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How do you properly maintain an abundance mentality so you can avoid slipping into scarcity/getting oneitis but without going overboard and not getting what you really want in the end (a loving, devoted girlfriend)?
I'm talking to two different girls at once, but already went on a date with one of them and kissed her. She sounded like she enjoyed our time and said she wanted to hang out again but when I asked her to see me this weekend she said she couldn't, but also said she only meant this weekend in particular. I figure she's either playing hard to get a little, or lost interest somehow.
Recently I met this other chick though after she approached me first and we've been talking a bit, she said she would be down for a date right away. But I'm starting to feel like a bit of a scumbag for it because I already kissed that other girl and I thought kisses were supposed to mean something, i.e. you wouldn't kiss somebody you weren't interested in and wanted to see more. I definitely liked the first girl a lot but it's a combination of not wanting to get caught up in something that isn't sure so early on, and my own insecurities that makes me think I "should" have my options open. I'm also not trying to be a PUA with some narcissistic harem of fuckbuddies, I genuinely want to get a relationship with a fitting girlfriend. What do you anons think?
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>>18113024
Don't let us decide for you. Choose what's best for you.
(Write down the pros, and cons of each option if you have too)
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>>18113288
Thanks. Yeah they've both stopped responding so maybe I need to man the duck up and do phone calls or...something else.
I'm more interested in the first girl but I can't tell how she feels about me and it's starting to seem bad. Asked her out again hours ago and no response, I guess that's my answer.
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Keep your options open because you never know what can happen.
Having options is going to make you feel less needy and it can only help you. Women do it all the time.
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Is there any salvaging this tinder meetup?
Yesterday I met up with a very cute girl that goes to my uni, and after talking about general life (uni, hometowns) for about 20 minutes we smoked and then just sat around without talking for about 40 minutes and listened to music.
Then we took a walk outside and she asked me to get dinner with her and I flat out said no for whatever reason, and I gave her a fist bump and peaced the fuck out.
I think she was into me, and I regret not showing any interest.
I texted her after and told her it was nice to hang with her, she texted "it was nice being lazy together". I said I'd like to see her again and she said "of course"
I'd really like to see her again. Either way I figure I should wait until tonight or something to text her again. Here is what I'm considering doing:
- Apologize for being spaced out
- Ask her to come to my place
- Ask her to go do something together
- Let her know I'm attracted to her
Am I just stuck waiting for her to tell me what she's doing today once she wakes up? What the fuck do I do? Just let it go?
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>>18112970
don't apologize but do ask her to spend time with you
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>>18112979
Do I ask her to come to my dorm? Go get food? I really just want to smash
I'm an 18 y/o autist
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>>18112989
>Go get food
>Back to the dorm for more smokes
>Smash dat pussay bareback mah nigga
>Cum balls deep in dat ho
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I've been thinking about death a lot lately. And I'm not sure why. My life has been pretty same-y, and I can't tell what changed. I went from accepting it to being so terrified of it I can't even eat anymore seemingly over night.
I'm not really sure what scares me more. The idea I won't be remembered, or the idea I won't live to see anything big happen. I was born at a time where nearly nothing has happened, and I'll die in the same situation. I mean... our star isn't going to be dying within my lifetime, so that's good. But I also won't live long enough to see us go further into space. I was born in a deadzone. And just like my life, everything is just going to be stagnate until I no longer exist.
I want more out of my life... but I'm stuck with only two options. Either just let things keep going the way they are and die alone, or just leave and be homeless. And I don't want to go through that again.
I need some advice on where to go from here.
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>I've been thinking about death a lot lately.
>My life has been pretty same-y
there's your problem go make some bad decisions
not drastic ones, mind you
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>>18112922
>I mean... our star isn't going to be dying within my lifetime, so that's good. But I also won't live long enough to see us go further into space. I was born in a deadzone.
I've kinda had this feel before. Sometimes I wish I was born in 2020 or 2050 or 2100, something better than the 90s at least. You have to understand though that humans were never meant to be spacefaring, and due to physical limits, it is unlikely we could ever travel to planets far beyond our solar system. The next closest star is 4 light years away, and we have absolutely nothing in the pipeline for humans to travel that far. Granted, it is still incredible that we have a rover on Mars, and that we have been able to get pictures from the surface of Venus. You should be happy that at some point in the future, we will likely be able to terraform both of those planets, and will likely be spread out between 3 planets (an incredible feat for any life form)!
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>>18112922
Sometimes a fascination with death or dying is just a wish for change.
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Got caught pirating movie, they suspended my internet, what do?
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>tried calling, said they couldnt give info out since I wasnt on the bill
>tried calling again, hoping I could get by and find ou more info,, no dice
What can happen?
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>>18112837
Suspension of service and/or cease and desist order delivered to your door, if they're feeling generous
Court subpoena by movie publisher if they're feeling frisky
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>>18112849
They suspended the service, what can I do to arm myself or get out of the situation?
