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Hey adv
Im looking to move out of my dads apartment because he is a terrible roommate and i cant stand being indebted to him.
Problem is, my dream is to be a film composer, which means i am currently enrolled in college and taking a music major.
Do my question, is there a job that would afford me a shitty apt in san diego (roughly 500 to 600 dollars a month) but doesnt require any skills, because the only skills i have are music related.
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Full time minimum wage nets you that much but I doubt you want to do that. Plus you have to pay for all your bills and if you're in an emergency you're screwed
Trust me it isn't worth it, live with your fucking dad
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are you talking part time?
Cause a full time min wage job seems pretty capable.
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>>18099039
Along with college?
Also no part time job because i wanted to focus on classes.
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I'm bad at social media and can't tell if its a problem or not.
I only really use facebook to DM people, haven't made a status in forever and rarely upload pictures or anything
I have a super stagnant instagram/snapchat/twitter as well
I sorta want to get better at this stuff because it seems cool to have a social media presence, a lot of successful and happy people seem to do so.
For a while I've kinda just brushed it off as something that's not really too important to me but if I'm being honest I think I'm just frightened by how vulnerable it makes everyone but I think that's something I need to get past and I'm not sure how to go about it. People seem to generally like me in person but I don't really get why which makes it hard to figure out what qualities I should emphasize on social media. Could someone please help me get a grasp on this whole thing please?
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>>18099006
>I only really use facebook to DM people, haven't made a status in forever and rarely upload pictures or anything
Same, and I have no problem with it
>I sorta want to get better at this stuff because it seems cool to have a social media presence, a lot of successful and happy people seem to do so.
You do realise that people filter what they put on social media, right?
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>>18099027
>You do realise that people filter what they put on social media, right?
Yeah, of course, that's basically what I'm asking for help with. How do you go about learning how to filter and modify what you share? I'm really bad at gauging t hat so I've kind of just stepped out of the situation.
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For most public things, just ask yourself:
would little red riding hood's grandmother approve?
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its clocktown all over again
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Hey /adv/, I've seen this girl about two or so years now, I've had her in previous classes in the years but never got to know her better, shes 8.7/10, Russian/English, likes Videogames too.
>cheeki_breeki
im a solid 7.5/10 with glasses and an urge to come up with excuses and avoid awkwardness if possible. I bring this all up is because this early week my teacher (the class im in with her) had it in for myself, next day she talked to me saying I shouldnt have been harshly aimed at in the class by the teacher (he's nice, but hes a strict guy at the same time), so im gonna use this opportunity to try and get to know her better.
I have this next week to get her number because I have final exams, ive managed in the past to ask a girl out and do the same thing but im not too sure about myself now, to those that have successfully asked out a girl, any advice?
ill post results next week if I get the chance.
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>Talk to her for a bit
>"Hey, you seem pretty cool I'd like to be able to talk to you more, can I have your phone number?"
Literally that's it
If she says no, don't drift into oneitis and obsess over this girl forever until the end of time.
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>>18098978
Before I get to your issue, I want you to just stop and realize how stupid you sound right now.
>She's 8.7, I'm 7.5
Stop assigning this stupid arbitrary numbers to yourself and other people. Holy shit, you're even so fucking autistic to put a decimal place in there. What kind of system are you running on to deduce these numbers? Are you tallying up physical or personality defects and subtracting .1 by defect?
Grow the fuck up.
As for the girl, put your stupid lack of confidence issues aside, spend your energy on coming up with a way to ask her out, and fucking do it before the semester ends.
How do I make myself act better socially in public? Every time I leave the house I tell myself I'll act better but I always end up saying everything either too quietly or too loudly, getting worked up quickly, rambling, and saying rude things for no reason. It's driving me crazy and it's making it impossible to work on my social anxiety and branch out.
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just chill. big thing is, as long as you aren't budding into anyone's business nobody cares. people like communicating.
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>>18098992
But people also don't like being around annoying, autistic fucks, no?
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>>18098970
Literally talk more to people. The only way to perfect how you communicate is through practice, just like how the only way to learn how to walk is by falling down till you get it right.
All you need to do is learn how to conduct the way you speak. Try talking into a mirror to start off.
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Am I losing my morals? 2017-03-04 08:01:26 Post No.18098957
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>Be in a long high school relationship, girl. 3 years into college and we are still together. She leaves me... For a girl. Turns out she's a lesbian.
>I can't trust me, I start procrastinating on work, become extremely studious and /fit/ to deal with my pain.
>Year goes by, meet gorgeous Latina.
>She calls me "daddy"... Soon we have sex.
>Next day she tells me she has a boyfriend... Later she tells me her boyfriend chokes and beats her.
I feel awful...
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Bitches ain't shit but ho's and tricks.
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>>18098957
What kind of advice do you want, you fag?
