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>>18076207
youre social circle is dying, it sucks but it happens. Life moves on and it takes people in different directions, like shedding a skin. The best you can do is have fun while you can and end it on as best a positive note while you can. It happened to my entire circle of friends from elemntary to high school. Some went no where in life, a few of us were successful but the best you can do is enjoy what you have left and dont beat a dead horse
think of it this way, would you rather grow up and move on to new things or keep the same circle of friends and the same life forever

>>18076221
thanks for the kind works
i know its best to move on but i cant stop blaming myself for it... i dont even know if its my fault that the circle is dying

>>18076246
its nobodys fault, I did the same thing putting the blame on myself. Unless youre activily avoiding them when they all want to get together or trying to ruin their plans its just life getting in the way. Growing up doesnt suck, its growing apart that does

>>18076165
I was earning a couple hundred a day writing and recording erotica. It's about 6 hours a day of work and there's more competition now than when I started, but lonely men and women are willing to pay quite a bit for something that makes them feel special.

Ok

>>18076149
"hey, when are you free for that date?"

Suggest a specific time. This is dating advice 101. 'hey_____, hope you had a great week. Are you still trying to meet up sometime this weekend? I was thinking (coffee shop) at (time). How does that work for you?

When I'm naked I don't go anywhere a pocket knife or mini screwdriver set would be useful, because I'm in my apartment and there are plenty of knives and tools here. You're mentally ill.

I would often sit naked alone. My beloved and I would sit naked all day. I told her it was something I did, it had nothing to do with anything but comfort.

All the sweating, AC, heat, breeze, etc etc feels like your body is actually ALIVE for once instead packed like a sausage casing

Also, I live in Florida >.>

Don't worry this affects dozens of people, dozens!

>>18075977
Maybe

But there's also the other side
What do YOU get out of this relationship?

For some things it's ok to be selfish.
In fact, it's not just ok. It's good.

Think about what you get out of it.
If it's a net negative, think about ending it

At the end of the day, you're only ever responsible for your own happiness.

If he's visiting her at work or texting her while you're in his compamy I would probably cut him off.

She might have been a friend to him that he got friend-zoned with

lose weight

Use images. This is a police report. Something like....

Reality at 80mph

Piercing bright sunshine
Saw a crow in the dew wet grass
Thoughts is pains to come

>>18075917
I studied poetry at uni because I was retarded
I guess you can say I know a thing or two about the subject.

If you don't use meter, then long syllable words are just irritating to the reader/speaker

There's a quote by Vonnegut, who may have been quoting someone else, what he said was that "there is no tennis without a net"

You need to restrict yourself
If not be rhymes, then by meter

Eventually you will have to tell her that her constantly texting someone she used to be in a relationship with bothers you. But if you've only been together a few weeks do not say shit about it, you'll come off as controlling and jealous.

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>>18075880
Have a real conversation about it with her. Tell her that if youre exclusive, that shit has to stop. If she refuses, time to start looking if you havent already. Dont get cucked.

>>18075880
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>>18075859
Whats your degree?

Lemme just say that almost no one starts out in their dream job. Lots of people work 2-4 jobs in the first 5 years, jumping from small project to better opportunities and bigger companies. Like my one friend is a producer on CNN. Pretty high profile job. He started out working on shitty local access tv. He would work on shitty articles for local newspapers you've never heard of for freelance. And he worked the 12am-8am hours at a shitty news station. Now he has a 9-5 CNN job and pays well.

Asking for help doesn't make you stupid, not asking and failing makes you stupid.

bump?

My gf has also wanted me to do this to her
Problem is I like sleep more than sex, and she always wakes up before me
Probably a domination thing, but I think it's fucked up to want it like that

>>18075753

I think it's just an extension of men's fantasies - to get woken up by sex or a blowjob.

There's nothing wrong with it, they're perfectly comfortable with you 'using' their bodies for pleasure while they sleep. They trust you. It ain't rape.

You probably have a brain tumor. You're going to live for exactly 127.834 days.
Satanspeed anon.

>>18075706
bipolar is classified more by very severe extended periods of mania/depression over several days/weeks, rather than swings throughout the day
i'd say its just hormones but if it gets in the way of every day life you should tell a doctor

>>18076139
also great album op

>>18075692

Sorry, I meant to say for his birthday. He's 31. Should I be more thoughtful? I've known him for 13 years.

>>18075699
Depends on how much feddy you got.

Maybe you know he's lacking in some department.

Maybe a custom Scuff, or an Elite controller.

Maybe a new headset

Maybe a season pass for a game he's into.

Maybe a gift card just because you don't know jack shit

Maybe order a pizza paid in full delivered to his pad on some night off he's been looking forward to enjoying indoors.

>>18075720

For what it's worth, I'm going to dinner tonight with him and I totally forgot it was his birthday. So it's hard for me to go out and get him stuff. Plus he doesn't live with me anymore, so I don't know what he has. He tends to buy a bunch of gaming shit though, so I'd probably be duplicating it if I just went to Target on the way to dinner.

nobody?...fuck

glassdoor reviews look pretty straight

>>18075589
One word: confidence.

Something I lack of and can't tell you how to gain.

There's no such thing as "game" in the sense that there's a magic trick or a couple of rules.

Everything to do with women is social interaction. Knowing how to get women is a lot more comparable to knowing how to make friends and chat with strangers than knowing how to ace a presentation or something. There's different ways to get women, but typically the bulk of men who do well with women have several things in common;
>they are relatively thick-skinned, they can take a no for a no, don't instantly get hung up on single girls, find something charming/attractive in a wide range of women and favor the woman who favors them
>they have self respect and are completely at ease with being sexual and finding women attractive
>they are able to enjoy interaction for its own sake and not make any social thing with a woman into a cramped attempt to score with her in any way (relaxed, so you will)
>they do not derive all or even most of their confidence from what women think of them

The only thing that's really comparable to a game is knowing how to flirt and actually charm someone, which is a plus but not absolutely necessary, especially if you look good. If you don't, this is the #1 way to connect. Put yourself in a girl's shoes by considering this. If you saw a girl with kind of average looks, bad clothes, cute face, would she stand out to her, would you notice her? Probably not unless she was the only woman in the room. But if she gave you a huge, uninhibited, sunny smile a couple of times? Made sure to ask you questions whenever you happened to talk and not just ramble about her stuff? Suddenly teased you with a spark in her eye that made you go - oh shit, this girl's naughty?
Then she will look a whole lot more appetizing. It is exactly the same the other way around, only men are thirstier and women are pickier so you can even less so expect them to want to jump your bones just by looking at you.

>>18075620
That was very informative and right

If you hate marriage you still haven't found a person that you love so much you would be willing to spend the rest of your life with them.

If you hate kids, well, I don't know. Your child won't be a screaming bag of shit you teach them well.

>>18075582
>help me
Then DO NOT marry and DO NOT FUCK! Have a vasectomy or something.

Easy.