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So I'll be studying one year in one of these countries. But I'm not sure.

Pardubice/Czech Republic
-Seems like a small town.
-Even tough Pardubice is not a big city, Czech Republic is literally in the middle of Europe. You can go to many other countries.
-Czech Republic is cheap, so Pardubice as a town will be even cheaper. (Compared to Europe)
-But I don't know much about Pardubice.

Riga/Latvia
-Riga is the capital city of Latvia. So there's quite bit more stuff there.
-Latvia is not as central as Czech Republic. Some of the neighboring countries(Nordics) are reeaally expensive.
-There are lot's of girls compared to men and as a number in general, in Latvia and 1-2 of the neighboring countries.
-Slightly more expensive than Pardubice, but still kinda cheaper than Europe.
-The corruption cases in both Latvia and neighboring countries.

Do you know anything about those places?

And so which one do you think would be better?
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Go to Czech
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>>18149358
Why?
I like the Czech Rep. but Pardubice maybe too small.
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>>18149351
I bet you are uni student who wants to travel instead of study via erasmus.

The only uni in Pardubice
https://www.upce.cz/english/university/univ-figures.html
>small city argument
8500 students
So if you plan on banging hot slavic beauties, there will be around 4000 girls around you (mostly in economics and phylosophy) and dorm capacity 1600 beds, so lets say 800 girls next to your bed :-D

Also everybody on
>>>/int/ knows that Czechia is confirmed for the most comfy country ever.

I dont know what your plans are, but Pardubice is 90 000 people. Yea it is small city, but that also means you can go to a lot of places by foot, low / no crime and very quiet place.

Also you havent written where are you from, so i cant tell you if you will find anything here different from your place.

T. Czech.

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Hello. I have one little problem, I am only attracted to anorexic girls. And no, not skinny. Literally anorexic. I am obsessed with them. And I feel disgust to any others, because they are too fat. I had relationship with skinny girl, but it wasn't easy for me to fuck her, because she was still too fat. I tried to make her ana, but she dumped me after losing 6 kg (she was only 41 kg with 165 height). Yeah, I know, I shouldn't do this, I promise I won't in the future.
And it is rather difficult to find ana girl. Not underaged and proana is rare. I am spending much time of my life just for searching one, and I feel that's wrong, that I need to do smth more meaningful than searching for girls, I am not a fucking teenager. But I can't stop, because I love them.
As for me, I am not ana. People often asked me this. I am underweight, but if I become fully ana, I won't be able to earn money, so I can't, at least for now, untill I have hope to find my ideal girl.
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wtf is that pic fucking real??? that terrifying and sick and shit, i know anorexia is a sickness, but FUCK.
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you must be super low test
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Enjoy getting triggered and cleaning the vomit off your monitor

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I just don't have what women are looking for. Women look to dudes for entertainment and what not. I am just not that guy.

I also have a lack of desire. I really have no desire to travel or like go see concerts or whatever women want to do.

You know what I want to do? Lay in bed, sleep and contemplate. You know what my ideal vacation is? It snowing or raining for a week straight while I lay in bed and just sleep in perfect cool but warm air.

I am frustrated because women want so much out of me but honestly, my enjoyment from that stuff is so little that if I forced myself to travel or go see dumb concerts or whatever... I would for sure go crazy by the end of it. I actually despise traveling so much that I can't even fathom traveling one state over. Let alone a whole nother fucking nation.

What is it that women want from me? I have never managed to attract one. I think they pick up on the fact that I don't have jack shit going in terms of "fun".

What the fuck do they want me to do? I hate having to entertain people.
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What you want is nice, but not all the time. You need a balance, and you need to be prepared to compromise
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>>18149225

I don't understand. I would never make someone do something they didn't want to do. So why would people try to make me do shit like travel when they know I hate it? Am I the stubborn one?

Am I damaged?
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>>18149229
A relationship is never going to work if one person demands that everything goes their way all the time. I would hope that every mature adult is aware of this.

Plus, your wants just aren't that common, pretty much everyone doesn't want to lie in bed all day. Even if you do meet a girl who wants that all the time, it's very unlikely you'll be compatible in every other way too. Life isn't a Disney movie.

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I got a really cute much, way more cuter tha normally

How do I not fuck it up? I usually say hi or make a stupid/funny/bad/whatever opener and then they just ignore me or unmatch me so how do I fix this for once in my life?
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also im 26 and shes 20
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nvm i already said something

now i just wait untill she unmatches me
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>>18149199
Get down into the business.

>"Im going out for a drink. Wanna join me?"
>proceed to go out for a drink if she's into it. If not, start swiping some more.

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Is it safe to take two 200mg caffeine pills at once? Will it get me high?

