How does one make an arromantic person fall in love?
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What a fucking meme. Your "aromantic" girl will fall for Chad in an instant. It's just another way of saying "Sorry, I don't fuck losers like you".
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>>18103760
>25 years old
>all of her friends say she's never been with a guy her entire life
>parents say the same thing
Doubtful
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>>18103727
and how does this aromatic person smell exactly?
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Should I tell my friend I'm gay? 2017-03-06 01:35:52 Post No.18103710
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I have a friend who's really close to me. We met in HS, and we're in college now, but we still text every day. We're both interested in politics and we have a lot of in depth discussions about it. He's one of the only people I'm friends with, really.
No one knows I'm gay. I'm not completely gay, but I'm probably like a 7.5, where 0 is totally straight and 10 is totally gay, so I deemed myself gay.
We're both super conservative, but we're smart people, and I don't think he would hate me for it, although he does liberally use words like fag.
I don't want to tell my family, but I want to tell someone. Should I tell him?
Pic related, it's how I feel.
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>>18103710
at what frequency you talk to each other about your deep secrets?
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>>18103710
Literally why? I like watching voyeur videos of women in changing rooms. None of my friends need to know this. What gets my dick hard isn't any of there business. Unless you wanna pursue him I wouldn't say shit. Fucking retard attentionwhore
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>>18103710
Chances are he already knows.
I have a friend who is gay and we've known each other for, i dunno, 6 years maybe? And from the start i've knew. Chances are he will take you as you are if he's worth keeping.
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Okay, so my girlfriend is open to anal sex, and we just tried it not too long ago and she said it hurt way too much (but willing to give it time).
Are there any guides/tips you guys can give me on loosening my girls butt up?
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I advise you to learn to use Google
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Have her relax. If she doesn't clench her asshole and you use enough lube, you just need to start with one finger, then after a minute go to two. Then finally stick your peep in. Should only be slightly uncomfortable if she relaxes and lets you work her ass.
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put a lubed up finger in, work it in and out
then put two fingers in, and get her to clench her asshole while you move your fingers
that will loosen her up
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Do women like guys that wear a good cologne or prefer clean with plenty of deodorant?
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Depends on the woman. A distinct smell can be a good thing, but cologne can also be a massive turnoff/cause headaches. Personally, I prefer clean with normal amount of deo.
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>>18103470
but with what you said seems to be "putting too much"
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Some like the first, others the latter, others are fucking unpredictable or weird.
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I have felt dumb all day. I don't think I've thought a single thought all day. Just woke up, ate food, and existed. Felt tired and just laid in bed for hours. What the fuck is wrong with me.
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>>18103374
Sometime you don't have to be anything.
Just existing is okay my friend
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You're stupid. I bet you want to hear that's depression or another such disorder but the fact of the matter is that you're straight-up dumb.
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Love os dead and we have killed it 2017-03-06 12:06:19 Post No.18103349
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>be me
>inglish class about to strat
>girl i like ask me a question about the common app
>I answered, then i continued
> class about to end
>were both standing
>i asked her sehe got to finish it
>looks at me directly in the eye while we talk
>"finish what "
>"the common app"
>"oh no, I finished it on whensday"
>stoped after that because the conversation was sooo fuking dry
> the was like 15 mis left and we cloud do whatever we whanted
> so i staded next to my friends
>then i feel this solid contact on my arm region
>it was her looked like it was accidental but she didn't stoped unit i moved like 30 secons laker
she usually talks a lot from what i seen but she never really gets talketive with i font know if i make her nervers or what(We used to text btw but stopped), and I know it isn't because im hideous because i hotten other girl to fall for me but i dont get her
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Holy fucking shit can you have a larger seizure on your keyboard?
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You know how it goes. I'm going to be making a lot of first impressions on a lot of new people. Lasting impressions.
There will be women. Oh, yes. There will be women.
While none of the women will be a sexual prospect, for obvious reasons, no job is so boring as a job devoid of sexual tension. I don't know who they will be, but, there will be that one, or those two, whose chemistry is in sync with mine, so I plan to go in hot, spark up some tension, and play it out as long as I can.
What are some good techniques, particularly for first-time meetings with females who you're going to be spending a lot of time around?
A single candle contains enough energy to explode like a firecracker, if it all burns at once, but the fuse spreads that energy out over many hours. I'm not going to form a sexual relationship with any of them, but I still want to slow-burn that sexual energy on-the-job. I know how to do that. What I'm asking about is how to start off with the biggest damn candle possible.
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Hello, /adv/!
I've been passing through the worst days in a long time, in my life.
The thing is, I believe deep in my unconscious mind (and sometimes in my counsciouness) that I am worth too little. This is the back ground, what I want to bring up the part of it that involves relationships.
