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>>18110655
You should be more worried that she wouldn't want you, ;cause your beat guy who spent his entire life on 4chan
It more deserve to be anxious

99% of people have oral herpes.

>herpes

I once almost got married with a girl who had oral impetigo, and that stuff can actually kill you eventually. I would have still married her, but she wasn't nearly as interested in me. Disease is not really a deal breaker if you love someone, and I mean truly have deep feelings for this person. If you don't have strong feelings that are fucking you up inside and destabilizing you near her, don't commit.

wtf, what happenned? Is he scared about getting beaten up again or ashamed of the situation? Tell him it's okay for him to take some time for himself but he'll have to move on eventually. Keep inviting him to hang out or something. Might get his mind off the problem for a while

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I'd be laughing nonstop for days

Martial arts tranny, its like fucking anime, top kek

>>18110544
My friend got rejected by the tranny, the tranny used her man voice to tell him to fuck off when he persisted, my friend acted grossed out, the tranny called him some names, my friend asked her if she wanted to take it outside, they both went outside, he gave the tranny a free swing and the tranny proceeded to completely whoop his ass into next tuesday, all while in heels. My friend made me delete the video, but I'm sure it'll pop up on youtube soon, the tranny did this weird grapple shit, like MMA shit but crazier.

>>18110460
>im such a fucking beta male how tf do i start a conversation with a completely random girl

Why would you want to do that? Why not talk and flirt with girls you know instead?

>>18110467
because i barely know that many girls i want to flirt with, even if there is one i think id incapable of doing so too, so i guess it doesnt matter if its a girl i know or dont know

>>18110474

That's the thing. If a stranger on the street is as appealing as the friend o a friend, then you have some social issues to fix before flirting, mate.

I mean, talking to a girl at a party should be leagues easier than trying to do it to a stranger at the bus stop, right?

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>>18110306
>my girlfriend blocked me on snapchat

>>18110306
Just ask a friend to check her snapchat stories?

>>18110363
This. Get out now.
Ex-boyfriend did this to me with Facebook. I looked at his feed once and mentioned something about something on it one time, and he blocked it after that.

Turns out, he was cheating. Obviously. If they are hiding shit from you it's time to gtfo and not look back.

She probably has a background issue OP. Dig deeper.

Probably something else was bothering her and this small setback was a last straw so to speak. You sound like the total cunt in this story though.

>>18110238
Time to talk it out with her OP. Like other anon, dig deeper and be the calm person.

From the ruins of your past, comes the potential for rebirth.

You can change your life and make it better. Better than ever before. Better than you can imagine.

>>18110113
be strong my dude, it gets better, live a long happy life. Make her proud.

>>18110113
If your post is actually serious, I'm not going to tell you whether to do it ot not, since that's entirely up to you, and it'd be extremely selfish for me not to respect that when I don't even know you amd haven't been in your situation.

With that being said, what are those pills? I have never tried to OD myself, but I had a friend who did try, and I was actually the one she called when she did it. I went up there and got the ambulance, etc. She didn't die. She went to the hospital and they cleansed her insides. She felt really embarrassed afterwards, and kept telling me how sorry she was.

My point is, if you're sure you want to die, pick a safe method, otherwise it might lead to you having even worse of a life or having those around you look at you completely differently forever since.

Whatever the fuck you do, good luck. I'm really, really fucking sorry to hear your story, again, if it's actually true. I actually thought of killing myself, but the thought of my girlfriend and parents suffering is what always held me back.

She probably thinks you're still like how you were in high school but now you have a mask TALK TO HER ABOUT IT that's the answer to 80% of /adv/ threads

>>18110071

Anon above is saying "talk to her", and that's your best move. If you really changed, show it to her.

Nevertheless, how many times have you two gone out? You seem very into her while she seems to trust stories about you more than your current actions. To me, it sounds like you went out once and you got overattached.

Realize that she isn't the perfect girl and this doesn't really matter all that much. You didn't hit the lottery and meet the love of your life right out of highschool on tinder. Meet other people and enjoy the journey of your love life.

I see you talking about what you don't want, but what do you want?

I want to go back to the way things were, but I know that's impossible. I guess I just don't want to feel like my life is a complete waste.

>>18109833
Just realized I sad what I don't want again. I do want to feel like my life is meaningful, because right now I don't really exist to anyone outside my family and maybe 2 other friends.

>>18108965

This is just me, but I'd rather take a chance at achieving something difficult than spend my life doing something I fucking hate because it was easy.

Be as "realistic" as you want. The only one you're going to ultimately damage with your "why even bother trying" attitude is you.

