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To clarify. You want to major in something, of which just so happens to be 70% female?
Or you want to pick a major on this condition?
If the latter, don't be a fucking idiot uni is expensive and degrees are for life.

If the former then it depends really. Girls are often a numbers game so you can talk to more of them i guess.

>>18130096
i'm a girl studying in a university with 90% male.
honestly, it's no different than if it was 50/50.

well if your intention is to pick up girl perhaps it will be easier. but dont expect to drown in pussies if you werent already popular before that ratio. those girls still have a social life outside university, they know and meet a lot of guys on their own, they wont magically find you attractive just because there's only five guys in the class.

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If your class is 70% women then you should be worrying about whether it's a real major or not. Notice the pie charts in this image, toward the bottom.

>>18130094
Are you after quick lays or a relationship?
PUA methods are a numbers game, if you try is on enough women you'll get enough lays

But it's disgusting and gross, many women will see you as scum for trying it and most of the time it comes off like a highschool reading out a skit or something. You can't build a relationship on it.

You're better off just developing an attractive passion, like volunteering with animals or something

>>18130136
This desu.
"""PuA""" is just having no shame and harassing people until you find a slut dumb amd desperate enough to fuck you.

what do you want a dumb floozy to fuck for?

just continue to stay in your room watching anime and fapping to catgirls(male), much more satisfying

Ask him first if he wants to make it official. Don't have sex with him until you have your answer.

If you have sex first you may end up disappointed if it turns out he's still hung up on someone and intends to keep it casual.

You can get that collar and leash around his neck if you get him to commit to you before sex. Putting out early sounds like what he's used to, break that chain

>>18130091

go for a relationship. he had the opportunity to mention he only wanted a casual relationship the last time you talked about it, he could have used it to make himself clear and avoid that awkward confused stage, yet he specifically mentioned that it was the last girl he was with who wanted that.

since he never had a real relationship, maybe you shouldn't push him, so yeah why not fuck him, but i think real relationship is on the table

Suicide

>>18130013
just ask her whether she wants to bone you

Well go have a drink with her, says the things you told us and ask her. What do you have to lose anyway, it's just a simple fuck.

>>18129973
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An I depressed? I'm not sure if I am or not. Like I can go about the day functioning fine and doing this. But there's no sense of moment to moment happiness or enjoyment in the things I do. I know there's more women out there and bla bla. But I wasn't even looking for a relationship and she came to me, but never put in any work towards us actually being a couple. I don't know...I feel like I've invested in something heavily and came out empty. And now people are telling me how she's running around town with this new guy and how she's really "happy" with him. And I try to move on, I lift, I run and try to keep my mind off it. But it comes back when I sleep. And I can't help but wonder how people can be so cruel and callous to others. To actually believe that they've done nothing wrong and even go so far as to blame me for her jumping ship abruptly. I've always been wary of relationships, and this has only made it worse.

>>18129973
same thing happened to me just 2 days back.wasnt looking for a realtionship, then this girl comes in and bla bla just took and never gave.it might be depression or you could just go about your life knowing the best things always happen spontaneously..also happiness is a state of mind..u might very well be doing things u already enjoy but have no idea how u feel about it..if that makes any sense

>>18129981
I enjoy watching movies/tv and reading. But my stomach churns every-time I see a couple now or hear words about "love". This girl told me all those things, made me feel secure that she was a ride or die chick; and then just cut me off so hard and so abruptly. I just don't get it. I'd feel like a fucking colossal piece of shit if I did that to someone I claimed to care about, I wouldn't even be able to look at them without feeling horrible guilt. But this girl brings that guy around all the time(We work together in a restaurant) and I just can't understand that level of cruelty.

Clover.

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researcher as in a recruiter?

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>>18129882
You're taller than me faggot and i'm fine. No one actually gives a shit about height other than the NEETs on here unless you're like 5'1.

