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How to get the mother of my children back? 2017-03-12 06:58:25 Post No.18121898
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How to get the mother of my children back?
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Well /adv/ it's been three weeks since she's kicked me out. We talked on Wednesday and it started off gloom and doom, but towards the end of the face to face talk there was some hope. "If we got back together today would your insecurities go away" sort of stuff she said to me. The next day she called me on the phone about the kids and I asked if she thought about what we'd talked about she said that she was too exhausted to deal with it right now and she was pissed that I showed up to the apartment. When I asked if we could talk again she said sometime or maybe sometime.
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>>18121898
I've given her some space and haven't really talked to her, I was thinking of making one final attempt to ask to see her. What should I do to win her back?
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You need to provide more information about why the relationship broke down in the first place. What was the cause of the split?
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>>18121908
After my son was born she seemed to just retreat into her own world. Nothing made her happy. She didn't want to be intamote with me anymore. She was always yelling and angry. So I got scared, possessive, and I accused her of cheating regularly unable to figure out why.
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So my gf had a naked photoshoot with another girl for an art project - that is they shot each other naked. To my surprise I do not feel okay about. Both the photoshot and the fact that is is going to "publish" pictures of her body.
Wat do?
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>>18121806
art project? my fuckin ass
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>>18121806
thousands of art weenies are going to masturbate to your gf, that basically makes you a cuck.
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If she's not your wife or fiancee of many years I think you have no say about it.
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How do I know if he wants just sex or a relationship with out asking? At this point I can't tell and he hasn't mentioned it at all. We have been on a few dates and hang out a lot, but lately every time we hang out all he wants to do is make out. I would rather just chill and talk to him. The first time he asked me out he did say he wanted to get to know me but when we are together he doesn't make much of an effort to do that. I'm always the one asking him questions about his self to get to know him not the other way around...
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>>18121533
Well, as a man, I can tell you that I am interested in that talking and bonding stuff, but I'm also very interested in sex. I want to have sex with my girlfriend every day. She knows it, and sometimes I think her opinion is that I want it too much (but she has never said this directly), but it's just the way I am. I wouldn't be happy with a relationship without a lot of sex. So maybe he wants both, but he just wants sex more often than you do?
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Guys normally don't like to open up about themselves directly. For us it's easier to find stuff out by trial and error, like, "oh I saw you listening to that song. I love that band!" Type of thing than just outright expressing it.
He sounds very physically affectionate though. I guess it depends on if you're comfy with that or not.
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>>18121533
Some guys (most guys) don't really go for the monologue about themselves. They're generally more reserved.
But, the best way to know if he wants you for a relationship or just for sex is to make him wait. Be affectionate, make it clear that it's not because of lack of desire, and you'll get to fuck once you're sure - but make him wait.
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24, virgin. I need your help, /adv/:
>Want the first time to be with another virgin so it'll be special
But:
>This is practically impossible
>Runner up solution is to have a gf to introduce me to sex in a loving/comfortable environment
But:
>Not emotionally or circumstantially available for a relationship; may never be
>Next solution is try to get a one night stand from town or tinder
But:
>Feel like that would be throwing the experience away; further, too nervous due to lack of experience
>Next solution is to visit a brothel a few times to get some confidence to springboard into tinder, etc
But:
>To use a prostitute to lose the v is like admitting defeat, and will be an embarrassing thing that will be on my mind forever
I'm literally going grey at the temples.Time's running out for me to enter and enjoy the world of youthful sex. Something's obviously got to give, but i'd like advice on which one that should be.. or maybe other solutions.
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>>18120910
If you want your first time to be meaningful, have it with someone you care about.
I don't think that losing your virginity to another virgin is in anyway special unless you make it special because you share a connection.
Why are you so emotionally and circumstantially unavailable? It always sounded like a cheap excuse.
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>>18120920
It's not 100% accurate, but I'm effectively depressed and have been for 10 years. No therapy can fix it; I've tried.
Despite this I'm able to socialize just fine, and am not an autist; getting social status or female attention isn't hard for me. I just don't let anyone get too close lest they see the mess that really is me.
>pic related
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>Confidence
Believe me, no matter what you look like, fat or skinny, white or non-white, true confidence will get you laid. Getting confidence is not easy, but I can 100% guarnatee that if you focus all your life on confidence itself that being laid will become easy to you.
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Long story short:
My fiancé and I got into an argument that escalated into him dragging my body, by my arms, up the stairs and accross his living room where he finally dumped me on the floor.
Fast forward, he blames his actions on me. Despite what he did, I did not use this event against him in any way, but rather comforted him so he would not feel guilty.
