Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 2154. page

get a new cat

>>18133489
Your cat is very cute, anon. Anyone who comes to this thread to post anything relating to "Oh it's just a cat" should be gassed... With that said, don't let the negativity that could be posted about your cat upset you through this rough time. You've shared a connection and it's difficult to cope with loss of a dear friend [pet]. Please know that this is not goodbye forever and that your cat will be in a better place waiting for you on the other side. Spend as much time as you can with your cat and enjoy the good memories and have no regrets. You've done everything you could and have given your cat a long, happy, healthy life. I wish you all the best and your baby, too.
t. someone who has lost many pets in her lifetime.

>>18133520
>this is not goodbye forever and that your cat will be in a better place waiting for you on the other side.
what in the fuck are you talking about? is your advice for OP seriously "invent cat heaven"?

>>18133449
feelsbadman

It's not at all too late to get an abortion at this stage.

If she doesn't want to, well, the answer to your question is "extremely".

that's why you don't quit your job. What else were you going to go to?

>18133452

I wasnt the only one who quit, the place lost 10-15 people over the course of 4 months after the cunt came. Even some managers left. Shit wasnt worth some fat cunt watching and criticizing our every move 24/7

>>18133452

that and i forgot to add, i didnt really need the job per se, now i just can have a social life like i used to. Im living at my moms place til i join the military near the end of the year. Just wanted some disposable income

>>18133430

>how do i make her go away without making her sad

find someone more attractive than you and make him niteract with her until they have chemistry and she chooses to leave you.

thats it. really, if there was some normal way to break up without emotions then you'd already know it

She knows anything with you is temporary.

Don't be a faggot, have dem experienced sexes whilst they last.
Life is too fucking short to not take any oppertunity for fun and happiness when it comes along.

>>18133427

they are actually underrated, they are treated like objects you can discard as soon as a romantic interest walks by.

>not needed?

depends on the person, but on a physical level no friends are not needed, you can live your whole life without them, though it would not be fun 99.999% of the time

>>18133427
I prefer a wide circle of acquaintances to friends. That way you get the company of people without having to commit to anything.

"Friend" is usually an euphemism, OP.

>>18133386
faggot

>>18133386
You're autistic so you missed out on getting a virgin bf when you were younger. Suck it up.

Also don't get AIDS

>>18133393
what do you suggest then

>>18133365
i wouldn't. anti depressants can help, but they also come with their own issues, which is why its a last resort.

its kind of like plastic surgery. everything could go wrong and you could be happy, but its often better to deal with issues yourself

>>18133365

I'd say wait a bit. You're finishing high school, so life will change somewhat, no matter what direction you go. Sometimes that can help. Try to introduce some changes it you can, despite the apathy and see if it helps. If it doesn't, then consider meds. Medication, however, is not a solutions in itself. They at best give you the energy to make the changes required for improvement. People who complain about them expect mircale solutions and are dissapointed when it doesn't happen.

>>18133369
From my understanding, since my problem is mild compared to others, the side effects should also be less severe. I'm willing to cope with a lot of bullshit if it's temporary and will help me enjoy life again. Unlike most people, I can't find a source for my problems, and fighting them directly looks impossible. The people in my family tree are really erratic, and I could have definitely gotten a shitty roll genetics-wise.

>>18133382
What kind of changes would you suggest? I know there's diet and exercise, but can they do more than boost your energy level and give you a temporary runner's high?

break up wtih him

>>18133340
Leave him.
If he hasn't always been this angry the rage could be from guilt. Either way end it, find someone better.

>>18133340
>but he has pushed me three times
Spaced how between those 8+ years?

If they're isolated incidents that happened between long periods of time, then it would seem that he's able to exert at least enough self-control not to go all wifebeater on you. If it's a more recent development, then it mostly seems like a matter of time.

>>18133339

why worry about whats 'alpha' when literally no one else is going to sit around saying 'WOW ANON I MEAN YOU GOT THE GIRL BUT WHATS IT MATTER SINCE IT WASN'T ALPHA?'

the truth is shes probably not interested in you. if she is just go ask her on a date.

>>18133339
Is she specifically interested in you? Or are you just one of the guys she's playing?

>>18133522
OP is probably another orbiter who thinks he has a chance.

>>18133335

marriage.

>>18133363
Won't work. I haven't had any friends for a decade: how do you expect me to find a spouse? Plus, I'm way too young for marriage (I'm 21).

Is death really a preferable option to Russia?

>>18133318

Combine what you like with what you're reasonably good with and imagine a job that would include those things. Then pick a field according to thar potential job. Studying is mostly shit, regardless of what you study, so set your goals beyond that.

beyond doctor, lawyer or scientist. I guess there's writer, film maker or musician.

I can never see myself doing any of those things. Is something wrong with me?

>>18133318
If you're in the US, the first 2 years of college are mainly required and shop-around courses, specifically to allow you to explore and discover what you want. You can get away with not declaring a major (or declaring one at random and later changing it) until as late as your third year.

>>18133310
Who the fuck cares? Genuinely?

Why do you want to get your political views from let's play youtubers?

>>18133320
Jesus christ, I need it to prove a point about how people react to certain things. An anecdotal example won't be as convincing as an actual fucking clip of someone saying X and reacting to Y.

>>18133320
Okay, here's what I was trying to do.
https://www.reddit.com/r/explainlikeimfive/comments/5ztyx0/eli5_why_is_it_more_socially_acceptable_to_be_a/
The friend thing was a white lie so I wouldn't get a bunch of "Le Reddit" shitposters, but I'm getting shitposts anyway, it seems.

Explain to him in detail why your way is better, then do it your way

>>18133255
Do it his way - he's the boss.

File: image.jpg (2MB, 3264x2448px) Image search: [Google]

2MB, 3264x2448px

>>18133255

On a side note, I've never animated before, BUT I really want to get into it. I can pay for Adobe or whatever need be

wacom

Wacom unless you're a die hard Zelda fan

>It results from a lack of purpose

What activities in life do you find worthwhile? What goals do you think are worthy of achieving?

Life doesn't have to be shallow. You can give it significance once you answer the questions above.

>>18133214

find some purpose and change your viewpoint on how shallow life is.

>>18133214
Become brad pitt from fight club. Matter of fact start a fightclub I'll join.