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How hard is it working as a webdev? I'm a CS major and I've worked with many languages, but honestly doing front end webdev stuff seems the most fun to me. I wouldn't say I'm great at anything yet, but I am learning. At what point would I know when I'm ready to apply for a job?
I just started learning maybe a month ago so I know I have a lot to do before I even try to apply. I also have no experience with back end stuff and barely any with things like photoshop.
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>>18151622
The market for people with a CS major is pretty huge, so I feel like you should be fine. Go to some workshops to hone your skills though.
On a side note, is that picture from gundam f91?
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>>18151651
>On a side note, is that picture from gundam f91
I have no idea. I just saved it because the design looked nice. I haven't watched Gundam f91 yet.
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and btw, What do you think are the required skills for being a front end dev? I'm kinda good in designing with Bootstrap and such.
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How do I stop my insecurities and self esteem issues from turning me into a slut? I know its retarded as hell but I feel like I need to seek validation from others and by doing this I want to flirt with guys, post nudes online, etc., just to know if I'm actually good enough and attractive. My logical side of me obviously doesn't want to do this because I want respect and I don't want my naked body all over the internet. Is there anyway to get rid of these self esteem issues and or anyway to be able to at least block them out so I don't do anything stupid? No one has been mean to me about my looks and nothing traumatic has happened to me so i don't know what the fuck is wrong with me for feeling so horrible about it.
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i dont give a fuck
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Make your diet consistent of only my cum and water for a month will help you out
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>>18151618
get in a long term relationship, put this energy into that. simple.
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Girlfriend and I broke up (i dumped her), 2 days later she sucked a past hookups dick. The same day we broke up she was talking to another guy from her College and sending him nudes and on live camera nude. I was a dick to her when we broke up but ended up begging her back. We got back together 4 hours later after she sucked this guy. Didn't tell me until I found out through a friend and she confessed everything she did and showed me her messages.
I feel hurt and betrayed but is this okay because we weren't together? We got back together 4 hours later. She has so much remorse and guilt - she's been crying for 3 days straight and had a breakdown today about it. I want to forgive her because I love her but I can't get the images out of my head. She's been doing so much for after this like taking me out, buying me shit and wrote me a massive letter and brought me flowers (lol). Our relationship was good and she always told me how much she loved me but I think she is emotionally unstable and doesn't know how to say no when in the moment of things. She told she went to this guys house to 'talk' and that happened.
Then she dumped me a couple days later emotionally, tried to go on a date with a guy and failed and then came back to me because I begged her back basically because I was unaware of what happened.
Is there a chance things will work out? I love her but I can't see her the same. Is this considered cheating because we weren't together or am I just trying to rationalize being a cuck? Like I said, I love her and our memories and I don't want to give that up. It was a good relationship, we had our bad moments I just really believe she doesn't know how to say no and fucked up hard. If you want more info on what happened, just ask. I need someone to discuss this with.
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You're an idiot. You say you love here, but you don't know what love is, and neither does she, if this is how you treat each other.
Get over yourselves. Either forgive and forget, or split and don't look back. This is reality TV grade drama bullshit.
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>>18151609
How do I forgive and forget this?
Well I mean yeah dude, you can probably tell I'm young and not very experienced.
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>>18151612
Its hard to forgive and forget but you sound like you love so much that you can do it. Basically forgive her for what she did the short time you were apart. (It seems like she is genuinely sorry). Then every time that part of the past comes back try to suppress it and forget about it. It becomes easier with time.
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>quit smoking weed
>adhd meds (adderall) stops being as effective
>can't stop drinking coffee/tea
i'm drinking like 4-5 cups of coffee or tea a day
is this bad? i feel like i constantly need something to stimulate my mind otherwise i get depressed and unmotivated. drinking coffee or tea keeps the negative thoughts at bay
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I don't really have advice, just bumping because I feel the same way. I guess the best that I can offer is telling you that you're not alone.
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>>18151576
When combining caffeine and ritalin, I've noticed my mind seems really clear. The two complement each other.
Also, taken together they make EDM sound waaayyy cooler.
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>>18151576
>is this bad?
coffee? no. substituting your addictions because it
"keeps the negative thoughts at bay" is pretty bad.
You have to address this issue rather than cover it up with distractions. Why are you depressed? Why do you think you're having these thoughts? What are you going to do about it?
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How do I not be awkward as fuck when I talk to people. Most of the time when I talk to people, we end in awkward silence. It s not that I'm an introvert. It's just that I don't have anything interesting to say. Help a fellow piece of shit out
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I dont have anything interesting to say either so I make people talk alot by being interested in what they say. Then suddenly they feel like we are best friends even though they were the only ones talking.
