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What do you think? Is eating a pizza ever bad.

Take a serrated steak knife and scrape it off if your worried.

Probably fine if its just regular paper. If you're super worried just get a knife and scrape some of it off or just try to eat the topping only.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Am I missing something? Any glaring indicators of what I should be studying?
My gut tells me to go Physics, but there's a nagging in the back of my head, I'm worried it will be too difficult and I'll lose
motivation.

Thanks

thump

Maybe find someone whose life isn't in the toilet.

>>18118133
thanks for the bump

this guy is everything i can ask for though. all he needs is a job that won't kill him and help him bring his financial life in order.

i already have a good, well-paying job in the field that i trained for, so how much he earns isn't important to me. i just want him to feel comfortable and not as embarrassed about his situation.

also wanted to add:
>bf lives in another town with his brother
>trying to get him to move in with me which will be substantially cheaper than where he is living now
>so then my benefits can be extended to him (it's the best benefits plan in the country)
>benefits will be helpful health-wise and also for financial advice and anything else he might need
>i'm also always around computers, so i can teach him basic stuff

only real thing stopping him is finding a job and his brother; his brother has a son that my bf takes care of (really lame imo... his brother never pays attention to his kid or involves himself with him too much yet still keeps him around to spite his ex wife) and my bf worries about the kid and how they'll have to find a replacement babysitter because his brother or his new wife can't be half-assed to take care of his own kid.

>>18118099
holy shit, YES you made the right decision. don't let these assholes take advantage of your kindness.

my bf was somewhat similar; i met him on tinder, his last gf died in a car crash, he would tell me he missed her all the time. but he never once bailed on me. he would always make the effort to talk to me. he had depression, but his love for me and my support and love for him has helped him through it. he would make me feel like a queen, and he never mentions his ex anymore. he smiles again with me, we're always having a good time together. you deserve a guy like this.

my ex (of 1.5 years) was atrocious and was never there for me when i needed him while i always was there for him. took advantage of my finance and also tried to cheat on me, wouldn't shut up about his exes, compared me to other girls, made me feel worthless no matter how much i tried to put my best effort into that relationship. so glad i dumped him because i found my current bf. my current bf even swears to beat the shit out of him when he sees him.

it hurts now, but you need to get out there again and rebuild your confidence. working out helped for me, also putting myself out there in the dating realm again. start having fun and make friends too.

>>18118195
Thank you! Yeah, it did feel a little one sided it's just hard to face the truth. It really really sucks. I actually just had a serious surgery, so I'm stuck at home for a couple months. Which is making this even worse, but i do plan on working out again and making friends etc. Thanks for writing to me.

>>18118099
The only thing you've done wrong is not reported him to the police for sexual assault.

>>18118093
Transcript:

Me: Yeah it was pretty weird, I almost felt like they were desperate for employees lol

Her: response is irrelevant

Me: Probably, lol, apparently the ww1 one is purely volunteers, so it makes sense that they are desperate for employees

I feel like professional autist rn

Post the message so we can laugh at you

>>18118104
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

No really though thats just your autism making you self conscious. Ur fine bud. Also text conversations with grils are usually retarded and one sided in my experience.

>>18118082
get rid of apps you don't use

>>18118105
I already deleted all of the apps I have and I have over 1GB of space

I wrote a reply but then realized you mean the actual android system, not an app.
That's pretty weird. If it were an app I was gonna suggest downloading it from a place that isn't the Google store (for example apkmirror) so that it saves into the SD card, not the phone's hard drive and you have more space. But in this case I'm not sure.
Maybe you need actually way more space because the phone has to download the installation stuff and then actually install it so you'd have like twice the used space? I'm actually a huge noob to smartphones so I'm not sure. But yah, maybe you need more space than it says for that reason, I imagine.

I was similarly upset for about 6-12 months, quite extreme. We almost didn't communicate at all for at least 6 months due to natural reasons (busy or whatever). I found another girl who seemed much nicer, still with her. The first girls back around now and I'm completely over her, we chat as good friends and pwn nubs on steam sometimes.

Sounds like you got cucked OP but if shes keeping you around as a backup like that theres still hope if he fucks it up. If you have loose morals you could always stalk him and fuck his shit up like planting CP on his phone or something kek

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>>18118074
Welcome to /fit/. Enjoy your stay.

Stop eating so much junk food and youll be fine u fat cunt. Like vegetables exist you know, protip you can snack on them instead of having another fucking choco bar or milkshake

I'm a nice guy. I can be your trophy husband wehehe he he.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_yI1hjITn8Q

>>18118076
Definetly will try that, but they will not come for the food, They have lots of food they have stolen.

