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Long story short, hot local girl on twitter with unique similar interests, 1000 followers, I want to attempt something.

I don't know anything about her. Don't know if she has a bf, don't know if its a catfish.

Basically wow would I approach kinda getting to know her? What have I got to lose?
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>>18101382
Have you tried sending her a message?
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>>18101389
well thats what I need help with, how to not fuck it up. To get her attention while answering some questions safely

to add on to this when I reverse image search her pic, nothing pops up but
>"best guess: hottest girl in the world"

so I was thinking of saying

me: "hey is that a picture of you"
her:: "yeah, why?"
me: "I think googles hitting on you (shows screenshot of reverse image search"

I know its autismo cheesey lame, but thats why I ask for advice
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guess ill message her in the morning

I'm a girl. I came out at the beginning of the school year. As soon as I got a girlfriend a lot of girls have been into me and I don't like it. I don't understand why they're attracted to me because I'm weird, ugly, and I have no personality. Some of the girls are my really close friends! They hit on me, sometimes in front of my girlfriend and it makes both of us uncomfortable. I really love my girlfriend and I don't want anything to come between us. Any advice?
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so it's true that lesbians smell each other
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Yes. It's very true.
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Dude as a fellow lady lover with no SO, this works pretty well for me.

How tall are you? I am 6ft and sticking out my chest and and looking like a disappointed father works pretty well. I mean a real "no, cut it out" glare.

Touching and rubbing can be countered with a small shove and a "c'mon man'. Make them feel like dicks for being so flirty.
If you want a kinder approach use the "come on man, you can see my gal here" in a sort of jokey tone. Hopefully they will get the hint and drop it.

Body language is your friend. That's what works for me but I might just be biased because of my height.

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Planning on going to an anime con here in California (haven't decided on which one yet). I don't travel alone very often and I have a lot of anxiety issues but I wanted to do it anyway because I want to make some friends, maybe meet a nice girl if I'm fortunate. Even if none of that happens, it would still be nice to get some experience with being on my own for extended periods of time.

Basically, I wanted to ask; for people with experience going to cons solo, what should I know in advance? Precautions, ideas for things to do, etc etc? I've been to two cons but I've only ever gone with family and we didn't really do anything there, we mostly just wandered around and looked at the costumes.
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>>18101375

>trying to make friends at a place full of pretentious immature autismo bronies and sjws...

good luck
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If you want to spend time on your own, the literally anywhere but a con is a better place to go
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It's hard to make friends at these things going into them totally solo.

Still go, but realize anywhere else would be more fruitful in terms of making friends, like a class or an activity or some shit.

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When I was like 16-17 I was in a biology class and almost got caught cheating on some homework assignment. The teacher was hyper pissed but couldn't prove anything and I just denied it.

This was years ago, but there were evidently still SJW nuts out there. Well, before class I ran into one. She accused me of micro aggressions and started shouting at me and pushing me etc. This retarded nigger did this again several days in a row. I called the teacher for help but she just sat on her big fat ass and ignored me. I even turned off the lights once and she just sat in the dark ignoring me.

That obviously never sat well with me. I finished that semester and thought I was done with her stupid, petty, obese ass. Welp no, god hates me and put me in another goddamn class with her. I went to the principal and explained the situation, vehemently stating my case, but he never took me seriously. Eventually I got a meeting with both of them. I told him how she treated me and she just bursts out "JUST ADMIT YOU CHEATED", so I told her exactly how ridiculous and petty she was to hold something so trivial against me for years and to allow the abuse of a student because she got her feelings hurt or because she chooses to pursue justice above all else in a high school class or whatever.
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Principal wouldn't move me though. She actively tried to fail me. Would mark shit wrong on my tests and shit that weren't wrong, even if it was multiple choice. I went to the principal with the proof and he was just sooo fucking put out with me and angrily transferred me. The teacher didn't face any repercussions. She was well-like by the student body and the staff, so it was just assumed I was in the wrong.

I've always felt like this was complete horseshit. I was completely in the wrong for cheating on a homework assignment, but I feel like her reaction and behavior was insanely over the top. And then to top it off, the principal being a douche about it and not punishing the teacher for at least actively trying to fail me seemed seedy as hell and cause for some kind of punishment.

I just wanted yalls opinion. I'm 25 btw and this shit still pisses me off, lol.
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Yeah to be fair sounds like she did go over the top. Was this shit really important or something??? In any case, she was probably just pissed she had to look after dumb shits like you and the "retarded nigger" and had to vent her husband beating her.


ps British comprehensive state school, teacher would get sweated at and physically threatened and not bat an an eye
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What is in the past is in the past.
Not much you can do about it now.
Learn from your mistake and move on.