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>>18151589
this is a good start, follow his advice. ask them about interests and what they did etc.
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>>18151589
what happens when this leads to a dead end tho?
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Alternatives to hair pulling.
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GF shaved her head a couple days ago completely bald. Normally she enjoys some hair pulling, but now there's nothing to grab on to. Any good alternatives to hair pulling for people who suddenly don't have hair?
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>>18151565
pull her arms lol
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>>18151565
>GF shaved her head a couple days ago completely bald.
Red flag
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>>18151573
That's literally my fetish.
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I have a strong urge to sabotage the things that make me happy. Is there a condition for this?
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Cuckmemerism
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>>18151556
Why would you wanna be sad?
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>>18151556
Same here dude, I don't have a solution for you, but I think I might see a therapist for it soon, you should try to reach out to someone as well though
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hey /adv/,
I'm a 26 yrs old guy that never had a gf or sex.
what's new right?
anyway the thing is, for the most part I learned to live with it. I got a good job, live on my own, have hobbies, good friends and is relatively sociable(with a side order of spaghetti every once and in awhile).
I learn pretty early on that for what ever reason
I just unwanted by women sexuality. I can talk to them no problem but if I try to start a relationship with them, they will ghost out on me every time. which is fine, I can take a hint
but the thing is
there always this nagging feeling in the back of my head that this isn't right. that I shouldn't give up like this.
I don't know why I feel this way, in regard to romance I know I'm just flawed. which considering what other more life altering flaws I could have, I pretty lucky that this is pretty much my only major issue
how can I tell theses nagging feeling to piss off?
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>>18151552
Drop out of society.
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>>18151552
>how can I tell theses nagging feeling to piss off?
You can't.
You can rationalize it to yourself that you have a fine life, with no bullshit from women, all of your own time and money to yourself.
But you'll always wonder what you're missing.
If you need female companionship in your life, join a dating site and correspond with some women but don't bank on getting sex from them.
If you want to experience sex, then look up some massage parlours or prostitutes in your area and be smart about protection and privacy.
If you want female companionship and sexy time together, you need a serious girlfriend. Dating sites are sketchy but there are still old school introduction services around which match up clients specifically. Give it a boo.
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>>18151570
Most girls aren't girlfriend material.
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Well, after 3 months of not wanting a gf at all the feelings came back. All it took was for a qt to check me out while I was walking by and smile at me when I noticed.Went home and took a 3 hour nap where I had my first dream in forever about having a gf.
I haven't not wanted to be alone in so long. How do I suppress these feelings again?
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Why contain it? s'cool
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>>18151510
Because I'm just going to disappoint myself in the future when I can't find anyone who cares for me as much as I care for them because the only people who would have also suppressed this want.
Suppression is the best route to happiness, man
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>>18151520
I disagree. Maybe its your path to happiness, but not for everyone. How old are you even?
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Am I doing something wrong?
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>Have gf
>be together 6 months
>love her
>follow a girl who goes to my school on social media
>she strikes up a conversation
>we start texting for about a week
>conversation is innocent, no sexual innuendo or hinting from either of us
>but I know I could probably fuck her at the snap of a finger from our conversations
>obviously not going to cheat on my gf but cant help but fantasize about fucking her
>end up jerking off to though of fucking her
If my gf read my text conversations it would just seem like two friends talking about stuff but the subtext from social media was that she wanted to ride my dick.
I feel dirty though, is this wrong?
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Nah, I masturbate to pretty much every female on my facebook but I'd never cheat on my gf so I dont feel bad.
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>>18151500
Actions not thoughts are what matter when it comes to cheating. No one is 100% mentally faithful to their partner. We all get crushes, attractions, fantasies, etc throughout the course of any long term relationship.
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>>18151500
shit like this always happens early in a relationship (as in first 6 months). just stop it if you love her. if you just avoid being a hypocrite and never do something you wouldnt want your girlfriend to do, everything will be fine. just drop the girl you're texting and act like it never happened.
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meth addicted brother makes me feel super sad 2017-03-23 02:30:03 Post No.18151420
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it's really quite bad. today he just showed up here for like 5 minutes to take food and rummage through things. probably stole more stuff to sell for cash. and he lied about wanting to talk to us sometime in the future. like he wants to talk about what he'll do after getting out of jail.
everytime i see him now i get crazy sad and depressed. it ruins my entire day. had plans to workout and do some homework but instead i'm just sitting here feeling awful. like as angry as he makes me sometimes i can't stay angry and then i'm sad. which is so much worse.
i'm imagining how much pain he's in. to do this shit to your family. imagine the guilt.