Get as muscular as you possibly can, and read the sidebar on TheRedPill. Don't fucking post, nobody wants to see newfag posts. Just read the sidebar and learn as much as you can about conversational skills and how the game works.

>inb4 feminist crybitching

There's plenty of written guides online and you need to give her feedback in the moment. Instantly tell her when something is too sensitive or she's being too rough, likewise for telling her to keep at something or use more tongue. You can get away with a lot if you can manage to make this more into a dirty talk/sexy lesson thing than about you lecturing her on how to suck a dick.

If she's not interested in investing in it and/or she still sucks after the guides and your comments it's time to either make your peace with it or break up with her if a girl who's great at blowjobs is a particular priority of yours.

>>18129850
And inb4 people suggesting porn, you don't learn shit from that. Porn blowjobs are all about deepthroating, (fake) gagging, the whole show surrounding oral. They won't teach her how what trick to use to keep her teeth covered, which parts of the dick are really most sensitive (and not just most visually stimulating to watch being taken orally), and so on. There's some really elaborate stuff out there explicitly written to beginners and a lot is actually hot to read, too.

>>18129850
This. First make sure she's really turned on and in the mood to suck dick, it's a lot harder to perform oral if you don't really want it in my experience.

"Ohh this feels so good" "Do that thing with your tongue" "Lick this tip" "More, more pressure" or so on. Make sure you say whatever you want in a way that sounds like dirty talk, or indirectly compliments something she does, implying she's doing it wrong is going to make her insecure as fuck and take her out of the mood completely. Tell her what you want her to do, and reassure her/guide her if she's nervous.

I tried ringing the doorbell again, but she won't answer....

>>18129836
For the love of God don't get her flowers

>>18129890
I already bought them. I wanted to be romantic, I see it in movies all the time desu. I'm kinda just waiting outside at the coffee shop to see if she comes outside. Do you think the flowers are too much though? Should I get rid of the flowers and write her a note instead? I think I love her, but I don't know how to tell her.

Bump. Help, please.

Compete against urself to "be the best you" it sounds stupid but if u master it u don't even need to compete with anyone and u will improve every aspect of ur life

>>18129825
you should get involved in something that has other people, like a pottery club or volunteering as a TA at a underfunded school or something

I've been in debt before. 14k. I'm only 21.
I filed for bankruptcy.
It's going well.

It gets you out of shit.

>>18129812
How hard was it and did it take into account liens of any kind? I'm just wondering if I should or not if it's at 8k?

Do bankruptcy now.

With Republican administration they are going to make it so that healthcare debt cant be forgiven in bankruptcy, much like what they did with student loans in the Bush administration.

Its part of the master plan of capturing poor and middle class in permanent and inescapable debt.

Men with PhDs have more confidence in the bedroom.
The general consensus is that females are appreciative of men with PhDs, but not all women. I'd assume petite women and non finnicky women don't hare if a man has a PhD.
If I had a PhD I'd probably get laid more often.

>>18129749
What field are you in OP? I feel like you, but I just accepted my offer. I applied to a few good programs totally expecting to get rejected and ended up getting a full ride to a good school.

I'm nervous, but as a social science major, it's not like a lucrative private sector job waiting for me. So PhD it is.

>>18129909
Electrical and Electronics Engineering. Anything in particular to look out for? When do you start?

>>18129901
Well you can still get one. Send your applications out.

>>18129709
No intentions.

Fuck I dun goofd.

>>18129709
Give her everything she wants and more for a period of time. Show her how dedicated you are to her. Go out of your way to make her happy again.

>>18129716
This is the plan.
Thanks.

When you consider acting them on them.

From a clinical psychology perspective, that is when a subject escalates from standard depressive to potentially requiring significant intervention.

When you start seriously considering to act and when the general apathy prevents you from doing things

>>18129668
Well obviously you consider acting on them if you have those thoughts, no?

I mean, let me put it this way, the only reason I'm worried is because I don't want to upset the few people that would care.