Got home from work 5 hours ago and all I've done is sit in my chair. I feel so retardedly depressed, I can't muster the strength to get to the kitchen and make myself food. I just don't want to move a muscle right now, I don't even want to breathe.
What do? Anyone else know this feel?
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>Anyone know this feel?
Oh yeah. I work 8,5hrs days at a call center being part of the service department of a health insurance company. Ideal average holding time is ~6.5 minutes. Sometimes I'm too tired to eat, too tired to blink.
Fix yourself up a hot water bottle, make yourself tea. Order food. It works better if you allow yourself a day to lean back than to push yourself on and on past your breaking points. Try to treat yourself to something nice, masturbate as often as you can manage. Try to feel that you're alive. Maybe take a hot shower (or bath, if you can) or read something in a good novel.
Good luck.
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"sleep"
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yeah ive been there, but i make music outside of my job and i take that more seriously than my job even though it makes me nowhere near as much money
usually though when i get in that depressive dont give a fuck mood its on a day off when i havent been productive and i get in my own head about how worthless and stupid i am
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Hey /adv/, my work came under new managment and they're no longer giving us paper checks. We either get it direct deposited if we have a bank account or they're going to give us some new card they're going to put money on. I don't have bank account and I'm not sure if I want one right now. I don't like the idea of these new cards, something about the cards seems very suspicious. Has anyone had something like this happen to them? What do I do?
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that sounds shady as fuck OP.
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>>18130814
you can get cash from a check without a bank account?
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Why don't you want a bank account?
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I have started to think that my GF is texting/flirting another guy every time she gets the chance, aka when im not there. Now i know this other person aswell. Im wondering if theres anyway i can find out forsure?
Should i ask him? if they are indeed flirting?
I have already asked her, and she clearly said no, added that it made her very sad that i would even think that.
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What reason do you have to think this?
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Yeah, why do you think that?
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>>18130791
We dont live together, and play a the same mmo, and said guy is also playing this mmo, now it seems every time he comes online, she just starts to lose attention towards me. I dont know if shes texting him or not, but it indeed seems possible. Also everytime we say good night and want to log off, she seems to stay up online atleast untill he has gone to be aswell.
Now all this might just be coincidences, but its happend enough times i would say a pattern has started to form.
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>set plans to meet friends in denver for Wings/Avs game tonight, 3/15
>Book flight on spirit weeks ago, paid $210 or so
>today, sitting at gate waiting for flight to board
>get an email
>read email "dear fuckwad, we are either delaying or cancelling your flight"
>realize everyone else is reading the same email
>gate-wide 'wtf' faces and underbreath grumbling
>display screen at gate still says flight: on time though
>10 min later, announced on PA the flight is cancelled
>entire A320's worth of pissed-as-fuck people now standing at the Spirit office, out the door and around the corner
>word spreads that theres nothing else anyone can do today to get there, everything tomorrow is full, and their next flight is friday morning
>one employee comes around and says 'if you'd like to take a refund and leave, give me your ticket and youre all set' so I do
>go check other counters... delta, united, southwest, etc... if anyone can get me to denver. nope.
>wind up just getting an uber home.
What would you do? Obviously booking another flight now is going to cost me a fuckton because its last minute and I'm not paying $700 to go to denver for 2 days.
Should I call up Spirit and bitch up a storm and get them to pay for the extra cost of booking with someone last minute? I dunno what my realistic options are.
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I always believed last minute flights are more expensive until more than two people reassured me that they are actually cheaper.
So, are you sure that they will be more expensive?
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last minute flights can either be extremely expensive or extremely cheap, it depends on if you get lucky or not. airlines will often practically give away tickets to a flight that isn't booked up.
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>>18130787
from what I saw, the last-minute thing is a myth (according to some sites talking about when best times to buy tickets are)
this seems to be confirmed looking through the various online ticket search vendors. I put in that I wanted to head out there tomorrow and thats what I got
I suppose I could call around tomorrow morning and see if theres anything super-ultra last minute
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Are there any good Hookup sites for sex where you can use it for free.
I dont want it on the credit card
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Craigslist
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>>18130744
I've tried but it seems to still want a credit card id
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What a cuck. You dont have a credit card your gf doesnt know about?
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So,
I'm about to turn 24 and I have a masters and a stable and rewarding career as a teacher. I haven't been so lucky in terms of romance, mostly, because I end up sabotaging it by ghosting them or just ending it.
After time for self reflection and trying to make right by doing good for others I started this kind of courtship with a girl I would run into because she works at a place I frequent.
We talked and became friends for awhile. A tragedy happened in our community and it bonded us, plus my mom came down to visit me for a little, and they bonded when she ran into her. She gave me her phone number three times and I lost it the first two but eventually kept it and we started texting.
