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Asked this shy girl if she wanted to meet up over text. When I introduced myself to her she wanted me to put my number in her phone. It's been two days and no reply. Today in class I caught her looking at me and she turned away immediately. What the fuck is going on?
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She doesnt like you but she doesn't want to to make things more awkward
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>>18111154
Fuk
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Better luck next time
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Okay /Adv/, whenever im in high school and i meet a random person who i just come across that is just an asshole i get scared that a fight might break out. Happened twice recently with people who are even a few years younger. pls halp explain
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Hi /adv/, I'm a 23 yo male and I'm currently going through a breakup with my second girlfriend of one year. I was previously cheated on and it has worsened underlying trust issues that developed as result of childhood abandonment. The girl I'm going through the breakup with met online and we hit it off instantly. We'd spend everyday together and it really made both of us feel like we were worth being loved. She has her own issues and we both bonded over our scars which made our relationship really special because we were so open and vulnerable with each other. These two past months however, we've been seeing each other maybe once a week at most. We don't really have a sexual relationship, I'm usually the only one interested in sex and it's become a chore for her so we just stopped. Deep down inside, I know she's cheating on me at the very least on an emotional level as she's always talking with "gay" friends and always prioritizes spending time with others over me. I'm just feeling like I did something wrong. All I can think about is where did things go wrong? Am I bad in bed? Am I not funny enough? Not good looking enough? I've confronted her about sex in the past before breaking up and she claimed that having sex more than once every two weeks was too much, and that it feels "truly good whenever we have sex less frequently". I feel like I have failed in that department but she's making it sound like there's nothing I can do in the future to not mess up what I thought was an amazing relationship. Is there anything I can do to help cope with the low self esteem and self doubt that I'm dealing with so that I can stop obsessing over my shortcomings?
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>>18111126
I'm so sorry that I didn't read your post.
But thank you for that picture. <3
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>>18111158
I wish I was home right now watching my favorite movies in bed. I've been feeling really sick and fatigued for the past few days. I'm glad I was able to make two people happy today even though I don't feel good.
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>>18111126
sounds like you need to make more time for her. a relationship cannot flourish if both of you dont invest the time
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Hey, I understand 4 chan might not be the best place to ask this , but I feel like today just seems like " Congratulations you have a vagina" day. I dont hate women (at least I think I dont) but I just fail to get it. I get the feeling that this is a common feeling among a lot of guys or I could just really dislike women. Your thoughts?
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>International Women's Day (IWD), originally called International Working Women's Day, is celebrated on March 8 every year.[2] It commemorates the movement for women's rights.
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>>18111115
ok that sheds some light on it
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>>18111115
well there you have it op. really though its a foo foo holiday. not a real one. we have an international mens day too, we just dont celebrate it. you really only hear of international womens day from feminist online stuff, maybe at a college. no one in the real world actually does anyhting different today
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Hey guys, what could I do with a biology degree?
I'm wondering what kind of master's to move on to if I don't get into medical school.
Thanks for any help!
>tfw fell for the bachelor's in STEM meme
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>>18111098
Same friend about to graduate with bachelors in Biochem.
If you haven't done like 1000+ hours of volunteering at hospitals, been part of med clubs, retained 3.8+ GPA, and have other extra ciricular actives you probably won't get in.
The following information is from my PI so I don't know if it's exactly true. Masters degrees in sciences are usually frowned upon as most masters are obtained by failing or dropping out of a PhD program. So when people see that you have a masters it might look like you just stopped trying for a PhD. You will probably only have a few options. Professional schools for dentistry, med school, pharmacy, or PhD. Whatever you do stay relevant in the field in your gap year and prepare a plan to get ready in that year for any direction afterwards. Good luck friend and I hope you're in a research lab right now. Otherwise join one.
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>>18111179
Thanks a lot. Yeah my ECs and GPa are not perfect for med school but I have a good MCAT score.
I was thinking maybe a master's in clinical microbiology or molecular biology as a plan B (which I could use as a stepping stone to med school eventually) I don't like science enough to get a PhD.
If I'm not doing clinical medicine, I think I'd prefer working in a medical research lab or a pathology lab.
Thanks
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>>18111204
This is gonna sound like kind of obvious, but apply to a shittier med school. if you have a good score, a school with less competition to get in will overlook a lower GPA.
