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Actually does not sound so retarded. Be aware you will find only christian girls

>>18118485
It's pretty retarded but not because of the reasons you might think.

>>18118492
I'm fine with that. I just want someone with a good heart.

>>18118498
What reasons are those?

Getting up early starts with a good bedtime routine. For 8 hours of sleep you'd need to go to bed at 9pm. If you work until 5, that means you'd only have four hours until you go to bed. It's tough, I haven't been able to do it either yet

>>18118458
Put a lamp on a timer and set it to shine in your face from 3:30 AM till 6:30 AM

>>18118458
it was very easy in IET when you have someone screaming at you to wake up.. you get use to it, but like most things you have to get into a routine.e

So....what's your question?

0/10
Get lost.

>>18118339
Sorry.
>should I feel guilty?
I keep switchin my opinion on it. I just want to keep my emotions in line.
Maybe I change them because I keep encountering romantic moments with them. Like I said I don't want to hurt either of them

heffalump

lump

SsRI do lexapro was what helped me

Move on. You couldn't have possibly known, and therefore, it's not your fault.

I imagine the reason you are worried is because the guy might come after you? I imagine that's not very likely to happen though but I'd understand your fear. Maybe if you have a close-ish or not so close friend who seems like a tough guy, telling him your story would make you feel better (I don't mean he'd be required to be your bodyguard but just the moral support that "if something happens we'll deal with him").
Like the other anon said, of course this is not your fault.

>>18118173
I'm not worried about that, just surprised at the situation and pissed at her for lying to me

we are fucked.
t. forever-alone

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>>18117512
I don't speak spanish??

>>18117190

Just do it mate, you live once and then you're dead so might as well give it a go.

Do it and don't look back. Best experience

>>18117207
>>18117238
What have your experiences been? Which branch, what sort of job, how long for, and was it worth it?

>my crush wants to dance with me, I refuse because of my ego and fear of losing dignity
If you got the fuck over yourself and stopped taking yourself so seriously, you would have been the one making out with her, I promise you. Pull that stick out of your ass

>>18116806
>my crush wants to dance with me, I refuse because of my ego and fear of losing dignity
The fuck are you so angry about? It sounds like she gave you a chance and you shot her right down. You ended up alone by your own choice, that night

>>18116812
I can't take that stick out of my fucking ass. I'm obsessed with my dignity, I'd rather kill myself than make a clown out of myself.

>>18116814
I'm angry about being forced to dance to achieve happiness. I fucking hate dancing. There's not a single thing I hate more than dancing.

Why do I have to do that shit? Why can't nice things happen to me without that fucking bullshit?

And women are probably jealous you can lift heavy boxes and reach the top of the refrigerator. Sorry gaylord.

As for dating, the demand curve pretty much reverses post 30. You'll probably fuck up and have no career/worth by then, but most normal men are more competitive sexually the older they are (and the richer).

>>18114548

>Attractive women can have multiple orgasms

Being attractive is not at all related to the ability to have multiple orgasms. A lot of women can't have multiple orgasms. A lot of women can't have orgasms at all.

>get a slew of men chasing after them

Not everyone thinks constantly having a bunch of guys wanting to fuck you, dump a load in you and never talk to you again is a benefit. In fact, its kind of a lonely feeling after awhile.

Maybe having a stream of people who don't care about who you are as a person and just want to fuck you sounds fun to you but it doesn't to everyone, I can promise you that.

You're kind of projecting your own desires onto women and you're not taking into account that things that are important to men aren't as important to women. The dynamics you're trying to compare are completely different.

>can have hetero-group sex and actually get something out of it (two dudes on one girl getting all the attention while two girls on one guy is meh we only have one penis)

This was just kind of confusing. I don't see what the number of penises a man on his body has to do with enjoying group sex. Women have only one vagina? I'm not sure what you're getting at.

>Gender power dynamics are shifting and women have this, plus the ability to become CEOs, doctors lawyers and have positions of power.


The fact of the matter is that both men and women have pros and cons and we all have to accept that. We aren't equal. We aren't the same. You have some benefits in dating that women do not and vice versa. Stop wasting your time being jealous and start working on being a thoughtful, mature, intelligent individual. Thats your best shot.

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>>18114587
woman who can't orgasm here.
Though I'm pretty ugly.

But yeah, the sexual frustration is real and I've honestly wished I were dead since puberty because I have this sex drive I can do absolutely fucking nothing with or about.

>>18119248
this made me gag. it's so relative to a fucked situation i got out of recently.

he's probably going to fuck her. chances are he's going to lead her on, use her, and fuck her over. leave her now with your dignity in tact while you still can.

do you know where this dude even lives?

>>18119254
>he's probably going to fuck her
Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. That thought process alone tells me that I shouldn't be trying to pursue something with her.

Somewhere in California. Hell of a distance from here.

>>18119259
dude, leave. she's going to come crawling back with all her mental issues after this dude leads her on. you don't need any of that.

Isn't a manager at mc donalds pretty much a grunt but with even more responsabilities and expected to come work at ungodly hours if the need arise

Do you see yourself doing this for another couple of years ? If so go for it

But do you have serious plans of something else or are you just now considering it ?

Pretty much, there are considerably more things to do, more pressure, but still expected to do the work of a crew member for not much more money at that!
I regularly get called in on days off to deal with issues others can't or have to answer the phone at 5 am on days off to help.
I really do love my job and want to progress to bm wich I believe is possible for me but at the same time the pressure of it makes me look else were on a regular basis.

Why not stay and keep looking for other jobs on the side...?

Do you have an end date in sight for this? Because if not, then your relationship is fucked either way

>>18119114
We don't. I'm 19, she's 17.

>>18119123
Then your relationship is fucked.

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We found her Huemac.

>>18119085
Go to church. Volunteer in any religious organisation.

First and foremost: move away from the coast.

Second: live up to the expectations of a traditional man. More muscle than fat, stable employment, tidy appearance.

Everything else comes down to mobility and game.

>>18119064
French? Latin?

>>18119064
If you want it easy, dutch.
If you want to learn something new, go for romance languages: french, italian or spanish.
After you learn those, you can learn the others really easily.

>>18119064
Spanish? You decide, no language would hurt.