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If someone messages me on a dating site with a well thought out message, and they have a decent profile, but I'm not attracted to them, what should I do?
I feel bad that someone put themselves out there and don't want to ignore, but I also don't want to get their hopes up with a reply. But I feel shallow.
I ignore any "hey, hi, or what's up" messages.
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>>18116922
You're not obliged to reply to strangers if you don't want to lmao
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You should ignore them, and date me instead.
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>>18116936
I hope you like big dicks then.
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is weed addiction real?
I've been smoking daily and lately I've noticed that I'm being dumber, more emotionally numb and find it hard to get out of my comfort zone.
I feel that I can control it to some degree but how do I reduce doing it when most of people who are close to me smoke?
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>>18116914
No I've quit for 6 weeks after smoking for 8 years every day. The only thing I'm addicted to is the tobacco in my joints. I do miss it though as i have nothing else to do other than vidya. I quit for the sales of trying to get a job.
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>>18116914
Yes weed is addictive. What is with this meme.
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anything is addictive
this is like asking if someone can actually get addicted to porn/vidya. It's not a physical addiction though obviously, as there arent really any physical withdrawal symptoms (i think) to any of them. people might just get pissed or irritable if they try to stop.
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How do I dance with girls at a club without being charged with sexual assault? Eventually you will like put your hand on their waist or something and what if you misread the situation and then you're a creep...
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>>18116880
Be a chad it's only rape if they don't like it
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>>18116880
If putting your hand on someone's waist is sexual I'm fucking Casanova.
Who cares dude, go with it if they don't like it they'll pull away.
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I have work in two hours. Sick all week and was hoping it'd be gone by now, but it's not and I'm throwing up. No one else but my boss can work my shift but don't want to ask him.
What do? I'm having a panic attack now.
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Did he saw that you are ill?
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My neighbour died of that shit. The Virus was at his heart. Stay at home
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I've concluded that I cannot form intimate bonds with people. For example, none of my friends are really good friends with whom I share my ideas, feelings, etc.—and vice-versa. This stems, I think, from an extreme self-consciousness wherein I feel like no one wants to hear my problems, beliefs, etc. And because there is no exchange of intimate sharing, bonds do not form.
How can I get over this? Opening up to friends is daunting to me, but I have no one to talk to, to tell them how I feel—except, of course, the internet in this case. Has anyone gone through anything similar?
I think this is part of why I'm a virgin at 22 years old—I'm not a total shitbag, or super ugly, or super socially awkward... but I am incapable of making deep friendships and incapable talking to women whom I don't know.
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I am introverted as well and feel as though I do not have anything relevant to share with other people. I am in a relationship, but feel shadowed by my BF and his friends despite the many talents and experiences I have to share. I feel like I will never be as good as anyone else around me, so I have given up on my hobbies (I have been a dancer and musician for decades, and used to be a damn good PC gamer before filthy casuals took the fun out of it).
I came to 4chan tonight because I also cannot connect with people and have been severely depressed for years. I came here hoping to find an overdose cocktail that isn't impossible to obtain.
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>>18116851
>I think this is part of why I'm a virgin at 22 years old
There are guys out there who fuck women whose names they barely know. This isn't the reason you're a virgin.
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>>18116851
Talk to a doctor. Also could be schizotypal personality
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Is it weird as fuck to go out on your own? I kinda just wanna go out to bars and clubs and meet new people (maybe get laid) but I've never done it before. I don't have any friends who would go with me, I don't drink, and I don't smoke. I'm social and can definitely talk to people, so I'm not like a sperg or anything, I've just never gone out on my own to clubs and shit.
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>>18116847
It's a little weird.
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>>18116938
Well I'm a little weird so I'm doing it.
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Try it. What's the worst that can happen.
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help robots
i feel like a terrible person. my gf (20f) and i (19f) got high, then went back to my room and had sex. after, she fell asleep when i was still horny, so i played with her boobs a little and slid a finger in her. she didn't wake up or anything, but i feel extremely guilty. if she were awake, she wouldve told me she didnt want me to touch her boobs or have anymore sex.
did i rape my gf?