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Sad. Many such cases!
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>>18151480
yes it is very sad. i don't know what to do about it either and it hurts so hard :(
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>>18151420
/adv/ isn't the place to start your blog. Try >>>/tumblr/
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how do i stop "friends" from being racist to me online? they just say i should grow a backbone and they don't mean it but being called slurs online by my friends for over five years has gotten very tiring. (i also don't find it funny while they do.)
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>>18151411
Stop being their friend
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Those arent friends
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Tell them to knock it off or else you'll unfriend them, as you're not going to have your online presence be an echo chamber for their racist bullshit. And if they do it again, unfriend them. Let them know you're serious.
You've waited for years, and they expect you to take it. So just stop.
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It's been a few hours and he hasn't responded. I'm not super concerned since it's been only a few hours, but i wish i could take it back.
Tell me how stupid i was for doing so.
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What did you say? Give me a quick rundown.
If it was really, really stupid say you were drunk tomorrow and apologize.
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We work for the same company and i get his department's upcoming schedules in my email. I don't usually look at them (i also get his new girlfriend's schedule and it sucks to see them going on vacation together etc), but i needed to today and saw he was scheduled off sick the entire week, which is highly unusual and made me wonder if he was having surgery or if someone died.
So i asked if he was ok and mentioned i saw his schedule.
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>>18151390
Now it depends on how long ago you broke up, to be honest.
If it was over a year ago I think you might have messed up a little, but it can still be salvaged. You simply have to fess up and say it was a dumb thing to say and apologize. Just be honest etc. You cant really row yourself out of this one without making him understand it was a dumb thing to do and that you understand it was.
I'm a male 19 year old college student, I have been very busy with friends, family and school for the past year that I've never gotten the chance to get into a serious relationship. I have dated in my youth but recently I have become very annoyed by women. It is my opinion only, I cannot say I'm right but for me personally, they annoy the fuck outta me. When I am in class, they say the dumbest shit, they are mostly posers and pretend to be hip by talking about "memes" and there are even some who pretend to be super cool "dudetes" who "like" video games and porn. I can't stand how over emotional they are but I dream of getting married, having children and supporting my family, but I don't think I can handle the time and drama needed for a healthy relationship. Any advice? I sound crazy and probably am but I can't change how I think
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>>18151358
do lsd asap
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>>18151358
There are good women, but at university its like 95% of the women are dumb as fuck. You just need to find the right one, they exist. Dont give up on women just yet.
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An option to be considered
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>>18151358
>19
>"in my youth" like he's not young anymore
Lol lil nigguh you are still deep in your youth. You don't know shit. How many of your own bills do you pay? How many times have you filed taxes? Ever had a loan for a car? Ever bought property? You're still a lil kiddo. Calm the fuck down. You are literally still a teenager. Plenty of growing to still do.
That said, I can tell you haven't traveled. I've traveled a good bit and can say American women are the least desirable. Even men from other countries know this. They bang female American tourists because they are easy and naive. They would never marry one. American men however, foreign women are much more okay with marrying. Foriegn men would never 'downgrade' and marry an american woman when they all have way better women all around them.
It isn't women you despise. It's American/westernized women. After dating european and asian women, I know I will never bother trying to date an American woman ever again.
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hey /adv/
so the past 3 days ive been msging this 16 year old girl on instagram, i was literally just making fun of her and calling her a slut and her parents failed
she was arguing back, she's a typical attention seeking social media slut, has pics laying on her bed in lingerie and shit, really cringey
she said to stop msging her but i kept on doing it, i never even followed her account and she didn't even bother blocking me, i kept telling her that if she has such a big problem with me she should just block me, but she never did
then today she threatened to go to the police because "im harassing her" and she finally blocked me
now im kind of spooked, i mean what can the police actually do to do? should i be worried because shes 16 and im 20 we both live in canada
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Stop and you have nothing to worry about.
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>>18151392
well she finally blocked me but said
"im blocking you but when i get home im going to the police"
like wtf, if someone is feeling harassed shouldn't their first option be to block the person right away.
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>>18151403
You're pretty funny with how you think, breh.
It is possible she could press charges but if you leave her alone I doubt it.
Your maximum chances of nothing happening is stopping contact with this girl permanently.
I'm out