When it comes to relationships, I have none. I've been with girls before, yes, but the longest I've managed to be with one was a month, and still, we weren't that close or anything. Of course I blame myself for the end, but I'd like to go further... Now a days there is this sorrow inside me that keeps me from even trying anything... I know I'm not open to relationships, no matter how hard I want one or even if I don't (there were times I didn't), and this closure inside me is starting to become pain... I see people together and I want it so bad for me that it brings up all the depressive thoughts and behaviours.
Don't get me wrong, I don't want other people's relationships, or their women, but I do want one for me... I want to feel open to it so I can live it, even if it's just to realize I don't like it and was better off alone.
I don't know what to do, for my mind is in conflict... One side wants it bad, really really bad, and the other part just can't have it, and blocks it away...
I feel as if I was against the wall and I can't escape... Whatever words you have on this, please share... I'm starting to think I will never be opened and this is killing me from the inside.
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You think you're not worth much, but if you think about it what's stopping you from changing that? Make yourself better - learn to code, go to the gym, pick up a hobby, whatever. Nothing is really stopping you, except maybe yourself.
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I actually have things, you know... The only one stopping me is myself. I fight kung fu, I study a lot (on my second graduation)... But it doesn't seem enough.
Still, the point is about relationships... Is there ever a way I could open myself? Will I live with this closure forever?... I don't really know what to do... I'm working it with a psychologist, but I hasn't moved much since I started 6 years ago... This part of me just feels frozen in time and it's starting to wear me off
/adv/ how do you deal with not being able to bond with other people? I've tried all sorts of things but I can't seem to make friends that are more than superficial, fleeting discussions.
I don't know what it is but I just don't seem to be able to relate to another person at all, and I'm getting pretty lonely with this. I'm not Autistic or ASPD of any flavour, I don't have any issues talking to people, no social anxiety or anything - but I just can't make a good friendship.
I tried expressing to someone how stressed I was at one point, someone I thought I might've been close to, but they responded by talking about how they wanted to kill themselves (again, mind you, we'd already been down that conversation a few times). The same shit happens with relationships, I end up unable to express things to them because it seems like it'll just get brushed by the way side, and if it doesn't, I will. It ends up with me putting on face to make them happy, and it becomes completely unfulfilling.
Maybe therapy? I've been trying to get in for a while but it doesn't seem to be happening, and I figure it's better used on people that are in crisis. I'm open to your suggestions /adv/.
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Bump? Anybody..?
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>>18103325
I had the same problem mate.
No idea how to solve it tho, maybe just hang in there and try doing new stuff?
By the way, I haven't done shit about it. Still waiting for a miracle.
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>>18103325
how to depen friendships:
>Stress
>Time
lets start with
>stress
stress brings people together. its the reason soldiers come back from overseas feeling like they are brothers. the reason teenagers make really strong friendships so fast is partly because they think everything is stressful. they think everything is hard, and the end of the world, and dramatic. they get emotional about everything. and they share those emotions with each other and support each other and quickly become the best friends ever. even if the stress is imaginary, you can still bond over it.
now stress doesn't have to be bad, and it can be manufactured healthily. by which i mean, you can do things that require more effort than just hanging out and chilling.
Got a really good co op game? play it with your friend. play it til the end. beat the game together. go camping together. go on a road trip together. make a movie together, write a book together, anything that makes you work together. something more than just sitting around and chilling. enter a contest. find a friend and do anything that takes at least a few months to complete and keeps you close.
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I want to make friends with a new girl at work but I freeze 2017-03-05 11:56:49 Post No.18103321
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So like 2 weeks ago a new person got hired at my job. I was happy that she was my age because I wanted to have a female as a friend for once. For the longest time I've been having trouble making new friends because I've developed anxiety over time due to moving a lot which caused me to avoid people. However, when a few guys my age got hired I didn't have much of a problem making conversation.
At my job we have shifts so we don't work at the same time and have around 10 minutes before one takes over and the other heads home.
It's been a few weeks now and I just can't make any interesting conversation with her. I don't know how to befriend her. There's definitely nothing wrong with her, she's really nice. I'm also not sure if I'm doing anything wrong. We just kind of sit there for the 15 minutes and every few minutes or come up with something to talk about, which ends in a few seconds. I really just want a friend; I have no interest in anything more besides bestfriending. I don't know how to ask her to hang out even because I feel that'll sound like I'm asking her out on a date. It would also feel kind of weird since we've been fairly quiet this whole time. With guys it's easy and I've done it before.
I really don't understand why I'm overthinking this so much and why conversation is so hard. Can anyone help? It's really frustrating and I worry I'm coming off as mean.
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Last bump
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"Yo, [INSERT NAME] you wanna go [INSERT ACTIVITY]?"
"[INSERT HER RESPONSE]"
"Alright den! [IF APPLICABLE, INSERT DISCUSSION OF DETAILS]"
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Rule 34- Should I do it? 2017-03-05 11:56:31 Post No.18103318
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Hey guys, I've been into art since forever, I've been drawing anime, manga, cartoons, American comics and gaming-related art for as long as I could remember.
