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So I've been single for a couple months now and want to start seeing someone. I've been actively pursuing it and not having any luck. I recently realized there's a girl I knew from a while ago that I wouldn't mind trying with. Now, I don't have any delusions that she is absolutely my next girlfriend but I wouldn't mind getting to know her better and see where things lead.
But I haven't even seen her in a couple months. We were never exactly friends, but we did get along pretty well and she seemed to enjoy my flirty nature. After the play was over I ran into her at her work occasionally, but I don't see her there anymore.
How do I get in touch with her again?
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Do you have her number.
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>>18079890
look her up on kikebook.
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I am obsessed with a man that
>fourteen years my senior
>is way more intelligent
>lives across the country
>I only fucked a few times like four years ago
How do I stop being obsessed with this person? It's starting to filter into my real life. I professed to him that I still have a lingering crush and he was a great influence in my life a few months ago.
It's actually way worse and more stalkery. It only started up this past November 2015 when he released his book and my boyfriend at the time were having problems, and then we broke up. It got stalkery in April 2016. I mean, I always mentioned him in passing with delight for the last four years, but now I obsessively read old messages we exchanged way back when like everyday, and he is in my dreams nonstop. I wrote a long memoir that is just like fantasy to relive. He's also got a cult following and read his book and writings online all the goddamn time. I tried meditation and yoga and running. Podcasts, books, movies. Nothing can make it go away.
I can't stop having escapist fantasy and delusions. I don't know how to fix this. My friends are annoyed. Please help me.
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>>18079798
Get over your daddy issues and tunnel vision. Keep it up and you'll grow up into a very dysfunctional adult.
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>>18079816
I'm already a very dysfunctional adult.
I don't know, I'm trying to remain single for a while and it's manifesting in very strange ways for me, emotionally.
My day job is the only distraction I have since it's just technical and dry with no room for romance, but even then my true livelihood is creative so it just starts to leak into there.
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>>18079816
I'm also not so sure what connotes daddy issues. I mean, my dad and I are alright. My father did cheat on my mother and they split up, but I don't hate him. As far as dads go he could have been a lot worse.
Both my parents were mildly robotic Asian immigrants, so sometimes there was a language and cultural barrier, but I don't think it significant enough to be a huge issue.
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So, I graduated this past year, and am in my second semester of college. I completely just flunked out first semester. About a month or two in I just stopped going. I dreaded class. I didn't feel as if I belonged. Just fucking overwhelmingly like, unmotivated I guess. I didn't want to show up when I'd just sit there, and watch everyone else get along and be friends, and I'd always be alone. I just dropped everything and quit going. Failed everything. Since its a community college, no harm done. Didn't even get a notice or anything. I'm taking classes this semester, and keeping grades up this time, but these feelings are sinking back in. Idk what to do. I'm still living at home, have no god damn friends. I spend all my free time either doing homework or videogames. No social life whatsoever. What do I do? I feel completely trapped and alone.
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>>18079757
"Everyone" is not having social success and leading a fulfilling life. There are undoubtedly other people in the same boat as you.
I think you should continue to go to class and strive to succeed at what you're doing regardless of your social situation. You're doing something positive for yourself, and that's important.
One of the ways that I ended up making friends when I went to school (aside from simply approaching and talking to people) was to organize study groups. It was a good motivator to actually do the work I needed to do, and being able to explain something to someone else is a pretty good indicator that you understand it yourself.
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>>18079757
Maybe college isn't for you.
Note: I did NOT say you're not good enough for it. College is designed to give certain kinds of information and skills to certain kinds of people. If you're not the right fit, college isn't good enough for you.
Someplace else might be. Trade school, for example, or a job you can work your way up from. If you're the kind of person who would thrive best in some other setting, college is just a depressing waste of your time.
The world will always need plumbers. And electricians, and mailmen, and bus drivers, and cops, and salesmen, and barbers, and truck drivers, and factory workers, and landscape gardeners, and car repairmen, and...and...
All honorable and well-paying professions.
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>Senior prom is soon
>I'm probably going to be home drunk off my ass cause nobody wants me there
I don't give a shit about it but my father is going to be ashamed of me.
Advice?
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>>18079682
ask a girl?
{
string s=get_string();
if (s=yes)
{
printf("pick you up at 6.");
}
else if (s=no)
{
printf("I was cast out and rejected, forced to endure an existence of loneliness and insignificance, all because the females of the human species....");
}
}
tell your dad "this is my life, stop living vicariously through me. stop measuring my success by your standards."?
stay at home and be drunk and nothing else?
I feel like these could work.
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>>18079682
I didn't have a girl to go with me at my senior prom either. But I went anyway. I'm glad I did because now I won't have to go through the rest of my life thinking about what if I went to my senior prom.
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>>18079804
This. I had a gf of 5 months for prom, but ffs just go and check it out.
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My Ex is begging to return to me
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She and I first got together while she was with another man. She did almost nothing sexual with him, but I got her to send me nudes and make out before she broke up with him. In a fit of rage at her life, she broke up with me... Got a new bf... And is repeating the cycle. What should I do? I still have feelings for her...
And no, I won't
>show proof
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>>18079665
Just go with the flow.
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>>18079665
She seems kind of like a shitty person to be in a relationship with, don't you think?
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You're a piece of shit.
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>been missing a shitload of classes lately
>grades have been tanking due to this
>my uni has a week long break in the beginning of March
Should I use it to cram in the information I missed, or just say fuck it and quit?
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>>18079578
Cramming doesn't work. Take it slowly and catch up the most you can during the week. Then continue to catch up, making sure to talk to the professor.
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>>18079599
This. Don't leave, study and catch up.
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Cowboy up and ask your profs for help
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Does anybody know what the answer to the verification question is in kiwifarms?