I've been off ADD meds for a while, and I miss the rush so much. I hate life.
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caffeine doesn't get you high high.

and a 200mg pill is about 10 cans of Cocacola in caffeine.

probably not a good idea over a sustained period.

which add meds were you using.
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>>18149116
Vyvanse
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>>18149132
I heard of a guy's dog died eating that.

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>be a retard
>manage to lose a girls interest
>pretty sure it was when I revealed how attractive she was to me in a blunt and probably "too much too soon" kind of way
>also paranoid I may have cucked myself by mentioning an acquaintance to her that now she seemed a bit too interested in

Kill me, Pete. Also tell me what the fuck I do now.
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How long did you know her
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>>18149106
Four months
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>>18149096
Move on, meet other girls. That's really the best solution for you my friend

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Ok so I am in an online class at USC in California and my professor is in Boston. Fucking Boston! Do I have a right to be upset at the school that the teacher is not in the same state as me? I need to meet with the professor weekly in office hours for help with the class. This class was not held in person this semester and is a late start one.
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You can complain, but you're not going to get anywhere with it. It's an online course, and it's probably an online course BECAUSE the professor is in Boston. You knew what you were getting yourself into when you signed up. Why don't you just email them if you need help?
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>>18149087
Because I cant learn through reading I have OCD. I need to be physically shown how to do the spreadsheets.
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>>18149082
Sure, you have a right to be upset. But the reality of the situation is that your professor has clearance from the university to be where they are. So too bad for you. Your only option is to complain to the dean of your major/program. The feedback may get them thinking about the ramifications of letting professors teach from remote locations. But I doubt it. This is pretty standard shit. I've had numerous professors teach from across the globe. Most recently, a professor taught an online course while doing a research project in Ireland. It wasn't ideal but whatever. It's an online class. It's pretty much expected you won't get facetime with a professor in an online course.

Don't take online courses in the future if you are the type of student who needs to meet a professor in person to resolve issues. I get it, in this case you couldn't help it. Oh well. That's life. Not everything always goes to plan or is ideal. This is a tiny thing in the grand scheme of things. Ask your professor if you can set up Skype, Google Hangouts or phone calls each week so you can get help.

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hi adv, i don't come here often but not sure where else to ask.
is there correlation between nutrition and having healthy sex drive, if so to what extent?
i'm pretty much asexual by their textbook definition, don't think about sex, don't carve it, don't masturbate, don't have fantasies.
i got my period pretty late (last year of high school) so for the first couple years till i was 22 or so i thought it was normal and involved hormones and stuff related. my periods were very irregular, i was lucky if i got them 3 times a year, i did blood tests every couple months because i was a vegetarian back then but they came out ok.
25 now, doing my masters and for the past 5 years i had really bad nutrition mainly because i couldn't afford it budget wise and time wise, i both study and work, and support myself pretty much on my own.
my average meals look like energy drinks, non sugar coffee and occasional take outs couple times a week. i'm underweight by general standards but it doesn't bother me.
i had few boyfriends along the years, but it never worked because i wasn't interested in sex.
i'm starting to feel pretty lonely and strained for being alone, didn't date anyone for over 2 years. it didn't bother me before but now i'm starting to have these small panic attacks sometimes when i wake up in the morning that i'm going to stay alone for the rest of my life.
i'm not sure if i want to go seek professional help, i'm scared they will blame it on me being anorexic because i'm underweight (15.5 bmi) but i like my figure as it is. i also don't want to get on hormonal drugs, it's my last year doing masters and i don't want to fuck it up by messing with these stuff.
anyone in similar situation or been in it? if so what was your experience and if there is a way to fix it.
sorry for the long wall of text
>inbefore date another asexual
idk where to find them except dating sites which i'm too embarrassed to join
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>>18149077
I love these threads where all the problems and solutions are in plain sight.

>missing / irregural periods
>vegetarian
>5 years of bad nutrition
>energy drinks
>coffe
>oats
>no libido
>15 bmi

So even though you are clever 25 year old girl with strong enough dedication to not drop from uni, you really cant figure this out?

So i will tell you. The question is if you will take my words seriously.
>15 bmi
You are underweight. That is not ok. Your body is so weak, it cant even do periods and hormones right. And before you tell me your body is good looking that is wrong. You as a hetero girl can only judge males bodies. I bet you dont even have boobs, hips or ass.

So to solve your libido, you have to give your body energy first, so it can build its hormones (and sexy figure mind you). So i suggest you to start eating 3 times per day + snacking. Throw away energy drinks (they only masks your exhaustion) and stop doing coffe. I bet you will feel like faiting / zombie without these chemical boosts.