I can't sleep now for the second night in a row. I feel like this will be a common theme for the foreseeable future, because the only thing I was missing is insomnia, right? I gave up on love already and I feel like i'm about to give up on happiness, too. This feeling of constant dread and dreariness has definitely taken its toll on my mental health, and now its even fucking me up physically. Everywhere I go I am told how much thinner i've gotten, how I always look sad, how I never smile. And the worst thing about it is when someone jokes about you being depressed or upset over a girl or whatever and you have to pretend that that isn't true, because fuck explaining your dilemma over and over again to people who don't care and will forget about it within the next two hours. I'm sick of this. I'm sick of everything. I'm frustrated and fed up beyond belief. Fuck this shitty major that I chose to torture myself with, fuck me for not listening to my parents and going for dentistry, fuck my "friends" who don't give a shit, fuck all the times I ever fell in love, fuck sitting on that god damn bench that broke me over the course of 5 months. And fuck the time they told me they were going to sleep and then proceeded to stay awake for the next 2 hours or so, as if I am a child who doesn't know how to operate fucking Whatsapp. Just tell me you don't want to talk for god's sake. I know how annoying I can get, I know I am a burden, I know I am the clingiest and most dependent person that you have the displeasure of knowing, so just be upfront to me about it. There is nothing that forces you to talk to me, you literally don't have to even give me the fucking time of day if you didn't feel like it. The last thing I need is someone just pretending to care about me when in reality I'm just another one of their 1,243,853 throwaway friends that they respond to every once in a while as their good deed for the day.
How do I deal with this fucking depression meme lads?
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>>18111079
I take drugs. Cannabis is good for sleep and eating. Also for general relaxation. Helps me zone out of everyday worry.
I have a feeling lsd may have heightened my anxiety and I had some rough trips but overall it helped me gain some new perspective on my life
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I'm waiting for a good reply myself.
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>>18111107
Weed affects everyone differently, I find it relaxes me, but in some ways stimulates m mind to be more active and creative, for that reason it keeps me awake if I smoke and thn try to go to bed 2-3 hours later.
I recently got some lsd, 4 tabs for $100 (fuck Australia for expensive drugs)
How should i take them bro?
>be in semi-relationship with QT
>this one rat cunt hits on her every party we go to
>dont care, she rejects him every time
>at the last party we both went to i arrived late and i saw him doing the same shit again
>think nothing of it
>after said weekend she stopped texting me
>its been 4 days
did this rat cunt steal my girl, /adv/ ?
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>>18111067
Very likely. Why wouldn't you pay no mind desu? Sure she's brushing him off but you just keep letting it happen like a doormat. For all you know or didn't know this faggot could be one of those who just read or watches pick up artist shit online and you got experimented on. She probably saw and didn't want a partner who let's that shit fly - a cuck if you will
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>>18111082
>letting it happen
He does it while im not there. He also tries to fuck every single other girl in a 10 meter radius of him
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So my friend just went ghost on me. It's really weird we were texting a normal conversation nothing serious or anything, but at like 7 was the last message I sent in regards of it. We use a text app that tells if a message is read or not so by like 11pm I check my phone to ask her if she wanted to hangout tonight. Well before I go to bed around 1 I check the app to see if she read it or not and still nothing. I checked online and she was posting on her social media and logged into her game like 10 minutes ago. So I'm like ok kinda weird maybe she did see the notification on it. Well I go to bed and wake up and it's almost 4pm still unread still nothing. I'm in a denile here, I'm like oh maybe the app was buggy, or maybe it isn't showing notifications on her phone for it or whatever. Bottom line is she had to of ignored it but idk why. Is it wrong to be spiteful and ignore her for a while if she randomly texts me back ignoring the question or how it's been almost a day. She sends me random memes and shit at times so I can kinda see her just sending one and ignoring what happened.
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>>18111032
Lol what are you, 12? Get over yourself.
She just don't want to hurt your clearly sensitive af feelings by saying no, so she just ignored it. She was probably busy, or just tired and felt it'd be easier or more convenient to ignore the question. (Maybe she doesn't like confrontation, even as minor as saying no. Lots of people are like that.)
Bottom line, grow the fuck up. Trust me, as you get older (I'm assuming you're young) people will have less and less time for you because they have lives. Hopefully you'll also have a life of your own to get busy with. You'll learn there's no hard feelings if you can talk or hang out every free moment.
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>>18111047
can't*
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>>18111047
Few things to add to your wild assumptions.
>we hangout all the time. And she has no issue saying no which she has before and I'm fine with it
>she has no school and barely works, if she does anything once again she will say no and be like oh I'm getting my nails done, or I'm going out with x y or z.
This is the first time in 2 years of knowing and talking to her she just completely ignored something for a day, especially a question about something. I'd feel less then whatever I'm feeling if the message at least said read on it but she hasn't even opened the app in a day.
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A friend and I are interested in doing a Twitch stream together of a challenge we thought up, and we want to show both streams on the screen at the same time. How would we go about doing this?