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switch providers and pirate using vpn from now on?
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Hello adv
Theres this girl i talk to in college, I used to make small talk with her. And i had a crush on her, but i figured it wouldn't be worth it to ask her out because She wasn't really showing any signs that I was different from any other guy.
Long story short, ive been trying to act normal whenever I see her trying not to spill my spaghetti.
But latley she seems sort of repulsed by me. But im not sure what I did to warrent that response.
Should I bring it up to her? Or am I sperging out?
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Should I bring it up to her?, ye man. you only live once, you'll regret not asking her in 6months
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>>18112778
OP, keep on talking friendly with her, try to get her to trust you.
If she talks to you, try to keep the conversation as long as possible.
Let things come by their own sooner or later you'll get the reward, just WAIT if you really like her.
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>>18112784
Ive already been there and I do regret it
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I hurt my best friend's feelings.
I have been having severe headaches and got a bit high on some medication I was prescribed. When she started talking about her boyfriend, I told her that her love life is ridiculous and I am really sick of being involved in her relationship drama. I don't want to meet her boyfriends, I don't want to hear her talk about them, I don't give a shit.
She is a serial monogamist. Since me and my boyfriend got together in 2007, she changed something like 15+ boyfriends. Her relationship always end dramatically, and I've always been there to listen to her and support her through all of it. Every relationship goes through this honeymoon "I really love him" phase where I have to hang out with this dude 3 times a week, then they argue, cheat on each other and break up.
We're in the "argue" phase with her new boyfriend.
She is mad at me and she refuses to talk to me.
What should I do?
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Let her cool off, if she is still mad at you after a period of time and won't talk then fuck her she's not your friend.
If she's open to talking, maybe apologize for being harsh but say its how you feel. Just say you've got your own problems and can't really deal with her relationships all the time because its too draining.
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>>18112878
We've been friends since we were 4, she's probably the one person I love most other than my boyfriend and my parents.
It is not a huge issue, I'm okay with listening to her even if it annoys me, but I was really high and I just said it without thinking too much.
I am really sorry for hurting her, I kept apologising for hours.
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>>18112889
The point still stands, if she's willing to throw out the friendship over a comment then she's not really a friend.
Give her time and let her cool off. Let her approach you.
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Any tips on how to remove acne? This shit has been on my face for 3+ years nowand honestly It's annoying as fuck and it really effects my self confidence
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>>18112700
Go to a dermatologist.
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>inb4 that guy that always posts his before and after acne face posts in this thread
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Salt water scrub 1-2x a week with organic salt, sea salt, or pink Himalayan salt. Also, Witch Hazel. Go to an organic store like whole foods or some hipster market and buy some face bar or similar wash for 10$. Invest every few months in a few dozen dollars worth of expensive acne care. Look for things with vitamin E, olive oil, witch hazel, tea tree oil, benzoyl something or salycic acid. Good luck homie, don't let acne get you down, do what you can do, and go about living and loving your life. Learn as much as you can and increase your other skills so by the time the acne goes away, you'll be ripped, educated and rich. Also, watch what you eat. Too much sugar, dairy or greasy food will fuck you up. Eat less meat. Drink more water
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How do I stop feeling anxious about losing the people in my life?
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Remember that you are of the nature to grow old, sick, and die.
So is everyone you will ever love or know.
Your relationships are temporary.
You are temporary.
If you worry about losing those you love, you obviously care for them.
The best thing you can do for yourself or for them is to treasure what you have now and to respect that it will end sometime.
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the people in your life are not important. Think about it this way. Only your perception matters. if you continue worrying about other people in any way, you will go insane. Focus 100% on yourself as if life is a game and you are trying to win. not only playing a game to get friend requests and join a guild. You want to become lvl 100 so what do you do? go work out. better yourself, succeed. Then people will send you friend requests because you deserve it and they arent as good as you. they will beg for you to accept their friend request and you wont even want it. think like this. If you keep looking towards the future, then the present will never exist. You cannot bring the future to the present because when you get to the future it is now the present and the future is still ahead. One day, you're gonna die in the present and the future you wanted will still be out there. So stop being a pussy and do what you enjoy. succeed
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I am a 22 year old girl. I'm a virgin and I've never even seen a dick irl before. I have issues with boundaries and things that I'm trying to get over.
There's this guy I really like who I'm going on a date with tonight, and I don't wanna fuck it up. I'm ready to try something sexual, but as I've never even watched porn before I seriously have no fucking clue what I'm doing. How do I even initiate anything and then what do I do? Help pls
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>>18112624
Nice try troll. Don't you have better things to do then pretend to be a woman online? It's really pathetic
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>>18112632
I am not fucking around shithead. I don't have a lot of time to prepare for this shit so I came here.
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>>18112632
Yeah, doesn't sound like a woman to me at all.