Start eating healthy: ham, cheese, bread, eggs, full milk, 100% apple / orange juice, peanuts, chicken, pig, fish, butter, chocolade. The more fat the better for your body. All of this is cheap. In time your body will regain its ability to produce hormones (they are made from fats btw) and with it you may actually gain boobs and hips and even your libido. Do not stop eating until you hit at least 18bmi. The optimum is around 20bmi combined with sport, but you will do that after uni with your new bf.

>die alone
You are girl. All you have to do is to be avaiable. Go to online dating with one photo of yoursef and then you just give answers to some cute boy from 999 replies. Remember, until.you answer them, there is nothing to be afraid of.

But now you have to eat or literally die of maulrishment.
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There is a thread up right now about a guy only into anorexic girls. Go get him girl! !!
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>>18149477
>You are underweight. That is not ok. Your body is so weak, it cant even do periods and hormones right. And before you tell me your body is good looking that is wrong. You as a hetero girl can only judge males bodies. I bet you dont even have boobs, hips or ass.
>So to solve your libido, you have to give your body energy first, so it can build its hormones (and sexy figure mind you). So i suggest you to start eating 3 times per day + snacking. Throw away energy drinks (they only masks your exhaustion) and stop doing coffe. I bet you will feel like faiting / zombie without these chemical boosts.
>Start eating healthy: ham, cheese, bread, eggs, full milk, 100% apple / orange juice, peanuts, chicken, pig, fish, butter, chocolade. The more fat the better for your body. All of this is cheap. In time your body will regain its ability to produce hormones (they are made from fats btw) and with it you may actually gain boobs and hips and even your libido. Do not stop eating until you hit at least 18bmi. The optimum is around 20bmi combined with sport, but you will do that after uni with your new bf.

There are some problems here that are spawned from ignorance.

First, Quitting energy drinks and shit like that cold turkey can actually fuck you up, depending on how much you are relying on them for basic nutrition supplements. Honestly, I'd see a doctor about your issues, if you're able.

Second: You do not need to add meat to your diet to gain weight and eat more healthy. You can just eat better within the dietary restrictions you currently hold yourself to for whatever reason. I know plenty of healthy weight vegans and vegetarians (and am one).

The first point this poster makes is kind of right, but has a lot of superfluous info after the meat of the point. You're underweight, and that's bad. Your body is consuming more resources than necessary doing things like keeping you warm and alive, so it doesn't have energy left for normal processes like periods.

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Give me a name or a phrase to put on a shirt. Make it as dark as possible and at the same time, deep as hell. I'm too much of a retard to think of one so I'll assume you guys have my back;) (emma to attract attention)
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>>18149076
If you can't beat them, arrange to have them beaten.
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>>18149083
Age is a question of mind over matter. If you don't mind, age don't matter.
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>>18149076
Zu viele Köche verderben den Brei

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Where do I start if I want to get into Warhammer 40k and how do I do it cheap

I have some knowledge on the series but I'd really like to lean about the lore, and start collecting without paying a huge pricetag
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/tg/
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>>18149063
buy an army from someone looking to get out of the game.
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>>18150198
This. I recommend ebay or craigslist to pick up armies on the cheap. CL is usually a little cheaper, but with less choice. If you're interested in getting the whole experience (modeling, painting, playing), the cheapest way is via chinese recasts. They can be a little tricky to find at first, and you'll have to wait a few months for your shit to get through customs, but you can get stuff for about 1/3-1/2 the price of new geedubs.

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My girlfriend wants me to do shrooms with her and I've never done them before. What should I expect and is there anything I should know before I do them?
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Dont eat beforehand.
Do drink some orange juice when you take them.
Also, have a plan. Have some movies ready, music, maybe plan to take a walk.

Once you take them be sure to enjoy the trip.
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>>18149046
Just don't do it in a spooky house. Things can get weird. It can take about 45 min. - 1 hour to kick in. You will likely see patterns moving first.
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>>18149046
Do NOT look in a mirror. If u have to pee just look down. If you start feeling too high and get panicky, just keep telling yourself you are fine and to ride the wave and enjoy the high. Drink water. Nature walks are amazing.

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i am going thru a divorce and i can no longer afford to pay my attorney. how can i legally stopt them form operating on my behalf?
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You tell them...?
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Tell him you cant afford his services
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>>18149044
tell them what? i asked them to stop answering the plaintiff... but i thought i needed a legalease

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I've been feeling like shit lately, and with no interest for anything whatsoever; just glued on the bed all day long. This has been going on for four months already, and my main worry is if this behaviour is affecting my mental health.

Is it normal to have murder thoughts towards people at least once? It cannot be a coincidence that in the moment I have to deal with any kind of social interaction I either try to avoid it, or else my whole day goes to shit.

