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I'm a serial over-texter and want to stop.
Has anyone else overcome this?
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>>18095573
Easy. Sell your smartphone.
Now buy a $20 prepaid flip-phone.
Your texting will cease, your interpersonal communication will get better, and you will flourish. I promise you.
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>>18095584
This really. I chose to not use a cellphone anymore, and switched my communication to email. Same principle applied, and my wallet benefited as much from this as my social situation did.
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OP Here
I've done something similar where I've taken a vow to not text anyone first unless ABSOLUTELY necessary and also to only communicate with my current fuck buddy through phone calls.
Even though I'm not texting anyone I still feel that anxiety of 'theyre not texting me, why aren't they texting me'. How do I get rid of that?
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>Went to a friend's birthday party and met this guy there. >He was friends of my friends.
>We kinda hit it off, we never talked but secretly hitting on each other.
>Few of my friends jokingly asked me if I want his number bla bla kind of. I was shy so I didn't say anything just laughing off.
>The next day one of his friends asked my friend if I had a boyfriend and my friend told that guy that he doesn't know if I had one.
>Now I don't know how to feel when I kind of waiting for him and kinda find it ridiculous when I'm waiting for somebody I didn't even talk.
>But I like him though, can't stop thinking about him.
What do?
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>>18095551
you a dude or a chick?
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>>18095569
A chick bro
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>>18095576
then add him on facebook.
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i need real world advice.
how effective is plan-b?
I have a girl coming over soon, and im pretty sure we are going to fuck. can I cum inside her if I have the plan-b?
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plan b would make her feel like shit for days afterward. you have to be quite the dumb asshole to buy something and subject her to that just to cum inside her.
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>>18095536
>ignoring the question
betas up in this /adv/
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>>18095536
Holy shit you virgin
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How do I stop feeling inferior to people who have had romantic relationships?
I always feel great emotional pain when I see couples or people refer to their 'SOs'
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>>18095481
everyones got their strengths and weaknesses.
the guy who can code doesn't fuss about the fact taht he can't figure out football. the guy who is jacked doesn't worry about how he can't figure out how to play guitar. so on and so forth.
romancei s more common and you CAN have romance, so just focus on your strengths or go get some.
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>>18095489
But I can't have romance, that's the point. I just don't make the cut.
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>>18095481
Ahh envy. It's tough. Because you feel something isn't right with you. That maybe it isn't fair.
I can make an elaborate post about all this, but it really boils down to you. Not your imperfections or unchanging qualities(we are malleable af btw), but your own inner image. Your perception.
The more time you spend thinking the way you do, the more concrete the habit becomes. I know from experience from having an inferiority complex myself.
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Since moving to Europe I keep getting a white tongue(like in the picture), I brush my teeth 4 times a day but I continue to keep getting it.
Does anyone know what is causing this and how to stop it?
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>>18095448
bump for this I get this shit sometimes too, real weird.
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>>18095448
diet
cut sugar out totally and eat yogurt or somethn
if that doesnt work leave europe
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You are brushing too often. Two times a day and floss + tooth picks.
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Do you reckon that the best advice in life is "just go for it"?
Before our nations became weak, that's what we used to do.
Think about this; Westerners are no longer willing to put their lives on the line for anything. They'll whinge and moan for something, but they're not willing to endanger themselves.
Look at the third world. They ARE willing to take risks. They'll do anything to get a better life. They don't have the same FEAR that people in the West do.
I reckon that unless Westerners grow some balls, get tougher, and start taking risks again, then we'll be overrun by third worlders trying to migrate to our countries who don't have the same hang-ups that we do.
I'm right aren't I?
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>>18095440
>I'm right aren't I?
You aren't looking for advice, you're looking to stir up a nationalist shit-storm.
This thread belongs in >>>/pol/
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>>18095454
>Do you reckon that the best advice in life is "just go for it"?
Are you incapable of reading, or just fucking stupid?
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There's nothing to fight for anymore.
Senior in High School, first time on /adv/. I have a crush on a girl I've known since Middle School, but haven't talked with much since we haven't had any shared classes.
Even though we're on good terms, It's hard for me to try and initiate conversation, most I've done is a brief greeting when we pass. Any advice?
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where does she stay after school
catch her there
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Ask her to play Gwent with you after school
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>>18095390
Yes. Ask her out. Pick and activity that you want to do together, and if she asks you "You mean as a date?" say "Yes." If you only see her in passing, then ask her if she has a moment to talk, and if she says "yes" then ask her.
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What do I do if my neighbors dogs bark all fucking day. Anytime between 6 am and 10 pm they literally bark for fucking hours and the owners don't care. I've literally been listening to dogs bark for 2 hours straight without even stopping for a second.
The owners literally don't take care of them they give them hard food and that's literally it. The dogs literally just sit outside my house for hours and bark never once have I seen the owners try to stop them or let them in or anything. I just hear "bark bark bark" outside for hours on end. Sometimes I shoot them with BB guns but it doesn't do shit. Kinda wanna throw some steak with rat poison in it over the fence.
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>>18095374
call for noise complaints. nothing else you can do.
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>>18095382
So poison them
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>>18095374
>be my grandpa
>new neighbours
>the dog barks nonstop
>record the barks
>make loop and play it nonstop back
>after 2.5 day the dog stopped barking
>new neighbours take him to vet, looks like psychological trauma, the dog will never be the same
>neighbours move away
True story.
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I cried in front of my girlfriend in a argument, is it over already?
