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i'm so fucked can somebody please ease my mind because i'm paranoid, i eat a lot of fast food and recently i went to chick fil a and thought nothing of it. Just another sandwich from the establishment but this time it was different, i saw two hairs inside of the sandwich and on top of the bagel i saw what looked to be blood, like a fucking retard i didn't take any pictures of it and the bitch i gave it to just threw it away ignoring the blood and just focusing on the hairs inside the sandwich. so i have no photographic evidence that there was blood on top of the bagel just my word, which nobody believes except people that trust me. i checked all over my hands so it wasn't my blood and my nose wasn't bleeding and the manager said she checked the hands of the employees and said that they all were wearing gloves and none of them were bleeding from the hands. i said okay and left and now i'm worried i have hepatitis because i bit a piece of the sandwich and spat it back out. what are the chances of me actually contacting hepatitis through this experience is there any chance of me suing if i do i feel like my life is ruined
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Nah dude, you'll be fine, it only counts if you swallow it, then there's a chance but if you spat it back out there's like a 0.1% chance you'll get something from it.
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Wow dude that is sad af
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Yahaha! You found me!

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>in highschool
>focusedon part time job, drawing, and passing school
>graduate
>work full time
>passion/interest in things die
>just work and do mindless internet wandering

how do i get back into doing fun shit. i dont who i am anymore.
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>>18113687
I'm doing the exact same thing. You just have to find something you're passionate about. Experiment with things. We got really shitty weather and I'm stuck inside all the time.
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>>18113758
>experiment
but i wanna be passionate about art
its neat.
but god damnit i cantget myself to pursue it.
not like i used to.
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Do you have any friends that are passionate about art, because sometimes that helps. I love drawing pictures even though I suck at it.

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My girlfriend refuses to tell me what porn she watches. It bothers me. Not that she watches porn, but that she doesn't tell me what she watches. Is it wrong that it bothers me? What can I do?
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>>18113668
it must be something pretty nasty.
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>>18113668

Well, would you tell her all the nasty shit you've fapped to? Let her indulge her kinks, when she's comfortable she'll tell you. Besides, from your post, it sounds like you're prepared to judge her based on her taste, so it's really no wonder if she doesn't want to tell you. The bigger deal you make out of it, the less likely she'll be to tell you. Just let it slide.
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>>18113668
What porn do you watch OP?

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>19yo acceptably sociable dude
>been addicted to vidya for close to 10 years
>get into med school
>spend 3 semesters procrastinating, playing vidya, watching tv shows, on youtube
>fail 1 exam in the 2nd semester and another one in the 3rd but don't fuck my life entirely
>finally succeed in convincing myself that i need to change
>been 3 weeks since i uninstalled league of cancer and cancerstone + i've been watching less than 30 mins of cancertube per day
>been running and cycling to spend the time i used to spend playing
>it doesnt feel enough so i had the idea of getting into a martial art
>dunno which one

Tl;dr: vidya addict -> need something to spend time on -> considering getting into a martial art

Any and all advice appreciated.
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>>18113507
read books
learn chess
get a parttime job
volunteer work

Getting a job at a hospital should be doable, friend of mine works at one like once a week maybe and is a med student too, not even doing masters yet, still bsc and makes like 25+€/hr doing night shifts I think.

>dunno which one
muay thai, boxing, and BJJ are generally the ones people recommend, go check out some trial lessons in the area.

Also for the vidya, moderation is key. It might be hard since you've been playing all day long for years, so it might be easier to just stop completely, but playing occasionally, maybe like one night a week a couple of hours or something when you done all the school work should be fine, if you work 24/7 without relaxing you are going to get burned out eventually. But definitely make sure you don't fall back to old habits.
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>>18113507
Perhaps you should consider suicideo? Very ancient. Very martial.
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>>18113507
been thinking of doing the same, exactly same situation as yours except not in med school, I'll be going for Muay Thai because It's a more practical martial art than the other "spiritual" ones that give you some weird motions to do during lessons - save that for when you're older, for now go and get that practical basis and you can build on that after a while.

My last two considerations were boxing and muay thai and personally I enjoy the addition of kicking in muay thai, It's a martial art that focuses on flexibility alot and that's important, not sayin boxing's bad tho, just my two cents.

Good luck!

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Unfortunately, i have started smoking during late January. I'm a fresh smoker, we can say.

And obviously. I regret this decision. I got hooked because of all my other friends started smoking because that one motherfucker in my friends group did.

Obviously, i hate myself for this decision, because i was STRICTLY against smoking, alcohol, and all that other shit and i want to stop. I'ts making problems in my family and i don't want to ruin my Thank-God-good health.

Should i stop hanging out with them? what should i do? I know that this is the time i should stop smoking if i don't want to get addicted to tobbaco in the future.

