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not tryna spam up the board, but I need advice soon (planning to make a plan of action tonight) so I'm gonna bump this. most of the problems in our friend group come from everyone shit talking each other. There's a lot of infighting but we're all pushovers so nobody says anything and we all just sort of stay in our rooms. I've been thinking of distancing myself from them for a while and then I got with her and sort of use the relationship as an excuse to duck out of things. She doesn't accuse me of cheating, but she is rather paranoid and jealous. We also argue a good bit, but we spend 24/7 locked in our room because one of our roommates literally lost his mind. I feel like having our own place with multiple rooms would be beneficial for the relationship. I love this girl but we've only been together for 6 months (I've known her since high school). Am I crazy for wanting to choose her over my guy friends? I'm sick of them verbally backstabbing each other but they're genuinely good guys.

Your friends sound toxic anyway. Go live a nice life with your girl. Don't buy into the friends meme, especially if they're shitty to begin with.

>>18084170
Your friends sound like faggots, but your gf being paranoid like that and arguing with you alot is a bad sign
Honestly only you can decide who you value more, but your current living situation sounds ridiculous. Just be careful not to overcommit to either of them is all I can say

Nothing. Dumb idea, will solve or help nothing.

Ok

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>>18083998

Here's the thing. You said a "pupper is a doggo."
Is it in the same family? Yes. No one's arguing that.
As someone who is a scientist who studies puppers, doggos, yappers, and even woofers, I am telling you, specifically, in doggology, no one calls puppers doggos. If you want to be "specific" like you said, then you shouldn't either. They're not the same thing.
If you're saying "doggo family" you're referring to the taxonomic grouping of Doggodaemous, which includes things from sub woofers to birdos to sharkos (the glub glub kind not the bork bork kind).
So your reasoning for calling a pupper a doggo is because random people "call the small yip yip ones doggos?" Let's get penguos and turkos in there, then, too.
Also, calling someone a human or an ape? It's not one or the other, that's not how taxonomy works. They're both. A pupper is a pupper and a member of the doggo family. But that's not what you said. You said a pupper is a doggo, which is not true unless you're okay with calling all members of the doggo family doggos, which means you'd call piggos, sluggos, and other species doggos, too. Which you said you don't.
It's okay to just admit you're wrong, you know?

Learn to laugh, and openly criticize others.

Don't be like him, be yourself.

First of all OP, do you even exercise? If not then start doing it. It can help you with stress/anxiety/anger/frustration issues. You could try meditation to improve your mood. Lastly, focus on sleep, that helps with the mood a lot,

>>18083928
Don't even worry about the underwear bro. As for everything else just tell that you like her and want to take her out on an actual date.

>>18083939
>just tell that you like her
like should I try to be flirty first, like poke/hold her hands or some other casual body contact something before saying it

i just don't know when I can just go ahead and say "I like you" all of a sudden

>>18083999
Yeah, you should have been building up sexual tension already. You should be flirting with her and getting an idea of how she feels about you.

>>18083914
Sounds like you're ungrateful

I'd love to have a boyfriend who sends me that many videos

>>18083914
Be honest. Tell him you don't want to see him wanking it all the time. Either he'll take it personally, or realize he was trying too hard. All things should be taken in moderation.

>>18083914
Why can't you just tell him exactly what you just told us?

>>18083826
>All I know is I like to be my own boss and I want to inspire others.
Business?

>be my own boss
>I have artistic talent but the irony is I hate doing it and the culture around art.
some kind of fabrication or cabinetry or a trade like that.

>>18083845
I've considered this originally but where I'm from EVERYONE is going for business. Plus unless you have a natural entrepreneurship ability the degree hardly does you any good. I guess I don't have the creativity to come up with a product that's unique and desirable, even if I do have the drive to sell and market said product.

those look like toys made for little boys. like transformers or videogame guns.

>>18083759
Black.

Grey

Stop being so melodramatic, six months really isn't that much time to begin with. You're still relatively the same person unless something really life changing happened.