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>>18116844
Fuck man.
No you didn't rape her, might've violated her a little but just don't do it again. I've done worse than you and I would consider it sexual assault. But I was 16 and really stupid. And I'm not a man btw.
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>>18116853
i definitely will never do that again. what did you do? and would you consider what i did sexual assault? im also a female
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i think we need a photograph of these boobs to assess the damage. also please provide a photograph of your own boobs to ensure confidentiality
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> interview with a game company coming up
>rehearse over and over my answers to questions like why do I want to work for them
> interview finally comes
> "why do you want to work for ____ games?"
> anxiety kicks in
> end up just saying "because I love video games *awkward pause* and I'd love to be able to contribute my abilities to your company"
....I fucked up didn't I?
Granted the HR guy said the interviewer liked me but I'm worried I fucked up. I was also the first person interviewed for this position so I have a feeling I won't get it anyway.
Other than that one question the convo seemed pretty chill.
But it sucks that that was the one question I was rehearsing for and fucked up my answer.
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>game company
Chances are the other applicants are just as autistic, so you should be fine
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>>18116829
I'm not autistic but I have social anxiety that I'm constantly fighting to keep under control. I just hope I made a good impression. The next question after that was if I play a lot of video games and asked what games I'm currently playing now.
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>>18116845
Probably fine. Only issue I see is that it may not be a super unique answer, but oh well.
I'm sure they want someone who likes games, especially if they asked more about it.
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I am at university and every time I go out to an event I just sit there pretending like I am part of the group, very aware of how if I wasn't there I wouldn't be missed in the slightest. I never have anything interesting to say, if I even manage to say anything at all. I want to make some kind of connection with people but I'm dull as shit and I just can't bring myself to say anything half the time. What the fuck do I do?
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>if I wasn't there I wouldn't be missed in the slightest
Because you don't fucking say anything. You don't make friends by acting like you're part of the furniture
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>>18116805
I know that feel OP. It sucks not having anything to contribute when you see others constantly talking. I just don't understand how conversations work.
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Read books, current events, listening to podcasts
Get a hobby that isn't video games and learn to speak passionately about it.
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I should probably ask /fit/ but I'm asking for advise so I suppose here is fine too.
Is there any way for me to develop a more /fit/ muscular body without going to the gym? The nearest gym is hours away and my schedule is too busy to constantly take a train there. I have a very tall thin body build and do a lot of cardio since theres at least a park I can jog every other morning but I'd want to develop some muscle mass. Got no room for weights at the apartment and all I know is push ups, any advice?
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Do a couple crunches every day and try to eat a moderate amount of meat. Tell me what goes in about 2 weeks
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You don't have room for some dumbbells?
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I'm pretty new here but I just needed someone's opinion... or something.
I've been noticing kind of weird shit going on (thinking someone's outside my window, etc.) I thought I was being paranoid but today I received this letter in my mail box (pic related)
It could be for me or for someone else I live with... or just the wrong address? (I live with two other people and they both said this was weird and didn't recognize it) It also included some little card wishing a happy birthday but... seems irrelevant.
Seeing it kind of makes me sick to my stomach and none of my friends said it was them, am I just being paranoid?
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>>18116787
If you've got that bad feeling in your gut, and you're not usually a paranoid person, TRUST THAT FEELING. If your mind & body are telling you something is wrong, it probably is.
Maybe start by setting up a small webcam/security camera by the window where you think this person's been watching you.
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Yeah that's kinda creepy. Make sure all the doors are locked.
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I wouldn't consider that paranoia, when I get up to pee I check my front yard to make sure there aren't any tweakers or burglars or like monsters or some shit. And I do it every time. I've only seen someone out there once but it was my boyfriends brother using our wifi real quick, with permission of course. But still, I continue to peek out my front window. Sometimes 3-4 times on a bad night of constantly waking up for no reason. Pretty sure that's paranoia.
