling and since then I've gotten red spots and irritations around my mouth. It itches a bit, and looks nasty. Sometimes it cleares up, then it comes back again. What can I do to fix it?
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>>18094309
Do you think you caught something?
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>>18094309
Don't suck village dick next time.
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>>18094309
It could just be snoo