PLEASE HELP MY DUUUDES
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Switch to vaping with non-tobacco fluid?

That way you're still 'smoking' something without:
1. Fucking up your lungs as bad (vaping is only like 10% as bad as smoking)
2. Smelling absolutely disgusting


You get cool ass flavors for vaping fluid too. You can even get weed fluid if you're into that.
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>>18113487
I think that's not the alternative i want.
I want to stop with smoking totally. Am i asking for too much?
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>>18113472
it was only two months dude, you're only chemically addicted and don't have the deep rooted habits that people who have been smoking for 10+ years have.

just taper off by reducing the number of cigarettes per day by 1 every other day then switch to the vape nation because nicotine is good for your brain.

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Can someone please give me some advice?


My neighbor is a drug addict.

He frequently has drug addicts/obvious dealers hanging around in the parking lot (It's an apartment complex). They leave needles on the curbs and there have also been car break in's in the complex that I know that they are responsible for (as this is a very wealthy area, They are probably the only drug addicts in the entire 170 unit complex).

I've spoken to management, They did nothing. In fact I spoke to them 14 times total, Even though my attorney to make it seem more serious (as it is, drug addicts are dangerous and unpredictable). They did nothing....just said "call the police".


I try calling the police, Asking for more patrols though the area...They either show up and the addicts have already left, Don't show up period, or just show up and fucking knock on my door asking where they are (so now they addicts/dealers know who keeps calling the police...great).

I'm sick of this and I'm not going to break my lease and pay 5000+ to move because of this subhumans.

I have been taking pictures/videos of them in the parking lot so I have the tag number, make/model/color ect.. I pictures of them smoking what I assume is crack, injecting drugs, and even hookers performing sex acts in one of their cars.

I was going to contact my attorney and have him meet me at the police department and bring all these printed out pictures and ask the police department why nothing has been done and possibly if they can actually do something about this or try somehow to speak with a narcotics detective.
Any other idea's to get these drug addicts out of here or arrested?


I don't care they know who I am anymore, I'm sick of paying 2000 a month to live like I'm in the ghetto. I am also sick of barely sleeping in fear of retribution for calling the police so many times on them


I live in the U.S.
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>>18113455
hit that nigga wit a hotshot yo
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>>18113455
Just lie and say one of them offered to sell you a stolen gun. If those cucks are too lazy to arrest them for drugs that might get them off their ass. They may or may not find guns, but then when they get a warrant they will find all those drugs.
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>>18113468
Whats a hotshot?

>>18113470
I think lying the police is an overall terrible idea. You can be arrested for lying the police

I kinda like your idea though, It makes sense lol.

How do i stop having bad breath, i wash my teeth three times a day, floss and rinse
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Sounds to me your problem lies in your stomach. Get a doctor to look into your digestive system and change your diet.
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Carry mints everywhere
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>>18113178
second this.

might also have tonsil stones in addition to- they stink.

also go get a cleaning, may have onset of decay in a molar. had that and it wasn't nice

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I don't usually post here but I need some help.
I've more or less just become official with a girl and she wants to do MDMA on Friday with her friends at the uni club. She lives in the next town over and goes to a different uni but she said I could come out with her while she's on it. I've made my feelings clear - that I don't like that she's doing MD but she's said that's not a real reason and she doesn't wanna lie to me. I'm not worried about her cheating, but I can't seem to put it in words why I don't want her to do it. She did it like 3 weeks ago too to celebrate finishing her thesis and tomorrow is like a big event at the uni.
It doesn't help that I've done MDMA myself like 7 times.
Can someone help me explain to her why I don't want her to do it?
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>>18113008
Also I'm not going out with her tomorrow because I'm not ready to meet her friends yet desu, and I've got my own plans on Friday
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Clear your mind of your negative thoughts and go do mdma and have fun with your girl man, this can strengthen your bonds.
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>>18113021
Yeah spent 20 mins reading theRedPill and it's made me feel so anxious.

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how can i get over someone that i know ill never see again?
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Why did they die?
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>>18112977

build a life about yourself, one where you're the main character, and not just a satellite for some other protagonist.
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Accepting what happened. Time helps only if you're ready to let it go.

I shared that my girlfriend was raped once in the comments of a Facebook group. one of the girls messaged her that I had shared it. I shouldn't be sharing it here anyway, but I need to ask: how do I learn not to share certain things???(even of it was for good intentions like this)
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>>18112597
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I am just dumbfounded. I have no advice to offer you
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>>18112597
>even of it was for good intentions like this

What was the good intention?

My girlfriend was raped. Sometimes I tell people on here about how I reacted on finding out, how we've coped, and the aftermath that we've dealt with together, but it's always me sharing the story that belongs to me, not sharing her story, and it's always in an anonymous setting.

