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Nah I think you're fine. It's within your right to make an account on facebook in order to view her pictures. If you follow her you might be able to get her attention, though. That's what you want, isn't it?

>>18137385
I'm not using my real identity senpai, the account is fake, i don't want people to add me on that shit. I used to browse that crap a lot and well i had a beef with some people so i'd rather avoid them. I made that account just for her.

>>18137377
your thought process is normal, you met a cute girl and you want to get to know her better.

now you can either:

a.) make a fake facebook profile, view all her posts, photos, friends, and interests only to creep her out when you mention that you also like (random fact you found out via facebook)

or

b.) talk to her like a normal human being and find mutual interests to see if you guys hit it off


up to you

As people mature their intrests change. Find some new friends who enjoy the things you enjoy.

You will only hurt your relationship with your current friends if you have to force yourself to hang out with them doing something you dislike. Its better to only see them from time to time than to slowly destroy your friendship.

>>18137343
I was thinking the same, but I am afraid that I could not find other friends who actually like to do the same things as me. I guess I'll have to try anyways

>>18137353
There are always people who are interested in the same things as you. It's just a matter of finding them.

What do you like? You said you would play soccer so whats stopping you from finding some random soccer team and joining in with them?

>>18137327
lol that is bulimia but ok

>>18137327
Yes it is bad. Aside from all the psychological issues, every episode of vomiting, deliberate or not, forces stomach acids into the esophogus and mouth, where they can cause real physical damage. Vomiting is something to be avoided, not opted for.

You could always just eat properly.

>>18137318
>Paranoid people are really creative in identifying potential dangers because of good habits, they are very carefull and tend to anticipate things.

>These people might have difficulties judging the probability of dangers because of bad experiences overcoming good ones. But because they never really know at the moment if they are wrong, they tend to keep being satisfied by these habits of paranoia.

>A lot of trends are built like that in brains, when something is biased by layers of filters in informations: there's so much informations that you can always find some that suits the view you choosed to have. And on a lot of subjects it's easy to ignore something that is going against your views because you already have a lot of informations supporting yours.

>You can be a really good and honest paranoid person, there's no real limit to your control over your actions and thoughts because of brain plasticity and the ability to switch between fight/flight responses.

>Sometimes paranoid people build a trend over watching closely your actions because of bad habits, you might be the target of someone you like hiding a deep distrust in your actions. When this happen they tend to always ask out loud why is XXX this way even if you didn't touch XXX, naive people think they are just sharing an anomaly around and keep on going without justifying themselves, which cause the paranoid person to build more and more distrust over time to the point of frontal confrontation.
The point of confrontation is really simple, it's when bad things about you overcome good ones in number (backed by science again even if basic).

>Some people might like you and still get to the point of confrontation (or sadly they just flight).

>>18137318
>The fighting kind of human always keeps expressing what's wrong and thus maintain very useful communications with very little voluntary omits, they evolve in social universes where confrontation is far from being bad and can come up as mean while in fact are helping you in a usefull way according to them. They can be very annoying and persuasive but are good people to have around, not hesitating one second to attack you in a mean-because-true manner and thus providing very useful informations about how you come up.

>It's sometimes usuful if you're a bit socially detached to take care of what your surrounding think about you to keep cooperate without having the bad surpise of treason. You're right justifying yourself with insistance when needed.

>Also things that might come up to you as hypocrite like making a scene to look sorry to someone is very important for them to build trust.

>Insistance always work by creating a trend in people brain, greatly influencing their decision over time.

>A Man can use his internal philosophy to justify any of his actions, he keeps a kind of story about his world and life in his head.

>Finding a dominative (the author don't like this aggressive word but it's a peaceful kind of dominance) view of the world throught things like art and memes is a good thing to add to your "personal story" if you sometimes feel bad and need to be reminded good things (the author like The Elder Scrolls series and Pepe to feel comfy in stressfull conditions).

>Brains works with trends, with different things being at the center of your attention depending on what you've experienced (even seen or heard) the most.

>This is why repeating any stupid thing or requests to the point of facing victory is a pattern that emerge in all (including CIA ones) manipulation handbooks.

>>18137318
>This is also while attention in any form is important to humans and non-humans(like big companies). They need to be heard. A lot of successfull researchs done on habits and memory were funded by marketters. And everyone has scientifically been proven to desire attention and influence on others while being influenced and lied to on a daily basis by his surrounding.

>We naturally are harder on other than on us and thus are natural hypocrites that lie to everyone including ourselves (on a daily basis again).

>In fact lying to yourself is part of construction your ego and your view of yourself and shape your actions.

>Brain plasticity is the ability for your neurones to let receive a lot more informations (strenght of the link) in a path when a lot as already arrived with success, causing your actions to reproduce an approximative approach of victory by sending "energy" to the same path and generating an output from a sort of fingerprint.

>Each time information is going throught a path, the brain estimates the difference between what happened and what was expected and push the "strenght" value of the path in a direction depending on the emotional response, which can be seen as a number (positive or negative).

>In fact you can do crazy detection or prediction algorithms with this simple principle. (Just remind to always work the shit out of your input data to have the most useful and pre processed informations).


>One of the rare things everybody's equal against no matter education or social class is the ability to doubt or falsifiate its own memory.

>A lot of your memories are false, especially old ones.

>>18137249
Facebook.
>but that is place filled with hate, politics, photos of old people with ilnesses and teenagers bullshit
Welcome to the normie world. Enjoy while you can.