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My boyfriend has bad breath even after brushing his teeth. Sometimes it will stink up the entire car it's so strong. We've had fights about it and he has tried to brush/floss his teeth/brush his tongue better but I don't know what to do anymore, it disgusts me. I asked him to check for tonsil stones and he told me he doesn't have any. I've even shown him how to brush once because I was sure he was doing it wrong or something. He always just goes "sorry.." and doesn't seem to realize his breath is horrible until I say something. I keep telling him to go to the doctor but he won't. What should he do? Has anyone else dealt with bad breath that defies good hygiene?
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>>18112594
Tell him to go on a 100% organic diet for a month. Eating mostly organic fruit will help IMMENSELY.
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Will he not try listerine?
Could also be a dead tooth
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>>18112606
>100% organic diet
Literal betamale cuck if he does this
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I am texting this 10/10 babe and we just shared our instas. she has 2000 followers ( i imagine lots of thirsty guys following her, cause of her looks)
and i only have 100 and literally only 1 pic taken. thats because i dont give a shit about social media and in general, i rather hang out /text with my real friends directly.
is that a minus point for babes, did i screw up? we share great chemistry and i am generally A++ in the text game.
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pic related, girl in question (grabbed from her insta)
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hmmmm
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>>18112571
9/10
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I want to start a conversation, and didn't know where to. And in fact the content of the conversation will help me understand things, so we might consider them advice.
So this site is fairly "geeky" what with its chinese cartoons, passion for comics, games, manga and everything else.
Now generally the people who harbour a strong passion for this kind of stuff, and who are labeled geeks, are seen as either very intelligent, but socially inept, or very immature AND socially inept.
I suppose you might have been in contact with quite a few people who's interest mostly revolve around escapist fantasy and the likes, (by frequenting shops or cons or forums) and I was wondering what you thought of them. Mostly intelligent people with an ability for complex analysis, or rather brainless consumers?
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>>18112556
Coincidentally, I just met a guy who corresponds to a type of cliche I didn't know was actually real
>overweight
>only dresses in super hero themed t-shirts
>can't stand criticism of his favorite franchises
>values fanservice and superficial elements above actual depth in his entertainment
>generally shit taste
>generally low self esteem
>will consume the products of his favorite company even if they're bad and he hates them
He also dates a girl who's the same, but more "girl cliche" (loves Buffy, worships Whedon). And is generally quite agressive and mean to him or her entertainment, and mixes criticism with rants.
As a whole there seems to be a majority of pretty normal people in this type of hobbies, and then you have the truly passionate ones who either gobble it up no matter what, or dissect it and mix it with other subjects to become more complex as people.
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>Mostly intelligent people with an ability for complex analysis, or rather brainless consumers?
The first turned, or turning into the second. You waste your potential by using it on escapist interests.
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There seems to be a tendency to be maladjusted people.
I've noticed that, and quite frankly I find that it's not a big deal if they manage to grow out of it, in the sense that they get interested in things outside of their hobby, and use that to get a broader perspective.
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is 3D worth it?
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>>18112484
not for the long run
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>>18112484
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GN_JYp9_y8k
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I always see movies in regular because that 3d shit costs like 10$ extra but theres no difference
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I like everything on her except the fact that she is fat. How can I make myself to ignore this fact? Pic not related...
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>>18112468
Don't be an autist and talk to her about it dude, if you approach it calmly and gently she should respond reasonably. If she goes full tumblr whale muh fat shaming, probs time to just fuck her off because of that shitty attitude alone. Being fat, unless due to medical conditions is a bad sign of their respect for themselves and their attitude to how they treat life as a whole, not a good sign to be a good mother or wife if they can't look after themselves to not be fat.
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>>18112468
What kind of bird is that?
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>>18112468
There's nothing wrong with that.
If you're fit, she should be fit too. You shouldn't be forced to put up with someone who doesnt respect themselves enough to underatand what a calorie deficit is.
Be courteous and tell her in a calm manner how you can HELP her lose weight. Remember, its ultimately up to her.
Of course if you're fat/unfit too, you shouldn't be a hypocrite.
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I need to write essay till tommorow. Topic translated to english sounds something like "tragic fate of an old man", its basicly an essay about how sad and lonely life becomes when you're old. I need to write at least 2 arguments. My first argument is that when you're old you're incapable of doing many thing and you are often useless, therefore people start to value you less and you're just a burden to everyone, even for the ones you love. But no matter how I form my next argument it still always sounds the same as the first one. Help me guys, I need that second argument
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>>18112467
Make second argument about how once a person is old, their best days are behind and all they have left is the memories. Write about how an elder's days are really just recalling times that will never come back and thinking about people who are probably already dead. Then the last years of a person's life are just filled with reminiscence and nostalgia, until they finally die. That's what making old people lonely; the people they knew are gone and they don't understand the world anymore, because it's completely different from the one they lived in in their peak years. Their world is dead, even if the person still lives on.
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>>18112486
Thanks man ,you saved me