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So I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years and I have been slowly growing more and more discontent with it. I feel like our relationship has been relegated to the corners of her life and that she isn't try to make time for us. She is very busy with school, but even when she gets free time, hardly any of it is used for US. Her family and friends are very important to her so I have tried not to make a big deal of it. We saw each about 6 weeks ago and I brought up seeing each other during her spring break because I was able to get the time off. She put it off by saying she didnt know what she was going to do so she couldnt commit to anything. I pushed the subject saying that this was an ideal time for us to get more than just a few days of face time in. This was all over text btw. Anyways, she gets really bitchy with me and I just reply "okay whatever" and we havent talked since. This was 7 days ago and for me to go more than a day without saying something to her is very rare so she has to know something is up, yet she has yet to reach to me. Do I just never talk to her again if she doesnt call or text? I love her and I saw my future in her, but I cannot tolerate that her being a bitch when I just wanted to see her. Like I want her to know why I am upset and fix this. I don't want it to end like this, but I am not going to take a second place in her life anymore.
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This ain't even a relationship.
Find yourself a real gf.
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have you met this person
do you want to be with this person
if both yes stop being a child and talk to her without being butthurt
women are retarded
but they absolutely hate men who act like them
and by that i mean when you are bitching
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Should I invite her on a road trip? 2017-03-03 08:16:01 Post No.18096399
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Should I invite her on a road trip?
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I live in central Canada, and I've been talking to this girl I went to high school with who lives in Edmonton, which is like halfway between where I live (our home town) and the west coast (B.C.). Over the past year we've gotten pretty close just talking via social media. We actually never talked in school at all. Anyways, since the last time she came home to visit we've been talking about me going out her way to visit her sometome. I told her I've always wanted to drive out to the west coast and that maybe this summer I'd do that and that I'd stop by and see her. Anyways, do you think I should just invite her and pick her up and go to the coast together? The thing is that I really like her. I'd totally date her if she didn't live so damn far away. Would I be beating myself up by teasing the idea of us being together by taking this trip with her? Or should I just stop by, spend the night, maybe we go out for drinks, and continue on to the coast by myself? It just sounds so dumb, going by myself. It's like an 18 hour drive one way. Then again she's always told me how much she loves B.C. Idk this might strengthen our already existing friendship and possibly pave the way for something in the future. What do?
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JUST DO IT!
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>>18096427
This
Please help, lads.
How the fuck do i stop this 2017-03-03 07:57:20 Post No.18096387
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How the fuck do i stop this
Please help, lads.
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Okay fellas. So first time posting here, hi I'm from /k/ and /fit/ etc.
So let me cut to the chase. I got married 7 months ago I'm in my late 20s
and I've been wasting my life on this Ethiopian mud-hut forum for half a decade now and fuck I'll just cut to the chase.
This fucking smoking hot 21 year old that I knew back in the day wants to fuck me.
How the fuck do I control my stupid fucking dick?
I tried googling stupid shit like "how to control temptation" but I just get a ton of lame christian website TOP TEN WAYS TO NOT MAKE GOD SAD lists.
I need a fucking hail mary maneuver guys. I don't want to fuck up my life.
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not that hard to avoid some whore
come on now
if you dont want to then dont
problem is you do want to
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>>18096387
Here's what you do
tell your wife about her and what a whore she is. she'll either support you and she'll respect your loyalty. alternatively she'll see it as a green light to initiate a 3 way (unlikely). I feel if you side with the idea that she's a whire and she sides with you it will subconsciously have an affect on you and start making you want this 21 year old less.
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>>18096407
yeah, or fuck her and don't tell the wife.
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What the fuck do I do. 2017-03-03 06:16:25 Post No.18096311
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I dropped out of school at 17 because school is a waste of my time (as I say that) I did it under the condition that I'd go to college and get my bachelors majoring in coding but I would go 2 years at a community college to cut expenses on pre-requisites. I've worked with Adobe Creative Cloud almost all my life with fluent skills with almost all the applications in it and I really don't find going to college a good use of my time as I'd probably fucking kill myself in the first couple months, any advice?
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>>18096311
So you think you know it all but have nothing to back up this claim?
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Learn a trade
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>>18096341
this OP. stop acting like your time is so precious.
protip: if you can't do something without taking the time to get a fucking degree first, than its not a waste of time, by definition.
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I'm slim, 5'9, long hair, beard, attractive face.
I'm really good at flirting and getting people to like me, but somewhere along the line I fuck up.
Once the flirting is going the right way I never know what the hell am I to do and girls just think I was having fun and playing games when I genuinely wanted to go out or fuck.
How do I understand when I have an opportunity and capitalize on it? I've been getting compliments and had numerous girls flirt with me since I was 16 but I always fucked up something and now I'm 22 and a virgin still.
Pic kinda related because I feel like a NEET weeb despite not being one.
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>>18096284
>long hair
>beard
>slim
an absolutely cringy combination
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>>18096297
Used to be lean\slightly buff muscular, I was into MMA. One day I tore a quad during training, had to recover and never excercised again because I'd gotten lazy by that point.
