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Go see a doctor. Memory loss could be indicator of many things. If you have something maybe you'd be better off with perscription meds.

That being said, try ginkgo biloba suppliments. Have a good sleeping schedule. Do crossowords or sudoku or some kind of game requiring logic or memory.

Also even if you don't do it on purpose do you actually care about the things? If you don't really give a shit they can be forgetable.

My gf has a terrible memory. She always forgets shit and when she does recall stuff she gets it wrong.
Except she gets angry at me for bnot remembering it "correctly". I actually got a digital recorder to prove my own sanity to myself because after years of he said she said i started to question whether it was me.

She does smoke copious amounts of weed though and i dont... so i shouldnt have doubted myself.

As for your situation i dont think there is a way other than to really llisten. Learn to listen and not talk. Pay attention which means stopping what your doing and engaging with him.

I find my gf muddles up what were talking about because she nevvver shuts up. So ill be halfway through a sentence and she will cut me off with something thats not really relevative.

Tl;dr... pay attention more.

>>18114318
I'll have to look into that, thanks! And it's not really I don't care, it's just stuff like I forget to fold laundry, or I leave my purse at home constantly when I need it, or forget important information. It's not like he tells me something and I forget it (okay sometimes)

>>18114352
I get frustrated over it, but not over being right or wrong more like I'm upset at myself for not being able to remember coworkers he's mentioned in stories, remembering to do things I need to, etc. I'm more of an observer anyways, I've never been one to talk myself into oblivion since we're usually engrossed in a video game or something. I also get confused mid sentence, and very often forget what I'm talking about so I can relate

>>18114205

talk to a recruitment officer, they're the only ones who can tellyou whats up, and it will likely end with them telling you to take the asvab.

my brother and my best friend both took the asvab as soon as they graduated highschool.

my brother scored so low that the only branch that would take him was the marines, which was his last resort.

my friend scored so high that he didn't even do boot camp, tehy gave him some special training and now hes a geo political analyst or some shit, even got to keep his ridiculous emo hair.

>>18114210
Hey bud,
The problem is my parents live in backwoods so the nearest office is hundreds of miles away. My ex military dad disapproves and wouldn't knowingly let me... Really CBA with his shit anymore but I have no where else to go.

>>18114222

cool, so either do what i just said anyways, or give up.

>>18114169
What's the job for?

It's for a technologist position in health care. I have experience as an intern, but I can't think of examples of working out problems with coworkers and shit like that.

Most employers value volunteer work as much as job experience.

>>18114157
Why don't you do the university in better first world country? Instead of third world zika ridden country. Your mother is right, and you run the risk of getting deported and risking prosecution for it.

>>18114176
You didnt understood, she dosnt want to do university

>>18114204
Well, I would advice against it. But I hope someone here would be able to help you out.

What project, anon?

Neo-noir.

Yes it would.

Yes.

>>18114230
Thanks for the feedback anon.

Basically, we need to choose out of a couple options (first couple pages of a novel, photograph essay, movie posters) and make something that fits into the horror genre. I chose to make a 1-2 minute film trailer out of a preexisting film.

Basically I'm trying to find the right movie that's not already a horror movie, and make a trailer out of it to make it look like a horror movie.

>>18114349
I think it's the music that makes it not very horr-y(?) It builds suspense, but it sounds more like a prelude to kickassery instead of murder vibes you were going for.

Drive did have a great soundtrack though, and that one is no exception.

Next time play fighting, take his dick out, do something with it that feels comfortable for the situation.

Make the first move.

>>18114149
Show him your dick first. Lead by example

Do you have good credit?

I'm not from around there, but it's not impossible to get out. Go search for job postings, apartments, and transportation in that area. If your lucky you could find a job, and a place to live close by so you don't have to blow all your money on gas. Get all your necessities before you move out (pots,pans, dishes, blow up mattress, cleaning supplies, bedding, warm clothes, tools) it all fits in a car. Then once you're there in stable conditions you can build up all your furniture over time, but make sure you have a job, and a place before you move out.

also talk to your parents about your plans so they can help you put them into practice

Sorry, typo. I meant "Anyways, how can I make myself do things and stay productive while dealing with depression and how can I make it easier for me to forgive myself when I fuck up?"

Been there.Go to the gym, get on a work out plan and follow it without fault. Take a picture of yourself when you start. Put the ear buds in with all the songs that help you get you through the day. It takes time to get out of the rut and it takes time to build yourself up, but the question that always kept coming in my head was "if not now, when?" Push yourself for a few months and take another picture and compare. Good luck anon

>>18114366
Thanks, that helps a lot. I have this professor I really trust, maybe I'll also trying opening up to them a bit more.

I loved what you said, "if not now, when?" I'll remember that for a long time. Thank you so much.

>>18114136
bumperoo, even though I'm somewhat sure its just a bot, thats all I match with

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>>18114136
Thats a bot dipshit, learn how to swipe left of the fakes it gets pretty easy.

>>18114136
Either it's a bot, or she's shit at fucking English.

Regardless, I'd stay away from anyone with a bio like that.

It sounds like a no brainer but I'll take the bate... Talk to her, have deep conversations and share feelings. Make her feel safe and happy around you. At that point you can try seeing her and being alone in intimate situations and let things take their course... And basically there ya go.. relationship

>>18114103
>Sorry guys, didn't keep em

Maybe you should think about seeing men

>>18114102
What state are you in?

>>18114293
I'm not in America

>>18114102
If you don't like accounting then don't major in accounting.

>>18114093
You can't change who you fundamentally are as a person. Just accept who you are and take pride in it.

>>18114093

for starters stop coming to 4chan. your average normie is disgusted by its content

>>18114093
The Great Outdoors is your friend, too. You get healthier in the head when you do physically demanding shit outside in the sun and wind. Yes, this works for scrawny, physically inept, too (just scale down the demand on your body). Yes we do take interest in other people's lives. When you really help someone, you help yourself even more.

>>18114070
Just buy an ice cream and shut up about this crap. Problem solved

>>18114085
>mfw i don't like ice cream

>>18114092
>doesn't like ice cream
Now your just trolling. What don't you like about it?

>>18114039
Biggest mistake ever is to read from a script. Unscripted is always funnier. Cut the script and read from the heart

>>18114047
I stutter, though. I use words incorrectly. I stop saying a word partway through and say a different word. I'm not good at putting sentences together on-the-fly.

stop judging yourself so harshly and post the immediate next take you do.

>>18114022
Forget traps they bite you when you try and get them out.

Get a lttile female dog you can carry in a travle case who is on heat thats spotting, lead it to whatever yard you are going to keep it in.

Delicious food

The dog is chihuahua and is also starting to starve