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>>18126265
just go to /an/ they have threads about small mammals
good look with them, piggies are so cute

>>18126265
they need proper bedding, oranges to snack on, pig pig hay, they will require many chew blocks (stuff to chew on). Other than that they should be super happy and popcorn all about. socialize with them each day. Enjoy your new babies! I hope they live a long, healthy life!

>>18126265
Also, keep the males separated from the females

Play it? I played the violin and I suck at combos. No idea what one thing has to do with the other

>>18126269

Seconded. I played violin for 3 years before i quit. Sucked at combos back then still do now

>>18126269
>>18126281
You dumbasses, I didn't mean if you're good at the violin you'll be good at fighting games, I meant that having the dedication and getting better at fighting games is similar to training and getting better at playing an instrument. Also, you shouldn't suck at combos, you idiots, if it's SFV the combos are easy as fuck and only are like 3-5 hits at max. If you're trying to play Guilty Gear/Blaz Babby or some shit it's just about practice and if you can't do optimal combos there is still the basic gatling/revolver combo of P,K,S,HS.

>>18126248
>I lost my virginity to my boyfriend fingering me
Stopped reading there. That's not losing your virginity. I suspect the rest of the post is just as stupid.

>>18126251
We did 69. Oral is sex or all lesbians are virgins now.

>>18126251

Virginity is a social construct and sex is sex, no matter which kind

>>18126202
I don't have a car but I want to take a girl out, is an Uber a deal breaker for girls?

>>18126219
No.
And I usually don't expect him to pick me up either

>>18126225
Same

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>>18126178

Becoming an asshole is not the key to navigating the treachery of human interaction.

Being a good person is a thankless job. You do it because its the right thing, not because its some magic ticket to a pain free life. If you're being compassionate because you're expecting sunshine and rainbows in return then its not really compassion, is it?

Compassionate people don't get hurt. Everyone gets hurt. The only thing you have left to decide is whether you're going to do the right thing or just become another person who inflicts pain on others just for the sake of avoiding it.

People are shit but I do the right thing because at the end of the day I have to go to sleep at night carrying the weight of my own decisions, not the weight of anybody else's. I refuse to reach my old age and look my children in the eye and tell them "Well, your daddy wanted to be a good person but other people hurt me so I decided to become an asshole."

I dunno, man. Its up to you. Whatever you can live with.

>>18126185
This board needs more people like this.

>>18126185
Maybe they don't want to feel or look like a cuck?

Embrace it as a part of who you are

>>18126211
Its not good for my mental health though.

So no.

>>18126276

Why not?

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>>18126158

>What should I do?

Go to college. If you don't have money to do anything else then you don't really have a choice.

Not to mention, your worst case scenario in this situation is going to college for free, asshole. You would qualify for the top echelon of retards if you actually sacrificed housing, a car, financial support and a job just to avoid a free college education.

You're going to have to find a compromise with them. If you get kicked out and cut off, you will be struggling for years to get back up on your feet, and will most likely have to beg to move back in with them or a friend. In the modern world, the market is just too harsh for the majority of 18 year olds to make it all on their own right after high school.

Just talk to them about it. I would strongly recommend living at home for another two years and going to community college, while saving up and working part-time. It's better than just a HS diploma, and if you think about going to trade school you could turn it into a self-sustaining career.

>>18126158
>The people I will have to move in w/ will live too far from where I work to get there on time with them having to drive me and shit. Our schedules would conflict and it would be too great a burden.

Then it's time to find different people to room with. Craigslist has a ton of people looking for roommates. Pick one who lives close enough to where you work that you can walk or ride a bike, in the event you lose your car.

That's really all there is to it. Also consider getting a second job so you can put money away for a replacement car.

you need to readjust your attitude dummy

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femanon here and since you listed yours ill list mine: im an INTJ (so we're kinda similar)

I'm from a very old family on my mother's side. Literally the first (and only) woman in our family to have a job was my grandmother who was a chemist.
I literally didnt even know that women were supposed to work like men do until I hit my late teens. My whole life I thought that if a woman had a job it was because she had a serious passion for that thing.