A day passes where he barely spoke to me and I became upset feeling neglected. That led to another argument, which in turn led me to say any other girl would call the police. Out of anger, I said I would do it. But I didn't mean it. Now he has blocked me from everywhere, and I feel he has officially ended it with me. I can't reach him at all.
I am in so much pain and guilt. I want him back. What do I do?
I can't eat, sleep, or focus on anything. I can't bear the pain I feel at the moment.
What do I do?
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Bump?
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what did you do to get dragged around? doesn't seem like the kind of thing that happens in an argument.
also how long ago was this.
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>>18120521
yeah, even if it was uncalled for, ass-whupins don't usually just fall out of the sky.
What in summary led to this getting physical?
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Any recovering from this? 2017-03-12 04:27:05 Post No.18120106
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Any recovering from this?
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2017-03-12 04:27:05
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So here's some general facts about me:
35 years old, will be turning 36 late this year
virgin, no relationship experience
female
I *think* I'm ok looking (I'd rate myself a 5, maybe a 6), but I rarely get asked out so maybe I'm not. The last time I was asked out was about 6 years ago.
Have twice told men about my feelings and got rejected pretty brutally both times (they did not just reject me, they toyed with me for a long time first and then chose other women over me pretty ostentatiously)
Have a tendency to get hung up on someone but too paralyzed to do anything about it with my past experiences, then i get effectively 'friendzoned'*
* I don't actually believe in the friendzone for either gender but it sure feels that way sometimes
I thought a man I've liked for about a year was interested in me, but I found out today he got back together with his ex girlfriend. I'm more devastated by this than I should be, considering I didn't know him that well.
Not really sure what to do. Just embrace being alone? I'm embarrassed by my lack of experience but I can't get ever seem to find someone I'm interested in that is also interested in me.
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>>18120106
>35 years old, will be turning 36 late this year
what a pathetic lose-
>virgin, no relationship experience
holy shit kill yourse-
>female
*dick gets hard*
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>>18120115
That'd be great if (well adjusted) 30 and 40-something men felt that way, but I don't think they do. I think it's considered a huge red flag.
Not that I've ever told anyone.
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>>18120106
do you go out? and where to?
what do you do in your spare time?
What are your hobbies?
Have you tried online dating?
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Very long story short,
My brother died in a car accident in December. I found some weird things in his possessions from his car and later in his house. Nothing illegal (besides a small amount of marijuana), But strange to have.
There were a few things that kind of stood out that I won't go into for TL:DR reasons but one was a cell phone with a wires coming from it going to the input of a digital recorder (so he was using it to record phone calls). An the only thing on the recorder that it was attached to was someone reading off a license plate number and some conversation between my brother and another male who I don't recognize the voice of.
But when the guy said the license plate number they said it like police officers do. For instance....
License plate 1FD038 (this wasn't the license plate number)
They would read it as One, Frank Delta, zero, three, eight.
Besides the police, What other professions/jobs do this?
I find it hard to believe it was a police officer because my brother didn't talk to anyone, Especially the police. He distrusted them and was kind of "anti police" in a mild way. So he definitely wouldn't have one as a friend or talk to one unless he got pulled over and absolutely had to.
I'm trying to figure out why my brother was talking to this person, Why he was recording the phone call, and who this person is.
But the cell phone the digital recorder was still plugged into doesn't have anything on it, All the calls are erased, There are no contacts in it, It's also a prepaid cell phone. So no luck there
Can anyone tell me what kinda jobs would someone have that would read letters like that when reading a code or license plate?
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Did he hire a private investigator/detective for any reason? Can you check his bank transaction to see if payment were made to someone and what their profession is?
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>>18119709
A lot of people use the phonetic alphabet because no matter who you are, it is just easier to not confuse letters being spoken to you this way. Don't need to be in a profession for this. Just need to onow about it.
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>>18119841
I briefly looked though his checking account but nothing stood out. It was pretty repetitive and consistent each month. Nothing stood out as "I wonder what he bought here".
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I sent her "you're really cute" and she replied "Aw thanks"
Wat do now?
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>im about to insert my penis into her vagina
>What do now?
Kys
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>>18119008
it's over dude, she just friendzoned you harder than a bull ride in july
I need to make $280 by Thursday or I'm getting kicked out of my home.
Without doing anything illegal, is there anything I can do to achieve this?
I'm at the end of my rope.
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>>18122854
Go do some labor work, you have three days, that's about $300 minimum, depending where you live.
Construction usually pays good (implying we're talking about people who dropped school), $20+ hour if you're skilled.
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1) Day labor at Labor Ready or similar outfit that pays the same day. You have Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday. Three full days should net you $280 I'd think.
2) Sell something(s) on Craigslist.
3) Pawn shop.
4) Cash for clear title.
Best wishes.