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Does anyone know if it's illegal or not to open, search and withhold the mail of your from then kid even if they're over 18 from them?
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get a post office box.
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I'll answer the question only if you tell us the story that led to you asking us this
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>>18101356
True

One of my friends(use the term lightly) is going to have sex with my best friends sister. I am only one that knows. Should I tell best friend ???

Also this is selfish post cos I virgin haha oops
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Why is this any of your business?
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does your best friend's sister know?
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>>18101318
If you think he'd be pissed, yes. But that guy should be man enough to talk about this openly, not hide it behind your friends back. Might get his sister preggs. Looking out for her and warning her is also an option.

I've been living with my girlfriend now for a little over a month, her son just turned 4. We see him maybe a few times a week because she works a lot and I work/am still getting used to the whole "family" thing. I really don't enjoy being around this kid because he is definitely spoiled and is deliberately a dick to me because I don't always cater to him and give him every single thing he wants.

I try to encourage him to share, to speak nicely to people (he calls me mean/a bum or bum-bum [meaning ass] for no reason several times each time I see him. She does Nothing about it) He hits his mom and his grandparents when he doesn't get his way, refuses to even try to dress himself because he knows someone will do it for him etc.). Long story short, this kid is a dick and knows how to control his mother and I'm apparently the dick for being upset about it and the fact that he knows how to manipulate at fucking FOUR.

She's all about statistical brain development bullshit but the thing is, she doesn't teach him anything. No one does. No one disciplines him either (I don't mean spanking because I'm not for that myself, but I think a child should definitely have boundaries, rules, etc.). He thinks the world is revolves around him and anyone and everyone should drop everything to get him something or pay constant attention to him, he doesn't even want to sleep in his own bedroom because he's so used to sleeping with his mom.

When he's good, I of course love him and enjoy being around him. But most of the time, he's a little spoiled brat and asshole and I pretty much hate him. My girlfriend has suggested that I blow money on some bullshit child development course at a college nearby because I'm not always sweet and nice with him when he walks all over me/her. 1. What should I do? 2. How do I explain to my girlfriend in a matter that won't get her defensive that her child IS spoiled and that it isn't a good thing and that I don't like being around him because of it?
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I got an A in my child development course!

She doesn't have the balls to discipline her son because she wants to be best friends with him. For the past few years he has been her little man friend. And all that shit does is hurt him and his development in the long run.

All I gotta say is that pussy better be worth it. She is also kind of stupid for saying you should take a class on it, because as you alluded she doesn't know shit. You already know more than her by you saying a kid needs discipline and boundaries. But to put it simply this boy isn't your problem. You're not his dad; there is no need to play "family" here. You also can't explain anything to your gf either, because she doesn't have enough self-awareness to get it. You can't suddenly make her raise a kid better.

I don't think this is gonna work out unless she realizes how wrong her behavior is and her son's behavior is on her own. That will probably take quite a few years.
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>my girlfriend's son

Have fun raising another man's problem I guess
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He is her biggest priority in life, or at least a bigger priority than you. She's not going to change how she treats him, and if you can't handle this, you shouldn't be in a relationship with her

Don't need a child development course to tell you that

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I am fucked up you guys. I really like a woman who said she likes me. I went on a date with her and at the end she told me she likes me but wants to take things slow. This is thte closest I have been to Having a girlfriend. How do I not fuck this up? It's been 3 weeks since that day. She has not texted or called me.

Was she just fucking with me? I always get like this. I get super close to ending this fucking nightmare and it goes awry. Help me you guys.

Why do I become so obsessive. I spend a lot of time thinking about what the fuck she could be doing... this is how boring my life is.

I envy dudes who can just garbage pail women at will. Why can't I do that?
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Youre supposed to text her man, she is probably waiting, but 3 weeks is a long time. She probably thinks you dont like her at this point
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>>18101278
Did you attempt contacting her since date? She may very well have been expecting you to follow up, while also testing how determined you are as a person.

To answer you last question: I'm not being rude bc I'm in the same boat, but you're probably an unattractive or bland person.
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>>18101301

I did text her again. Out date was like beginning of February. I texted her like less than a week later. No response on her end. I texted her again a full week after that and sane deal. No response from her.

What should I do? Is it creepy to text again?

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>meet girl in summer
>date said girl over the summer
>fall inlove
>break up in fall due to some circumstances
>we still like each other
>she contacts me all the time, almost daily
>havent gotten back together yet
>texting today
>talking about my time overseas
>she says its all I talk about
>tell her I see why she feels that way
>convo dies

Did I majorly fuck up or she just having a bad night or something? I feel pretty bad right now because I am still inlove with her and I'm trying to reconcile things as best as I can. Usually were pretty flirty and we have fun texting, but now I feel like I'm boring her.