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>>18095362
probably
what was the argument about if you don't mind me asking
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>>18095365
She asked if she could kiss her best friend in my face, i said go for it, they kissed for like 3s, but i felt bad afterwards, i said i would not like it to happen again and explained how i felt and shed some tears
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>>18095375
Oops, forgot to mention the best friend is a girl
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What if you finally muster the courage to admit you were wrong and say sorry but the other person doesn't accept it? I have to do it but I'm terrified of being rejected. Alternatively, do you think there is a way or a right time to increase chances of my apologies being accepted?
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Listen to Baba O'Reilly- you don't need to be forgiven. If you are sorry and you know it, that's all you can do. Whether or not they forgive you is on them
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It's not up to you to be forgiven, what's up to you is to apologise and mean it. If that person doesn't accept the apology it's okay, but we aware that people can forgive with their mind, but it takes time to forgive emotionally.
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>>18095381
That really sounds like a very mature thing to do and I wish I could do that but I keep thinking... Won't things be uncomfortable if it's someone you still have to interact with daily? I'll feel bad whenever I look at them. Damn, I wish those kinds of things weren't that hard
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how do I stop being hard on myself? 2017-03-02 11:21:44 Post No.18095341
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how do I stop being hard on myself?
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to stop judging oneself harshly and unfairly
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>>18095341
It's process. Learn to see the good in you, with time and practice it should get easier.
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>>18095341
It depends anon. You just have to draw the line when you're not being realistic, but even with that you probably don't really know what's actually realistic.
Don't try to drown your worries away mindlessly Anon or else you'll just risk yourself and then realize later your worries were right the whole time. Worries exist for a reason, they are problems you need to solve, not ignore.
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>>18095341
think about how you would approach a girl you wanted to date about the subject. i mean that for each and every individual one.
as a general rule you'd be nice, but fair. keep in mind i said girl you want to date, not to bang.
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>know a girl for a few months
>she told me straight up that she was gay
>didn't have an issue with it, we only realy started hanging out because she needed a ride to work and free cigarettes and i was lonely
>we find that we share a taste for a lot of the same stuff
>we were hanging out watching tv and drinking last night
>end up making out and having sex
>were both smoking on the bed afterward and i jokingly say
>"i guess so much for being gay huh."
>she says "yeah"
>fall asleep next to each other
>we don't talk the next morning
>not even on the ride to work
>haven't talked to her since last night
did i fuck up?
i didn't mean to be an asshole but maybe she didn't see the joke like i did
im worried i just lost one of my only friends
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>>18095332
>im worried i just lost one of my only friends
I've got some new for you; you're not friends. You're two weird people who bonded for a moment and then fucked. Your relationship with her, whatever it was, is over. On to the next.
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>>18095340
t-thanks anon. i needed to hear that...
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>>18095332
Sound like you did it only to prove a pint and have sex
I'd definitely apologise for that joke which was in poor taste. And then also you definitely need to address it. Jusy be like, it was totally unplanned but you enjoyed it?
Don't know what you think about her. Keep it as friends or want something more?
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I can't fucking take it anymore, /adv/.
Nine fucking years have I spent every waking second of my pathetic existence on this website, and nothing has ever come out of it. ´The entire prime of my life I have spent in my room in front of my computer screen, either lurking on fourchins, jerking off or playing vidya. There were plenty of opportunities for me to go out, socialize, experience my first love.
In my infinite wisdom, I decided to ignore all of it, and spend my hours on fourchins.
4chan has become my life over these years, I've been basically living in the matrix.
Then, about two years ago, I moved out of my mom's basement to go to a university and do my bachelor in IT.
I was simply told by my family to do it, and I did it. For about 2 weeks, then I decided to quit.
Since then, I've been living off of minimum wage jobs to sustain myself.
When I wasn't working, I was wasting away my time at the computer.
Slowly depression set in, but it wasn't strong enough for me to not be able to escape into vidya and fourchins.
However, the last couple of days, I've been feeling like absolut dogshit. My chest is switching between emptiness, pressure, and a burning sensation. Never in my young live have I experienced this sort of depression. Never in my life have I felt this fucking alone, and never in my life have I ever desired it more to just hold a girl in my arms.
I've been thinking about going outside to meet new people, but I wouldn't know where to start.
The couple of times I decided to go to a bar, and perhaps socialize, I ended up alone for hours, drinking myself into depression, like the pathetic autist that I am.
I'm absolutely desperate, and I don't know what to do.
All of this is very incoherent and articulated poorly, but I'm at a loss for words right now.
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Did you school have about the same kind of social atmosphere 1984 had, like my school?
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>>18095267
The atmosphere was great.
For whatever reason, I turned out quite the social person at school, so people used to like me.
However, I would never actually hang out with anyone outside of school, despite being invited to birthdays, clubs, and whatnot.
Not trying to brag, just showing how much of an ignorant shit I was.
None of this matters right now, though.
These moments are long lost to me.
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If your depressive thread wasn't enough, the Enma gif sure hit the nail in the coffin.
I don't even know how to be of help for you. Is there even a way to help out self-destructive people as you? Heh, if I would know.
RIP in pieces, you poor motherfucker.
PS: If you aren't dead yet, then all I can advise you is talking through Skype or some shit.
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How do I find velocity of the edge? If I have a circular object that takes 46 seconds to make one complete rotation with a radius of 490 feet, how do I find the velocity of the edge in feet per second?
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>>18095243
bump
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>>18095243
pls help
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>>18095243
nobody knows?
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How can I achieve a beautiful handwriting, like pic related? Any tips, or a guide?
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>>18095235
Three step guide:
Practice
Practice
Practice
Good luck!
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>>18095235
That's kinda gay
Are you gonna put some cologne on the paper too, huh ? HUH ?
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sure that is pretty, but not easy to read. just a mass of cursive lines that all blend together. there is a reason that style went out of fashion.
mono-space sans-serif is the only font that should be used.