For Valentines day, I ended up giving her a necklace I got for her around Christmas but I left the state and didn't really have time and see her until Valentines so I told her it was for both holidays. She loved it and wears it alot.
But now she tells me she'll call and doesn't. Or when she does it's never for very long and she'll go a day without texting back and it's always just cursory stuff like "hope you had a good day." I write her letters, since I'm keen on writing, and she tells me she loves them. Granted, she's been sick for a week or so and had her wisdom teeth pulled the week before so she hasn't been in the best health. But we've been supposed to go out to dinner for two weeks now and it hasn't happened.
Am I barking up the wrong tree? Does she see this as a romantic pursuit? Did I mess up somewhere? I'm curious for the advice because I want to know if I should put my emotions into something else.
TLDR; not sure if this girl I've been courting for awhile is into me or is just keeping me around as a potential backup.
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>>18130710
so find out. Jesus it's not complicated you're just a pussy.
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>>18130736
I thought about just asking but isn't that an ultimatum of sorts? Though, I could just not want to hear the answer. You're probably right.
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How many times did you have sex?
Follow up question: Is she attractive?
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im having slight chest pains near my heart and im 32. what could they be?
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>>18130684
a sign that you shoudl go see a doctor.
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>>18130686
but I had an EKG a year ago and it said everything was fine.
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Go again. Its your life and better to be safe then sorry.
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What do relationships consist of?
I'm 23 and have never been in one. I've been hanging out with this girl for almost a year now it looks like we could potentially start dating soon. Sometimes we go to the movies or go out to eat but not as often as we would if we were dating.
But my question is how much time is expected to be devoted to a relationship. What other things should I keep in mind? I just realized the concept of being in a relationship is actually pretty foreign for me.
She's a few years older and has been in a few relationships.
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It depends on the relationship and what your needs are. Do you want to see her every day or just every once in a while?
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Bonus question: I've never had sex before. Everyone says the first time always sucks.
Is there a way I could make mine not suck? I really like this girl I want to at least be competent my first time sexing. From what I see in porn it doesn't look to difficult if I keep it simple.
Any thoughts?
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Every relationship is different. Some people will start by rushing to pick each other form work everyday, while some are happy to see each other on the weekends. So there's no "normal" here.
Nevertheless, this doesn't sound too much like a relationship to me. What does "it looks like we could potentially start dating soon." mean? What's a date to you and why should you guys start having them?
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The best way to become black hat hacker is...?
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Get born to an African family and star being clever and shit.
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The glory days of hacking are over, just get a job with Facebook or the CIA if you want to be an elite cyberterror.
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>>18130557
OP here
I feared you were right but I don't want to berieve you.
OK, new question....
How do become hacker and get hired by the devil?
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how do i become persistent and unphased? 2017-03-15 08:07:31 Post No.18130528
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how do i become persistent and unphased?
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so i just failed a design project
my entire class did
except my friend whos the teachers pet
im kind of jealous to be honest.
but thats besides the point
im dry. i have no motivation or drive to try again.
this is more of a thing that happens generally in my life.
how do i not get phased by things that happen around me and just be persistent with my attempts, not comparing myself to others?
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>>18130528
Get Good, you won't have to deal with the disappointment of failure if you never fail.
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>>18130560
i know but to get good you need to fail no one is great straight out the gate
i just dont have enough determination to keep trying.
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>>18130574
Nobody has ever done anything great without failing hundreds of times before that, losing your battles are sometimes more important than winning them -- because they'll help you develop an unbeatable strategy.
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My former employer (Circle K) is making me pay $12 for my W2 form. They don't mail or fax it unless I request it, so it's not like it got lost in the mail or I lost it. IMO the 1st one should be free. I could see if there's a single use link (maybe for security or something), then I lose the PDF, and then they charge me for a new link... ...Or maybe even if I request to be mailed or faxed. But no, they're straight up charging me $12 for my W2. All other places I've ever worked has always provided at least one copy each year for free. Is this legal? How can I get them to lower the charge if it is?
Just for the record, the reason I'm JUST NOW getting to my taxes, is because it's been a PITA dealing with this company. To top it off, my current job has me working the same hours HR is open. I've finally made it to the download link but now they're asking for a bank card number.
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That sounds sketchy af, they mail that shit to you for free.
I used to work graves at a place called Four Sons, and all the graves kind of new each other. Employees would hop companies, come back and chat etc. By and large, Circle K was considered literal cancer.
Do not work there, if someone out there is considering it.
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>>18130507
it is not legal
they are required by federal law to give you your w2 before jan 31
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>they mail that shit to you for free.
