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>tell long distance gf about how sexually frustrated I am and that I basically need nudes or something to survive
>she just can't do it, self conscious because of her skin condition (which I never minded)
>says it's fine, and sadly tells me I can have sex with other women, she understands

What's her endgame here?

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recently i've felt myself drifting away from most of my online friends, simply because we don't really share the same interests anymore.

pretty much at the exact same time, i've felt myself making more friends in rl and in general just becomin' more well liked and respected.

is this good?? it doesn't feel all that great for some reason

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How can I be more interesting and fun to be around? I'm 31/f, and I've had friends, family, and ex's all tell me to my face that I am boring. I'm disabled, blind, and stuck in a bad location situation where I'm on section 8 and can't get out/move, in farmland, and there's nothing around for miles and a lack of public transit. I can't get out to do interesting things...

I'm also an abuse/rape survivor, so I lack a lot of ego. I'm always putting other people first, and I'm always asking about how they are, how their day is going, what they want, what I can get them, etc. I've been dealing with the "you're boring" thing since I was a kid, so I've made it a point to always talk to people about /their/ interests and their life more than my own (I'm also autistic so my interests are limited--which may be the problem). I also simply don't have a life to talk about because I don't have a "real job" or live around anything interesting to do. People love to go to bars and clubs around here because it's the only thing, but I can't stand the scene.

I've done a lot in my life. I've even live in Japan for a while working there. I've been to multiple other countries. I've talked to more people I can count when I was in the hospitals for my abuse/rape. I've heard so many stories and I've been told that I'm well rounded and good to talk by the others in the hospitals, but anyone "normal" deems me boring.

It hurts because I really want a lover, and all my lovers have left me for people who are more fun. I thought I found a guy for the past 3 years, but he dropped the boring bomb on me today and I really don't want lose him. It's challenging because even he is introverted and doesn't like clubs and bars, but still finds me boring to be around despite having the same interest. I've tried the "opposites attract" before, and that's failed me too.

I don't know what I'm doing wrong. There's always someone who is more fun and interesting that I get left for.

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>20 y.o.
>male
>student
I have always loved books, especially hardcover photobooks from publishing houses like Taschen and Phaidon. I collect them for many different topics from art and architecture to photography and (fashion) design.

Among the books I have collected over time, some contain some explicit and often fetishistic NSFW content. Often they are compilations and retrospectives of famous artists (Araki, Helmut, Bisang, etc.) and genres (nude photography, etc.).
I never hid this particular collection, because I never felt the need to. They just sit in my shelf, with ones with tame covers sometimes having a more prominent place.

Yet i do not know whether this may come off as being off-putting/creepy to girls coming over.
>Femanons, how would you react if you saw one of a shelf?
>Would it be considered creepy to own such books?
>Is hiding them necessary?

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What I'm basically getting at is am I going to get taller between now (nearly 20) and say 25?

What about the deepness of my voice? It's not high pitched or anything but still sounds very different to my uncles and stuff.

What about Penis size? I feel kinda inadequate at just under 5 inches and honestly I'd be happy with even being 5.5 inches.

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A few months after my ex dumped me I saw I was still following her on Spotify so I looked at her profile and she had some playlist saved from some random dude I've never met before. All those songs were about sex and love and shit. Clearly she was fucking this dude. This is eating me up inside.

It would honestly bother me less if she went to some bar and fucked a random stranger but to know only 3 months after breaking up with me she's fucking some guy and he's making playlists for her and shit makes it feel like she never even loved me and I can't believe I really gave her so much affection and trust for 2 years.

I honestly hate that I care about anyone so much at all and they can just so easily move on. I feel like no one will ever be deserving of my trust again. I also want to tell my ex what a shameless whore she is but I don't want to give her the satisfaction of knowing how angry I am

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My girlfriend just broke up with me. I want to die and idk what to do please help... i cant talk to my friends and i just dont know what to do....

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...Anonymous Archived
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Its gotten to the point where I am seeing a counsellor in order to combat the urges. There truly is no meaning to life and the only real free choice you have is whether or not you kill yourself. Why must it be so debilitating to be a free thinker? I was at bar meetinf some friends i havent seen in months. I changed my wardrobe to reflect my mindset and all my friends did was ask if i was goth now. They werent laughing when I made out with the new girl. Leggy. Nursing student. I told her about the absurdity of life and how nothing and no one matters. She told me to prove it. Later that night on the side of the road i drove off as i threw her clothes out of the window. The mere concept of synthetic connection felt so fake and empty. Dejected and still languishing on the falseness of our reality i went home to make this thread.
Now i am deathly afraid of what i might do with these bars of Xanax. $uicideboy$ have been on repeat and Im starting to crave the Benzos fleeting embrace again, if only for a moment, until I fade into the ether.
Has philosophy made anyone else depressed?