Can I easily recover from this? Am I over reacting? I didnt make a big deal out of it, I just acknowledged it and changed the subject.
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Create new memories with her.
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>>18101267
How do I convince her to let me come see her? I tried back in January but we hadnt talked for a month in December and she said maybe it wasnt such a good idea just yet. Havent asked since.

Ive been meaning to ask her over the phone, but we havent been calling these past 2 weeks, only texting. Should I just ask her over text?

We were even joking around about going to the Carribean together soon last week.
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>>18101280
Yeah, text her. Time flies sitting around bitter needlessly.

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I read an article on hackers selling credit card data at low prices to people who proceed to withdraw (skim) the credits

Question is, why don't hackers skim the cards by themselves? Why sell at low prices if it could be much more profitable to skim potentially several thousands of dollars instead of selling data for $100 or less? I'm curious about the logic here
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It's probably a matter of risk.
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>>18101236
Getting CC information is pretty anonymous.

Using stolen CC information leaves a trail
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>>18101246
Fpbp

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I need some encouragement from people who have gotten over SSRI withdrawal. My brain zaps, nausea, and mood swings are intense even though I did a slow taper. Does it get better? How can I ease the symptoms?
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I went through atypical antidepressant withdrawal. Some things that got me through included warm baths, reading (of course did not retain much), videogames, walks (on a treadmill or outside), music, and very low doses of clonazepam.
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Yea those brain shivers are really fucked, but they go away. Fucking effexor.
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>>18101229
Out of curiosity, what convinced you to discontinue your SSRI?

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I attended a cadaver lab recently, and while I was felt okay during the session, I feel uncomfortable about it now. Does this feeling go away with time and how to make them go away? Though honestly, the thought of not feeling disturbed seems even more disturbing.
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Why were you in a cadaver lab?
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>>18101230
As a student. I still can't get over that I touched a dead person's gut. And there were still feces inside.
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>>18101238
What kind of student?

Hi /adv/. I need your advice on whether or not I should buy these guys. They cost $110 WITH a CD included, this CD I do not own and it includes remixes from my favourite Daft Punk album. Think I should buy them? I'm mainly buying it for the figures, as I've wanted the two robots in physical form for a while, as something to put on a bookshelf or something. Have you ever bought a kubrick figure? Think I should buy them? Thanks!
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I think Kubrick figures are objectively ugly and that people buy them just because they're "a thing"
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You must be insane to think that shit is worth your money.
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>>18101217
Even if it was limited to 3000?

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Would I be coming off strange if I saw a girl at the gym all the time for like a year and just one day said hello?

I barely talk to anyone at the gym, I am a classic /fit/izen mostly anti social and just there to lift and forget about being lonely, but there's always beautiful girls around. it pains me to just not say anything, but I've been a loner so long I don't know what will happen if I change that.
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>>18101208
There's nothing wrong with being spontaneous, but when people go to the gym they're mostly focusing on their workout and probably don't want to be disturbed
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>>18101224
I won't force it. I go to a gym with about 1500 attendees, it's a hybrid of a commercial gym and powerlifting gym. The girls I'm interested in are powerlifting and like me... also take long 5-10 minute rests between sets.
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>>18101224
I am paranoid mainly because I have been a loner practically all my life and while I have the drive to change this, I also have the paranoia that I will appear "fake" as these people have already determined my personality over the last 14 months.

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I'm in the UK, renting a room to some shady shitskin landlord and I just had a very "interesting" episode.

>go to tesco to buy some stuff to eat
>lock my room before I leave, take keys
>come back
>key doesn't go in
>realize there is something in the lock
>call landlord
>he implies I'm lying or trying to bullshit him
>says he can't go, only tomorrow or monday
>says he doesn't have a place for me to stay
>ask him why can't we call a locksmith
>he says right away it's expensive and I will have to pay for it
>basically locked out of the room I pay for and landlord doesn't give a fuck
>says he's not responsible
>get a locksmith to unfuck the lock
>pay £130 for the job

How legal is this shit?
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I'm not from the UK so I'm not 100% sure, but you should be able to claim back the locksmith's fee from him.
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>>18101199

Not really sure about that, he's a scumbag that refuses to give me and my gf a copy of the letting agreement. I learned from another housemate that he doesn't give you the contract because he is paying the city council for a 1 bedroom flat while in reality the house has 4 rooms rented to different people.
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>>18102134

Find your nearest Citizen's Advice Bureau, explain to them the situation. They're trained for this kind of bullshit. For what it's worth, I hope your scumbag landlord gets totally fucked for his fraud.

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