>Meet girl in class
>Get her SC
>Call her cute
>"Thanks, but don't say that to often, my bf will get mad."
>O Okey
>Talk to her for a few more weeks then meet new girl and drop her.
>Girl from class I called cute messages me after seeing me in the hallway with gf(Now ex).
>"Hey, I fr got Hella jealous seeing you two together."
"Lol why?"
>"Idk maybe because I like you and you're really funny"
"What about your bf?"
>"Oh yeah we're still together"
>Time goes on
>She has blown my phone up before if I leave her on read for to long.
>Ask her every now and then if she want to hang out but she always makes up some excuse about it causing drama.
Idk what to do. I have a crush on her but she's taken and if I stop talking to her she gets really mopey and depressed. She also claims that she's 100% loyal to her current bf.
She's not 100% loyal if she's saying and doing that shit. Keep talking g to her and send feelers out now and then but date thots on the side. But don't go into a relationship with her, she's not too trust worthy IMO
>>18690586
>loyal
>>18690586
tell her the truth, that you have a crush on her and want to try out a relationship, and if she's not willing to dump her boyfriend to give you a shot then you'll move on
My best friend and I go way back; been playing video games and tabletop games with him online at least weekly for many years now; talking, joking, sharing dank memes, the whole bit. As we all do, he has his flaws, one of which is bad luck dealing with women through the years.
10 months ago, my ex broke up with me after a 7-year relationship. It was a relatively amicable breakup, but I decided to go no-contact with her to help me move on. I'm seeing someone else now, but still have (suppressed) feelings regarding my ex, as one might expect after so long a relationship.
I learned from my friend two days ago that he was still chatting with my ex. She had been acquaintances with him as well, playing video games and tabletop games with the two of us for several years of our relationship.
I asked him about it, and he assured me that they are just two friends chatting about shared interests, gaming and so forth. I made it fairly clear that I didn't care him talking to her, and he responded that I should work on getting over her.
Simply knowing they are in contact really gets under my skin, and brings it all up again: anger, jealousy, longing.
Wat do?
If you were with her for seven years and she became friends with him during that time, it's unreasonable of you to demand that he takes sides in the breakup.
>>18690503
This. Don't make other people responsible for your emotional hangups. I understand you're struggling with getting over it but thats your problem, not theirs.
>>18690503
Then wat do? Just suck it up and try to ignore it?
Easier said than done.
I was having an argument with a woman who's husband is a closeted gay man. I argued that being closeted gay is actually manly because it's manly to hide your feelings except for anger. Do you agree?
>>18690471
Is being a closeted man gay?
>>18690476
Wife here... Obviously?
>i value other ppls opinion of me more than my desires
yea thats a trait of a woman right there, you idiot
>casually talk to a 15 year old girl every morning while waiting for the bus to work (she started it)
>she lives in the same apartment complex as me with her family
>she starts knocking on my door asking me things
>I'm nice so I tell her whatever she wants to know, it's usually basic advice her grandma cant answer
>she asks to come in, I tell her to ask her parents if that's appropriate; they say "it's fine"
>she visits my apartment regularly and hangs out with someone 11 years older than her
>she drinks my coffee, eats my food, has borrowed more than one of my shirts, leaves her shit here
>she made me pasta for dinner when I came home one day because I left my apartment unlocked
>nothing weird or creepy has happened otherwise
>she also completely lied and told her parents I'm a girl friend from her middle school
>my landlord is giving me weird looks
What do I do? I don't want to go to prison and I don't want to have to explain to this kid why what she's doing will probably send me there.
>>18690438
>What do I do?
Cut contact. You have no business hanging out with a 15 year old girl. She is a child who has no concept of appropriate boundaries who has lied to her parents in order to spend time alone with you in your home. If her parents find out there are absolutely 0 ways for you to explain your relationship to her without being officially investigated or curb stomped by an angry father.
Its not your business to explain anything to her. Its your business to be the adult and set the boundaries with the child. Honestly, you're already in way too deep. You'll be lucky if you can cut ties with her without getting into some serious trouble at this point.
>>18690464
Why would OP give away a great chance like this? He should just talk to the girls guardian first and tell them what's going on, if they're fine with it, keep being friends with her. She seems like a nice friend, just dont do any lewd business
Can you come up with a cover story for why you are hanging out, like tutoring?
Hey /adv/,
I need some advice on pre-dating, or whatever you may call it. I sort of like this girl and would be keen to hook up, but I don't think it'll work as dating. I guess I want to know how to make something of this, something being more than a one night stand and less than dating.