Your attitude isn't a rare one. The world is populated with hundreds of millions of people working mind numbing jobs into their old age, daydreaming of all the things they could of done with their life when they were young if only they had tried.

>>18108982

To be honest, I'm not actually adverse to the idea of working shit jobs as a stopgap. I have a Bachelor's in Psych, and while I know exactly what I want to do with it (my long-term career goal is working with treating the mentally ill in prisons; it's a necessity and the state I'm in has the highest percentage of them in the country).

However, I haven't been able to get my foot in a door anywhere. I don't have ID yet due to incredibly stupid reasons, and the only job experience I have was a shit-shoveling job from a friend of my mother's that I had to quit when the woman refused to communicate and started underpaying me (to the point it was not worth the labor I was putting in).

I'm also NOT unwilling to pander to fetishists, but again, networking = foot in the door. I'm pretty sure I can't just open up a social media account and throw up a sign that says "hello I am willing to draw/write any depraved shit you want for money."

>>18109017

Doing things you hate as a stepping stone towards your ultimate goal is an entirely different matter. The road to success is not going to paved with things you will always enjoy doing.

How far you're willing to go to network and create opportunities for yourself is a decision you have to make on your own.

>>18108699
If you've already had a long discussion about it, thats pretty much all you can do. If you dont want to break up with her but dont want to do the group sex thing, just tell her no and hope she's not a scumbag and doesn't get railed by 30 dif dudes behind your back anyways I suppose. Unless you can legitimately change the way she sees sex, though, she might end up resenting you and cheat on you or at least break up with you.

>>18108699
Been there. You can't let other people impose their sexual values on you.

End of the day, it sounds like this isn't something you're comfortable with and something that she is pretty adamant about. You sound like a one-woman type of guy. Nothing wrong with that. You need to be honest with yourself and with her and let her know that that's not really your thing and that, if she really feel strongly about it, that it's just not a need of her you'll be able to accommodate and see what she says.

tl;dr Fuck that. Let her explore her open relationship/poly bullshit with someone else.

>>18108699
>She just doesn't get why I find sex emotionally connecting or important.

That's because she's an entitled, hedonistic, narcissistic slut.

I don't have anything against people that want to sleep around, do whatever you like. The line gets drawn, however, when there's a social contract between you and your partner.

It's not that she CAN'T understand, she DOESN'T WANT TO. Even if something isn't important to me, the fact that it's very important to my fiance means that it becomes something that I take seriously because my fiance is important to me and I try to walk through her shoes and understand where she's coming from.

So, im neet (or better say hikikimori) rom ukr, just get 18. I harassed every fucking day by my dad, befor this time i was harassed by freshmans, teachers, my mother, other peoples. I try fucking everything, i suicide, i steal money, i try in drug treading, gay prostitytion and fail in everysing, i afraid to killmyself, afraid to cross border illegal (cant make visa legal), afraid to trade drugs, noone want fuck me. Im fuckd up snd need advise

The only thing what keep me alive and make me trying is wish to join democracy side at some war like in games.

Fight Putin

Your girlfriend was being rude and ignorant and backing this girl into a corner. I don't know what you expected to happen, but your girlfriend sounds like such a bigot. I'm actually picturing her as white trash or a redneck

>>18107370

she was respectful enough to not bring up any opinion she had.

you guys are basically being thought police right now, mad at her for what she might be thinking and not how she acts.

she acts nice, and doesn't insult you or talk about killing you. but you guys kept picking at her about it and even though she still didn't confirm or deny anything you guys got upset.

basically you are upset because someone thinks differently than you despite acting completely normal and fine about it.

>>18107370
Being horrendously irrational.

I understand how someone can be uncomfterble around another on account of their opinions, but you didn't even affirm what opinions she had. You both just assumed from the outright that she was homophobic, and didn't even try to clarify. If she was dodging the question, that's the signal that she doesn't want to talk about it, probably because she doesn't want to upset you.

its a malignant tumour

>>18110402
>Non circular shape
I'd check just in case you got camcer

>>18110318

Ask her about her life and tell her about yours.

Are you friends or something? How do you know each other?

>>18110329
What questions do you have in mind?

>>18110359

Do ever talk to people? Like, friends and family? Well, ask her things like you'd do with them.

Also, are you friends or something? How do you know each other?

>>18110312

So you want us to tell you what to do? That's not how it works.

Start by calming down. Look at your life and decide what to work on first. Getting a job would be a good place to start.

Also, don't take everything people say to you so hard. Just work on it, at least a bit, every week or something.

wanna join my gang?

>>18110319
I tell myself to fix things but than I dont do it. Im not asking people to tell me what to do but I want to start somewere