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There's really no option except forcing yourself to quit cold turkey and trying to fill your free time with something else.

Weed addiction is real and weed withdrawals are real. It just takes time to rewire your brain to enjoy things again w/o pot. I know >leddit but try /r/leaves

>>18148535

i like to smoke but i dont do it when i cant

>>18148550
thats what I've been trying to do, been hitting the gym harder/ ordered some new parts for my car and stuff. I always feel like it would be funner/easier if I was baked. I've been to leaves, but I almost find it depressing.

>>18148573
That's how it started; first its was just a g on the weekend, then an 1/8th or so I could smoke at night then before I knew it I was rolling up 2 blunts every morning to bring with me when I go to work.

Mate for the love of God leave that slag.

>>18148463

you dont trust her, may as well dump her

>>18148463
DO NOT DATE GIRLS WITH EX PROBLEMS

>>18148460

id have trouble believing it, doesn't make sense to hide it.

that being said if you've been functional all this time then go along iwth it.

Just try and understand that they did what they thought was best for you, and had really no idea of how to handle it properly.

I'm autistic and have never gotten a diagnosis. Literally went 20 years thinking I was just a little different, and yet, that is essentially all that autism is (unless it's incredibly severe).

>>18148460
It would explain a lot, actually, but I wouldn't let it hinder my current social life, because I've built a pretty good one.

Hmm, maybe.
I suggest you try a completely different type of martial arts. Maybe Capoeira.

If you're not that flexible for martial arts yet you need to make some exercices to build up your body then you can practice some style of fighting.

Don't give up tough.

Wtf dude that's barelly time to survive the warmup... you'll still take a lot of time to actually improve, it's quite common for people to stay like two years in the white belt...

don't even stress OP
try to have a good time and listen to your teachers
training your body on the side can always help

it's important to note that you only start to get the grasp at something that requires skill after around 1000 hours of practice at that activity. That includes sports, a craft, art, driving, etc. after that you're no longer a scrub, your brain has reflexes and a method of thinking warped around the "meta" of what you're doing.

I'll say you should give it an year before you start worrying about your fight scoring. martial arts is discipline, that's a fucking given but to actually do it for real is the real challenge there

good luck

I want to believe. Just do it.

Yes. He will think your impressed and try to seduce you, also ask for a contract that says no nudity. He gets no women in his life so he has to make it look lile he dose so he can validate himself in his rap video. Insecure narcissust with money to blow. REQUEST FOR A CONTRACT the states you dont have to be nude and that states the price he is paying you.

>>18148458
If you're not white, go for it.

>>18148450
>stole pills from someone else
>i-i'm not an addict!

lmao get fucked druggie

>>18148483
the person that moved out was made aware that he had left them. He didnt want them.

>>18148450
They should get a lawyer. 5k to get a dui lawyer and not have licensed revoked or lose license and lose 10k of earnings.

If this 'aquaintance' has rich family, this would be the time to ask for help with legal stuff and substance abuse.

>>18148432

talk to your doctor about low T

>>18148449
well, i expected a more constructive answer...

ok, could alcohol consumption have anything to do with this?

>>18148432
Vacation in Bangkok, Thailand for a few weeks. You will be approached by so many girls/hookers who are trained from a young age to approach white guys, that you won't fear being approached by women again.

>>18148421

efficient? what does that even mean in terms of friendships? more friends per second? more friends per post?

>>18148421
Some hobby forum, which involves actual meetups?

>meetup.com

>your city's subreddit (inb4 lmao 'le leddit banned xD'

Make real friends, it's easier and more fun.
Online friends probably by playing steam multiplayer games and co-op.

>>18148399
Um, yeah. What do you call the average American?

>>18148399
go into STEM

>>18148404

how do gay males fair in stem?

I always have liked science + math

>>18148381
I mean if you guys didn't talk about exclusivity right off the bat, then you should just let it slide. I've been in that position though and it does hurt because I'm sure she was all "You're amazing", "I really like you", bla, bla. And it's not so much that she was seeing someone else and chose you over him(congrats), but rather knowing that she was likely saying and doing the same things with him. Either way, she chose you. Feel proud and do your best.

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>>18148381
Why are you angry, OP?

She didn't have any obligation at all to be faithful to somebody she wasn't dating.

Just chill out. Not really a big deal.

last time I checked, it just gave you the person you texted with last.

I just checked the page source and "orderedfriends" returned nothing

Yeah, you wish.

On another note, it seems the system orders your contacts based in multiple parameters and rumors say that one of those parameters is "people who check your fb often", it's only a rumor though.

I do get the people I often talk with but sometimes it displays people I don't even follow next to my frequent contacts. One time I had the chance to see something strange.

>walking around
>see friend I haven't seen in a while
>greet and talk for a while before saying goodbye
>the next days she started to show up in my chat contact list on fb despite not chatting with her for years

never checked her profile or anything related before or after meeting her in person

>>18148324
I really cant help with the stress situation. I get that too every time im going to be in a new situation and it will fuck up my stomach :(

How old are you?

>>18148333
24
it wasnt hard getting my ged but every time i tried i got these massive panick attacks and hid in the bathroom because i couldnt stand being over 20 in a room with better, younger people than me
it wasnt hard as in content, it was hard as i couldnt stand it

If you're doing what makes you happy and what you believe is right, it doesn't matter when you do it. Just because you found a certain path doesn't make you less than those that found it earlier than you. Try not to compare yourself to others, because your life is not theirs, and their life is not yours. All trees try to grow towards the sun, yet you see all kinds of crazy shapes. Some trees are perfectly straight, and some take drastic turns. They're all great to look at because they all took a great journey to get there.

>>18148285
Stop making moves on the same girl, OP. Also, I fucked your mom 7 times in a row.

>>18148290
Different girls
I'd rather have you fuck my mom than someone with dick

>>18148299
So what's the adv you looking for, champ?

Go reserve. People who go active generally KNOW they wanna go AD

>>18148356

not sure how they KNOW active is for them when they haven't experienced it yet

Have you ever watched a wounded warrior commercial

I think your main problem is your autism. Last time I checked there is no cure.

>>18148243
18
You're 18 and you think you know so much shit because you've learned a couple terms. You don't know how things work friend. Go through college and then think about it.

>>18148280
If I knew how to do it already I wouldn't be asking here.

It can't be impossible. Otherwise there would be no millionaires.