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Give it to me straight. I'm in the fucking dark here and I need to know what's going on since I can't get it from my girlfriend.
>Get in argument last week about something stupid, turns into big fight
>I don't text her at all the next day
>She comes home from work next day and goes to some party at some place I don't know about and gets drunk
>Says she'll only be an hour
>Go to sleep, wake up at 4 am, she's still not home
>Text her and try to call her a bunch because I'm worried something happened
>Finally answers me and I get pissed, then another argument happens
>She says she's sleeping there and that she'll come back later
>She comes back, things are really different
>I'm losing my mind and I finally text her and say "you know what, I'm just going to have you move out I don't get what's up with you lately"
>She agrees
>I pack her things and then she comes home to them
>She starts crying and in disbelief that I actually packed them
>She calms down and I explain to her that I love her to death and I want things to work between us
>She says "I don't know I need to think about it. I don't see it getting better."
>I give it time and do really nice things. I make dinner, do stuff around the place, tell her I love her, act funny to make her laugh
>She starts warming up a little bit more, being a little sweeter to me
>Today she hardly texts me at all
>Distant attitude again
I'm losing my fucking mind here. I'm at my wits end.
Outlying factors:
>She's a full time student, and works so there's a lot of stress
>We both just moved into a place together. We have been here for about 2 weeks.
>She is close to having her period
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My trust would be ruined if she did that and the relationship would be over but that's me.
I hate to say it but she probably fucked some dude at that party
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>>18114747
She isn't that kind of person. She's very loyal and would end a relationship before starting a new one like that.
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>>18114734
>just moved in together
>immediately have problems
oh boy.
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How can I tell if other people think i'm a loser
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>>18114719
Any of these adjectives will be used.
>weird
>strange
>silly
>nice (This is a big one)
>creeper
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Do you think you're a loser? Own up to it. I live at home with my mom. Everyone knows I'm a loser. But I carry on with my life because I know I'm going to make it. I'm doing what I love and it's just a matter of time before it starts making a lot of money.
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>>18114725
Nice is namely if it's the only thing they can pull up, or if there's a slight pause before it's said. Because it's also used as a genuine compliment a decent amount.
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Tattoo style reccomendation?
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I'm getting a tattoo from this guy at Red Dagger in a month.
https://www.instagram.com/ringo.leone/?hl=en
He seems to specialize in dot work. Do you think pic related is out of his league?
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>tattoo
lol
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tattoos with a lot of depth like the one you posted will not look good on a body. Patterns be flat images look best. The 3D stuff always looks terrible
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>>18114738
I see. I guess I'll play around with it some more.
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I need help with energy when working out. Idk what happened to me but I run low on it very quickly. For example I used to be able to go to the gym for like an hour or something and feel amazing after and all tired and tight muscles. Now I've been out of the gym for 6 months and I want to go back. I started to warm up at home and tried to do some curls with 25lbs and after 10 I was outta energy. Like I took 10 minutes and tried again and could only manage like 7 curls then I was out of energy again. I've gone from deadlifting 225 for 5 sets of 10 to barely pumping 10 dumbbell curls and burning out. How can I regain my glory once more?
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>>18114701
Bump
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>>18114701
Have you tried preworkout? Switching up the time you workout? Getting more sleep? Eating more?
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>>18114701
ALso you should probably ask /fit/
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Medfags, please help me out.
I'm getting more than a little paranoid about my blood sugar. I fell on some hard times and lived on a shitty diet for the past two years, and my most recent blood test results put my glucose at 5.4 and my a1c at 5.2. Now I'm eating healthier and watching my diet more closely but I'm still worried that I've caused some kind of irreparable damage and tipped over the first domino for diabetes.
Does any of this sound normal to you?
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Go get tested, that's the only real way to know.
If you've made a legitimate change, you can reverse the effects.
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You should be fine. That is on the higher side for a fasting blood glucose level but you are still within the 5.5 range.
Type 2 diabetes IS reversible within a short time frame, which is why they now speak of "PRE-DIABETES." You may have been edging toward pre-diabetes, but sounds like you have taken effective measures to combat it.
What are your levels now?
Someone I dated a couple of years ago died and his family is having trouble covering the funeral costs. They made a youcaring fundraiser but it's not getting much attention. I don't have a huge online following but already shared it on my page, a couple of groups, and tumblr. Is there anything else I can do to help? I wish I was relevant on social media because then it would have spread further by now.
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there isn't a whole lot more you can do at this point but i'm sure everyone appreciates that you tried to help his family.
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>>18114626
Thank you. All I could donate was $50 because my source of income is random. Maybe I can create some art and offer it to anyone who donates at least $5.
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Would you ask a girl out if she's moving across the country a couple months from now? She's smart, attractive, family oriented and we've really hit if off these past couple of weeks at our clinical practice site. She'll be gone for a year, possibly staying there for her new job. Thoughts???
pick sorta related
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>>18114598
i would, but i wouldn't imply anything more than a fling.
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Sure, for a couple of fun weeks and a whirlwind romance. Live up the moment.
But don't go in to this thinking you'll ever be anything more than that. That's just a one way ticket to the pain train.
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don't ask her to be your girlfriend, get drinks and sleep with her (that's what she wants, hence why you're getting along so well right before she's leaving--she's wanted to sleep with you but didn't want it to turn into a thing, and now it can't.)
get drinks, have sex, don't make it a huge deal, just tell her to let you know when she's in town and you'll probably hook up on her visits sometimes.
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I am developing a really really bad trust issues.
I don't know why, and its fairly recent, but I keep cutting EVERYONE I know off as I am worried they will sabotage anything I do (I.e - University/jobs/family life). I seriously think these people will go out of there way to humiliate or attack me, if I say, get in an argument or something of this nature with them.