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>>18122854
Sell some of your belongings. I know, I know -- you probably don't want to part with anything, but it's a roof over your head that we're talking about here.
Sell electronics -- they tend to go for the most. Your city or town should have a Facebook buy/sell/trade page or you could go through Craigslist.
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I have the worst life ever. I just sit here and play video games, drink, and smoke weed all fucking day. My life has been this way the past 10 years and I want to change it all.
I've created google calendar notifications, that LifeRPG app, I have a to do list on my whiteboard and I don't get any of it done out of fear I guess. Really, I know what I need to do but it's just so overwhelming. The moment I want to do something, I'm bombarded by a million thoughts of negativity. How I'm never going to make it, how it's going to take me 10+ years to get decent and the fact that I've already wasted 10 just sitting here doing nothing productive.
It's not the same as it was in school where there was a certain pressure to do homework or assignments and you had someone guiding you.
I don't know what to do or how to change these habits. They are literally killing me.
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>>18122838
Self-discipline isn't some magic that will miraculously make an appearance in your life and solve problems. You have it or you don't. Either you decide to get shit done or you don't, there are no short cuts here.
You say you don't know what to do, but obviously you do. You know exactly what you need to do next to start improving, but you lack the discipline to do it. Only you can change that, no one can help you there.
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Start small. Make a commitment to someone to do something for them. Like bring a Big Mac to your friend's work at lunch time. Seriously, something small. Commit to doing it so he's not disappointed.
Then make another commitment in like manner that someone will depend on you for. Build your follow-through skills by having other people expect something small from you.
Then, volunteer, yes without pay, at a senior center or food pantry, somewhere you need to show up decently dressed, not too stoned, and people are depending on you. Make that a reliable, on-time habit.
Next, get a job.
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Please help me /adv/
I've been dating my gf for over a year now and something big has changed recently. During the beginning of our relationship we had sex constantly, as with every new one. More days than not we would end up together. This lasted a few months, and then it tapered off a bit, down to once or twice a week.
Lately though, in the past couple months, things have gotten significantly less intimate. Less playful touches, less long kisses, and most noticeably: less sex. What used to be once or twice a week is down to once or twice a month. It's not due to wanting to end things, which was my immediate reaction, because all of this happened almost immediately following her wanting to get married. We are now engaged, yet I feel awful frequently. 90% of the time if I try to get intimate she says, "not tonight" or starts a fight. They aren't bad, and I'm not an asshole. If she doesn't want it then I always try not to push. But it's starting to take a toll.
I honestly don't know what to do. If the answer is to just wait then I'm fine with that, but if there's a damn thing I could do to make the situation better, I'd love to hear it. Again, I'm not above changing myself so let me know if I just need to get over this.
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have you tried being romantic, taking her out somewhere or like doing something different you guys don't usually do, a new activity? that might work.
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Throw the spunk on her ass you faggot.
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Quick question: do you think a long term relationship in which you love the other person but you're not IN love with them could work out in the long run?
I love spending time with her and talking to her. We always have a good time together. But when she looks me in the eyes I don't feel that something special. But I DO like her. I'm so confused.
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>>18122789
It can work, yes, if both make the effort to make it work. But there's the risk that you do find someone to fall in love with eventually or that she finds someone who actually is in love with her. Could still be a worthwhile effort in the meantime.
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>>18122789
Pursue only that which you wish to have. If you love her, but not romantically, don't pursue romance. If you love spending time together, then spend more time together.
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bluehost or ehost?
for selling .pdf's of black and white photographs of men with mustaches doing power cleans.
thread picture unrelated.
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lol I actually work for both How is that you may ask? Because they're the same fucking company.
In short, it doesn't really matter what shared hosting you go with just pick the one with the webbuilder you like most
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>>18122783
Really? Crazy.
Bluehost gets better reviews but ehost is cheaper, if it's basically the same and the online reviews are meaningless I'll just go with ehost they both offer wordpress so the process of making the actual site will be about the same. thanks.
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>>18122793
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Endurance_International_Group
I think support staff for ehost is even in the same callcenter in orem, enjoy the overworked employees as they just fired literally 200 people companywide
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>get a message from girl
>wait over a minute to reply
is this what being a normie feels like?
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>>18122708
no.
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Im a compsci major in the second semester of my first year. Currently living with my parents, but I feel like I could do better away from home since my house is small and crowded. Is it advisable to leave home and get a job?how hard would it be to survive on a part time and leftover money from my grant? Or am I just a whiny bitch? Disclaimer: Burgerspeak is jot my first lang.
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do you have any actual compsci skills yet? if so it should be easy to find work (freelance or part time) that not only provide valuable experience but help you pay for living on your own.
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>>18122652
Prof just started getting into classes and oop so I dont think I'll be useful until the second year.