They're going "paperless" or whatever. But still, they should give at least one opportunity to obtain it free-of-charge. ...you know, like a PDF I can download online (but are still charging me for some reason). I'm giving HR one chance to explain why they're charging me money for my W2. I'm calling only one time. If I'm "disconnected" even only once, or redirected more than twice; that's it. Game over. I'm fucking going straight to the IRS and telling them what's happening. I don't have time for this bull shit. It'd probably be cheaper for me to ignore this shit now and just pay the penalties later. Yes I'm going to put this call through my sound card to record whatever bull shit non-sense circle K HR tells me.
>considered literal cancer.
I see why.
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I'm male, but I keep getting weird ass feelings about other guys. I therefore experimented with gay porn and whatever, but it didn't do anything for me. I'm not gay, I can't get my dick hard for guys, but I keep getting this anxiety feeling when I see attractive guys. I feel like my brain is detached from my dick in terms of sexual attraction.
Is this some weird sexuality in which I like guys/girls romantically but only females sexually? My libido is super low anyway, but when I'm drunk or whatever, I'm again only attracted to girls (my libido is much higher then).
What is going on? Any way to stop this?
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Why stop them?
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Because I don't feel any actual attraction, if I were to get my dick hard by seeing guys it'd be fine, but I don't, it's just annoying.
I suppose trying to stop it will only make it worse though...
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This is why Tumblr has all those labels that everyone seems to be terrified of. They're just labels.
What you're describing is "homoromantic heterosexual."
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I am horrible at texting with people. Like I need to see the person irl and feel their emotion and whatever when I say things so I know how to react. I have made so many misreads in conversation that its fucking me up. I mainly want to know how to text with girls in a friendly way, I dont need help with a romantic way because I can get a general feel for that type of convo, but like how do I hold a text conversation with a girl. IRL I am fine with that to an extent but for some reason I am a pretty shitty texter.
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Bump
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This is one reason i stopped trying with women. Most wont spend 5 minutes talking for whatever reason
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>>18130549
I can understand how if they really like the guy they can text him all day and WANT a conversation and try to hard to keep it going but if its just two friends I feel it dies out alot faster.
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Alright, gonna be losing my virginity in the near future (tonight to a week from now) and I need some tips on how to git gud at fucking. I'm not expecting to be Ron Jeremy the first time but I'd at least like to be OK, have fun with it and learn from it. Now as for the fine details, I'm 5'8" she's 6 foot and my dick is 5 inches long and Im not sure about the girth, not a pencil but not too thick either. I've asked a few friends about it and they've all told me not to stop if I cum really quickly and instead get back to oral/fingering, be forward about what I want but to communicate with her on what she likes too, and don't rush things. If I had to ask about stuff in particular I could seriously use advice on oral/fingering and foreplay (kissing, touching etc.). I haven't had much experience with girls so bear with me guys. pic unrelated
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>>18130469
I'd you're gonna finger her clip your nails
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>>18130501
Already done, anything else you can think of?
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>>18130509
Tell her it's your first time cause that's just how it is and I'm sure she'll understand
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My gf and I are in a great relationship, we get along fantastic, we have the same interests, the sex is incredible, etc. But I'm afraid of commitment and I can't help thinking periodically about all the people I could be meeting (and/or fucking) if I were single.
I'm 27. I've already fucked a good amount of people, but apparently I still haven't gotten it out my system.
If I keep going with this relationship, will eventually regret all the other stuff I could've done? Or would I regret letting go of a fantastic relationship just to have meaningless one-night stands?
I guess what I'm asking is, do people get more comfortable with monogamous commitment as time passes? Or am I doomed to suffer until I eventually do something stupid (like cheat)?
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>>18130459
Millions of men get married and never fuck a different woman ever again. So can you.
Alternatively, become swingers, or otherwise polyamorous
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>>18130459
Try not being a fucking degenerate.
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>>18130459
Interesting. I mean you do have a few options OP. The common sense option is to break up with your girl and fuck anyone and everyone you want.
The second option is to understand that even though you're 27, that's still young. So young to the point where you're still discovering what you want and you even made the effort to make a thread about such things.
The third option is to know that humans change all the fucking time. No pun intended... Maybe your prone to be a swinger, maybe your prone to the polyamory lifestyle. Maybe you're just a young douche who doesn't know what he wants. Who knows!!! The options are endless.
Don't cheat. Whatever you do, don't be another faggot in this life who screws up your partner mentally and changing her into a different person than she was before. Be honest and communicate with her. I'm not guaranteeing it's all gonna be peachy rainbows and unicorns. Most likely she will dump you and go and fuck as many guys as she can as revenge.
I can't tell you what's best cause I don't know you or your gf.