Go through your 4 years of college, or just live 4 years really, and you'll find that your personality really will have changed.

>>18083738
>However, a couple days ago I hung out with some high school friends, and I acted like I was still in high school the whole afternoon while being aware of doing such
Because that's how they know you. Everybody falls victim to this. It's safer to keep acting like the person they knew, than to change it up, and have them question what's going on. Believe me, it takes a lot of work to break out of that.

If your sex life is as good as your english, I can see why it's fucked up

>>18083733
English isn't my primary language and I started studying it rather later.
Got anything useful to say, other than bitter comments?

>>18083726
Fap less, don't use a death grip. If you're circumsized, make a daily regiment to use a good lotion like Gold Bond Ultimate to help de-keritanize and moisturize your glans. How often do you have sex?

Bumping for any help at all. I've never been in a work environment before.

>>18083720
If your cleavage is small enough that you don't need a bra, then you don't have to wear one. If it is then just go to a store and buy one, or get a sports bra.

Please for the love of god wear underwear.

If your tits are small (A cup or smaller), then you can get away with it, just make sure your nipples don't show through. Use pasties or bandaids or whatever Anything larger than an A, get a bra

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>>18083667
Apologies for "/b/", posted on wrong board and just ctrl+c, ctrl+v to here.

>>18083667
Siege warfare has pretty much become obsolete. No more big stone castle walls to destroy. Having a trebuchet is like being fluent in Morse code. It would be cool just not practical. So I would choose girlfriend. Now a trebuchet with a vagina would be a great debate.

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thanks OP, you made me feel that feel when no trebuchet-friend (tfw no tf)

If she says she wants to be friends, she either isn't interested in you, or she has an alternative option on the horizon.

Move on, focus on yourself, find another girl to crush on.

>>18083617

>i just want to be friends
>continue to act like friends
>WAIT IM CONFUSED ARE WE MORE THAN FRIENDS?

lol no

>>18083629
I've literally never chatted this much with someone who wasn't interested in me.

>>18083613
I think all normal men have this problem.
Just tell her to change the subject when it comes down to this

Be logical. Relationships are a risk. If you turn off, consider that a survival mechanism that you developed. If you don't like what you see/hear, then don't go for it.

>>18083613
Listen, you're her bf not her therapist.

If she continues doing it start interrupting her with in depth details of the shit you took that morning until she stops

>>18083593

dont make threads without an actual reason

Enjoy your debt slavery.

>Study first, party later

This doesn't mean you can't party, this means do your assignments the day they're due. Study every day, 30-45 minutes per class, per day (so you're taking 5 classes, study for 2.5 hrs-3 hrs per day).

>Take advantage of your universities tutoring programs, and your professors office hours

even freshman year, don't expect to know everything. Classes start out really easy, and then take a HUGE leap into complicated stuff. Expect to not understand things. Then use the resources available to help you out. There are certain topics in school that you can't just sit there and read over and over again and drill into yourself, you need to get individual help sometimes

>cut toxic people out of your life

I'm not talking about people that party, I'm talking about the people who start drinking before their 8am, and don't stop till 4am, every single day. These people won't last a year, and if you follow them, they'll ruin you.

Stick to people who have their priorities straight, and also party.

The library is very underrated and under utilized. Use it. It's infinitely better than studying in your dorm. I have two computers, a desktop for gaming, and a laptop for school. I do all my school stuff on the laptop in the library. If I was home, I'd be on my desktop playing DS3 or some shit

>>18083543

lasik is actually a brand name for the record, so if you check out what iteration of the machine they are using and what the differences between them are, you will see what the actual risks are.

like any science it develops over time, but unlike a random treatment or surgery its based entirely on what htese laserbeams can do for you.

my father had lasik done when i was younger, roughly 15 years ago, and it was pretty cool. he came home that night and we were watching TV on a tiny tiny tiny tiny like 10 inch screen that was way too far away, and he was able to read all the subtitles from a foreign language (we were in the middle of a move for the record so our normal sized TV was in storage).

>>18083550
>18083550
i dont sppose you know how much he paid for it?