By the way it's not some emo or hipster shit. I'm a black guy so I have curly hair and it's not trimmed short.
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>>18096284
Fuck flirting. Seriously - I'm a 26 year old virgin, so take it with a grain of salt. But part of what has kept me from trying with women was that I didn't know how to flirt. Until I found out that it's completely superfluous.
You're a man, and men don't flirt. That is what you fucked up - flirting leads to nothing, it's just a dumb game for women. Ask for their numbers, ask them to go somewhere else, just kiss them out of the blue - that is how you get somewhere.
Two related sex questions. Can't think of a polite way to ask this, so I'm just going to be straight forward with it:
1- If a guy is going to have unprotected sex with someone a couple times in a session, is it common for him to expect her to flush her vagina clean of whatever he left in there last?
2: For those of us who tighten back up quickly, where does all that sperm go? It's in there, and doesn't seem to leak out, but the next day it's gone.
Pick actually kind of related.
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1. No, that's silly.
2. Male ejaculate doesn't stay thick, it breaks down into a runny fluid that will discharge from the vagina slowly over time. You wouldn't notice much more than a slight damp spot in your underwear, as most men only produce about 5 ml of ejaculate per orgasm.
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>>18096165
maybe come outside the first time, you dumbshit?
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>>18096171
No.
>>18096169
1. I figured it was kind of silly. I mean its their stuff, why would they care? I heard today that it was gross, and I was hoping to get some more perspectives.
2. I've not noticed it before. Maybe its too subtle.
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>>18096085
With your tongue
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mods wy u delet my pic it wasn't nudity
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Is this Girl trying to smash or what...? 2017-03-03 04:11:53 Post No.18096082
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Is this Girl trying to smash or what...?
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>Friends with this 24 year old girl in grad school
>I went on vacation for a couple of days, sent me a million text messages asking when I'm going to be back, and if she can chill
>Shows up at my place like 3 days a week
>Went out tonight and saw her, and I left to go shit post online
>"Why did you leave anon? I was going to ask if you want to watch TV but OK..."
Whenever she comes over she sents on her phone the whole time and is dating someone like an hour away
can't tell if she wants to smash
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>>18096082
Just ask her. Staright up ask her if she's interested. Don't say you are. If she says no, TAKE IT AS A NO and give 0 shits about her and ignore her completely, if she's actually interested she'll say something about it and you will be able to say "why did you lie to me then".
If she's not well then she just wants attentions she doesn't deserve and you can tell her you're not a supplement for her shitty boyfriend who's never there.
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>>18096168
Don't even fucking ask her.
Just invite her over for dinner (alcohol included) and movie. If she says yes, she's down to fuck but doesn't want to come off as a slut.
Have dinner, a few drinks, get settled in with the movie and make the first move.
Stop being a fucking beta.
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>it's another episode of Firefox crashing 12 times a day until I try to restore the previous session only to find out that those months of browsing have suddenly been reduced to 849 empty tabs named "New tab".
I wonder what do non-fuckups do to save their mildly interesting links? I tried to use the favorites on Firefox, but it got crowded and messy really fast, mostly because I couldn't/didn't tag nor account for hierarchy of importance. Also, I can't access it from another devices. Am I by any chance missing out on some add-on or bookmarking service for the extra lazy & scatterbrained?
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>>18096054
849?!
Dude the internet stopped being interesting since 2011.
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>>18096072
Yeah, and the number of open taps used to be on the 4 figures up until late last year, when the same thing as today happened.
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I'm new to Tinder and I'm talking to this chick I matched with earlier today.
How long do conversations usually last before I ask her to meet up? and should I look for a place to go to near her or in between our towns?
I know Tinder is commonly used for hook ups but as I'm talking to her she doesn't seem like the type to put out on the first date. I'm more interested in her as a girlfriend rather than a one night stand, so I don't know how to pursue this.
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>>18096020
you just gotta get it out quick, you will not meet 90 percent of the girls you match with. it's anumbers game
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>>18096024
should I ask for her number first, text her for a day and then ask her to meet?
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>>18096034
This should work
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my girlfriend and i have been together for over a year now
the first 12 months were absolutely perfect, no arguments and nothing but the dream relationship
after that she suddenly woke up one day acting completely different, in a bad way, almost as if someone else is in her body and it's very noticeable
i don't know how to describe but she's always sad, won't talk to me about it properly, a bit distant and we went from having sex every day to maybe three times in two months
she goes out to clubs a lot more and i think her extremely slutty friends are rubbing off on her
she isn't the same anymore and she knows it and we've had a lot of arguments in the last 2 months
now she's told me that part of her doesn't want a relationship anymore but she doesn't know why she feels that way and wishes she didn't
what should i expect is going to happen next?
>no i don't think she's cheated on me
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honeymoon wore off and know she's started noticing all the things she doesn't like about you, in the same way you've stopped being able to tolerate things about her
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>>18096022
this sounds pretty accurate to me though i wish it wasn't
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>>18096015
It looks like the relationship is headed down an unfortunate path. I'm sorry man but sometimes life hits us with some really painful blows, but it's our job to get back up and face life.
