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I'm not going to go into reason why, but I'm going to be walking from the US through Canada and Alaska too get to Israel. I want any tips I can get. I understand how to love, but perhaps, social tips it whatever you might have input on. I might have a companion come along.
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> I want any tips I can get.
you can't walk to Israel from the US and also you'd be going the wrong way
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You have to cross the channel on the brink of Alaska
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Ever see "Into the Wild"? You're gonna fucking die.
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>be 25
>finally finds a place to rent
>import gf from Romania
>gf being spoiled af by her mom
>gf not even able to twist a bottle cap from a bottle
>do everything for her
>stays at moms house after hearing bad news from her doctor that she may or not may have breast cancer (pics showed a lump in her breast)
>gf being 0 supportive whatsoever
>leaves mess everywhere
> cleans shit after her everywhere
>confront her about her mess everywhere
>tells me to find another gf
>get results from hospital tomorrow
Fml
what do?
Help a anon out
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>>18120974
Also in the middle of moving there, the place is a mess cuz renovating.
Gf does nothing else but Whining and complaining
>i didnt move here to "renovate"
Really, what do
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I'm really sorry about your mom, first of all. I hope future news is good.
It's a heavy situation, one that you'll be able to cope with much better if you're not being weighed down by an ungrateful person who (from the sound of it) doesn't really contribute anything of value to your life. I'd just jump ship immediately, honestly. She's already established a lack of respect and you really shouldn't enable her cuntiness by keeping her around.
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>>18120974
Romanian here. Thanks for the good laugh. I guess you get what you deserve.
Hey guys, do any of you have tips for working/ studying with ADHD? Thanks in advance.
Pic related is my focus.
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>>18120972
medication. i know it's the boring answer, but it worked for me when i finally decided to start taking it again. how old are you anon?
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>ADHD
Is this another made up illness like depression?
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>>18121007
19, already on medication, it helps, it kinda dulls the symptoms, but from there?
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Post is mainly for people who are married. Ok, I'm currently not married, and would like to know what people would do if they weren't married. If you have never been married, can you point me to some sites that have this topic discussed.
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Have sex with a few more girls (but I fall in love easily so maybe I wouldn't even manage that). Otherwise I can do whatever I want now as when I was single.
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People seem to think the point of marriage is to constrain each other in certain traditional forms... that's bullshit. It's just a contract to promote responsible child raising. Everything else is up to the couple in question.
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OP here.
Mainly asking because I want to do stuff that people said they would do if they weren't married before I do get married.
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So we're not a couple yet but we've both made advances and it'll probably just take a few more weeks. Is it weird if I ask her how her day at work was? I don't know if it's a bit creepy.
Any advice?
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>>18120953
>is it weird to have small talk with my gf?
Seriously where are all these frog posters from? You are proof that there is really no god.
Do you know what would be creepy? To not ask her anything at all.
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>>18120953
>Is it weird if I ask her how her day at work was? I don't know if it's a bit creepy.
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>>18120953
You now realize that your post is reversed
>Ill probably ask her how her day was in a few weeks
>Is it creepy to think shes my GF
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So here's the deal.
>Undisclosed family member's fiancee and I fooled around a few times.
>We end up falling in live over the course of two years
>She loves me and him.
>We have to hide everything and it's hard to have a romantic or even somewhat intimate life because we all live together
>She can't balance both of us daily
>I'm deeply in love with her, want a kid, secretly wish I could have her to myself, although I know it'll never happen
>she'll always love him more
>I'm alone otherwise, I feel bitter and jaded
>Can't live this way forever, it's not healthy
>What do?
It's weird and shitty and wrong but what do I do?
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>a "side chick" with feelings
Nice meme.
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Move and then this
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I have been single for my whole life (24 currently). I really wanted some cuddles and hugs. should i find an female escort just to feed my hunger? i dont have any female friends where i could ask for hugs and it would be so awkward to ask from random stranger. i figure that paying for the hug would be the easiest with no strings attached. should i also be worried if i could contact any std even though it is just hugging and cuddling?
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>>18120939
What about getting gf?
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>>18120961
Not op but that's too much work and girls expect lots of things in return.
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>>18120965
But isn't it kind of one of reasons to live?
To make some girl feel special and expects very little in return like cuddles and stuff?
