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So I've been with an amazing girl for about 6 months, she has ideal qualities for a more long term relationship leading up to marriage.

Problem is, my current mindset and my direction in life dont agree with that. Her emotional demand is rather high, and shes very sensitive (both in a good and bad way) I love her, though im not in love with her and can not provide her with what she emotionally needs.

Im looking to /adv to help me to break it to her without destroying her as I am her entire life and she wants to spend her life with me.

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Hey guys. Is there actually any way to track someones phone without their gmail address/password? I know for certain there are ways to track the IMSI number by calling the person but then you need expensive hardware to actually trace it. Any of you hackers can point me in a general direction? Ive recently been scammed on a website and all I have is the guys number. The police is useless so I want to try and find a way myself to find this guy, damn

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I'm 18 years old, I live in Ontario. I have no job, I can't afford school, nor do I know what to go into at the moment and I basically just drove away the last person to really care. I'm a constant fuck up and my life is going nowhere. The jobs around here are all tool and dye, factory work or general labor and I, as comfortable I am with breathing and living, (it's all I know) don't want to live. At least, not like this.

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It's impossible for me to read books or watch a movie without getting distracted and doing something else, my attention span is completely destroyed. What's the best way to try to improve it?

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Father is a gradeschool graduate with a low paying job who gets angry very easiely and orders people around,makes fun of people,frequently lies to get most out of his deals
Mother is a highschool graduate with a good job with good pay,works hard is nice if not overwhelmed(like anyone else). Careless and forgetful
Brother is an annoying 8 grader who never shuts up and always wastes money

I am a Junior High Schooler who has no friends,rarely talks to people always plays computer games or chess.

Every single day is like this:
I wake up early,make myself breakfest,wake my brother up. Go to school at 08:50 and come back at 17:00. Pray to god and hope there is something in the refrigirator. Cook food for myself,my broter doesn't eat anything I cook. Mother comes at 7 exhausted as hell,closes bedroom door and rarely gets out. Father comes at 8,I greet him,he ignores me,he dresses and goes to living room. Opens TV and tells mom to bring him anything from last night. He eats it then spends entire night infront of the TV. Usually "Bring me Soda" or "Bring me X". To avoid angering him,being ordered like a slave by him I spend all my time in my room. Dad at TV,Mom at bedroom,I'm at my room,brother at his. 20 'til 23. Then he stops by to my room,mocks me for playing computer games and not studying (which I do every day and bring really good grades) and tells me to sleep. Then we all sleep

My parents never congratulate me for anything I do,always criticise me for every single mistake. My brother is a stubborn idiot who always yells until what he wants is done(I always have to eat what he wants,go where he wants). My mother doesn't have a care in the world if we are starving or not. My father is a fat fuck who thinks he's the center of the universe and can never be wrong and is a great person. They never come to parent-teacher stuff. They only pay for our stuff and say the famous words: We love you both,we pay for everything you want so you should study for to pay us back

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How does one live fast and die young? Can it be done on your own and how long does it last? I'm not suicidal, I just don't think life is very interesting and I want to get it over with ASAP without killing myself.

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sup /adv/

I'm trying to figure out how to set up two audio sources for my xbox one. I recently got destiny 2 for xbox and my girlfriend wanted to watch. I'm using a logitech g933 which has a 3.5mm audio jack that hooks into my xbox elite controller.

the issue is, my gf wants to watch me play but it's really shitty cause she can't hear anything while I have my headset on. if I play sound thru the TV at the same time, it echos like mad to my teammates and I cant be that guy.

Would a 3.5mm audio splitter work coming out of my controller? Or do I need to get a separate headset and have it hooked up to a separate controller? I just strictly need audio for her, if she can talk as well to our friends fine, but the main point is to let her hear. wat do?

>picture unrelated, on work computer and I only have a pic of my dog on here.

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Wanna go to a stand up comedy show in a small town with local heroes performing. Would it be a good idea to bring a girl along as a date kind of thing?

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How the hell do I get good, comprehensive information from a reliable source when it comes to learning a new Adobe program? I'm trying to learn coding in Actionscript in Flash Builder Premium but I just don't know where to begin asking questions.

The only program I've had in-depth experience with is Adobe Premiere.
How have you guys been taught to use Adobe... stuff? Any good resources or tricks to learning?

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Help me out /adv/. I am currently studying psychology but I feel as if it's not what I truly want to do in life. I have considered becoming a police officer. What do?
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I feel like I've lost a lot of my libido lately.

For some context, I don't jerk off five times a day to only more and more extreme porn, so I don't think I've burnt myself out or fucked up what makes me horny. Maybe once every other day, or once every three days. I have zero interest in physically finding a woman because there are worries that all go to the bottom line of "I don't think it would be worth the effort". I've had an online relationship of ~2 years end a month or so ago, so I think that's probably the main reason but I don't know.

Is it anything I should genuinely worry about? I never really had performance anxiety in my past relationships, but I've read and heard a lot lately about how more guys my age (mid-20s) are having ED due to overexposure or overconsumption of porn. I guess I'm worrying because when it came to being in a relationship, I was insatiable and never really lacked energy or will. Now I kinda couldn't care less if a naked woman forced her way into my apartment and onto my bed.

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Should I become a translator if I don't particularly like reading?

I used to like to read as a kid/teenager, but now I don't. I mean, I can read a book and get some enjoyment out of it, but I can't read for hours on end like I used to be able to. I can only read for like an hour before I "burn out" and need to take a break.Caffeine helps, but only for so long, obviously, and afterwards I can't read well for a good 5 hours because of the crash.

Is translation just not for me, then? I know Japanese and English. I'm not interested in interpreting as I have problems with audio processing. My hearing is fine but my autism literally affects how I process sounds (to the extent that sounds have colors, shapes, textures, and a couple of other properties). I don't have "sharp" hearing, if that makes sense. I always have subtitles on when I watch movies.

I feel like I can't be competitive as a translator or interpreter because of these reasons. I'm just looking for a "real" job so I can move out. Trades are out of the question - trust me when I say you don't want me working on your home's electricity/plumbing or out doing construction. Someone will get killed or something worth a lot of money will get destroyed.

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Any advice for avoiding our "countering" negative people?

>Been in a slump for as long as I can remember
>Recently things are starting to look up for me
>Have some new hobbies, eating better, getting more exercise
>Deleted my social media, and am reading more

Now I'm starting to notice the people around me are not only negative, but there is some inherent quality to this negativity, where people try to bring you down. How do you respond to this in situations where you have to deal with negative people?

(Mostly negative coworkers who are complaining about our easy-mode job.)
Last night I had to carefully maneuver around three attempts from coworkers to start an argument with me over various topics. When it was obvious that I wasn't interested in entertaining them, they just went on to the next person to gossip and argue.

How do you deal with this sort of thing?

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Any good budget electric shavers for 50 bucks? Pic is a Remington

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So i'm here again,asking the final question: does it worth to attend a degree on physics while developing my musical career,or would it be a better choice to study philosophy and specializing on music aesthetics and language?