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How do people get better jobs?
I'm 19 and stuck at a dead-end managerial job making $9.50 an hour part time at a grocery store pulling gruelling 10 hour shifts.
I see all these other people making okay money for their ages just a few years older than me. It's not exactly "college grad" tier work and they don't necessarily have degrees.
But they're making $15+ an hour.
Obviously these jobs must exist but I don't know where to find them.
and I really hate knowing the fact that a pound of fish is worth more than an hour of my life.
How do I find better jobs? I hate these menial low-wage bullshit jobs that I keep finding. I'm working towards a degree now.
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raise your gpa higher than 3.6
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Skill and willingness to work. Im 20 and do carpentry. Never knew anything about it until a couple years ago, started doing odd labor jobs. Now I know some shit and can expect to make 15-16 at least. Not telling you to do this, just that you should pursue more skilled work in an area that interests you. And you don't need a degree, I've worked with plenty of college fucks that can't handle the simplest of tasks. Make yourself more useful, apply yourself, don't settle for wages below what you deserve
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Learn to fix computers.
There's a ton of bullshit to wade through but motherfuckers who will pay you a hundred bucks just to install drivers.
> so I recently got a ticket for a noise complaint after me and my gf got into an argument..
>The cops came at like 8, calmed us down and we started to watch TV.
> an hour or so later we had another pair of cops claiming more noise, but our upstairs neighbors have been dicks. (we even had cops claiming noise at 11pm when we were asleep at 7p 2 weeks prior)
> I think they heard my tv and thought we were yelling again.
>cop pulls me out and sits me on the floor, says he smells alcohol and begins to berate me about noise and drinking.
>I claim it's not us, lots of noise
>hear steps upstairs, point it out, he goes to check on it
>partner berating me saying there is more than one way to have a conversation
>cop comes back, says if he has to come out again he will write me a ticket.
>go back inside and sarcastically complain to gf, "GUESS WE GOT ANOTHER NOISE COMPLAINT"
>BANG BANG BANG
>cop is knocking agian and pulls me out and gives me a ticket.
>MFW
>Now I have a court date in 2 weeks, what do I do 4chan?
>the thing is too, the cop had 2 clerical errors, misspelled the city and the incorrect time.posting.
>How do I get out of this ridiculous ticket??
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Don't break the law creep.
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>>18097266
your gf is witness you can claim it never happened
or make up an excuse that you accidentally burned your self
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>>18097266
Calm down bud, it's gonna be okay.
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Hey friends
So I'm looking for a new job, and I was thinking restaurant, maybe a bussboy then waiter or whatever. I'm trying to figure out franchise to go to. Any of you guys have experience in restaurants, specifically which ones you liked working for the most?
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>>18097264
A Taco Bueno manager fucked my wife
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>>18097323
that'll happen
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>>18097333
Now I gotta bleed him
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Tell me about that time when you finally grew a pair and started to go for the girl that you want.
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>girl
really made me think
it put me in a catatonic deep depression that lasted 6 months, which then lessened to a slightly less depressed state for 2 years until I finally cut all ties
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I gained some confidence and started from small talk to flirting then one thing led to another and we got together shy girls are the best because you work so hard to open them up and get them to feel the same way you do about them, she ended it though because im an idiot and now im paying the price i told her ill wait for her but god damn it hurts and i dont think ill ever find anyone else like her. Fuck.
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Still haven't.
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>be me
>have this crush for a girl for 5 years or so
>had the chance to meet her
>didn't screw up
>we fuck
>she studies really far from where I live
>take her to train station in the afternoon
>she gives me a passionate goodbye kiss just like in the movies
>she's literally perfect, everything I ever wanted
>now all I can do is lay in bed listening to the songs she shares on facebook
>don't want to talk to anyone but her, just want to be with her
>IT FUCKING HURTS
How do I approach her again when she comes back? I don't know if it mean to her what it meant for me.
Is this what love is supposed to feel like? It's really fucking my life up.
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>>18097220
Stick it in her butt
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Sometimes being honest goes a long way, it worked with my girlfriend.
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>>18097220
this is the gayest shit ive ever read
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I have no empathy for human beings, The problems and pain of others does not effect me.
I find death and pain of others entertaining.
But every so often i will meet somebody and i actually care, not romantically but i feel like i need to protect them. Even if ive only known them for a few days i will already have that feeling of unconditional love, I feel this for a total of three people All of them are my sisters (i consider them my sisters but only one is blood related and one isnt even legally my family yet) I do not feel any love towards anybody else, I have no problem with murder in fact the only thing stopping me is the fact that i might drop the soap. And while i have no love or empathy for humans i love all animals and get very emotional when i see one die or get hurt, i feel like they are innocent and dont deserve pain like humans do. Am I a psychopath?