If you want 100% commitment, she can't give it to you. Trust her words when she says shit like that. Cheating is irrelevant here, the only thing that matters is she doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore, and the appropriate response would be to end it now before you have to suffer through an extended breakup.
Just remember it's not your fault. Keep your head up and let this go down in the books
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Why am I so sensitive? Someone saying something mean to me or yelling at me will bother me for days. Remembering things that happened to me years ago still put me on the verge of tears sometimes.
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fucking kill yourself then you crybaby
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>>18095974
That is a perfectly natural reaction. Confront your inner demons, anon. Don't bury them. That's the equivalent of moving garbage from the mainfloor of your house to the basement. It's not there, but you can sure smell it.
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It's actually a form of pride. Stop caring so much about your feelings.
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Recently breakup, help please? 2017-03-03 03:14:23 Post No.18095957
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Recently breakup, help please?
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I was with a guy a while ago and we dated for about 4 months. I was also friends with one of my friends who I had kissed over a year and a half ago. He and I were strictly just friends but my boyfriend at the time was ok with us talking and hanging out as long as he was present. He wasn't the jealous type at all. I respected his view because I'd probably be the same way. We had a very trusting and loving relationship and we talked about the future together.
Anyways, one day I decided I was going to see my friend again and we talked for about two hours and watched tv while I waited for my drive. I texted him for his approval and he said okay, but he was very upset later that night. He told me he couldn't trust me anymore and he ended things with me. He believe I cheated on him.
I was hurt as a kid by my father who was an alcoholic and after seeing what he did, I promised I would never do what he did. I feel like a horrible person because I lost the love of my life. I blame myself even though I didn't do anything. My friends tell me I had every right to see him but I still hate myself. He's different now and has totally changed not for the better and I can't help but blame myself.
Sorry it's long, I just need advice.
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So you get his approval and he ends things with you later that night. Sounds like a personal problem to me. Maybe he was upset this entire time about the relationship between you and your friend, and this was his breaking point. Or he was looking for a quick way out. Or you're actually untrustworthy but oblivious about it.
It doesn't really matter either way. He's made his decision and it's time for you to make yours, and a four month long relationship shouldn't warrant this much heartache. Be real for a sec, the love of your life wouldn't flip in the matter of a day. That's an indication of a bigger problem imo, but it's something not even worth investing time into. It's time to make a decision, not pick up the broken pieces and try to make sense of them.
Your thoughts are clouded by emotions right now, but take my advice into serious consideration. Blaming yourself for other people's actions makes no sense. Everyone has the power to feel what they want to feel, and do what they want to do. You should do the same.
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>>18095957
you knew it was not the right thing to do and yet you did it, chosing to be with your other guy alone over how it would make the guy you called your bf feel. If your ex had given you a pass the next time it would be a sleep over with the friend. Glad some guys have boundaries and when the girl crosses its over. Your fault OP.
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>>18096771
This. Your own behaviour got you here, OP. 4 months aint much, but remember it for future relationships. Guys dislike this shit a lot and it strains the relationship needlessly.
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What if you don't have that "moment" before the kiss? 2017-03-03 02:37:32 Post No.18095891
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What if you don't have that "moment" before the kiss?
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I'm 20 years old, I shouldn't even be asking this. I've been in a few relationships before but have never had this issue
Long story short, we met on Tinder and she's from my hometown. I'm away for college, the same college that she's heading to this fall
We really hit it off and are meeting for the first time this weekend when I go back to town. We're probably just gonna meet for coffee or something in the evening. Chat like we do on Skype.
I'm not worried about anything bad or spilling spaghetti. She's very vocal about how much she likes me, and I'm extremely comfortable with talking to her. But my \ concern is because I'm only in town like once a month, I feel like I need to make a move and actually progress somewhere (We've only texted/skyped for the past month or so), and I guess set the pace, assuming we're just gonna ride out the 100 mile distance thing until she gets to college.
>What if I don't have that window of opportunity where I know "Alright, this is the time to kiss her"? I don't want to awkwardly force that shit, but what do I do?
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Don't be a mf gine.
"nigga get some balls
Ain't no telling you gonna see that bitch tomorrow
Stop holding up the wall waiting for the right song" J Cole said it best Nigga get some balls and don't wait for this right moment stuff you just do it. Real nigga shii.
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just say "let's kiss each other" and go in for the kiss. it doesn't matter if it's one of those moments, she'll probably roll with it if she's feeling the vibes or if she wants it to go naked places. if she shuts it down, you'll know not to waste any more time with her for now.
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PSA that looks do not matter, I am attractive af and no body wants to fucking talk to me!! I feel like Elliot Rodger sometimes.
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>>18095886
Maybe you intimidate them? They probably make all sorts of assumptions about how you may react to their approach.
Try this: Look at them and smile.
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>>18095886
I feel ya brah
>tfw good looking
>tfw no confidence
How should I fix myself?
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>>18095890
they all grill me unless its a guy who values beauty. i kinda just be my self now and they can take it orleave it. i only like weird people anyways