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There are jobs in every field as long as your willing to travel to find that job. If you are white bonus points you can easily get a job in China.

Try psychiatry instead. For one, it's an actual field of medicine and it works unlike psychology. Also, it pays better.

>>18134403

being married is not a measure of success. it can really only measure two things.

1) luck
2) idiocy

>>18134322

lol.

>>18134322

give him anal

>>18134327
To be honest I do not want to have sex with someone who has stopped caring about me. Sex to me is something special towards two people who love each other. It feels like he is just keeping me around and I am trying everything to make him happy but no matter what I do it is not good enough for him and he ends up not even saying thank you or being kind to me. He is always taking his anger out on me and belittling me infront of his family. Last week I ended up crying at his parents house because of it. To be honest I am a bit obscure in my personality but I am attractive my husband is more normal and I think what he use to find qurky and cute about me are now annoying compared to normal people.

>>18134272
You're only answerable to yourself. You're a survivor. You've chosen to keep going regardless of the pain. Don't ever allow anyone make you feel like less because you didn't know how to deal with the pain in a healthy way. You're beautiful, Anon, scars and all. Don't ever forget that. You understand me?

>>18134272
A. Cover them, anon. No one has to know.
Or B. Embrace them. Who cares what others think.


>tfw a guy wanted videos and photos of me cutting
>tfw you meet him irl years down the road
>tfw he tells you he's embarrassed to be seen with you due to your scars

>>18134272
Guys won't judge you for your scars. But if you're really thinking that these scars are gonna be a bad thing, you can cover them with a tattoo.

>>18134253

dont do it

>>18134253
Talking to her only by your phone is a good idea. Never meet her again. And if I were you, I would not talk about this to this board, but with your current girlfriend. You want to help, and only this, make it clear.

You don't want your girlfriend finding about all this by finding all the secret calls you would have with this ex gf.

>>18134253
Bump

>>18134237

whered you find it?

>>18134237

can you flip it over?

>>18134223

unless hes willing to take time off or willing to let you work there, there isnt much you can do, but even if you work there it might not be an ideal way to become friends unfortunately.

>>18134223
Work at the bar. See if he will let you in on the family business. You get some work experience, some money and time with your dad.

I've tried talking to him about working at the bar, he says that I can but I have to commit myself to school and baseball at the same time. And when I get the opportunity to work, he usually doesn't allow me to attend. Good advice though, appreciate it!

If I had some liqour i'd take a shot with ya

>>18134220

>crown royal

my favorite.

>cant even control his ability to drink
>wants to give others advice

top kek

>how much hsould i drink

its irrelevant really, the issue isn't that you havent imposed some limit its that sudden;y its all missing, as in you drink and drink and cant control yourself.

if you can contorl yourself, just find out what your limit is. if you're drunk, you dont need more booze.

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>>18134233
The problem that I have is that I get drunk and comfy. The wavy and loose feeling takes about 10 minutes to set in, and it's gone in 10 minutes. I feel entirely sober, So I just take another drink. After repeating that process 4 or 5 times the feeling will finally stick, and I'll feel that way for hours, then as it fades my stomach churns and any visual stimulation makes me nauseous. The only think that settles my stomach is another drink. But then I lay down swearing up and down that I'll never drink again because of how miserable I feel. Sometimes I can manage to sleep it off, other times I gotta vomit.

That's why my question was "how to drink to get drunk" meaning maintain that loose, energetic, expressive, wavy feeling for longer than 10 minutes without having to down a bottle and regret it later.

I've began with a single glass, I'll let you know how that goes when it's empty. I'll be tripfagging this entire board until I pass out, cheers!

>>18134193

you need to find a version of god that works for you. you just need something outside of yourself to believe in

for a lot of people, "God" is just the collective force of people... if everyone around you says "God doesn't want us to wear green" and then they all stop wearing green, what do you call that social force that stops everyone from wearing green? can you see it? touch it? no. its "God"

for other people, god is just an imaginary friend who always has your back. sometimes its nice to just believe that everything is going to be OK because reasons. and they dont think too much about it because it would shatter the illusion

and for some others god is simply that which cant be explained. we can describe so much about our universe and how it behaves and how it functions, but we cant really explain why it exists in the first place... God is the reason why existence exists. it doesnt have to make perfect sense... we are just talking monkeys after all

I think you're more looking at an ideology or a philosophy rather than a God to believe in.