Apparently my mom had met a lot of other women who kinda seemed off-put by the fact she didnt work. Now as woman in my late 20's ive also met a lot of women who either seem jealous or have a "holier-than-thou" attitude towards women that dont work.

you just have to be aware that a lot of that bullshit stems from jealousy. It doesn't seem to be a political or feminist thing.

but if you plan on not working then make sure you find a guy that makes enough income that it doesnt matter.

yes

Your dad did not have a 6 pack, yet you exist.

>>18126004
>without a six-pack
no

>>18126021
prove it

>>18125985

>but can this be a reason why I don´t feel love how I felt before?

The reason you don't feel how you felt before is because you are both children and you wouldn't know what an adult relationship looked like if it kicked you in the head. No offense.

Young relationships are supposed to end. The mistakes we make in our relationships when we are young are how we figure out what kind of things we want later in life. High school relationships aren't real adult relationships, they're just kind of cutesy versions of what dating is going to look like when you're an adult. They're just practice.

You had fun, you grew a little, learned a little, and now its over. Time to move on sister.

>>18125994
>Time to move on sister.
The thing is that I don´t feel there is something to move on. I still love him and I enjoy spending time with him. I've decided to put that feeling aside and give our relationship a chance, because, maybe after all is reasonable our relationship has changed.
The one thing that truly changed is the 'sugar rush' you feel when falling in love. Therefore, I´m not sure about leaving him (he is really such a nice guy and I´m sure he loves me in the best of ways) if eventually I would be in this exact position but in other relationship.
Yes, I agree with what you said about serious relations in high school, believe me I never wanted nor thought about until he came to me.
I´m afraid of losing him but at the same time, I´m afraid I might be conforming to our relation and losing time sticking with him. I´ve never thought possible for a love relation to last forever despite al the corny stuff he has said to me. But the fact that we get along pretty well and that I find myself still loving him , makes me really doubtful.

>>18125985
I hope that English isn't your primary language, that was like being occularly raped. That being said, you're still young, you need to expand your horizons. You'll understand when you're in your mid twenties.

>>18125815
I'm dealing with the same problem. Been feeling lethargic and unmotivated as all hell recently.

There's no secret. You either do it or you don't.

>>18125815
You're way too young to be "a failure". Do things that interest you and get out of the house. Try to read at least once a day.

>>18125662
>>18125662

for you

>>18125662
>>18125662

for you

>>18125662
>>18125662

for you

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>>18125615
You have to learn to live with it.

It's tough, anon, but you'll survive.

You'll cry.
You'll punch your wall.
You may even consider killing yourself.

But remember, you'll survive. You have to stay strong. She may be perfect for you, but that doesn't mean she's the only one for you.

You'll find someone else. Let time heal your wounds.

A day may seem like an eternity now, but it gets easier. You take it one step at a time.

That's why the beginning is tough. That's when it hurts the most.

But it get's easier.

>>18125626
thank you...

maybe i should have asked her to get back together, now its like going through a second breakup, i already went through this... but i also know that if i didnt try i would have regretted it forever and probably wouldnt have been able to move on.

idk if ill be able to move on.. i dont know if i can find someone like her or get her out of my mind... maybe it's okay if i dont, idk...

i wish she at least let me down kindly, she shut me off like i was some stalker and blocked me...

>>18125655
good on you for looking at it half-full. You definitely would have regretted not asking.

You may think that you can't move on, but you will. I went through the same in the past. We all have and we all (likely) will. It's a part of life. It's what makes us human and what makes us strong.

And the fact that she treated you so poorly despite the clear connection you two had is a sign that she probably wasn't the right one for you in the long run. Sometimes relationships are small-term investments, trial runs, samples of what's to come for when you inevitably find the one who will spend their life with you.

Stay strong, anon. I know you can make it. Channel your depression into something productive. Letting it fester isn't good. You need to invest energy into something.

Are you unfit? Get /fit/.
Not much of a reader? Get /lit/.
Wanna learn to draw? go /i/

Learning a new skill/improving yourself is a great way to channel your negative feelings. Sitting around and feeling sorry for yourself will only hurt you.

Reflect on your thoughts, but don't let them dominate you.

Best wishes.

Bob ross

Unboxing videos.

Podcasts? Joe rogan experience?

Also, look into ASMR. Shit is relaxing

Where are u from?

>>18125448
Colombia

>>18125383
No, start drinking and buy cheap books. Travel and always keep a pen with you. Talk to people, don't judge them, don't steal their story.
If you're good enough, you'll be a writer soon.