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Hey guys, did I fuck up?

Im going to greentext it as best as I can...

>Be at party
>Friend gets really fucking drunk, cant walk properly, spills his drink
>Gets pissed off because someone told him to calm down and maybe go to bed
>Starts swinging
>I pull him away
>Hes angry as fuck, and he wants to get out of there
>He reaches into his jacket and gets the car keys (he drove us there)
>"Im going the fuck home, fuck all of you"
>We tell him to not get behind the wheels
>He ignores us
>We yell at him to stop and give us the keys
>He gets aggressive and telling us to fuck off, and not to touch him
>I knock him out, stone-cold dunk.
>He fell harder than Hillary Clinton
>Drag him inside, and put him in the bed, and hid the keys
>Hes sleeping now at his friends house

Did I do the right thing? I feel like I fucked up, but I also feel that if he was going to drive, i'd never see him again

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So I have an issue, and its I basically don't know or am not able to go out by myself. I feel weird and I don't even know where to go. Im not that type to go to bars and jsut sit there and drink I dont have the money to burn. My friends are all whipped by their girlfriends and don't go out nearly at all anymore, the ones who dont have girlfriends are kinda cringey and I dont wanna really be seen in public with them honestly. Online dating isn't for me, I dont like just seeing a picture and a profile I want to see them irl and gauge a connection from that, I have no idea what my choices are here to find a girl. I don't go to school and my job doesnt allow us to flirt with customers because they think they might sue the company if we make a bad move or choice.

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Dear Anon,

I fucked over 280 times prostitutes in the past seven years. Started because I'm a total /b/tard that no non-whore even kissed me before.

Absolutely don't regret it. Don't even miss to experience it with a non-whore any more. Would probably even be a dissapointment. If you go to good and correct whores and discuss anything you expect before the payment you usually get fair service and surprisingly quite regularly excellent girlfriend sex. Quite often I fucked pretty girls next doors and a few times perfect ten models.

I'm totally into oral sex and I prefer to CIM. Unfortunately it usually needs extra payment (in the capital city of our country it's very often included in the even cheaper price) so sometimes my spare time activity gets expensive.

What about you Anon?
Do you go to whores? How often?
Favorite services? How much do you pay for it (in our capital city it's possible for 60 bucks per half an hour, at some places even less for about 40).

Picture shows one of my favorites from the past.

Do you think I'm normal? Will there ever be the chance that I could have a relationship with a normal girl? And if this wonder would happen then would I surely cheat on her with the whores? I really can't prognose last question.

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I'm 20 and have never been in a relationship. This girl asked me something and the people who were with her told her to stop flirting. Today we had a meeting and she sat next to me. I thought it was just me but the person next to me asked me is she was my girlfriend or just liked me. I asked why they thought that and they said because she acted really shy around me and blushed the whole time. How can I proceed without spilling spaghetti everywhere? I move to a different shift next week so I only have two days to make something happen and I don't want to walk up all awkwardly and be like "my name is anon what's yours? wanna hang out and junk?". What do /adv/?

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There is a problem with me but I don't know what it is and it has been driving me crazy for the past couple of years. I just don't have anyone else to bounce these ideas off to.
When I was still a kid I never had any inclination that I had any mental issues other than depression. I went to therapy for about 10 years and among the 3 different people I had seen, they could only spot my depression.
However, in recent years, friends and aquaintances I once had would tell me that I was either lazy, narcissistic, laconic, or pretentious. Some family members still do. I try to think back to those moments and what I might have done to make people think that about me so I can try to improve and get on with my life. I've always kept socializing and small talk to a minimum and would only speak when spoken to and given the most honest response to those who would so I don't see how I ever did any wrong. I'm still in my early twenties but I've only had this one part time job. I have reached a point in my job where I minimize my effort on the job and get extremely exhausted everyday. I always make as much time for myself as I can to get anything done and always meet the demands.
However, at home I just sleep, play vidya or browse some boards. I only get out of the house to work or spend a day with my girlfriend.
It's a lackluster existence, but it is all I feel I am capable of at the moment until I get a proper education and amount of money. What is really the pressing question is, am I narcissistic or lazy for only doing what I can and always being honest with myself and others? And what is wrong with "doing little or nothing" if I am not hurting anyone and I never asked to be here? Why is society so fascistic and eager to force others to do things or act a certain way? There's no where else on the net that I have found a similar dilemma so it's all just a mystery to me.

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How to impress my asian gf's parents, meet them later this week. They're pretty wealthy (Owns a restaurant). Gf said her dad is intimidating (may or may not be a racist) but mom is cool but can't speak english very well. needs some tips on not making dinner awkward.

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I kissed an not so pretty girl and another girl filmed it on snap chat, If my class mates know about this am I fucked?