>>18134227
I am a White Nationalist and I believe it would be best to raise my Children Christian the reason I want to do it is for strategy also I already follow many of the tenants of Christianity and I feel that it is the best religion for society and the most rational

>>18134190
Just because they are doing it for money doesn't give you any more legitimacy than them.

Their motivation for money can be greater than your actual genuine interest on the subject. This is how posers always seem to blow the fuck out of "real" people.

So if you're basing your entry into youtube off the foregoing reasons, you should just write, but write different things. Learn how to write a formal paper, learn how to write an epic, learn how to write a poem, learn how to write technically, learn how to write a historical essay. There's so many niches for writing that you can excel in and you don't even know it.

>>18134206
>Their motivation for money can be greater than your actual genuine interest on the subject.
But that's just taking advantage of children whose parents don't pay attention to their credit cards. It's fucking terrible.

>>18134190
Why not both? Keep writing, but try to start a YouTube channel on the side. If your channel starts to pick up and you enjoy making videos, then you can quit writing and make videos full-time.

>>18134185
So you ride mongo?

No i just switch positions in a rather dangerous manner

>tfw want to learn to skateboard to commute and maybe basic tricks for fun
>feel like I'm too old and people will laugh

I'm also so shit at the balancing on a wood on wheels thing, I stood on my friends longboard, the whole thing just flew out from under me and I took a dive, I wasn't even moving. I'd probably die on a skateboard

>>18134168

F A K E
I T
T I L L
Y O U
M A K E
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>>18134168

not really.

>>18134168

you make strides but you dont really change your personality, you just find out that more things were within your personality range than you thought.

for instance, all these people claiming to be introverted but that they are miserable becuase of it ARENT introverted. introversion means WANTING to be alone.

these people are just anxious about social interaction, not because they hate it but because they fear consequences.

becoming brave isn't really changing your personality, its just facing up to your fears or realizing they arent as scary as you thought.

you cant gain passion, you just find something you were passionate baout.

>>18134155

the question is' whats the worst that can happen?'

and i dont mean that rhetorically. seriously, if there seems to be any sign of danger, get out. if not, well we all got drama we all got therapy, its whatever. scars imply its old, not new.

either way, the biggerconcern is whether or not you get too attached. if you get too attached than you should leave cuz it will just cloud your judgement

but if you;re only dating a girl you dont really like because' i dont get many opportunities' than maybe you should just go out more.

>>18134158
I like her. I'm just treading cautiously because she's mentally ill.

It seems like your the problem if these are the kind of girls gravitating towards you. I'd say you put out a heroic rescuer vibe and these basket cases latch on and commence draining your soul.

I would head for the hills as a relationship should be between people who have their shit together and help each other grow as opposed to clinging on to one an other for dear life. Plenty of more suited girls OP keep on trucking or start speed dating at your local asylum you'll be a stud there

>>18134105

nothing wrong with strong family bonds. why do you want to stop? do you have no other social interactions?

>>18134136
There's 'strong family bonds' and there's 'being at home every single night'

>>18134184

every single night? or on fridays only?

>>18134095

>i dont think im actually attracted to the genre of porn
>i just get a rush everytime i choke the worm to it

thats exactly what it means to be attracted to the genre of porn.

speaking of which, what is the genre?

>>18134101

It's contrast to what I actually want in life.

How about you make it a rule to swallow a cup of strong olive oil or something as unpleasant every time you fap to that type of porn? Might decondition you real good

>>18134079

what did he need help with? what were your plans? is there any reason why waiting til monday is a bad idea?

when did he ask? how long did you have these plans set?

>>18134084
Basically we're going to go get some firewood. My plans were to go visit my friends one town over for the weekend. I was supposed to go visit them last weekend but I cancelled it because I helped my dad then and also had an ill-timed dentist appointment. I didn't hear anything about him wanting me to help him until tonight.

No real reason why waiting until Monday is a bad thing... I think he might also want to have somebody in the neighborhood for St. Patrick's Day, he is kind of a lonely dude since my mom died.

>>18134090

that is unfortunate, but you shouldnt cancel your plans just because your dad needs firewood, and its not urgent...

id take some more time to do some male bonding with him, but no reason to cancel this particular weekend.