I'm just gonna summarise in greentext for your convenience:
>befriend really cute girl
>we hit it off and have great chats
>ask her to dinner
>she agrees
>goes fairly well overall, enjoy about 6 hours together
>tell her i think she's cute and enjoy her comany
>she says she enjoys mine too, though she isn't certain about dating anyone at this point
>agree and say I'm not thinking about dating atm
>she tells me it was fun and we should do it again later in the week
Some background:
>I'm 22, she's 21
>she's recently single as of about a month ago
>I'm single as of about 3 months ago
>she's an exchange student here for another 4 months
>as such I'd obviously rather avoid too many feelings and a relationship
>we ran into her ex and she was quiet and distant for a bit
>asked her if she was okay afterwards and she assured me she was
>she asks me if I'm okay, and I am of course fine
>we have the same birthday
>we have many similar interests
>hanging out is effortless
I've only ever really been in long-term committed relationships however I've resolved to not invest emotionally into a relationship again for a while and enjoy the single life. I just don't know how to go about this situation as I've never had casual relationships. We get along famously and I wouldn't really want to complicate that, but she is fine as fuck and super chill and cool.
Thanks in advance, /adv/.
>>18690380
invite her over for netflix, get drunk with her and bang her, not rocket science
>>18690557
Do you think she'd be down based on what I've described? I think I give off too much of a nice-guy vibe, but she's keen to go out again
Bump #1
She also messaged me an hour afterwards with a funny gif. Seems positive
How can i convince my parents to let me buy a sleeping mask, one that trains you to breath through your nose while sleeping? I've been a mouth breather through my childhood and I still do sometimes. Am still in high school, so I still need to respect my parents' decisions. They do not believe mouth breathing is that big of a problem, and my orthodontist hasn't answered my questions about it.
I don't want to continue snoring or maybe get sleep apnoeia, do you think a CPAP mask will prevent these things, and if so, could you provide some trustable sources showing so?
>convince
>parents
This website is for 18+.
If you need to convince your parents to buy something above this age then you have bigger problems to worry about than a fucking sleep mask.
>>18690342
Tape your mouth closed while you sleep
Just buy the thing and don't tell anybody
Can anyone trace the origin of this picture?
>>18690334
were not detectives. Go to /r/
cal the internet police and have them backtrace it
>>18690334
It looks like she dun goofed.
how to stop craving alcohol
>>18690195
Ignore any self help bullshit or anything like that. Its all shit and more often than not the people relapse. To quit you have to want it deep down otherwise you will never succeed. Also, quitting it completely is not always the answer either. It takes more strength to learn how to moderate than it does to quit altogether. I went from drinking damn near a bottle every night to only drinking socially.
>>18690344
i think the problem is that i don't want to quit deep down because it hasn't begun to affect my life negatively [spoiler]yet[/spoiler] i just know it will at some point
i know its bad for me and i know I'm on a bad path but i can't bring myself to stop
>>18690386
>yet
It will. I drank hardcore for about 5 years before I really started to notice an effect on my body. I started to feel shitty all the fucking time and all I thought about was drinking. It even got so bad at one point I started shaking before I had a drink.
Do what you will but I would advise to stop it now. Tell yourself you are in control and not the other way around.
Start by drinking on the weekends and then limit yourself to social occasions. If you want it it will happen.
As an ex alcoholic I have to say alcoholics are the whiniest bitchiest bunch I have ever encountered in my life.
I need help on how to make conversations less awkward with girls and also make friends with a girls. At the moment I only have one girl who's friends with me but she has a BF, i'm not trying to hook up with her. All i'm asking is how to approach and talk to girls or basically how to get a girlfriend. I've always gotten complements on how cute I am or how I have nice eyes and that I'm funny. Unfortunately I've gotten to the point where I don't even want to try and I'm uninterested in trying, I feel like all girls are the same at this point in time and that non of these girls are worth it and I should just wait and find the "Perfect" girl i'm looking for. Just need advice on how to spark a conversation and get me a girl, I'm 18 and have yet to even get my first kiss
Speak to 20 girls a day. Just approach and start a conversation. At first it seems awkward but over time you will finally start getting gud as you continue to be frequent and learn from your experience and read books on the subject.
Imagine that you met 20 new girls everyday for 30 days.
In one week you would have met 140 girls. Your odds of getting laid have just increased and your chances of getting that long term relationship you want have just soared.
In two weeks you have met 280 girls. Congratulations by now you are probably getting laid on the regular and you have a few girls interested in something more
In three weeks you have met 420 girls. Now you have so many girls to choose from you don't even know who you really want to fuck today or if you even want to commit to a single one.
All you need to do is TAKE ACTION, get the ball rolling!