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Another lonely piece of shit
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I used to be a very charismatic kid. Curious, talkative, and people liked me. I was friends with other kids on the neighborhood.
When i became a teenager, due to family problems, being abused physically and emotionally at both home and school, i became depressed, got chubby and my personality went down the drain.
After a while i started taking meds, went out of my depression and lost the extra weight, but i'm still a loner and can't get along with most people.
I feel completely disjointed, and what hurts me is that people think i'm normal, so i have to pretend i am to not come out as a loser or a freak.
People on college sometimes invite me to go parties, but i feel like a fish out of water, they ask me why i don't have a girlfriend, i just brush it off, so i don't have to say i never even had one.
It's like i don't belong. I'm 27 now and i became hopeless...
Can anyone relate? What can i do? I just want to get out of this hole, but the shitty advice most people think are mostly generic and unhelpful.
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Same boat, just two years younger.
I don't even care anymore. Except I do. I'm lonely, yet tired of people.
I don't know anymore. It's like a mess of conflicting emotions, the only thing that's sure and constant is that I feel bored, no matter what I do.
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1. go to parties anyway
2. take xstacy so you feel social and have a good time
3. let positive experiences reshape your brain
4. ???
5. profit
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What really really helped was to go to a social club. So many people who want to meet new people
Just found out all my friends don't like mike and Ike's what do? Am I the only one who likes them? Help.
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>>18116778
Mike and ikes suck.
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I like them. I like you too op
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How do I do dating apps? 2017-03-11 01:15:11 Post No.18116770
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I've been trying for the last week to talk to girls on just about every popular app imaginable. I'm 8/10 guy and have no trouble talking to girls in person, but my experience with these apps have been a massive disappointment.
I did everything imaginable to get them to reply. Simple opener, nope. Looking to hang out, nope. Just friends, nope. Sex, nope. Start talking mass amounts of vulgar shit, nope. My profile and pictures are solid. Why don't I ever get a reply? They look at my profile multiple times, look at the message, log off. What the fuck does it take to have someone at the very least reply? Am I doing something wrong or are these apps at the point for people to inflate their ego? The only times I get a reply is from some bot.
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>>18116770
welcome to online dating dude! What the fuck did you think it was supposed to be?
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>>18116770
well, here's my experience with tinder. I'm at a small university town in Brazil of all places, so you can imagine the endless stream of tinder accounts. I used it 24/7 for 2 months, swiping right around 70% of girls. 2 matches. Sent a harmless "hey, how are you doing" to both, no answer. I have an ok face, not overweight or skinny-fat, actually somewhat broad shoulders, and several friends told me my profile photos and bio were fine. None of that matters, tough, because having only 2 matches with the sheer volume of accounts I swiped right is nigh impossible, haven't seen any friend living in the same area get this much of a bad result. I don't have to say this crushed what was left of my self-steem, and now I spend long nights wondering if I have some kind of terrible invisible deformity in my face or If I look like a psycho and don't have one actual friend to tell me how it is. Never again
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How do I go to (gay) bars alone?
Ive been to bars with friends before and really enjoyed the atmosphere, but ive never tried talking to strangers and i definitely have never tried going alone.
I have nothing to do this weekend so i thought i might try going out on my own. Any tips on how to not just stand there awkwardly all night?
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Step 1: approach gay bar
Step 2: go inside
Step 3: ????
Step 4: dicks.
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>>18116727
Not even gay but... having been to plenty of gay bars and clubs (my best friend is, and she's peaced out to get laid leaving me solo on more than one occasion)
Not that hard bro.
Just go inside, sit down at the bar, say "Hey, what's up" or "Can I buy you a drink?". Easy.
The perk of being gay and at a gay bar is supposed to be that most of those social hurdles and hoops you have to jump through as a single are VASTLY reduced.
If you're uncomfortable/unable to do that while it's loud and bustling, go earlier while it's more mellow and people are more inclined to conversation to brush up on your skills, then just rely on booze powered courage for the night.