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Hello /adv/!
So I've been dating this girl for about 4 weeks. This is after a 3 years pause after my ex. I gave this girl a chance, because I like being with her.
The problem is, we kiss very little. And in 90% I'm the one who initiates the kissing. And it only lasts for about 5 seconds and she always cuts it first.
I'm not cucked, becasue we take turns in paying for the drinks and she doesn't really have any benefit from me, except my time.
I can tell that she is into me, but I'm starting to feel really awkward "begging" for kisses.
We told each other about previous partners and we both had at least 3-4 partners before, so I don't see the problem in unexperience.
We are planning to go to Venice (We're from Europe) for two days in the next week, but I'm thinking to break up with her before that, because I ain't a guy who begs for anything.
And It would devastate if she would simply go to sleep at the hotel.
She said that her last partner only used her for sex and also cheated on her.
What do I do, do I break up with her?
Because at thins point, I don't get anything from her which I cannot get from my male friends.
We're 25 both.
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>>18120918
devastate me*
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>>18120918
>i like being with her
Here you said it yourself. You don't cut contant with people you like hanging with.
Also you both come with dark past. And your
>not cucked
>benefit
tells me that your view on relationships is somewhat strange. It is not bussiness trade.
>I ain't a guy who begs for anything.
Well, for starters why do you even want gf? To have somebody for sex and kissing? That is a bit short sighted. With this reasoning you will be the same as her ex.
>kissing
Have you considered that some people don't like kissing much? Or that she simply still doesn't trust you at all?
Now she is basically testing you if you stay with her without sex. You can start practicing comunication. Tell her how you feel about it.
>devestate if she would simply go to sleep at the hotel
Yea, tell her this. If you are so afraid she won't sex you up, maybe it is you who is at fault.
You sound immature to me. Make her feel special and tell her you need some form of sexual pleasure or you will feel used. Sometimes the best solution is the easiest one.
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Okay several things stand out to me here.
>do not plan an expensive trip to a foreign place when you're not 100% happy with how things are progressing
>her reactions to the kissing and saying she was used for sex make it sound like she's trying to tell you to take it slow, but either way you should ideally discuss this and not silently wait for stuff to change or for more clues to arise, be pro-active
>if you don't get anything out of being around her you don't get from a male friend just because you didn't stick your dick in, you don't actually have feelings for her
I would break up, yeah.
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What's a job where I can help people that doesn't require a degree? I'm talking about stuff like working at an old folks home. I don't even know where to start.
Good pay would be nice but I know I'm not really spoiled for choice here, amazingly.
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>>18120913
bump before i go to bed in about an hour
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biohazard waste disposal, if you have the stomach for it
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>>18120913
Elderly Care probably doesn't pay much.
Maybe public service like EMT or policeman?
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Should I disclose how many girls I've kissed? 2017-03-12 10:48:05 Post No.18120878
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Should I disclose how many girls I've kissed?
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I'm 22, and for a game that my student association is organizing, I have to fill out a questionnaire about my personal life ("Do you still live with your parents?", "What was the most embarrassing moment of your life?" etc.) One of the questions is: "How many girls have you kissed?" I lost track years ago, but I think it's around 60-70. However, I don't know if I should disclose this - maybe girls in my association will look down on me and no longer want to date me if I answer honestly. Should I just refuse? I would feel bad about lying...
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>>18120878
>game
More like some fucked up psychological experiment or research. Ask yourself if you want to contribute like cattle.
And ability to lie is super useful sometimes. Do what you will.
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>>18120878
>lost track years ago, but I think it's around 60-70
Not trying to sound rude. But people like you are the reason I don't feel comfortable with intimicy. 60-70 is such an outrageous number that it devalues the act to nothing.
If a girl has kissed 40+ guys before me, when we kiss, THAT kiss hold no value whatsoever. At that point, it's no different than a long handshake.
Depressing Tbh
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>>18120878
>I lost track years ago, but I think it's around 60-70
disgusting
>Should I just refuse? I would feel bad about lying...
you should lie, write down something like 12 instead
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>GF is essentially wife material, don't know how I got someone like her
>I fuck up pretty much constantly
>when I do she gets very cold and I'm afraid she's gonna break it off, I certainly deserve it
How do I apologize without crossing over to begging? And no, the fuckups aren't like cheating on her or anything
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>>18120869
What was the fuck up?