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>>18079575
is the name of the creator of sonichu
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>>18079582
wait, just checked.
The answer is "she has autism"
are you fucking stupid OP?
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>>18079590
I'm new to kiwifarms:(
right now I'm disgusted with myself. I'm throwing a desperate allnighter trying to pass an exam. I'm literally reading the book for the first time right now.
How do you fix yourself? I deleted videogames in the past but I keep procrastinating, just not putting in the work needed to easily pass this shit. And my family even keeps supporting me and that makes me feel 1000 times worse. Ireally want to get better, please tell me if you had this and fixed it.
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aren't you replying because you have this problem yourself?
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>>18079540
And here you are, still procrastinating and not doing the stuff you're supposed to be doing.
I suggest trying to organize your time better by making a schedule and then having the willpower to follow that schedule.
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pomodoro technique . 25 minute sessions are much easier to psychologically commit to than monumental tasks you've built up like "learn everything I need to know for class"
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I'm sitting here needing some direction. My car is in the shop and I probably won't get it back until next wednesday. That significantly messed up my mobility and I'll have to give up some jobs because of it.
I need to make some cash online. The survey sites are such a low return for how much time you put in. I'm not looking for 800 bucks in one shot. That'd be nice but not practical. I just need a source of legitimate ONLINE income.
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unless you're a hot girl willing to flash your pussy on chaturbate, you ain't gonna earn shit online. Not in a week anyways.
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>>18079448
Definitely a guy. I figured as much. Smh...
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>>18079451
watch out for those survey sites too anon. Easy way to get your info sold and phished. Plus you're only going to be earning like 25 cents to 2 bucks from those things.
Anything that says you can make money online is full of shit. In my 30 years on this planet, that is the one thing I can say with 100% confidence.
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Lawyer from Canada, 20 years of litigation in mostly family. Bring it! And if you ask, tell me where you're from.
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>>18079386
Pic sorta related. I think she's hot. It's not me, and I don't know any lawyers who look like that, let alone dress like that.
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>>18079386
While waiting, here's a favourite pic of mine.
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Fallen on hard times, financially speaking (unemployed). Wondering what happens if I don't pay by bills. Like I have had Verizon for 3 years. Paid in full every month. Will they cut my line after another month? Longer? Also my credit card nearly maxed out, and wont be able to pay. Do I just get a bunch of PAY US letters?
>pic unrelated
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>>18079292
Don't know about Verizon but generally what happens with businesses is that if you don't pay, you'll start getting lettters and calls about it. Then it'll be passed to their internal debt team who will continue to pester you. Past a point, your service will be terminated for lack of payment and you may incur interest on the debt. Failing collection with internal debt management, your bill will be passed to a debt collection agency. And then it's basically game over. These guys do not fuck around and their sole reason for existing is to shake down people for money. Your international credit rating will be forever fucked. I'm not sure what DCA advanced strategy/method/tactics are, and I dont really want to find out.
t. Person that has worked in large corporations.
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>>18079514
I know that like in the past my mom has accumulated debt, say the electric bill, and they would eventually cut the power. But like I need my phone for potential interviews. Bill due the 8th. Im hoping if I partially pay it, say 50%, they wont fuck with the service. Its due on the 8th, just dont want it to be like the 10th and see no service.
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Bout to have my first hookup. First time doing it with a girl I am not in a relationship with. How do I not be too nervous?
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alcohol
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don't be a pussy
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I can't stand it anymore, I have severe OCD and anxiety that has gone untreated for years since my teens.
I finally worked up the courage to go to the doctors last week where the doctor suggested to me anti depressants, my family are very strongly anti medication when it comes to shit like this.
The doctor also referred me to some mental health place for CBT but its been over a week now and nothing has come through and my symptoms are increasingly getting worse and worse. I have another appointment in a weeks time, should I take the meds or not? The side effects scare the fuck out of me. Please help me, thank you.
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Might I suggest you look into psilocybin mushrooms? It has potential to treat OCD, and you only have to do it once to get results.
however there are risks
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>>18079215
asking for medical advice on 4 chans
meditate
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kaNO09cPS6c&spfreload=1
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So this guy hired my friend to work under the counter on a ganja farm, and he cheated her out of her pay. It wasn't that much, maybe 500 dollars, but she is broke, and it would have really helped her a lot. Than he blocked both our numbers and moved away. What should I do?
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btw, I have his facebook and phone number.
my friend is sweet and hard working, and did nothing to deserve this
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>>18079189
>working for shady illegal grow ops
>did nothing to deserve this
Just get a real job next time.
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>>18079209
it's not illegal where we live.
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This is mostly just a filler post to clear my mind, I know how my situation is almost impossible and I know what its only transmitted through blood, anal and vaginal juice and breast milk but I get anxiety a lot and have been researching hiv a bit recently.
Can you get hiv if the furthest you've gone with a girl is rubbing one girls clit for a few seconds and 1 non deep kiss that barely touched my lips
Never used drugs either.
Last time I had a needle stuck in me was 2 months ago for a nhs doctors blood test for diabetes and it just came back saying I was deficient in iron and vitamin d. Dunno if they tested for disease. Before that it was atleast a decade ago before I had a blood test.
Will be getting a general std test done soon at a clinic just to get rid of the anxiety.
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>>18079165
Kek, you don't have aids you silly fuck
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You and I both. Told my mom to accompany me to a clinic next week. Her brother (my uncle) died of AIDS, and he shared his razors with me once. I cleaned it an all, but I dunno. I'm praying I don't have anything. Other than my concern, my health appears to be fine, I'm just skinny in my face a bit, but sometimes I wear pretty tight pants along the belt line and I feel it's affefting my circulation.
Good luck OP.