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You don't understand what a psychopath is.
Your writing, the way you present your feelings... No.
What I see is fear.
There is a lack of understanding. Of yourself, and others. You are not incapable of caring, and the fact that you can differentiate at all is indication enough that you recognize the difference.
You're scared, OP. You've put up walls to try and protect yourself. You don't understand other people, and what drives them, and you're afraid of being hurt by them. The people you care deeply for are people that are close to you, people you can trust. Those you can't, don't matter. Anybody else is just another person who could come to harm you. You say you feel nothing when you witness the death and pain of others, but I say that is because you've given yourself no reason to. It is because you refuse to see yourself in others, that you cannot understand the significance of loss. From the safety of your walls, you relish in the thought that there is one less person to oppose you, one less scumbag on this earth. You yourself have dehumanized others due to trauma. I feel this is also why you fear being raped. You aren't emotionless, you just wish you could be.
Unless you open yourself up, and are willing to take a few hits in the process, you'll never be comfortable with who you are.
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>>18097209
worrying about whether or not you're a psychopath precludes you from being a psychopath.
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No you're just edgy.
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So I fought with myself to not watch porn and now I'm pornfree for 2 months. I seriously wanted to get over my porn addiction and I'm happy I use my imagination to fap off.
BUT
now a problem has arised. When I'm with my female-friends at college, when they are closer to me or touch me involuntarily like when standing or sitting together, I kinda feel a boner. Also it fucking happenes everytime. How do I stop getting boners all the fucking time when I'm with a girl?
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>>18097206
Respect them
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>>18097206
What's wrong with getting boners?
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>>18097221
Even though Is stopped porn, I kinda get these sexual thoughts. I do respect every female friend of mine studying with me.
Dunno man. Does this seem like a big problem to you guys or is it okay?
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Abdominal Pain - Doctor Anxiety
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I had a pain like a bruise on the left side of my belly button for two weeks. So I went to the doctor, but when I went I ended up not feeling it. I have anxiety as well so I thought hey maybe it's just me. The doctor basically was like "oh ok well if you have no symptoms I can't help you". Now it's been a total of four weeks since I first woke up with it and I definitely still have it but it's more general around my abdomen. I can feel it when I walk, it's not like pain but the soreness after someone punches you and the area is healing.
I don't know if I should go back or find another doctor, or if this is just some inexplicable trapped gas or some other thing to ignore.
I would have gone this week but I had a very bad respiratory infection. I'm scared and just wanna be able to drink and live again without worry. I wish someone could just give me an ultrasound or something and look inside. Pls help /adv/
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bumping so I don't die in my sleep
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>>18097187
You're freaking out over minor pain you barely know is there? Get a grip. It's nothing to worry about unless it gets significantly worse.
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I've been having abdominal pain for a year and for the past week it's possibly going away. You should check with another doctor, because that is out of the ordinary.
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Hey /adv, fem here.
So over the last week I had a fight with my bf of one year.
He said that he doesn't love me, but he didn't want to break up. I'm upset but I agree to it anyway because I love him and have zero self respect.
I'm his first girlfriend, first sexual partner, but it just feels like everything I do for him is not enough.
Obviously I was pretty depressed for the past week, skipped about 20 hours in uni just because I couldn't get out of bed. He on the other hand wasn't affected by it.
I begin not to understand what is happening and why he still chooses to stay if he doesn't love me for the year we have been together. He stopped calling me, texting, whatever. He just says it's how he is.
What do I do?
Pic related, literally how I feels.
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I'm a guy and usually it's the other way around for me.
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You should definitely end it with him. Even though it might be hard, what with you loving him and him being your first sexual partner and everything, but the longer you stay with someone who doesn't care, the worse you'll feel, and when you do break up (which I'm sure will eventually happen) you'll regret the time you wasted on him. My advice would definitely be to end the relationship as soon as possible.
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>>18097183
If he has stopped giving you the respect you deserve, then cut that shit immediately. why date a person who trashes you?
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I have a question for legal fags. In the US is's LEGAL to record someone without the knowledge if it's in the public's interest, right? What do I need to do to be seen as the press in a legal sense?
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Some cop is bullying me and telling me my recording's of a case are illegal, but google is telling me it's only illegal for law enforcement to record without consent. I'm a lay person.
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>>18097166
Depends on the state. Some states let you unilaterally record, others don't
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>>18097166
[ALT-255] [ALT-255] [ALT-30]
[ALT-30] [ALT-32] [ALT-30]
Had to try it out lol
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I'm infected with Oneitis syndrome
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What do?