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>>18120869
Bump
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>>18120883
It's so petty to greentext but it's like the straw that broke the camel's back:
>gf and I have long history, started off as two years of me putting her on the backburner and then finally coming to my senses
>out with friends, asked her if I could call her later and she said yes she'd be free at night
>phone dies and I'm preoccupied with being with friends so I never told her what time
>turns out I kept her waiting basically for hours till she got fed up waiting
>this reminds her of our entire history of being shafted and low priority
>she's right, I did it again
>totally deserve to be broken up with and she might for real this time
So I asked my wife for the divorce. I think I want to know if she is willing to say no. If she is then she still want to stay married. If she is not willing to even say "no" or "let's try counsel " I don't think she will be willing to do anything for our marriage and in that case I want the divorce.
Is this reasonable for me to do?
I'm I giving her an easy way out?
Or is this to complicated?
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You guys want more info of our marriage?
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It's unreasonable.
If you say you want a divorce then you're sending the message to her that you do not want to be with her anymore.
Two people are required for a successful relationship and if one of them does not want to be in the relationship then it's no use trying to stay together.
If I were in a relationship where my partner says that they don't really want to be with me, regardless of how I feel about the other person, I would not want to continue. Even if I were madly in love.
If you want to work with her on the relationship just tell her that. Be honest and direct, tell her that you think she doesn't really want to continue and that that's bothering you.
Don't play these stupid mind games.
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>>18120860
I think you may be right, but I feel that she wants the divorce but has not the courage to tell me.
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Focusing thought? When i'm studieing or doing homework i find myself getting easily distracted. Suggestion?
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Meds
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>>18120823
Didn't work or did work partially.ritalin made me fuckedup. But moda did work kind of, but when I don't sleep well i get overwhelmed by thought as well but worse...
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Bump for more suggestions
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I posted here an whined about my cavity hurting. Now, the jaw on that side is completely swollen and it hurts even more. What do I do?
>inb4 brush teeth fagot
I brush multiple times a day (I admittedly don't floss as much as I need to tho)
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>>18120781
go to a dentist, faggot
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>>18120786
I can't schedule an appointment until tomorrow and it'll be a while even after that. I'm going to but what should I do in the meantime?
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>>18120790
Take some fucking painkillers.
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The questions:
Am I introverted or a self-absorbed asshole?
How to get to know women with my personality?
Me:
>Generally hate talking. Job requires me to do a lot of speaking and leading, which is easy only because = money.
>Leads to a lot of mistakes by people who think I enjoy being that way all the time.
>Move through life in don't talk to me mode (earbuds, sunglasses, scarf if the weather is cold enough).
>Have never had an issue cutting people out of my life. More worried about how I can easily ignore people who are obviously talking to me. I feel guilty about it right after, but not for long.
>Not so much uncomfortable as numb when in large crowds and there is nothing to draw my attention (as in I don't mind the crowds at concerts, but if I'm out and about and there's a lot of people, just kill me.
>Don't mind my music loud, but cannot stand loud people.
I guess the best way to sum up is that I really enjoy being in my own little bubble, I feel. The only reason I'm not some forever alone is that I'm above average in the looks and brains department, but all that has done is attract women with a facade of normality, then they dump their baggage on me way to early, as in date 3.
Recently, I've become real exhausted at being social. I've been trying to push myself to get out (blessed with well-meaning friends), but I get physically tired when I'm out of my house or my few favorite haunts (as in public places I can be left alone). It hasn't affected my work, yet. Thank you for your time.
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Sounds like both, maybe a little pretentious too. How old are you? Maybe try finding an introverted girl as well? I recommend online (pref not ldr) or at events/shops/meetups having to do with niche hobbies if you have any.
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Well, yeah, but how? Not to play into the pretentious label (and not that I disagree), but a resounding comment I've gotten in my past three relationships (over about a 2 year span) was that I give off the impression of being a playboy. When I asked how they came to that conclusion, it always came down to my looks, never my actions, as if because I might be good-looking, I have to be a man whore.
Online: not good in my region, also, I'm not from this country and they tend to rely on terrible stereotypes about my home (American abroad).
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>>18120777
where do you live?