Its really messing with my head, I constantly am feeling down because I am worried someone will do this (I feel this way towards everything except my immediate family).
This is a fairly new feeling. I have never experience any serious trauma or betrayal in my child hood.
What do?
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>>18114592
pls help
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>>18114592
If there are people in your life you don't want to lose, talk to them about your problems in trust them. They get the chance to understand your behaviour better and open up with them would be your first step in fighting this issue.
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>>18115149
I guess.
The issue is, I worry about them using it in future to threaten me.
Eh, I know this all sounds dumb. I guess I just want someone to tell me its just a phase
How do I cry /adv/? I lost my best friend in the whole world years ago to suicide, my girlfriend who I loved deeply left me a week ago and I'm extremely lonely. When my best buddy died I couldn't for the life of my cry anymore, I go out somewhere in the middle of no where bring the saddest music I can possibly find and all i can manage to let out is a small whimper before i just go back to my default numbish feeling
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>>18114561
forcing a cry wont really help. you cry when you need to. if oyu used to cry its not some compulsion stopping you.
remember that tears are just a symptom of sadness. they aren't required to be sad, and they arent required to feel better.
i for one prefer yelling.
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>>18114568
I feel like I need to cry, but it just doesn't come up
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>>18114579
thatsj ust because you associate sadness with crying. you're creating a mental block for yourself.
you can express your sadness without tears. if you feel frustrated wtihout tears, then vent that frustration.
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looking for alternatives to "i'd rather not say" when I don't want to answer any question without breaking social rules (e.g. being rude / blunt like saying "DON'T ASK ME")
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>>18114543
if there was a one size fits all, you'd know it, and 'i'd rather not say' is that oen size.
as a general rule you just answer based on what the question is.
>people talking about politics
>i disagree with everyone cuz im in the middle on every issue
>'im not really a political person'.
thats all it takes.
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Sorry... I can't answer that question.
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>>18114543
Shrug your shoulders and say, "I dunno".
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What does this emoji mean? I can't seem to find an answer
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That's fucking Tomas the mother fucking tank engine.
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>>18114494
I snorted
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>>18114490
It's the dark side of the moon.
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So ive been thinking of dropping out of college and enrolling into a technical school to learn to weld. Though almost everyone ive spoken to about it has told me i would be making a mistake to do so. I do understand that welding isnt as high paying as a job like a doctor or lawyer, but as of now i feel like im just wasting time and money on a degree that i haven't even decided on. Is my plan that bad?
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You do you. If welding makes you happy, go for it.
It's also relatively well-paying compared to other blue-collar gigs.
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No its a good plan. Learn underwater welding and make fucking bank bro
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I am fucking hammered. Spent the last few hours getting drunk and eating dinner. I was ready to die before dinner, thought i would pass out and asphyxiate drunk before the pasta cooked enough to eat. But here I am, stuffed and even more drunk than before. I am so sick of life. At 25 years old i just want to pass away in such a fashion that my parents are only bothered for a few years at most.
Thinking, if only he got better drug counseling he might still be alive.
My parents and tutors always told me how smart i was but i always knew it was a bluff to boost my confidence. I never learned what i was good for. I certainly tried. I tried computer programming, ive used linux for the past 10 years, at least, it wasn't something i could contribute to. I tried hiking but realized a single white male hiking makes other people nervous. I tried having friends, going home feeling embarrassed or iniquite every night is far more trying than simply being alone. I tried doing hard drugs, i couldnt really afford it or i really didnt like the way it made me change. I feel so old, i am so tired of trying. I just want to die without dying. I am so sick of this feeling every night and day. I dont want this anymore but im so scared i would regret killing myself.
I've been in rehabilitation, both drug and theraputic, it doesnt help me ground myself. I try everyday to reach a meditation like feeling i used to be able to acquire so easily. I literally feel like scrambled eggs and i'm so scared to show it because people dont accept me even when i am trying to keep it together. I am so fucked what's next i'm trying so hard but i see no future except what is availble in the worst of situations.
God, if you exist. Please send help.
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Welcome to the nhk
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>>18114328
We need more minds like you OP. Being smart is not profitable, is not immediately pleasant, is not popular. But it is helpful, and it does promote peace. We're counting on you OP.
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So I got kicked out of the house and don't really know what to do. I'm a full-time college student with a weekend job and everywhere's expensive af to rent. Don't really know what to do though since everything was so sudden.
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>>18114316
is this a real kick out or a temporary one?
if temporary, couch surf / go and apologize.
if real, do you have a job or any income? cuz if not your choices are to be homeless, drop out, or just apologize and go back
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What about all your stuff? Where is it?
Also move in with a roommate outside of town.
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Scored 1500 on the new version. 750 Math/750 EBRW. Aiming for universities around top 20 level.
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Yes, and lower your standards. Unless the 1500 was some sort of freak accident, you aren't getting anywhere near top 20 without putting down an ungodly amount of money.
Also,
>SAT
>Instead of ACT
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Definitely won't keep you from getting in. For the very top schools you need to be an Intel finalist or something special but when you get closer to 20 and beyond the score would probably be enough along with decent grades and extracurriculars. Also if you scored like that on PSAT and got national merit just go somewhere for free. And if you're poor you can spam apply common app with waivers and make sure to apply to some schools that are lower than top 20 but still meet full need. Liberal arts schools are a good way to get lots of financial aid if you're poor and can't get into an ivy.
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>>18114569
SAT is no longer out of 2400. Two 750s means missing no more than a couple answers in each section. Probabaly better ways to spend time than trying to go from one wrong to perfection on 100 question test.