And every time I tell it, it's because I see some other guy struggling to cope with the knowledge that someone they care about has had something bad happen to them, and notice that they're falling in to the trap of making it about themselves, and not realizing that no, it's not about them, there is nothing they can or should do than offer support, the other person is the one who suffered, it's not their burden to try to fix and they have no right to try to do so. I do not share her experiences so I can gain credibility or shock value or anything--those stories are not what I've experienced and I have no right to them--I purely share my OWN experiences on the subject.

. If you can't conceptualize the fact that we all have a right to our own stories and our own secrets, It sounds like you have a certain lack of empathy when it comes to things like secrets. I think you might need to be shocked in to realizing it.

People don't naturally fear fire, until the first time they stick their hand in it and get burned.

You might need someone to royally fuck you over by sharing a secret that you're terrified or mortified of finding out, so that you get a sense of how shitty it can be when it happens to you.

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I'm 18 and on a gap year before I start college. Currently working 2 part time jobs.

I've found that for some reason, I just can't play games anymore. I look through my entire 150 game library on Steam and I have no motivation to try anything. For some reason I just prefer to read, watch Netflix/Youtube or browse this site instead.

When I do boot up a game, I quit within 30 minutes. I'll play Overwatch for 2 games and get bored. Is this normal? Does this ever go away?
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>>18112562
Thats normal. You need to move on. Your interests have developed.
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just dont play games for awhile and do something else my enjoyment of videogames was much higher after a big pause or simply playing with friends while talking

also clean up your backlog if you have one or look for a game that really peaks your interest that also helped me
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>>18112562
People's interests change over the course of their life, so it's normal. Video games in particular often lose a bit of their interests as you grow older, since they're not as much of a novelty as they used to be, and you have less mental energy and less free time to spare for them.

Though there's also an element where you might be distracted by other shit to do on your computer - like idly browsing your preferred social media, which is addictive since it's a constant flow of low-key entertainment for very little effort.

I recommend balancing your time spent on the computer with other outdoor activities, so that when you go back to your screen it feels "fresher" and you might have a better disposition for games.

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Hey /adv/
I'm a 19 year old bi female looking for advice about my friend I'll greentext a backstory
> be me 15 year old awkward student
>it's a new year at school
> all of my friends always meet to hang out in the courtyard
>some new people are out there this year
>a 10/10 skinny pale girl with cherry red hair is out there as well
> she comes up to me and tells me that the top I was wearing was flattering
>I have really big boobs
> for the rest of the year 10/10 red head girl spends her time groping and flirting with me.
>soon realize I'm not straight
> we always joke about fucking each other
>we planned to meet up and fuck but her job called her in
>I always kinda felt like that was an excuse to back out of the situation
>I eventually figure out that she flirts with me to entice dudes
>kinda sad cause I wanted to have sex with her
>she starts dating my friend Eric
>Eric really wanted us to have a threesome and even talked about dating both of us
> I dated both of them for a day or two and decided it was too weird and not worth it
>I wasn't really attracted to Eric it was always about the red head girl
>fast forward to this year
>Eric and red head girl break up
> she makes a tinder and she's been trying to date around casually
> realize I need to make my move and I talked about it with my boyfriend and he's more than ok with it
I just messaged her an hour ago asking if we could have a sleep over and she said that she's off next weekend so we can have one.
Okay /adv/ how do I make it clear that I'm trying to initiate something ? Also how do I initiate something ? I'm really awkward and don't want to mess this up I've never been with another girl before
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I just need tips pointers anything
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>>18112470
Ask her if she's ever been curious

Everyone has bisexual tendicies.

Recommend me some anime with a main character that's not a fucking pussy. Preferably something like cowboy bebop, samurai champloo or cybericty oedo
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>>18112464
I just started lupin the third, id say it's pretty good so far.
I love the old style.
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>>18112464
Tengen Toppa Gurren Lagann
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>>18113181
if ur only talking ab the second half

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Ok guys, I'm really getting close to having sex with this one chick. But I m a virgin and she has much more experience. Im 21,186 cm and have a decent amout of muscles. I am very confident and I'm sure I won't be as bad as maybe others. However I would like to knw which position or what to do to appear more experience in the sack.
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Why is it important that she doesn't know?
Also, there're no general techniques. As long as you can mantain an erection you'll be fine.
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Have some self respect, tell her you're a virgin, if she gets mad fuck that bitch.
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I'm a 25 year old virgin and I'm almost 26. A gorgeous 18 year old girl wants me. I can't fuck this up or ill never forgive myself. Help.

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My favorite prostitute forum got deleted by the feds. I need a convenient way to find hookers in my area, can anyone Help?

I don't need a girlfriend so don't fucking tell me to get one.
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Why not go to a country where it's legal.
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>>18112407
Why post stupid bullshit questions instead of help. I can't take a sexcation whenever I feel like it
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Go to another board.

There are no shortages of them.

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