>>18118073
This made me feel bad about the rats. Dude rats can be your friends. I recommend giving them cheese and befriending them. They can become loyal to you and protect you if you become friends with them.

>>18118052
the feels with this one
I'm sort of in the same boat only I didn't work as hard in college. I was just not into parties and had a stem major with 0 grills in it.

>Did I waste the best years
of my life
You wasted the best years of your sexual virility where its expected that you're going to be lame in bed, now if you have sex you're probably going to be a major disappointment (is what I've gathered)
>Should I feel ashamed of myself?
you should be your own fucking man, and determine that for yourself
>Is there a way for me to feel fulfilled at point in my life?
Not with a career that you don't give a shit about or can have fun at/with.

The only reason to have a high paying college stem job is if you're one of the 1% of society that ACTUALLY find it interesting rather than just doing it because it provides a high paying career and learning it came easy to you.
Without a wife and family your days are going to be going to work for 8 hours putting up with tasks given to you by people who majored in liberal arts (unless you do research with grants or something), speaking to the same 4 or 5 people every day, going home, putting on hulu/netflix and zoning out until its time to go to bed. Its what happened to me, and its a really shitty existence.

> and there is really no point in starting now?
lots of people find their groove well into their 40's and some even later in life, maybe not with women but with something that makes their life feel worthwhile and interesting

That said finding a nawalt wife isn't impossible, just really friggen difficult. Please don't settle for a roastie, she's just going to divorce you later and all your hard work will be even more meaningless than it already is. At least the way things are going you can save a shit load in a betterment account and retire early.

>>18118092
Thanks for the reply.

>going to work for 8 hours putting up with tasks given to you by people who majored in liberal arts (unless you do research with grants or something), speaking to the same 4 or 5 people every day, going home, putting on hulu/netflix and zoning out until its time to go to bed

My life is like that for right now, I do truly find science interesting, and even if I don't have a family I think that keeping current with my field, going to conferences, and just absorbing all of the cool shit that will be invented and that will happen in the world will keep me interested enough in life. I'm not going to play the Wake up->work->netflix->bed->repeat thing after graduate school when I have greater control over my life.

> only 2 years to go until you obtain ultimate power
> still bitching cuz a grill never touched your peepee
What the fuck man?

Yeah I had the same thing, and if she's that suicide, and hates herself that much. She shouldn't be dating, because to me it's kinda selfish.

Maybe you shouldn't be assuming responsibility for the mental welfare of people you barely know.

Seriously, disengage immediately. You owe her nothing, you cannot fix her, and she will only drag you down her same shitty road if you let her.

>>18118058
I wish I could tell my highschool self this. Depressed grils are not fun to date and a waste of your emotional energy. If you are her main vent its not likely you are her mr right because if shes telling you about her bullshit she doesnt care what you think of her.

>>18118036
>Blame the no-car on your vision
which is not completely a lie technically. Tell her you need to do eye surgery first and that it scares you so you re taking your time.
>No house of your own
We need more details on your age/workplace etc to judge upon that.

This is just you finding problems out of nowhere coz you re anxious. First impression really is the key but don't worry about it for now.
If you gonna do it, tell her to meet at a place where there is no way you could bring a car due to parking reasons,like a mall with subway/train station but don't say big lies like "I don't wanna bring the car coz it ll take ages to find a parking spot"

>>18118050
We're both students and I have nojob. She's just turning 18 this month so she's pretty young but I don't know if that'd make her less or more understanding. I'm 22, going on 23 in June.

>First impression really is the key but don't worry about it for now.
We met back in September in college so that ship has sailed one way or the other.

>If you gonna do it, tell her to meet at a place where there is no way you could bring a car due to parking reasons,like a mall with subway/train station
I can't actually think of a place like that here and her dominant wrist is in a cast right now so I feel extra shitty for not being able to drive.

>>18118036
Good luck OP! Don't worry about those things, you said she's 18 and you are 22/23, Idk about your culture but it's okay to not have your own house or a driver's license at that age. About the job... well if you are okay with lying a bit you could say you've done some minor freelance stuff maybe? Idk if age really means too much because I've met 18 year olds that have really different maturity levels and points of view from each other.

Okcupid is a scam, try to find love in other ways than paying online

try meeting girls in real life for starters

>>18118054
This. If youre looking for a relationship not just a fling like aforementioned thirsty guys you really shouldnt use dating apps.

>>18118004
>tfw moving to an apartment that's right near the bars and everything

Good move anon.

I was in the same position, you'll get lots of pussy.

There not many tips to give though. Just meet go to bars with friends, chat up girls and invite them to your place

>>18118004
So u go in them bars alone and sit arround?

How old are you two?

Im 19, he is 20

>>18117999
They must be like 14. In which case they'll have a new bf/gf in a week anyway.