However, around mid to late highschool, I dropped art altogether, thinking it was pointless. About 2 years ago my passion of art rekindled and so I got back into it. I've noticed I've gotten ALOT more better since I first restarted. However, I still feel a bit mediocre, and use traditional art materials (mainly ink and markers).
Now, I'm not gonna lie but I've fapped to my fair bit of rule 34 and now I've been thinking whether i should create my own. I've been really wanting to experiment with traditional art and the poses some of these girls I see seem like I could really become better in anatomy. However, is Rule 34 really the way to go? Would I get better in traditional art (and art in general)? Could I maybe even make a bit of money on the side? I'd really like to know what you anons think.
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Power to the man, my man.
Just keep it pseudonymous and try to do not only porn.
Tasteful nudity is superior to porn and there are much more complex concepts you can explore with that.
Draw'em like those french girls, Jack.
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>>18103340
Yeah, I'll definitely use a pseudonym. My ultimate vision is to make my own online comic, but I don't want to associate it with porn. Also, I'd hate anyone to find out I did porn, I've always kept this 'normie' persona around the people I know.
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make a internet name and have a different account for personal art
i recommend getting 2 art styles you like
If life doesn't revolve around sex, why do I want it so badly? How do I get rid of this shit?
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Fill that habit with another. Yes it is instinct to want to have sex but realize it isn't required for your happiness and move on
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it does revolve around sex. your body is simply a mechanism to carry out the reproductive imperative of your DNA.
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I just try to focus on more important things in life
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Mother on Antidepressants 2017-03-05 11:53:08 Post No.18103310
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Mother on Antidepressants
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I may not be the smartest on pharma but my mother has been taking antidepressants since her mother died (about 10y) and I'd really like to get her off of them. I don't know the science I just don't like prescription drugs.
What's the best way to help someone get off of anti depressants?
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>I don't know the science I just don't like prescription drugs.
So you want to alter your mother's care based on...uninformed sentiment?
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>>18103310
She's taking the prescription drugs in order to live a normal life. Not everyone who takes antidepressants or other prescription drugs have bad side effects or good reasons to come off them. Does she want to stop them? Is she acting erratic or even more depressed? "I just don't like prescription drugs." is not a reason good enough to get her off them.
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Ok so months ago I got banned on a Reddit board and I deleted my old account. Today I tried posting with my new account and the same fascist douche that banned me immediately was onto me and banned my new account. What information do Reddit moderators see about you? This new account was from different email. I'm done with Reddit forever because of this but was curious if they have access to your email, ip and MAC address and other shit.
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Intergalactic reddit rule#(something I don't remember): Attempting to subvert a ban by using another account is against the rules, and will lead to IP ban. Probably better that you leave reddit. People who try to stay in places they aren't welcome in are the worst reddit users, regardless of the reason they were banned. Always starting in-drama, continuously trying to open the eyes of retarded mods, it's all pretty annoying lol.
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>>18103342
That's the thing I was banned for wrong opinion not for starting drama. That's why I like 4chan because the mods are cool.
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So the best advice here would be to just move on. I mean, it's reddit. Do you really care that much?
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How does one regain the ability to trust others after being betrayed by both individuals and society?
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>>18103306
Accept that there is no such thing as trust and loyalty and all that shit
And I'm not saying it in a bad way, it's just how it is.
Trust is just laziness in a sense, trust others only when there is no big thing at stake.
How did you get betrayed ?
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grow up. Society never owed you anything besides the absolute basics, and the fact that you believed it did is the root of your misplaced feeling of betrayal.
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>>18103341
>Accept that humans are dogshit that don't deserve the air we breathe
Wow you sure know how to cheer a feller up.
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I just got instagram and am unsure of the unspoken ettiquette of the whole system.
1) How many selfies are too many?
2) Is it ever okay to repost memes?
3) Is it ever okay to post a shirtless picture?
4) Is it ever okay to post a model/celebrity I think is hot (eg pic related)?
5) Do I add people I know IRL or will they be weirded out by the above 4 items?
6) How often should I make posts?
Thanks, I have the autism.
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What the fuck man.
Just do whatever you want.
Internet is cool because you don't have to bend to the "unspoken etiquette".
Everybody is cringy when they start a new social media just don't worry about it.
But to answer your questions :
1) Infinite
2) Yeah
3) Yeah
4) Yeah (also goddamn)
5) Depends on the person desu
6) However you want
Stop asking yourself so much question and just do what you want <3
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>>18103322
the thing that makes me nervous is that instagram is impossible to seperate from my facebook account so i think all my friends can see it on their 'recommended people' feed
thats the kinda thing that discourages me from posting stuff like pic related, for example
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>>18103332
>instagram is impossible to seperate from my facebook account
What ? Can't you just make a normal account with only an email and shit ?
But anyway who gives a shit, what will be the worst thing your friends say :
HAHAHA YOU POSTED A BEFORE AFTER PICTURE NAKED HAHAHA like you don't even have time to worry about that boring shit.
( Also mirin your progress how'd you do it ?)