Every single day is the same thing: they need my help with something, they need my advice about something, they call me for such thing, etc. But every time I call for someone else's help, they always tell me to do it myself, or I get screamed/insulted at. Not only for friends, but for my family also.

People have been calling me a worthless piece of shit and I've been ignoring this all the time, but sometimes I can't help myself but think how would it feel to see them suffer like the way they do it with me.

I've been having this headache for a long time too. It's weird because I tried it with pills against it, and sleeping doesn't help either. But I guess it's because of stress tho.

Also, I've been having these escapism sessions more often than when I was younger, and hearing myself talking to nothing is more common than usual now.

The thing is: do I have to check me up with a professional? Or can I do it by myself?
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This is my first time posting here. I don't know if there's any rules to follow.
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>>18149025
do you by any chance sit around PC for more than 8 hrs a day? If so, that maybe your answer.
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>>18149067
I don't have a PC for the moment. I'm not interested in buying one either.

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So kinda a long story but I started to hangout with a girl in our friend group just us two. It was nothing past a friendship we both knew that, but it was alot of fun, we have the same humor, we get along easily, we can sit in a room just quiet watching tv and it's perfectly fine. Well anyway the issue here is I kept asking her to hangout. Like 2-3 times a week regardless of it being a yes or a no. Sometimes she say yes to hangout other times a no.

Last week I asked her a few times and got all no's. I started to notice all the times I asked her and how she never asked me, like maybe once or twice. I started to think oh maybe she doesn't want to hangout that badly but then it didn't make sense because she would tell me yes sometimes.

I think I fucked up hard because I asked her if I was annoying her by always asking and she said "I rather you wait until I want to hangout instead of just asking" to which I said but you never really ask me so I don't get what that means. Then she said how she feels like she won't have she energy most times to hangout all night with me but it turns out just fine. Then she must of thought I was pissed at her in the way I said that to her so she ended with I'm not placating you. I told her I'm not doing this to make you make me feel better it was just to make sure I wasn't getting you annoyed or pissed off at me but I think that happened anyway from me asking. Then I told her sorry and then she didn't say nothing else. Well it's been a week since we talked and idk what to do.

I think it's one of these choices of why she hasn't said a word in a week. It's only weird because we used to text at least everyday even just random memes.
She's either
>Pissed at me
>thinks I'm pissed at her
>busy with til ( least likely since she doesn't go to school and barely works)
>depression is acting up again
>met a guy online and is talking to him

That's literally all the choices I could think of.
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>>18149014
I can't just ask her first, I'm waiting for her to say something first honestly but idk how long it'll take. She may think I'm pissed though because Tuesday she sent a video for a anime we like and I didn't respond to it just left it read, idk why but I didn't feel like responding.
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>>18149014
Wait for her to make a move.

>>18149018
>idk why but I didn't feel like responding.

What are you, a fucking woman? That was your opening. Dipshit.
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>>18149019
See I was thinking about waiting but wanted to see other views on it. But I'm starting to break. Like every day I check my phone all the time waiting for a text, it's been a week and nothing at all. I am holding back just texting her something random or whatever to start a convo but something inside of me is holding me back and I have no idea what it is.

In an effort to try to make friends after moving to a new city, i started playing in a weekly game night at a local game. It's been about a year and everyone seems to like me well enough though no one invites me to hang out outside of the games. There's even someone I've had a crush on that i thought might like me too.

That never bothered me until tonight when someone started openly talking about a party and it quickly became clear i was one of maybe two people not invited. The host even stiffened when they brought it up like he was bracing for awkwardness. I pretended like i didn't hear or care because I'm a cuck like that, but I'm devastated and crying a bit.

What do i do? Do i stop going to game night and try to invest my time and attention elsewhere? Do i try to be more likeable and open? I'm feeling kind of childish right now so i don't want to make any decisions, but I'm fucking stung to the core.
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>>18149006
Why don't you ask people to hang out? It's a two way street my dude
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>>18149033
I know, but there's a small core group that i was expecting to take the lead should we ever hang out outside of the game store....and they did, apparently, they just didn't include me.

I don't have a big apartment, so i can't host anything really. I'm not really a leader. The other people invited i thought were essentially on the same rung as me. The other guy who (I believe) wasn't invited is kind of annoying and off putting, and while i don't think it's cool to do that to him either, I'm kind of in shock that I'm apparently on his level.

I thought about texting the guy I'm friendliest with to ask if i did something wrong, but i feel like that would at best net me a pity invite or just make me feel worse or both.
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>>18149006
There's nothing wrong with asking the dude you're friendliest with if you're being excluded from other things. However, maybe the people at the game night think that since you haven't asked them if you could tag along or something, they could think you're either not interested, or too busy. Not everyone is an asshole, some people just aren't proactive, especially to newer people.

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