I'm seriously sick of her.
I've tried everything, letting time pass, forget about her, believe hard that I don't love her self but a projection, that she isn't special.
It doesn't freaking work.
Worst of all is that I'm stuck with her fucking presence all the time and when I don't "see" her, I have to hear her voice and it's driving me beyond crazy.
Anxiety raised like hell, I'm fucking smoking and stinking anxiety, it's in my eyes, skin and sweat.
For those who tell me not to be a faggot and go ask her out.
1- This is work, I don't want to compromise myself and she made herself distant enough for me to understand she isn't interested.
2- She got a boyfriend.
Help me because I'm fucking sick of it.
I don't even think she is that cute or good looking... But dat smile though...
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Of course it won't work, but you have to do it anyway so you can self-destruct so hard that you can finally rebuild.
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>>18097143
I'm already gone through that stage because I did try to get closer.
She didn't just put distance for no reason.
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God fucking damn.
Help me.
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Writing a thank-you note to my dentist, who also happens to be my ex girlfriend. She was nice enough to do the repair job (got sucker punched the night before and tooth got cracked) after I had asked her when she could've just passed it on to another co-worker at the office
Said "Thank you for the job, I really appreciate it, a lot."
Is that good?
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You didn't thank her after she did the job? That was enough. Anything else is unwarranted.
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>>18097137
Add a smiley face at the end like this one :^)
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>>18097145
I did but it was really rushed since she fit me in between two other appointments.
I'm just really grateful about it
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Is there such thing as being legitimately too boring to have a girlfriend or even have friends?
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There's always someone far more boring. Or someone so exciting, that they make even you less boring, and maybe you pick up a hobby as a result.
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>>18097110
Yes, there is. I'm the living example of that. You and me, anon. Are the only ones who are not complete fools, believe me!
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I don't think so. I think being "boring" is the inability to express yourself coupled with not having an active life that gives you things to talk about. That's my problem anyway, so I apologize if this is way off. I think I'm not as boring online where I speak freely and give my opinion, but in person I hardly talk and can't say anything other than robotic pleasantries. It's like trying to talk to a rock. If you can answer a bit more about yourself when people ask how you are, rather than saying you're fine/good, that gives them conversation to go off of.
You can kind of get around not having an active life by keeping yourself educated and involved with hobbies you can talk about, even if those hobbies and education took place in your room.
Also, you might be hanging out with the wrong people. There are people out there that will find you interesting, no matter who you are. I find you interesting, because you've told us you think you're boring, and it makes me want to ask why.
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What's some good software (NOT Microsoft outlook) for scheduling appointments/reminders for myself? I think I would use my free time at home more efficiently and do the things I actually want to do instead of wasting time on the net if I scheduled things for myself. I use outlook at work, I don't want work to feel like home so I want to use a different program.
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>>18097058
wow this is actually useful lets look together
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>>18097058
IBM Lotus Organizer 6.1
free on pirate bay
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Pen and paper, bitchmade nigga.
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>Dating new girl for 2 weeks now
>We've been fucking and doing other stuff together like every other day
>She is really starting to warm up to me, said she'd like to give a serious relationship a shot if I'm willing
>Said I am
>Slowly figuring out more and more stuff about her
>She has never been in a relationship before, despite being 25 (according to her)
Now that isn't the only weird part. Despite apparently never being in a relationship, she has told me all these crazy sex stories she has. Like how she had a bunch of threesomes, with two guys, or how she fucked a guy on the beach with people around.
I'm starting to get sort of wary towards her. Are these the enormous redflags that I think they are?
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I dont think so.
My wife had a past too. She is the most faithful human on the planet and i know that for a fact.
I think its a green flag (if thats a term) she never had a relationship and wants one with you and 25 is a common age for people to start looking forward and chilling the fuck out.
Ill also guess with her personality with what little i can gather and actually guess, she doesnt care much what people think. That would show honesty.
Shed probably break up with you if she wanted to whore out.
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>>18097052
> Are these the enormous redflags that I think they are?
Yes. I've fucked a lot of bitches, up to the point where I've stopped counting. But that being said, never having been in a real relationship, and ALSO oversharing all these wacky sex stories with you in only 2 weeks smacks of emotional instability. I don't think that fucking a bunch of people makes you a bad person, but I do think that her decision to share this with you randomly, while also propositioning you for an actual relationship is cause for concern, and shows a certain lack of judgement. Give it a shot, but be careful
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Doesn't sound like she's hiding anything from you so I'd say you can probably trust her, does sound like potential red flags but at least she isn't lying to you. I'd say give it a try, if shit goes sour then you know next time but don't project any anxieties about things that aren't real or it will definitely go sour.