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>You don't need to earn as much as an Accountant, Doctor, Engineer, General Manager, etc but almost every man needs to have a job with a good salary if he wants to get women.

Homeless Millennial Survives By Picking Up Women Every Night
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmav517MQJc

>>18103897
>Lastly, do you know anybody that got/hooked up with women without having none of the 3 things I've mentioned
of course

charisma goes a long way, also depends alot on your age. as you get older the things you mention become more important but when youre a stupid teenager none of that shit matters, and you can carry that into adult life too

i worked in videogames for a while as a musician, one of the other guitar players i worked with was totally on the heap, in his 40's, his day job outside of this gig was teaching lessons, and when this gig went away thats what he was gonna go back to, paid less than shit. but his girl was this smart scientist type girl who was really pretty, he was just a cool guy and she liked him

>>18103897
>money

This statement is meaningless. Having money is critical to living. You need money to survive. It is not unreasonable for another person to expect that you have the bare minimum required to sustain your life.

>his own house or car

Living with your parents is acceptable through college. After that, if you're still living with them, you have failed in some capacity. Independence is a critical step in being a mature adult. People want to be in relationships with mature adults. A car is only necessary if you live in a place where public transit isn't the norm. You can't exactly go on a date with someone if you live in the middle of nowhere without a car or bus route. In that case, I suggest moving the fuck out of whatever shithole you live in.

>well paying job or career
Not unreasonable to want out of a mate. The purpose of relationships is to make them long term. Eventually have a family. It's a hell of a lot easier to raise a family on a good income.

Before anyone gets all salty and claims it's women who demand all of these qualities but they won't do it on their own. To that I say, stop going after useless, loser women. Plenty of women have their own income, their own place, their own independence. Demand better of yourself and your partner by only going after people who are willing to work hard for a good life.

>>18103675

no

>>18103675

yes

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>>18103102
>But what is the point of all of this?

feeling less lonely and eventually making babies

>>18103109
I don't want babies, so I guess there's no point to this?

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Fucking god damn normies don't know how lucky they are.

It's about companionship and having someone to give your love to, and to be loved by. Don't you enjoy the fact you get to have someone hold you and love you and be there for you when you have a bad day or need to talk about something personal you can't trust with anyone else?

REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

>>18102886
Get to a therapist and deal with the self-esteem issues. It is probably the reason you got cucked in the first place (although I think cucking requires the other party to consent; otherwise it is just cheating). Also, she is an Untermensch so good that you got rid of her.

>>18102901
It was good ole cheating. She begged me to come back the day after.

But I fought against the desireand realized my self respect is worth more than any one person.

>>18102918
There you go, first steps are set. Now please do the following things:

1. Start lifting (if you are a chubby chub chub, search starting strength book) otherwise keep it up bro
2. Get to a therapist, there is no shame in it, focus on the self-esteem issues and the painfull memory
3.Change of scenery
4.Dont be afraid to date and find a good person.

Now go forth!

>>18102838
>Am I racist?
Dislike or discomfort of any person's race, ethnicity, or culture is one of the most common characteristics of racism. It isn't defined by what you say, what you do, how you react, etc. It's defined by the attitude and approaches in the first place.

>If yes how can I fix that?
Usually finding a person of that race you can feel comfortable with and exposing yourself to their culture.

>>18102838
Is it racist? To an extent, but I feel where you are coming from. You can't let it be a blanket over the entire race though. I know decent black people I enjoy being around, but I really don't like aspects of their culture. Mainly the way they act in groups. I am the same as you, I have these feelings but I would never take them beyond feelings because even if I dislike and disagree with actions, I recognize my opinions as just that, opinions. Any actions that go against my opinions are okay until they venture into the realm of causing harm. I really admire aspects of their culture. Their families reach out more and have a more homely feel in my opinion. They have a strong sense of defending their people. There are things I don't like though, after being in high schools with a lot of black people. In large groups, especially in schools, they don't seem to know the limits of certain social behaviors. The part of this that gets me is it often branches out to roasting people, which is all well in good, but I find it turns hateful much of the time. I strongly dislike the blingy material nature that is prevalent in their culture, but I would be naive to say it isn't in white culture. I am also aware that many of their culture's faults are there due to past oppression from whites. Why do they wear gold chains? Because that is the only chain they are going to have around their neck anymore. They weren't allowed anything for such a long period of time that they compensate by showing off what they have now. I really hate their music though, I feel this is the worst aspect in my opinion. It is grotesque. All about guns, money, women, and drugs, and it is all over the radio. All the kids listen to it. It is ignorant and subliminally destroying anyone that listens to it. But again, I believe the white man has kept them in these ghettos and systematically attacked their race with drugs and poverty. It takes two to tango though.