I guess the older you get the less there is remaining worth talking about with others.

any board on 4chan other than /b, /r9k, /v, or /pol

>>18137247
Keep going and don't stop everything with her. If you do, you'll be hurt, you may potentially hurt her, and you'll hurt yourself, since you like her a lot. At the same time if you continue and there's a chance she's a manipulative bitch, she'll also hurt you. Worst case scenario you might as well stay in the relationship if you really like her and get the experience. Learn to see the signs, get a little relationship mileage. Keep an eye open, however.

Well, what's her name, Anon? Where'd you guys meet? Have you talked to anyone who spreads this information? Researched any of it for yourself? Unless you have more to go on, you have to give her the benefit of the doubt.

do your thing, but be cautious.

The only way you can get hurt is if you build up your expectations.

>>18137240
>I know if I seek companionship it is going to turn sour, that is a fact, there is nothing I can do about it as it is completely out of my control
Well with an attitude like that it won't jesus christ.

You obviously aren't someone who can handle or enjoy a life like that. The only people who can live alone without any companionship are people who aren't bothered by the idea in the first place. Have fun making yourself miserable I guess

>>18137257
I guess I might as well explain it.. I have watched every single one of my relationships crumble and fall completely out of my control. I have dark forces working against me in high places.

All I'm asking is, how do you not fall into despair? Do you also live a life like this one? Making myself miserable was not my decision I can assure you no matter how badly you want it to be.

>>18137265
>I have dark forces working against me in high places
No you don't. You were just a fuckup or made bad choices. I can't fucking stand people who blame everything but themselves for their own problems. You'll never solve anything that way.

You're a type of person who craves companionship, period. A person like that wouldn't be happy living in isolation. There are people that exist that are fine with that life, but they're relatively uncommon and there's no real way for you to become one, maybe if you get a lobotomy or something. I can't teach you to not want to be around people.

>>18137186
Addendum:
cute smurfy/bubble butt = my little cute gf

>>18137186
You just posted this before and got no help because you might aswell figure it out by yourself.
But yea i am bored.
You know girls don't usually do that, they usually find pictures of your body hotter than your dick, chances are she wants to make sure it has a decent size and no std's kinda like you want to check for mold on a house before you buy it.

Or she is not really down to earth and so untroverted that she thinks dick pics are normal because of the online presence

>>18137175
You're confusing two separate things.

First, unless you're a millionaire, you and your boyfriend will have very simple tax returns you can do yourself - or go to the tax office and they'll grumble a little but do it for you.

The separate question has to do with HER taxes, not yours. If she still supports him at least 50%, or if he's still a student, she can claim him as a dependent and get a tax deduction. This has NOTHING to do with his reurn and less than nothing to do with yours.

>>18137416
But we are living with her temporarily. He isn't in school and we both work. Seems pointless. We offer to pay rent but she refuses except when water bill is high. Also we are mid 20's. Only thing she asks is that we don't sleep in the same room together.

>>18137464
None of that has ANYTHING to do with the tax question.

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>>18137140
A fan is the only cure to this >>18137151

>>18137140
I've had it for a little bit over a year. I spent the first few months suicidally depressed, but I eventually came to terms with it. You will have tinnitus forever and if a cure is developed it will likely be out of your reach. The sooner you come to terms with it the better. Baby your ears and distance yourself from hearing centric hobbies. No headphones. Ever.

>>18137134
Kill her

2/3 The following week, I was driving through Tucson and decided to surprise her at work. I called the mall and she recognized me via area code. When I walked into her work, I asked if she was going to do anything afterwards and she said she was tired and going home. I asked her if she wanted to have breakfast together and she said sure. I spent the night in Tucson and the following morning she texted me saying that she got called into work early. Though worried if I had done anything wrong, I went home.
The following month, I was at another show in Tucson and I dropped by again and she seemed to be in a better mood. Twenty One Pilots was still sold out and she had not gotten her ticket, so I told her that I would get her in for free. She chuckled and said "We'll see about that."

>>18137145
This shit ain't happening just leave her alone

>>18137047

just make up something that sounds good. no one actually gives a shit.

>>18137049
should I copy and paste one from the internet?

>>18137050

idk man, bagging groceries is srs bsns and they will know. jk no one GIVES A FUCK

>>18137044
A little bit of context-

>guy used to bully me in school
>would make offhand comments about anything I’d say in class
>this was when I was blindly following the early roots of ‘sjw’; ’BLM’ and feminism.
>hatred for him was so strong
>have since changed DRASTICALLY, in opinion, in demeanour, in looks
>have gone right-wing for most politics
>I used to be very vocal about my opinions
>now I just sit and listen to other people and make silent judgements
>lost 11kgs, got my hair cut to something a little more my-age

Basically I've had a bit of a 'transformation', but he hasn't been chasing after me or anything, he just shows a little bit more interest and is a little warmer towards me than he used to be.

>>18137044

send him a pic of your tits

>>18137051
He's not into whores, plus that's fucking awkward, having to see him in class the next day.

Unless she aborts or miscarries:

Your brother is going to beat the shit out of you
He's going to dump the girlfriend and you're going to be paying child support to her
And your family is going to disown you and never talk to you again

and also any friends that hear about it will never talk to you again

>cucking your own brother
That is some sick shit right there man

>>18136918
Half yo money fu jed dude.

>>18136918
I'd recommend to have her abort. Make her come up with a good reason.

Then after the abortion.... A smooth while later. Tell her to break up with your brother or you'll tell her.

Then when you're 60 you can tell your brother and then at least lived a few decades before being murdered.

Nice job dipshit

>>18136905
Do you think you'd be willing and able to beat him up in a fair fight, if a confrontation came to that?

>the cops catching him isn't a guarantee
don't people put fucking everything on their facebook? i'd say he's as good as caught