My first thought would be to use OBS to simply capture his stream as a separate scene, but then there would be the delay between his screen and mine when i'm streaming it, which would look crap.
I'd really rather not have to mess about with things that I don't have a handle on like somehow displaying them both via a virtual machine; the simpler I can do this the better. Ideally I also don't want to blow money on things just to make this idea possible if I can help it.
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>>18111003
Shameless self bump since my search for a solution isn't going very well.
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>>18111398
Gonna have to do a wierd LAN capture card setup if you don't want delay. No real way around that other than delaying your own stream to match his somehow. gl anon.
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>>18111408
Thanks for at least popping into the thread my man, appreciate it. If the worst comes to pass I suppose we could stream normally and maybe just link people to one of those sites where you watch a few at the same time.
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How do you get over a fear of having people looking at you/being the center of attention?
I don't have social anxiety, at least not to the point where I break down and can't function. I get nervous in some situations, but again, I'm able to function.
I just HATE being the center of attention. I hope having to raise my voice to speak to one person across the room and the entire room can listen in on the conversation. I just hate knowing that everyone can hear what I'm saying. I hate having all eyes on me.
I'm wanting to get into a career in healthcare, namely a job as an EMT this summer and I will undoubtedly have people look at me as I work.
How the fuck do I just stop caring?
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>>18111001
Wish i could help but i have full blown social anxiety and am.on verge of spilling vomitus everywhere
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>>18111001
Practice exposing yourself to people.
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>gf left the country today
>wont come back for another week
>feel depressed and dead inside already because I miss her
I know i'm coming across as a massive pussy, and I also know this is a very unusual thread to see on 4chan, but I had to write this somewhere in confidentiality.
My question to you /adv/ is: How do I get over this devastating feeling? I can't live like this for an entire week
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>this is an unusual thread to see on 4chan
actually this is unbelievably common. the scenario differs slightly but its all the same
>girl gone five minutes
>MY LIFE IS SUFFERING IM SO UNIQUE
>how do i get over this devastating feeling
ask her to mail you your balls back.
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>>18110983
you're right anon, im acting like a little girl
how can i stop?
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>>18110989
develop your own identity that isn't dependent on a relationship.
you got one week to figure out who you are. cuz right now you're not a person. you are a servant.
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Is this country safe to visit as an African-American?
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>>18110912
it *may* be dangerous outside of big city centers, but I don't know. Why don't you ask on /trv/?
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>>18110919
Sorry, I'm new to 4chan. Thanks. Will post now.
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>armenia on europe
what iz dis map
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Hello /adv/!
So I gave up on women 3 years ago, after my ex.
But in the past month I met someone.
We hang/date about every 2-3 days.
I set the dates at the beginning, but now I let her to do it because she has a very dinamic work time and I don't start working again until next month.
Lately I've been feeling awkward because I always have time when she invites me out.
Should I just say I'm busy the next time, so that I will look a little more unapproachable?
You know women like to be ignored sometimes.
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>>18110900
>You know women like to be ignored sometimes.
Already thinking about it wrong.
No one likes to be ignored, they just like the feeling of spending time with someone that they know has other options for how they spend their time.
Cold shouldering her isn't what's going to make you seem more interesting, it's going to make you like disrespectful and like you don't care. You want to conveying that you have other interesting things going on, not that you're aloof to her interest in you.
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>>18110930
You've made a good point, thank you for the reply!
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booked a week off holiday to try an discover myself a bit
just booked dance lessons and about to go its now or never, going on my own aparently theres not too many people at this place, checked facebook and looks to be mostly old people, i was hoping for some young piece of ass to be there now im nervous that gonna be surrounded by people older than me im actually really nervous and even more so of wussing out pls advise
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Cheer up. Life can't be that bad. If you want some young ass----there is plenty. Be careful anon- it's a evil world. Don't be nervous. Embrace all your talents. Hold your high head and smile. Be confident. Things will become better once you believe it will.
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>>18110887
"I made some assumptions that were ridiculous what do I do now?"
You deal with the consequences of those assumptions. Young people don't take dance lessons unless they're already dating someone.
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What?!!!
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>Have been on a diet since December
>Lost all the weight I wanted
>Can't change my eating habits, sweets literally make me hurl, can't eat much
>Feel physically weak all the time, lightheaded walking to and from car, etc.
What do I do?
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Go live your life dude! Stop whining and complaining. Change your surroundings. People don't stay stuck unless they like what they doing.
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>>18110867
Take vitamins, don't eat sweets eat healthy stuff but more or something
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>>18110867
dont throw sweets on then, just throw on healthy higher calorie altenratives. instead of greenbeans eat an avacado.