>>18102838
humans are tribal, you want to be surrounded by people from your own tribe, people who you share characteristics with. Most people are like that, the only people who say that they are colorblind are either virtue signaling or were forced to grow up in a big city with people from all kinds of cultures and races

>>18102516
could you pass for 18?

what age are they? does your age really matter? either tell them the truth or try to look younger.

Why would you lie about something so inane.
Just come clean. Unless you're a big pussy. Just stay 8 years younger and keep lying. It's not like you're ever going to meet these people.

Shit, whoever is doing the hair test must be serious.
Who is doing the test anon?
Work or parents?

>>18102444

work

>>18102419
Start drinking more water to flush out your system

>>18102289
Tell her that you are an adult and you buy your own clothes.

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Welp.. sounds like a thread for /fa/ to handle. What exactly do you enjoy wearing?

>>18102296
I already have Anon. She even drags my husband into it trying to get him to get me to dress how she wants. The only thing that works that gets accross to her is me being mean to her but that is only a temporary stop.

You probably kiss the mouth that had other guy's cock and semen in it, also gl with oral on her, the dick has been there as well.

Cheers!

>>18102327
t..thanks anon

Just think man, now she will always be thinking about that one night stand and how fun it was to just be a little slut that night. But then she will think that she might still love you...It's not really cheating though since she isn't falling in love with the guy right?

She picks up her cell phone, face blushed hot red with anticipation. She knows you're working tonight, and she knows you would never know if her fuck from the past came over. It was just one time after all, not a regular thing....

*A few months later*

Every time you leave to work, he's sitting in the parking lot of your apartment complex. The minute you pull off he's pulling in, into your girl's sopping wet pussy. His cock is bigger than yours, and you've noticed lately that her pussy hasn't felt quite the same. Her pussy yearns for him to fill her up, fill her like you can't anymore.
Eh I wont torture you anymore. You're girls fucked another dude, so what. Dump the bitch or move on from it.

You sound controlling.

His friends are his friends. They don't have to be your friends. And going out with friends and socializing is a normal, healthy thing for a 24 year old.

If you don't like that he drinks and smokes, that's a you problem. Unless we're talking blackout drunk 7 days a week, which doesn't seem to be the case.

>>18102294

Yeah I know I'm going to sound controlling but it's not because im controlling it's because I care about him and want the best for him .. You are who you surround yourself by and I feel like he's not going to get anywhere in his life bc his friends have such a bad impact on him

>>18102311
He isn't going anywhere in life because he doesn't want to.

Well I guess its worth a shot also MD Anderson in Houston Tx specializes in types of cancer I think.

I mean id definitely try it if other people cant figure it out.

have you been tested for lupus?

>>18100912
>two years
>all efforts have failed
i cant imagine being married and not having sex for two years. drop the ultimatum, and start hiding your assets. it may be time to move on.

Well that's a dead relationship if I've ever heard about one. Why are you even together?

Anyways, here's the thing. A relationship needs novelty and adventure. Once you settle down and fall into a boring routine that's never broken the passion dies. Especially for women. You need to do something with your wife that creates excitement, arousal (not necessarily sexual arousal). Vacations, sports, traveling, kidnapping children, anything that stimulates you, gets your heart rate up and creates emotions. It doesn't have to be something grand (although the grander, the better) you can do "mundane" stuff that will have some impact too, like going dancing, playing paintball, stuff like that. But sitting in an apartment all day will kill any love, lust and passion. Well, it already did, you have to build it all up again.

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>>18100956
It seems so simple but, it makes a lot of sense. I think i'll do my best to bring some fun back into our lives, regardless if it pays off in sex. I think, being part of the problem limited what options I saw as viable. I will make it work, even if we have to start from the beginning again. Thank you.

>>18100514

She was mentally ill. You're young and lovesick. Grow up. Time will heal your dumb wounds.

>>18100514
It's a weird feeling buddy. My girlfriend of five years was diagnosed with BPD but its a constant back and forth. Some days she's great and everything I want in a relationship. Other days I feel so close to breaking up with her. Mental illness is rough.

>>18100514
for me (girl) it takes 1,5 year to get over anyone, by the time i start liking. So if i know i need to get over its just to wait that time and then im ok again. So my advice to you is have patience, try to do new things and make new friends but understand that you'll keep liking her for some time and it will pass, after that you'll find someone cool and maybe even better for you than she was

>>18099058

I have never done drugs of any sort*

If you don't want to do it. Don't let her force you.

If this causes you to break up with her, good. You shouldn't spend time with someone who wants to force their own addictions onto you

>>18099063

Like I said, I'm not opposed to it. I don't have a strong opinion, one way or another. I just happened to never use drugs before in my life.

>addiction

Is it an addiction if it's two-three times a year?

He bought tickets for a concert, a hotel room and he's driving 6+ hours? Uh, yes this is a date.

He's expecting you to put out too, I hope you're aware of that.

Yeah he wants to fuck that much is pretty clear OP.

>>18094635
I mentioned that I would get my own place... are you sure?