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mixed gender?

>>18096436
mixed race

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>>18096438

it seems overwhelming at times

what are your interests
what do you hope to accomplish

get answers to the "i dont know" parts
and the decision will present itself

>>18096466
Probably want to major in business since I'm more well rounded

From the time that I graduated high school I had that cloud hanging over my head as well. All those choices, and I haven't even identified what it was that I enjoyed to do. For four years, from the ages of 18-22, I fucked about and worked weird jobs and got nowhere. I realized that if I wanted to live a comfy life, I needed to suck it up and get a degree doing something that won't make me want to off myself. I started to observe my days.

>wake up
>stay in room all day

I love being inside. I love working and being alone. I love being on the computer and I think code might be magic, so I decided why not programming? Picked the best uni around for a programming major, did some research asked some questions and decided on a school.

I just started, but it's important that I put myself on a track. I think that's the thing, not fucking about. As long as you're on a track, it feels damn good. OPie, stop analyzing. Pick something, do it. Lose your mind and come to your senses.

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i thought it was a skin tag, but the crusty-ness kinda gives a cancer vibe.

get it checked yo

>>18096424
It's a samata

I'd definitely be worried if one of my many moles became that.

>>18096363
they are kids in other parts of the world that been suffering from malnutrition since the day they were born and probably are going to be dead before they hit half your age.
Think about it man, whatever problem you think you have, it could be always be way worse. Focus in the positive and don't yourself let down about stupid things that in the big scheme are meaningless.

Its mainly brought on by her huge family. Ive met her entire family that lives in the U.S. with plans to take me with them to spain to meet more. I guess seeing a fictional full family has altered my perspective of what a normal or acceptable family should be. Ifs also just a strange thing to mot have a family even thou no one has died

>>18096371
I mean, I can't relate completely with you because I'm not a "chad" but I can relate to the non-functional family part.
Just move up and forge your own life, you don't have to stuck with your family your whole life.

Holy shit, reading this took all my energy, man.
I don't know, I know a lot of people like you. I don't really like being around them, but of course I'll laugh along and that. It's not that I think they're bad people, but I'm pretty much the opposite, so having somebody constantly pressuring me into some social context is annoying. Out of kindness I'm not going to tell them to fuck off, but hell if I'm not thinking it. It's like those people who just constantly talk non-stop when you tell them that you have to go, and they're like trying to talk to you through the crack in the door as you're leaving. Just... go away already. Read the atmosphere.

>>18096368
It's like they're more concerned with telling the latter half of their story, or whatever joke they've got on mind than the other persons comfort and time. Not unpleasant, but there is a time and place for that shit, and it's important to know when it is and isn't.

>>18096368
>>18096376

Well fantastic. Now that we've established that people like me are annoying and undesired, how can I be less of an imposition on the lives of others in the future? Maybe I should go to a country with a different native language so people find it easier to ignore me.

That's normal. It's actually why boxing and UFC exist. The reason they wear cups is because it wouldn't be TV appropriate to have their erections flopping all over the ring.

>>18096322
Fun fact: in Ancient Greece, the Pankration fighters fought naked with raging hardons the whole time. Once the winner subdued the loser, the tradition was to further demonstrate dominance by fucking the loser in his ass while he still was in whatever lockdown position subdued him. It's also why Gaul elite earriors fought wars naked.

TL;DR: Martial arts have a ~4000 year history of gay sex.

>>18096403
One could argue popping a boner while hitting someoen is a physiological reaction that evolved to make defending one's family that much more pleasurable. Too bad it can also create problems like wifebeating and general violence. It can also lead to extreme BDSM fetishism.

>>18096261
My dad has stage two prostate cancer, and had to have his prostate removed. What you have to realize is that the survival rate over a five year period for Stage 2 prostate cancer is almost 100%. As far as cancer goes, prostate cancer is one of if not the most survivable. Even stage 3 is almost 100% survival rate over 5 years.

It sucks. Try to spend as much time with him as you can. Do some fun shit. I don't know your situation, but if something does happen, you don't want to look back and feel like you could've done more with the time you had.

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>>18096261
look on the bright side.

if he's into assplay he'll have a good time

>>18096261
Make sure he gets to spend his last days with his prostate in pure pleasure. Stick your finger up his bum, just say no homo and it's all good.

>>18096234
id say it's mostly possible through rich parents. basically everyone ive met in nyc who doesn't work a night shift, either is a liar, has a great non-basic job, or has their parents pay for their shit.

you need to have modern survival skills, a marketable skill, and a set of friends who wouldn't let you rot in the street. maybe every part of LA is expensive by comparison, but of course there are low-end housing options in almost every city.