>>18690202
I'm a passive dude but once i get a conversation going it gets pretty good, the only thing is, is what should I say that would get a girl interested.What should I say
>>18690211
If you want to get pussy on a regular basis you've got to be aggressive about what you want or they will just walk all over you. Passive is just another for DOORMAT.
my girlfriend is kinda a hoarder when it comes to clothes, make up and perfume. Her birthday is coming up and I don't know what to get her. I've bought her docs, vans, clothes, and make up and it gets some special treatment more or less but it's still a part of her hoarder nest of a room. I've made her some art before but I dont like doing that cause it feels cheap and I dont like my "art." I dont know what to get her for her birthday that is in October. She really likes vintage clothing but she goes thrift shopping once a week so theres no chance of me finding something better than her. I've been thinking of making her some clothes (I have some sewing machine skill) but Idk if I want to give her more clothes. Any suggestions? shes 19 turning 20 in college btw. Also flowers are a given
>>18690153
tdlr: my gf is a hoarder, what can i get her that isnt exactly clothing, make up, shoes and perfume?
Take her out somewhere? My boyfriend just took me out for a nice lunch because I don't need or want anything.
>>18690165
that was also kinda expected
I went to my first "normalfag" party today, and couldn't connect with anyone at all. Every conversation felt so fake, plus 90% of it revolved around things I have zero interest in (like how/where to best get alcohol with a fake ID, smoking weed together, etc). Everyone was always trying to talk over each other, and I eventually just stopped even trying to talk because no one paid attention anyway. I don't know if I just have no presence or radiate boringness or what. I tried to jump in whenever I could, or talk about topics I actually have knowledge/an interest in, but no go.
Where do you make friends you can actually get along with, /adv/? I don't want to be lonely anymore.
>>18690152
You are clearly underage. So your best bet is at class. Dont tell me you are the only shy/introverted/meek/single mother kid at school? Or try befriend girls.
http://www.improveyoursocialskills.com/conversation
Or you can try something online like online games, meetme, badoo, facebook and so on. But try your schoolmates first. Look around and pick the saddest looking person there. Start with
>hello, can i sit next to you?
Good luck and dont be crybaby! Life is tough. Nobody has time for losers.
There's nothing with you if you're willing to admit the act you didn't really like them
"If it don't feel right, you don't have to do it" - john lennon
some general life advice
Moved into uni 3 days ago, the food is decent but I'm shitting my brains out every night, how long till my stomach adjusts?
I used to have diarrhea every few days. Now my poops are semi-healthy and regular. I miss the diarrhea, it felt so cleansing.
>>18690114
I laughed and shit even harder anon
get a pro biotic...
How do i (17m) get more disciplined? Im so fucking lazy and my parents have always been very leniant.
>yale admissions pls go
Well, after you're b& you could join some activity that forces you to act with more discipline. It'll carry over to other parts of your life.
It's also more important to get used to doing stuff at certain times and places than being able to force yourself all the time. Get a specific place in your room to do homework, a certain time of night to do mountain climbers, whatever
>>18690086
Stop treating yourself as a slave. You dont have to do jack shit.
Do what you WANT to do. Lie on your bed and say: i am free man and i can lie like this whole day. Then realize that is stupid, ask yourself what you want to do today and simply do it.
Good luck!
Sports are great way to become disciplined but if you don't want to do that try doing something that forces you to stick to a regime
Is there anyone on here that is 25+ and with a full time job?
How do you manage to actually meet people outside of work? I barely have any time for myself, let alone trying to find someone to date. Never even had a true date so no experience there. I'm honestly lost on how people are able to meet new people and find ones that they can date, while still having a full time job that takes most of your time.
My older brother and younger sister (she's still in college though) are able to get into a new relationship with what seems to be little effort, and it's too embarrassing to ask them for connections. And what tends to be the usual response is "just go out and met people!" That's like telling a depressed person to just cheer up.
I just keep in touch with the friends I have. You don't have to talk to them every day or even every week, but putting some effort in to maintain the relationship helps. As for meeting people, have you tried something like meetup.com? My SO feels like they're outgrowing their friends so they're going along to different groups to see if they can find someone they click with
>>18690062
I was looking at meetup, but it honestly kinda frightens me. The main problem is how shy I've always been, I doubt it's social anxiety since I can hold conversation fine with people, but going out to events, even when i know the people that would be there can feel daunting. Making it an event with people I don't know is a whole other level.
>>18690057
what do you do?
how many hours a week do you work ?
any hobbies?
Hello
30-something male, UK, looking for advice.
Recently I have realised that I really enjoy wearing lipstick (although only in private, because I am shy) and I would like to start wearing feminine clothes (again, in private) for my own gratification.
I don't live alone, though, so doing this is likely to be fairly tricky. At least at first, anyway.
If anyone has any general advice I would be grateful, or specific advice on useful mail-order places that ship under a plain wrapper (as I don't really want to have to travel out of town to go shopping) and any recommendations for male-measurements to female sizing charts that are useful.
Also: what type of shoes are these? Where can I get them? Pic related.
Thanks!
This is pure bait dont know what you're trying to achieve
>>18689971
it really is not
Sorry about that, mate. Not nice.
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