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How do I convince parents to move to different place if they have well established business here?

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Was working on this since I was bored as balls. If it sounds nice to y'all then I might continue working on it.

https://onlinesequencer.net/423319

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>enter relationships with people just to curb my loneliness and fulfill my need for emotional and physical intimacy
>never as serious as I pretend to be and dump them after I get what I want from them
>end up with a lot of angry people and the occasional stalker

what do

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Greentext time

>Monday, third week at work place
>Someone's at the door, proceed to open it
>Suddenly, the most beautiful girl ever appeared right at the other side of the door
>It's her first day there, so I welcome her and introduce myself
>Minutes later a coworker presents her to me even though she explains we already introduced to each other
>We use to greet women with a kiss to the cheek, but she grabbed my waist, lightly but using her whole hand, while greeting
>Wish her good luck

>She disappears by the afternoon after being busy the whole morning and for the whole week
>Friday comes, everyone at the company is called for an assembly - and she appears
>Wait until the end of the assembly, then proceed to approach the girl; she gives the cutest smile ever
>We talk for a second about her week at the company, and then she had to leave, so we farewell
>I go elsewhere to catch a coworker, and we talk for a bit
>Girl passes by, we laugh and farewell yet again
>Go to my place after she leaves to pick my stuff up, and she's there again
>We laugh and farewell yet again
>I pick my stuff up, we both and the other guy I caught earlier end up leaving together
>We gather with a group of coworkers and walk to the train station
>Four of us walk together in a group, talking about pokemon - the girl is a big fan, so am I
>One guy who was with us leaves; at the station, the other girl who was with us leaves elsewhere a bit hastily
>We end up alone, so we walk to take our trains

Now that context is given

>I must take a different line, so we farewell a final time
>After we do as customary, she gives me a warm hug before leaving, after meeting just twice
>Can't shake it out of my head

She had explained to me that she will be partially at the workplace and partially at her client's. Next week she won't go to the workplace at all, so if I don't do a move I will have to wait for her for a whole week at least.

What should I do?

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What are some questions and dares that I should ask my girlfriend for t or d? We've been dating for a while now but we haven't done anything and I'm thirsty as fuck but I don't want to sound like a perv so I get her to play t or d with me and ask her weird questions, but I'm running out of questions and dares.

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I used to not care about other people and do whatever I wanted.
The last few years i've been working through issues after a trauma and everyone I work with in therapy get more angry and callous. I've become the opposite. I can't be near violent people or someone in a bad mood, and I've stopped eating meat even if I loved to hunt. I don't want to kill things anymore.

Is this latent reactions to the trauma? Any PTSD fags experiencing something similar?

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I'm a successful, stable 30 something year old. I worry not about never finding someone, but about not adjusting to a daily life that includes another person.

I enjoy so many parts of my life that have to do with living alone and doing things at my own pace... yet I really wish there was something more.

Anyone else worry about this stupidness? Or have success stories?

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Is it a bad idea to grow weed in the woods?

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Here's the deal /adv/

I'm severely drunk on rum.

I have enough experience with alcohol to know I'll most likely feel like shit later.

I'm about to go to the store. Just wondering if you have any advice for what I could have now to take care of the upcoming hangover.

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Is it still possible for a final year international student to find a job in the UK now? Life's been stressful and i was stupid to not think about it earlier.

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We have a weird setup with our "relationship". Cause im not into labels and being in a relationship but we're ok with this setup and he is ok with it too. But we agreed to not see other guys (we're both guys btw) and be "exclusive".
Anyway, yesterday, i told him that im gonna see an online friend and we've been friends online for years. I said its the first time we will meet. And he got kinda pissed cause he said it was weird. On my defense, its no different than just meeting new friends at an event or at work. And plus, i was hanging out with lots of people too i know online that night so we werent on a "date". And i just really hate it cause i dont want him to be jealous of the guy cause he isnt even cute at all! Like he really is just a friend thats it!

But i said sorry still.. He hasnt replied yet to me now. I dont know what to do.

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so, gf works at an animal shelter with dogs. They only put down dogs that are super sick or aggressive, so its uncommon and happens like once or twice a month which is apparently pretty good considering how many animals they get

But earlier this week they had to put a dog to sleep that she had gotten really attached to. I was also super busy with stuff, so I couldnt really talk about it with her, she mentioned that a dog was being put down and I said that sucks, but had to go do shit so that was all I knew, and I was too busy to message her throughout the day like normal. the day it happened I also had a trip planned with some buds to go to a cabin to play music/get drunk, so I was busy again and couldnt talk to her. She messaged me a few times about how upset she was and called too, but honestly I just either forgot to reply or was too busy. when I read the messages in the morning I realized which one it was and it made sense why she was so broken up, she really loved him even though he was dangerous. Also learned that she was so distraught at work that her manager sent her home early, then she just got drunk alone

problem now is she totally shut down. Finally asked her about the whole thing and she wont talk about it. She'll say a couple words then just kinda change the subject. Shes way more withdrawn than she used to be and no interest in sex. not worried about her getting it somewhere else because now she doesnt even really care about doing her makeup and is barely on her phone anymore, her friends havent seen much of her either. She mostly just studies/sleeps. Even talking with her about unrelated stuff is like pulling teeth, I can tell that sometimes shes just on the edge of crying but if I try to help her or ask she just denies it. Ive apologized numerous times and she just says "its fine" and wont talk about it. she normally LOVES talking about dogs from work. Now she doesnt even mention them unless I ask, and finds any excuse to leave the conversation

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Sup /adv/,

So I'm not sure whether I'm making this thread because I want advice or because I just want to fucking vent for once but hear me out. About four or five years ago, I found out that my mother's been cheating on my dad for years. He's had depression for years thanks to her constant cheating since I was about roughly 5 years old and has used it as an excuse for pretty much everything.

The issue is, he has absolutely no friends at all so every day without fail, he'll vent his feelings to me. My mum doesn't seem to remember this shit but she used to make me sleep on the cold floor during winter so her boytoys could sleep in my bed while my pathetic dad, being too much of a pussy to do anything about it, slept on the couch. He's told me numerous times he no longer loves her and hasn't divorced her "because of the kids" which is just a bullshit excuse because I know his lazy NEET ass is too scared to find love again and he doesn't want to pay any alimony.

Every fucking day, he'll mention how he's constantly tried to kill himself, how he intentionally forgot his meds to hurt himself, how much she fucking hurts him and I'm sick of it. I've told him multiple times that I don't feel comfortable talking about this shit but he doesn't take me seriously at all. I'm worried that if we completely stop talking about it, he will genuinely kill himself. I love the guy but he's a damn selfish coward. Any time I feel even a tiny bit of happiness, it gets taken away from me the minute he opens his mouth. My younger brothers are the only fucking thing in this world keeping me going and one of them is showing signs of autism and learning difficulties typical of children growing up in dysfunctional, poor families. It's just eating me up inside, man.

Tl;dr: Mum keeps cheating on dad, dad too much of a pussy to do anything about it. Keeps talking to me about it and its affecting mine and my brothers mental health and I don't know what to do.

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There's this girl I volunteer with. She's really cute. I think I should ask her out, but all of my past dates have flaked. Do I even bother? Volunteer group is small. Could be catastrophic if I fail.

Also her father is really protective.

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Didn't wanna go to the le /bee/ board for this so this'll do

I've had this headache for like 2 days - not a migraine, but just a headache. I've taken meds and I've slept enough and have been drinking water, but this shit hasn't gone away. Is it bad?