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Why care if you're losing your morals? Morals are a code of rules that are primarily self-defined that you live your life by. If your morals include getting emotionally manipulated by a girl because she put her snatch on your cock for an hour, then I'd happily ditch them were I you. She fucked you and now she's trying to use you for the attention and validation and she wants to see if you'll sweep in and come to her rescue. The only one who can do that is herself -- by leaving him and seeking someone better, which she pretty obviously doesn't wanna do yet. Don't reply, don't feed into her craving for attention. If she wants to be in a committed relationship with you or anyone who doesn't choke and beat the fuck out of her she can leave that guy. Or maybe she can't, because she chose to move in with him on the basis that she sleep with him and he happened to be into some hard control dominant shit. Which is her fault for thinking that was a good idea at all. You're in the clear, anon. Keep doing what you're doing now.
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I applied for a job in a different city across the country. I was found suitable for it but they ran out of space in their intake and I was offered another role in my home city for the next 6 months while I wait to be placed in the next intake.
The thing is I like this new role and working in the city I grew up in is great, having friends and family here. Problem is it pays 80k while the role in 6 months pays 100k, and the path for promotions isn't nearly as good either.
I know this decision hinges on what I value more, but I want to hear your opinions on this. What would you guys value more, lesser pay with a "weaker" career path while staying near loved ones, or going for the career move? I'm single with no dependents so moving wasn't an issue.
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Chances are, you're not going to stay with this company for the entirety of your working life. Stay where you are, there will be other opportunities
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100k in 6 months. 6 months of vacation.
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I'd go for the career move, but only because I'm friendless. 20k is a lot
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Just bought this game a few days ago and it has already become the bane of my existence. Any tips on attack? ...besides get gud
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I'd ask in the general instead. Move slowly, sometimes in groups. Lean peek corners and aim at head level, train your reaction times. All about practice.
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>>18098951
First fucking thing you need to do is get a program that puts a fine dot dead csnter of your screen.
Dont trust where your gun is recoiling because bullets will always land dead center of your screen (as long as youre aiming down sights).
Another thing is just do what youd thing would be unexpected. Dont play super, you know somebody is peeking a window or door run up on that bitch and shoot him in the face.
And my last tip is to get ready for when you realize how unpolished the game is because when you do you will only be able to notice the awful things even if you do good every game.
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So I'm starting to have a toothache and the sad part it's because of my laziness i didn't renovate my health insurance or Medicare and now I'm fucked. I feel that eventually it's going to scale in a bigger pain. I reapplied for medicare but that thing it's going to take a while so what I can do?
I just paid rent and I'm basically broke. What I can do?
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I had the same problem a few years back. My pain got so bad I actually started crying. It happened over night too. I was like, ok, I'll figure out what to do in a bit, but somehow pus got into the mix, and all of a sudden I wake up the next morning and I almost passed out from the pain. Yeah, teeth are so weird.
So I just went to the dentist. Maybe I scared her, as I came in, very nicely went to the front desk lady, and with tears and snot, tried to say, please help, I can't even see straight, I don't know what to do, ow it hurts, help me, I don't have insurance.
Doc took me back, fixed the issue, gave me a crown, gave me lots of meds and when she was done we tried to figure out what I could do to pay for it. These people will try and do what they can for you in the end. So my advice, just go, and when you're there, you'll figure it out.
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>>18098956
that's what I thought but sadly I have too many bills to pay. I don't want to have another bill on me, But I might have too. Also the fucked part is that it's Saturday. I will reconsider this while I wait for more answers, thanks.
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dentist schools do it cheaper and if its painful, they bump you up the list.
what are the steps and your personal ideas on how to take over the world. keep in mind that i don't care if its life threatening. ill be the pawn, your the king.
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You're delusional
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>>18098933
true, but being stepped on everyday w/o noticing it is also delusional
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one bullet at a time.
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HELP HELP HELP
girlfriend is possibly pregnant
Not sure if symptoms of marijuana withdrawal either. Need symptoms tips, someone help I'm only fucking 19 and she's 21
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go to one of those neat facilities where they check for you
or buy a pregnancy test
and tell her to not fuck a braindead meatbag
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>>18098855
Well good thing I'm only half brain dead, I honestly think we're fine I didn't even go all the way in, we were just experimenting without the condom and the tip was just grazing the entrance
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hey /adv I have a date tomorow with a sorta needy girl i met on tinder. haven't dated in a while. how do I not fuck up a first date?
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>>18098844
Do not rape your date. I hope this information is useful.
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Do things like ask questions about her and make jokes (the boring normie kind, not the 4chan kind).
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>>18098844
Watch some stand up comedy, get in a humorous mood. Make her laugh, that's your goal. If she's down to fuck wear a rubber and good luck.
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Is it bad that I don't have any friends? I have a job and have been there awhile now, I talk to people when I'm there. Outside of work I don't talk to anyone anymore. Will this mess me up mentally and or physically in the long run? My coworkers think it's weird I never want to hangout and some say they worry.
I didnt have many friends when I was young so I'm used to it. I had a whole group but I decided to cut contact a few years ago. Then I had two friends but they got busy with life so I stopped interacting with them. I don't talk to my family either except my sister every couple of months. I don't feel like it's bad to spend my time alone, it's much easier then dealing with people.