>>18096289
I mean I saw some stuff on Craigslist for 700 I don't see how that's as hard as everyone says. I mean if minimum wage is 10 an hour and you work 40 hours a week then

4(10x40) gives you 1600 a month and assuming you paid 250 or so into taxes then you'd have 1350 so 100 for transpiration 700-800 for rent 200 for food still should leave you something

>>18096231
Shit in his shower.
Shit in\on his car.
Shit on his couch.
Shit in his sink.
Shit on his dinner table.
Shit in his bed.
Get his phone and post something extremely racist on social media. Then retweet it\share it\reblog it saying how you're disgusted. You can ruin his life if people notice it and start giving it attention.

what kind of revenge u want?

>>18096237
Something evil enough to leave a bad impression for a while, but nothing that will cause permanent damage to his life
permanent damage to the friendship is fair game

Limitations are, of course, legality, age (he's a senior), and budget

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>LDR

>>18096222

>what the fuck is wrong with him

by your own admission he's a drug addict so there's problem one. his substance abuse probably stems from and exacerbates whatever shitty part of his personality that makes him act that way

>i just want to know how i can make things better

you can't. he needs to get sober and get real help and you need to get away from him. he's not worth it. the way he treats you is an extension of how he feels about you and if it's this bad now it'll only be worse if you move in.

you can't change people, people have to make that decision for themselves.

>>18096222
Just get away from him. One day all that abusiveness may turn physical and you will be in the first line of fire. And if you think you can change him. You can't...

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>>18096213
Damn, good timing on this post anon, I've recently been getting help for panic attacks/anxiety/sleeping routine myself. I know how it feels, and it sucks the life out of you, but you gotta keep pushing forward. Sit your ass down, memorize your lines, and look forward to a fat wad of cash once you're done. Don't give up an opportunity as good as yours for some temporary security which will only make you feel worse, and in the end, dig yourself a deeper hole into depression and anxiety that'll be even harder to get out of.

I'd recommend seeing a doctor ASAP as well. I know you probably won't be able to get one in two days, but once you're done your script, it's the best thing I can suggest for you. Tell them EVERYTHING; your depression, anxiety, panic attacks, etc. It's their job to help people anon, even if you feel a little weird explaining it, they've inevitably heard stranger cases. If what they give you works, great; if it doesn't, then try something else. I'm on my 4th prescribed medication and only now did I find something that actually helped. I know it's rough now anon, but I'll be rooting for you. Never give up, no matter how tough it might seem now.

>>18096242
I already have the number of a specialist, thing is panic attacks prevent him from calling her.
It's kind of stupid that I have to solve the problem of anxiety and starting activities in order to see a medi that will help me with that problem.

aye you in the LA area?

>>18096181
He's obviously a turbofaggot
or
you're pig ugly

>>18096190
He's not gay, but I am not the best looking. That being said, thanks for the non-advice.

>>18096181
There is a possibility that he is interested in you for a relationship or something and just doesn't want to fuck it up into a 1 night type of thing. But Honestly everyone is different and weird, so you gotta ask him the questions. Not much help is gonna come from here with so little info.

Get out of Jew York.

>>18096186
My job and my boyfriend are here, I wish I could go but that's not an option at the moment.

>>18096167
>Bronx
>Essentially known in the whole world as a nest for black gangsters
>People ask you to pay their whole rent
>400$ per month
What about you move out of there and find a better job?

Maybe get a job in IT

Maybe bars, restaurants and stores in general?

>>18096133
the thing with applying to jobs is this: dont hope you got the job, you gotta know you got the job. only way you can do that is to make everything on your resume make you feel like anybody would want to hire you.

are these list of pros just me setting the bar way to low? besides the music part most people should already be this way, correct?


fuck did i just answer my own question?

would still like other input in this

Well I can't really offer advice but rather say you kinda sound like me. The only 2 times in my life someone said they liked me and I decided "okay cool, let's try this!" was the moment I started nitpicking flaws about them. Being overly judgemental as if I was looking for an excuse to dump them, you know? Didn't take long until I did it but I regret not being more open minded and understanding. Nobody will ever be 100% perfect, having unachievable standards will only leave you alone in the end

>>18096128
ahhh oh god, I am extremely judgmental. My image means everything to me. I'm slightly embarrassed by them in public when I'm around other people for no particular reason. I understand that your partner can reflect you and I do not want to give that power to anyone.