>TLDR are there any bad mental or physical effects from not socializing outside of work?
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You're eventually going to be incredibly lonely. You may be fine now, but you won't be like that forever
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>are there any bad mental or physical effects from not socializing outside of work?
no
You are one of the .01% of people who actually enjoy their own company.
There's mental/physical effects if you interact with NO ONE. You interact with people every day, so you're gonna be fine.
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>>18098822
I already am sometimes but I just find things to do and then I'm fine
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That's what I figured. I work 5 to 7 days a week so Its not like I'm a total hermit
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>in class earlier today
>chance a fart
>lose to a shit nugget
>not small but seems manageable enough
>briskly leave for bathroom
>feel shit sliding down my leg
>leave laptop and bag in class
>get into free stall
>not nearly as much shit in my boxers as I felt sitting down
>brown spot on seat of jeans
>clean as much as possible to little avail
>go to return to class
>janitor's cart outside of door in hallway.
>too embarrassed to go in so I head home to change
>later go to police office in school for lost and found
>they don't have my bag or laptop
>muster up courage to check classroom and it's empty
The laptop and bag (which had two important textbooks) were my entire Christmas and I don't have anything else to use but my phone. Is there any way of finding my stuff aside from the report I filed? Can I still attend the class without being mocked or scolded out of the room (it's a prereq for my major and I already have two W's on my transcript.)
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>>18098805
Your teacher is probably holding on to your stuff.
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>>18098819
Will he mention the incident? Or will anyone else in class?
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>>18098830
Depends what grade of class it was.
If it was Elementary, they'll be on your ass for the rest of your life.
If it was Middle school, they'll mock you for a week.
If it was High school, it'll depend on where you live, ranging from being mocked for the rest of your life to maybe a mention a week later.
If it's college, no one really gives a damn.
With all the anti-bullying shit, people have become pussies and most likely won't say shit.
Your teacher most likely won't say shit, because they usually care more about their job than mocking a student.
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So there's a girl who comes into my cafe. Usually she just orders and leaves. We've sat and talked with a mutual friend once before and we got along pretty well. I think she's cute and she flirts with me when she comes in. I think I might wanna ask her out but she comes in very rarely. Today was the first time in probably a month or two and a lot of times it's really not convenient to talk to a customer because we're so busy.
I could always ask our mutual friend to set us up, but here's the problem: The mutual friend has asked me out before. Multiple times. She's got a massive crush on me. The last time she asked she was practically begging and it was a huge turn off. And if I were to ask her about her friend she'd probably get upset. But she's pretty much my most likely avenue to meet with this girl.
Do I ask her? Do I just wait a few weeks to a month and probably not even be able to take the opportunity? What do?
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Question: is this girl worth potentially losing your friend over?
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>>18098814
Honestly I wouldn't be worried. When I say friend I really mean acquaintance I see a lot and occasionally text. It's more that I don't want her to feel bad or slighted.
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>>18098892
Then ask her out next time you see her. You don't owe your friend/acquaintance anything, but it'd just be a dick move to get her to get you in contact with the other girl.
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I have a guy problem.
So a year ago today I met a guy. We hit it off, and starting dating, and I was with him for about 4 months until he finally broke up with me because I was going to school far away and he didn't think he could do a long distance relationship.
Since then, he's tried to message me A LOT on Facebook messenger. It's a bit of a roller coaster, with him going from being mad at me to wanting to reconnect to saying he was going to kill himself. (The boy was crazy, but as long as I was with him he kept on his meds and saw his therapist, when I left I have a feeling that stopped.)
In the time since we broke up I hooked up with a few other guys, had a short lived relationship (10 days after meeting me he declared his undying love for me) and eventually wound up in the relationship I currently have. The relationship is still undefined after about a month, but it's mostly based on him or me texting the other person and then cuddling with them and going to sleep. Occasional sexual acts, but most nights involve nothing but cuddling...which is good because I think I only like him for holding me at night and for being a good friend, he's not attractive at all...
So anyways, I'm going home tomorrow, and my ex messages me about an hour ago saying he's sorry about everything he said to me, he wants to reconnect, and I was the best thing that ever happened to him. And I've actually been thinking about it. He was attractive, the sex was the best I've ever had, he was really smart and headed for a good career, we had similar taste in games and music; he was honestly the best relationship I'd ever had.
So I need advice. Do I throw away the safe thing I currently have for the chance at reforging the best relationship I ever had? Or do I decide that exes should remain exes, and stick with the safe but mediocre thing I have now? I have to pick one or the other: I believe in monogamy and I wouldn't be willing to try to have them both at the same time.
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>>18098781
You already know that the relationship with your ex isn't going to work out. So you phrase your decision as "Should I throw away an average relationship for a temporary awesome relationship." The answer is yes. Eventually you'll leave this average guy, and end up wasting time you could have spent looking for a real relationship.
Never settle for less.
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Let him kill himself, and tell him to write your name on his chest before doing so.